The wedding was called off...

What zodiac signs are more likely to call off their weddings?
What was the reason?

I'll start. I haven't witnessed many weddings being called off, but a Libra friend did.
My libra friend was about to marry her long time boyfriend when a couple of months before the wedding she met someone for whom she felt had stronger feelings. So she called off her wedding. Apparently she made the right decision since she's been with her love for many years now.

Libra male

Posted by Let*It*Be
"I've never personally seen a wedding called off.but many that should have been...."

I seen a lot of that the last two years...3 different couples..already divorced. I saw it coming before any of them even said I Do....I guess I should have "objected" when asked eh? lol

Interesting :o What gave you that this is not going to work feeling? Did you find it was something in common withing those three couples?

Posted by tubbyscubby
Libra male

So what was the story?

Posted by cookoocappy
The closest one that came to calling of a wedding was a pisces man in my family. He walked out on his girlfriend that he was together with a long time and that loved him, and instead married an almost complete stranger, some airhead from far away... Of course, he still kept the former girlfriends picture in his wallet even after he got married.. Disgusting...

WTF?! How can his wife put up with that?!

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I've never personally seen a wedding called off.but many that should have been....

- ahahaha! So true.

Posted by Let*It*Be
Then there's those who are already married and miserable, and think getting pregnant will spark things up. Yeah...it's called child support. Some people just don't know when to call it quits and move on before it comes to marriage.

That seriously makes me sooo angry: people using children for self-interest. And at the end, when the obvious thing is not working anymore, it is always the little innocent ones who carry all those traumas and insecurities for the rest of their lifes. Why people can't people understand this?!?!

Aqua female.

She didn't LOVE him (anymore?) and loved "just a friend" more.

A Cap male I know called off his wedding to a Gem female about a month before the wedding...I wasn't that surprised, they didn't gel at all when I saw them together, I think the Gem just wanted to be married, didn't matter who to really. She still makes his life miserable even now, 18 months after.

I also know a Cap female who is getting married to a Sag male at the end of the year, despite him draining her financially and her embarking on numerous affairs. It's strange to me that people wouldn't have serious, serious doubts about committing themselves to people who evidently are not healthy for them.

My Sag brother. Called it off because he decided he was too young. And he was. It was a wise decision.

Posted by copperhead
A Cap male I know called off his wedding to a Gem female about a month before the wedding...I wasn't that surprised, they didn't gel at all when I saw them together, I think the Gem just wanted to be married, didn't matter who to really. She still makes his life miserable even now, 18 months after.

I also know a Cap female who is getting married to a Sag male at the end of the year, despite him draining her financially and her embarking on numerous affairs. It's strange to me that people wouldn't have serious, serious doubts about committing themselves to people who evidently are not healthy for them.

I think people become "blind" because they want to believe their partners will change after marriage. Which is totally unrealistic. Those good and bad things are what make the person they love, and if they think they cannot live with that then I think they should let go and move on. But again, it's hard to see as it is.

Posted by ariesvita

Posted by copperhead
A Cap male I know called off his wedding to a Gem female about a month before the wedding...I wasn't that surprised, they didn't gel at all when I saw them together, I think the Gem just wanted to be married, didn't matter who to really. She still makes his life miserable even now, 18 months after.

I also know a Cap female who is getting married to a Sag male at the end of the year, despite him draining her financially and her embarking on numerous affairs. It's strange to me that people wouldn't have serious, serious doubts about committing themselves to people who evidently are not healthy for them.

I think people become "blind" because they want to believe their partners will change after marriage. Which is totally unrealistic. Those good and bad things are what make the person they love, and if they think they cannot live with that then I think they should let go and move on. But again, it's hard to see as it is.

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Good for him. What about the girl? I'm guessing she was also very young... I feel bad for her :S

The Gem was 10 years younger than the Cap. I felt bad for her too, even though I wasn't that keen on her - he shouldn't have strung her along for so long when he had major doubts (he once told a group of us that she didn't believe in sex before marriage, which is fair enough, but she'd slept with all her other bfs, so not sure why she decided to wait with him). A month after the split he was dating one of his housemates. The Gem was obviously devastated (who wouldn't be?!). The housemate is a Taurus as far as I'm aware. They're still together.

