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So you're gonna hang on till he dumps her and then you're gonna dump him?
I even advised him not to break-up with her cause deep down I know I don't wanna win a cheating man.
You're so noble....noble like a vulture. What I wanna know is why you think you deserve better/non-cheating man?
Because is not nice to be cheated on , or being the one whom they are cheating with. I experienced both sides , m talking from own experience.

And I can proudly say , I deserve a faithful man, since I know better now!
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If you are truly remorseful for your misdeed, then stop yourself from sleeping with him. Tell him to stay with his gf and disappear from this cheater's life. He's not a good person. He's a selfish asshat and users like that are worthy of nothing, let alone friendship. It's not your responsibility to tell his current gf anything. Just leave him in the dust and make sure that you never be that other woman.
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So you're gonna hang on till he dumps her and then you're gonna dump him?
I even advised him not to break-up with her cause deep down I know I don't wanna win a cheating man.
You're so noble....noble like a vulture. What I wanna know is why you think you deserve better/non-cheating man?
Because is not nice to be cheated on , or being the one whom they are cheating with. I experienced both sides , m talking from own experience.

And I can proudly say , I deserve a faithful man, since I know better now!
If you are truly remorseful for your misdeed, then stop yourself from sleeping with him. Tell him to stay with his gf and disappear from this cheater's life. He's not a good person. He's a selfish asshat and users like that are worthy of nothing, let alone friendship. It's not your responsibility to tell his current gf anything. Just leave him in the dust and make sure that you never be that other woman.
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‚ you can't be serious ?
I'm not even about to read past the first part of this thread.

Bitch. You lack self respect , hoes like you are the very reason real women get done wrong
Grow up
You're not remorseful, not one bit because you shouldn't have even been doing it in the first place. And you damn sure wouldn't want to continue doing it.
Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. People make mistakes and if they repent by not indulging in teh same thing again, then others should forgive them. Not sit there and say, " Well, you shouldn't have done it to begin with because we expect everyonet o be perfect." It's how she carries her self henceforth that determines if she's sorry.
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‚ you can't be serious ?
I'm not even about to read past the first part of this thread.

Bitch. You lack self respect , hoes like you are the very reason real women get done wrong
Grow up
You're not remorseful, not one bit because you shouldn't have even been doing it in the first place. And you damn sure wouldn't want to continue doing it.
Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future. People make mistakes and if they repent by not indulging in teh same thing again, then others should forgive them. Not sit there and say, " Well, you shouldn't have done it to begin with because we expect everyonet o be perfect." It's how she carries her self henceforth that determines if she's sorry.
Okay and clearly after saying she's felt guilty and remorseful she was still fucking around with him and then turned around and said she wants to continue the process
So were is the mistake — It's no longer a mistake if you keep doing the bullshit.
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Well, if you read the whole thread she says somewhere that she will refrain from doing it again or maybe I misread something. Only the OP can answer that.
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I once see my ex with a girl in grocery. When I was at home, I knew I was 1000% disturbed. I went to him, they were in the kitchen. I started talking to him. She listened for a less than ten minutes. Then she left the kitchen. She left us alone. We discussed and I knew I was not right. But I wanted to get rid of the irritation.

Then I went to a girl friend of mine (not to my sister) and talked to her and slept at her place. I was feeling the worst in my life ever.

Then it was over. my fever. I saw he had a right on a life after me.

