ScorpioGal36
@ScorpioGal36
8 Years
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Is Cancer trying to tell me nicely to go away or wait for him to deal with his stuff/being afraid?
So did y'all have sex after he told you he didn't want a relationship, only a possible fuxk buddy?
"wasn't sure yet, wants to deal with their issues so not ready for anyone, so let's be friends and maybe f-buddies. but I really like you a lot. Fine.
^that is him telling you he isnt interested in you except for sex.
I know others will come and say give him time, he's in his shell. Not this time folks, he told her what he wanted.
He isnt responding because he is trying to cut your interest off.
My question to you, why would you want to be with someone that only wants that and puts everything else before you? And you say it yourself, he's got issues to deal with.
"wasn't sure yet, wants to deal with their issues so not ready for anyone, so let's be friends and maybe f-buddies. but I really like you a lot. Fine.
^that is him telling you he isnt interested in you except for sex.
I know others will come and say give him time, he's in his shell. Not this time folks, he told her what he wanted.
He isnt responding because he is trying to cut your interest off.
My question to you, why would you want to be with someone that only wants that and puts everything else before you? And you say it yourself, he's got issues to deal with.
Posted by justagirlWell...at least she have sex! Otherwise...nothing! Lol
So did y'all have sex after he told you he didn't want a relationship, only a possible fuxk buddy?
"wasn't sure yet, wants to deal with their issues so not ready for anyone, so let's be friends and maybe f-buddies. but I really like you a lot. Fine.
^that is him telling you he isnt interested in you except for sex.
I know others will come and say give him time, he's in his shell. Not this time folks, he told her what he wanted.
He isnt responding because he is trying to cut your interest off.
My question to you, why would you want to be with someone that only wants that and puts everything else before you? And you say it yourself, he's got issues to deal with.
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