Posted by Sea Siren
My Sag brother. Called it off because he decided he was too young. And he was. It was a wise decision.

Oh, I messed up on my last reply, I meant to quote Sea Siren 😛

Posted by copperhead
The Gem was 10 years younger than the Cap. I felt bad for her too, even though I wasn't that keen on her - he shouldn't have strung her along for so long when he had major doubts (he once told a group of us that she didn't believe in sex before marriage, which is fair enough, but she'd slept with all her other bfs, so not sure why she decided to wait with him). A month after the split he was dating one of his housemates. The Gem was obviously devastated (who wouldn't be?!). The housemate is a Taurus as far as I'm aware. They're still together.

That's very unfortunate 😢

A wedding should never be called off .... however, an engagement happening just for show should be.

I think mr.Defence is right SAGS I have heard of them fucking the bestman right before they go down to the church. They also do the bridesmadids a lot.

Posted by ariesvita

Good for him. What about the girl? I'm guessing she was also very young... I feel bad for her :S

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Yeah they were the same age (23). I felt awful for her. Everyone did, of course! But, my brother had told me a few weeks before that he was starting to think he would be miserable and, as a result, make her miserable.

He's a very easy-going kid and very quiet and reserved (especially for a SAG!) and she was a bit on the bossy side. Plus her family was a big ole mess. She was going to end up with her sister's kids, and my brother doesn't want children at all. He didn't wanna live like that and I can't say that I blame him.

They tried to remain friends afterward, but understandably, it was too hard for her. I think it was best for both of them, though. The marriage wouldn't have lasted.

Taurus Gemini. I'm the Gemini. He called it off, I healed my broken heart, then he wanted back in.
Um, I DONT THINKSO! 🙂
Its all good now, no bad blood. All for the best. Even though I recently broke up with the Scorpio guy I dated after that episode, I can see how bad we were for each other when I look at my Scorpio relationship as compared to the Taurus one.

It was an age thing too - I'm more mature now. Still not mature enough though 🙂

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Sagi here. If I called it off it would be due to the fact that I'd suddenly realize what I was getting into and head the other way...but I once I've been with someone for a long time why wouldn't I want to be with them for the rest of my life? I don't just realize someone is wrong for me months down the road. I take time to know if I want to be with them for the long hall in the first few weeks and then they are mine from then on out

Definitely a Libra....

if you realise that it's not right for whatever reason it takes balls to cancel out and end it!

I had a friend who knew weeks before and even a day before but had to save face and went through with it only to have a break within 6 months and then end the marriage within the year.

I tried to get her to back out or even postpone til she was sure, the writing was clearly on the wall!

All signs that have a tremendous need (way more than others) for space, freedom & independence are most likely to call off their weddings.

And Libra too b/c they are just too damn indecisive. They may either go ahead with the wedding b/c of pressure OR they may call off the wedding b/c of pressure from outsiders or b/c they feel they're doing you a FAVOR by not making the ultimate commitment to you unless they know for a fact that they're ready to & can handle it

Aquas? Naw. If they were doubting you or the relationship, they wouldn't even have let things get to the engagement stage to begin with. If an Aqua isn't secure in the relationship (due to fear, insecurity or whatever) the other person will know lonnnnnng before wedding invitations are even sent out. Better yet, the other person will know long before they even think to propose.

Posted by krysrenee7
All signs that have a tremendous need (way more than others) for space, freedom & independence are most likely to call off their weddings.

And Libra too b/c they are just too damn indecisive. They may either go ahead with the wedding b/c of pressure OR they may call off the wedding b/c of pressure from outsiders or b/c they feel they're doing you a FAVOR by not making the ultimate commitment to you unless they know for a fact that they're ready to & can handle it

Aquas? Naw. If they were doubting you or the relationship, they wouldn't even have let things get to the engagement stage to begin with. If an Aqua isn't secure in the relationship (due to fear, insecurity or whatever) the other person will know lonnnnnng before wedding invitations are even sent out. Better yet, the other person will know long before they even think to propose.

Did you mean to say sagis instead of signs?

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