Mars and Venus in Sag
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What I find ironic and telling is the passion that's aroused in people (women) by multiple, uncommitted sex partners (unmarried) between men/women, over gay guys butt banging each other, sucking each other, and spreading AIDS around the globe. Planet earth has gone literally mad. Good Lord, calm down you crazies, or go take a midol.

moments one wonders if some retarded religions managed it better than this limitless freedom to live naturally.
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Alicia you're too judgemental. as well as everyone here on this site. i wholeheartedly agree with aquatic that judging people will come back and bite you in the arse. we all make mistakes. even dirty mistakes. i know damn well i've made them. confess to yours, miss perfect. i hate to say this but you do look like the type of person that's judgemental in real life.

chile bye
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Whoa, whoa, Alicia. Who are we to judge? It's her life to try to get the guy back by whatever means necessary. I'd say the probability is low that it will work as expected, but in the end she will either lengthen the amount of time it takes to get "over him", or maybe get him back. All is fair in love and war.
Let her judge. This is life, as long as we still on this earth trouble will follow us. I myself use to judge girls who would do this kind of thing. I use to say "NEVER!" A whole lot, until it happened to me .and as such I have stopped judging people or their kind of relationship. One day she will eat her words!
You mean the same way you eat your ex-boyfriends dick after he just got done fucking his actual girlfriend the same day with that very same dick? Doubt it. I have more respect for myself than that sweetheart.
Hold it right there you Miss Perfect!! Did I tell u or anyone I sucked his dick—? Just because you suck your boyfriends dick doesn't mean I do it!

I hope your boyfriend is fucking other women , and does not even tell you about it. And you suck other women's shit right after he fucked them!

You sound like a girl who have been cheated on a whole lot! Sorry I was not one whom you were cheated with. DO NOT TAKE IT OUT ON ME PLEASE!!!

And , he is my ex boyfriend for crying out loud, normal people know that feelings don't just vernish after a break-up dets why people go back to their safe zone to avoid sleeping around with a lot of men before they find the one meant for them.
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The truth stings doesn't it? No I can't relate to this WHATSOEVER because I'm not an insecure bimbo who's satisfied with sloppy seconds because I don't love myself enough to find a man of my own. I wouldn't run back to an ex who's cheated on me and then repeatedly fuck and suck him while he's in a new relationship fucking and sucking that girl twat when he's not with you. Then you kiss him with that very same mouth he just got done kissing and licking her with. God, you are filthy.

My man would have more respect for himself and the woman he loves than to run back and forth between two women and IF I ever found out that he strayed, it would be a DONE DEAL. You wanna know why sad girl? I love myself enough to walk away. I have more respect for myself than to allow myself to be some desperate sidechic
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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You need to heal gal! You are broken than I am! You sound like a porn artist to me talking about sucking dicks! BLAH!BLAH!
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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Truth

Some people just can't own up to their own mistakes and can't stop making excuses. I agree with everything you said. It's funny to see OP start attacking you and talking shit on you just because you stated an opinion that makes her look bad.
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What I find ironic and telling is the passion that's aroused in people (women) by multiple, uncommitted sex partners (unmarried) between men/women, over gay guys butt banging each other, sucking each other, and spreading AIDS around the globe. Planet earth has gone literally mad. Good Lord, calm down you crazies, or go take a midol.

moments one wonders if some retarded religions managed it better than this limitless freedom to live naturally.
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And then?
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The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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Some people just can't own up to their own mistakes and can't stop making excuses. I agree with everything you said. It's funny to see OP start attacking you and talking shit on you just because you stated an opinion that makes her look bad.
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This thread was not meant to promote how of a GOOD PERsON I am, hell no!!! Read it again ! How can sleeping with an ex be good! You and. The Miss Perfect Alicia belong in the block list!
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What I find ironic and telling is the passion that's aroused in people (women) by multiple, uncommitted sex partners (unmarried) between men/women, over gay guys butt banging each other, sucking each other, and spreading AIDS around the globe. Planet earth has gone literally mad. Good Lord, calm down you crazies, or go take a midol.

moments one wonders if some retarded religions managed it better than this limitless freedom to live naturally.
And then?
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why do you ask this? I was verbalizing some frustration with Finbuff. You were not mentioned.

What in future happens, I don't know.

The point is the more people exagagerate at it, the more they have to count on other people's unreliability and betrayal. Everybody would be living in the self-protection mode. The Walking Dead.
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The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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Some people just can't own up to their own mistakes and can't stop making excuses. I agree with everything you said. It's funny to see OP start attacking you and talking shit on you just because you stated an opinion that makes her look bad.
This thread was not meant to promote how of a GOOD PERsON I am, hell no!!! Read it again ! How can sleeping with an ex be good! You and. The Miss Perfect Alicia belong in the block list!
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Okay, then block me. : ) You'd be the first, so it's kind of exciting!
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The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you;
Aint nothin wrong with sucking dick that's yours and yours only. When two people are in a relationship that's what do. When you're a side chick letting a man be all up inside you while he's also up inside another woman, THAT'S when you need to reevaluate your entire existence. You call me broken though lmao....little girl, you are way more delusional than I previously thought. I can't express enough how pathetic you are. I see why you made this post now, for sympathy points. "Boo hoo, I'm a slut ,but I feel SO bad about it. I keep doing it though. Someone feel bad for me!" 😢

You deserve each other and you deserve the bad karma that's coming your way.
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I will say it again! You are BROKEN! You were cheated on in your life, now you found a platform to show your emotions. I am not that GIRL. So stop attacking me as if I slept with your man or something. YOU A PRAYER TO HEAL YOUR SORRY SOUL!
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The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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Some people just can't own up to their own mistakes and can't stop making excuses. I agree with everything you said. It's funny to see OP start attacking you and talking shit on you just because you stated an opinion that makes her look bad.
This thread was not meant to promote how of a GOOD PERsON I am, hell no!!! Read it again ! How can sleeping with an ex be good! You and. The Miss Perfect Alicia belong in the block list!
Okay, then block me. : ) You'd be the first, so it's kind of exciting!
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Your ass is blocked too!
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No...you don't get to use "we all make mistakes" card as a cop out....because a mistake is when you don't know the consequences & you do, you two do. Now if you want to be together then fine...remove the girl from the picture and keep your legs closed until he does. And don't cry about judging...wtf did you post this mess for and expect people to give you a lollipop? Really....this is dxp
Mmmmmmh!
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Posted by Aquastic
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Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Even though I can't see what you said because your weak ass hid from me, this is why you're REALLY mad.

I didn't do this to you; YOU did this to you. Weak ass girl. Keep hiding behind your lies.


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Some people just can't own up to their own mistakes and can't stop making excuses. I agree with everything you said. It's funny to see OP start attacking you and talking shit on you just because you stated an opinion that makes her look bad.
This thread was not meant to promote how of a GOOD PERsON I am, hell no!!! Read it again ! How can sleeping with an ex be good! You and. The Miss Perfect Alicia belong in the block list!
Okay, then block me. : ) You'd be the first, so it's kind of exciting!
Your ass is blocked too!
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About damn time! I've been on here for 3 years and it took this long for me to lose my block virginity. Whew. I guess I move pretty slow in my relationships.
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Women are idiots! Why are you all slutshaming, when you should be lie-shaming instead?!!!! There is nothing wrong with having sex ffs! Jesus, and to think that just yesterday it was all us ladies day, and we still hate on women for having sex. Ethics are not.about.sex. It´s about how you get it. So please come up with a better insult than cum dumpster.

How the hell are any women ever supposed to learn how to appreciate herself with other women around?
Stamp!
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I don´t think the bad/sad part here, is that some woman has sex with a man, that also has sex with another woman. Isn´t the bad/sad part the lying——??

It´s not about the sex. It´s the about the lying and cheating. That´s not so nice OP.

the sad part is we invented morality to manage conflicting interests. Now if they can live as side and main chick, why not officially change the codex?

this is confusing. to men and women both.

in the simplest version: "love is good, why not a transparent triangle relationship?"

but then everybody comes and says, "nah, jealousy and possession is natural for all of us". "Somos carne de canción, y todas van de lo mismo..."

in the 60ies they would say let us all love each other all together. but currently everybody is lying and confusing and double standardish. then you see them opening threads here and pouring tears that Pisces boy is bad. why is he bad if you are of the same stuff? or did he teach you?

Why don't we agree to be either
1) as honest as in the 60ies
or
2) as integer/old-fashioned as in the 50ies?
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I don´t think the bad/sad part here, is that some woman has sex with a man, that also has sex with another woman. Isn´t the bad/sad part the lying——??

It´s not about the sex. It´s the about the lying and cheating. That´s not so nice OP.

the sad part is we invented morality to manage conflicting interests. Now if they can live as side and main chick, why not officially change the codex?

this is confusing. to men and women both.

in the simplest version: "love is good, why not a transparent triangle relationship?"

but then everybody comes and says, "nah, jealousy and possession is natural for all of us". "Somos carne de canción, y todas van de lo mismo..."

in the 60ies they would say let us all love each other all together. but currently everybody is lying and confusing and double standardish. then you see them opening threads here and pouring tears that Pisces boy is bad. why is he bad if you are of the same stuff? or did he teach you?

Why don't we agree to be either
1) as honest as in the 60ies
or
2) as integer/old-fashioned as in the 50ies?
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WARNING: This might offend perfect people , please don't comment if you don't understand!

I was willing to be his second girlfriend to be honest, cause my job requires that I travel a lot, so sometimes I won't be there to give him attention, then the other girl would be there for him.Or rather when on my periods or needed my space, she would be there for him. I open minded like that. I was self-less like that, but then he did not obey to the rules we agreed upon, so I got confused and chicked out.

Just to add, his father has two wives, so he told me his father advised him not to dump any of us since he loved us both.
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Posted by thinktoomuch
Women are idiots! Why are you all slutshaming, when you should be lie-shaming instead?!!!! There is nothing wrong with having sex ffs! Jesus, and to think that just yesterday it was all us ladies day, and we still hate on women for having sex. Ethics are not.about.sex. It´s about how you get it. So please come up with a better insult than cum dumpster.

How the hell are any women ever supposed to learn how to appreciate herself with other women around?
God yes
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I'm not about to bash you OP for whatever you did, its not my place to judge. But imo, with my past breakups i made sure to commit myself to the outcome of those situations. Personally as a Man, I've flirted with that dilemma about wanting to pick stuff back up with a previous ex but I never liked the idea of succumbing to a lower mind-set and compromising my self-respect in order to obtain whatever it is i wanted.
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ok, I get you. but the other girl? I don't see the note about her in the agreement or proposal mentioned above. did she know? did she agree or tell she would think about it?

you first meet him... not her or both at the same time.
Maybe that was the mistake we both made, not involving her in all this was wrong, but I was scared if we involved her she would not agree, and would dump him. Some people do not understand these kind of arrangements, because we are fed lies on TV about how a loving relationship should look like. While husbabds are cheating and hurting people outside the relationship! I was open to him about what I want, and he was also open.it was very easy for him to tell me stuff cause I am not a judgmental crazy kind of girlfriend!
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I don´t think the bad/sad part here, is that some woman has sex with a man, that also has sex with another woman. Isn´t the bad/sad part the lying——??

It´s not about the sex. It´s the about the lying and cheating. That´s not so nice OP.

the sad part is we invented morality to manage conflicting interests. Now if they can live as side and main chick, why not officially change the codex?

this is confusing. to men and women both.

in the simplest version: "love is good, why not a transparent triangle relationship?"

but then everybody comes and says, "nah, jealousy and possession is natural for all of us". "Somos carne de canción, y todas van de lo mismo..."

in the 60ies they would say let us all love each other all together. but currently everybody is lying and confusing and double standardish. then you see them opening threads here and pouring tears that Pisces boy is bad. why is he bad if you are of the same stuff? or did he teach you?

Why don't we agree to be either
1) as honest as in the 60ies
or
2) as integer/old-fashioned as in the 50ies?
WARNING: This might offend perfect people , please don't comment if you don't understand!

I was willing to be his second girlfriend to be honest, cause my job requires that I travel a lot, so sometimes I won't be there to give him attention, then the other girl would be there for him.Or rather when on my periods or needed my space, she would be there for him. I open minded like that. I was self-less like that, but then he did not obey to the rules we agreed upon, so I got confused and chicked out.

Just to add, his father has two wives, so he told me his father advised him not to dump any of us since he loved us both.
Omg lol ...wow. Sincerely I would have kept that to myself if I were you.
You made this guy feel like a king no doubt ...I'm speechless.
What was the rules? Was it one of em telling the real girlfriend about your polygamy plans?
This sounds like my nightmare come true...poor girl.
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"scared if we involved her she would not agree"
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"arrangements"
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"fed lies on TV"
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"While husbabds are"


Think simple: the girl matters. no matter what belief system any of you have. no matter if you agree with an arrangement and she does not, she still matters. she needed to be informed. not asked for permission. but informed.


"Act only according to that maxim whereby you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law without contradiction." Immanuel Kant, Grounding for the Metaphysics of Morals[
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Posted by kissmygrits
Just move to Utah and be one of his 5 wives.
For me I find it Taboo to suck a man's dick actually stuff that happens on porn movies ( you can ask and eating his whatever that comes out of it. But I don't judge those who do it, it's normal to them. (xxxAliciaXxx she can explain how it works, even her name suggests otherwise, she can explain it better, refference to her comments on my thread)

Just like you find my thread and my open mind taboo!

Why judge?!
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Just move to Utah and be one of his 5 wives.
For me I find it Taboo to suck a man's dick actually stuff that happens on porn movies ( you can ask and eating his whatever that comes out of it. But I don't judge those who do it, it's normal to them. (xxxAliciaXxx she can explain how it works, even her name suggests otherwise, she can explain it better, refference to her comments on my thread)

Just like you find my thread and my open mind taboo!

Why judge?!
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Chill over emotional aqua girl. I'm only kidding.
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Posted by DwellingOnMove
"scared if we involved her she would not agree"
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"arrangements"
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"fed lies on TV"
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"While husbabds are"


Think simple: the girl matters. no matter what belief system any of you have. no matter if you agree with an arrangement and she does not, she still matters. she needed to be informed. not asked for permission. but informed.


"Act only according to that maxim whereby you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law without contradiction." Immanuel Kant, Grounding for the Metaphysics of Morals[
I get you , guy! Anyhow me and my ex tried to rekindle our love , it just didn't work. So m just gonna go back my life and focus on my career and move on!
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Posted by thinktoomuch
....

Some people engage in all sorts of relationships ... Just don´t lie to each other.

I don´t really understand where this extreme tendency to "side hoes" come from, but I´m guessing it is def. connected to easy acces: women and people are everywhere,... the boundaries are blurred,....

I think the problem is that we have been always controlled by entities.

We have not learned what the roots of Kant's recommendation is.

We think like children who are currently only aware of what is bad or good to them. The thing "you reap what you seed" is something we throw at people when they cheated on us. Instead of simply following it by ourselves. Individuals vs. the collective.
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Posted by thinktoomuch
....

Some people engage in all sorts of relationships ... Just don´t lie to each other.

I don´t really understand where this extreme tendency to "side hoes" come from, but I´m guessing it is def. connected to easy acces: women and people are everywhere,... the boundaries are blurred,....

I think the problem is that we have been always controlled by entities.

We have not learned what the roots of Kant's recommendation is.

We think like children who are currently only aware of what is bad or good to them. The thing "you reap what you seed" is somewhat we throw at people when they cheated on us. Not something we could follow by ourselves. Individuals vs. the collective.
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How I love people who have their own brains!