Hahaha. How if the person did not reveal it until later? Do you ask the person to get tested or do you drop the person like a rock?
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Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.
Posted by tizianiSo did you use protection with her? :p
Yes, I have.
Posted by tizianiHmm... but the thing is many stds can be symptom-less... it's just too hard to tell... be careful out there.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNo we didn't, neither of us were sexually active for years.Posted by tizianiSo did you use protection with her? :p
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I don't trust AIDS, that'd be my answer.
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when they have sex with strangers?
No.
I wouldn't even consider having sex with them.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Jayc3onHow if she got mad at you and said that she felt you didn't trust her?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Jayc3onIf you had been on several dates with a girl you met online, and you felt ready to be intimate with her. Would you use a condom with her the first time you have sex? Would you always use a condom before you decide you want to date her seriously?
Nope
Of course I would wear a condon. You can never get caught slippin.
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Lol. I'd be out.
You're not going to manipulate me to having sex without protection. That alone is enough of a turn off to end it.
Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.click to expand
Posted by InnovationQeyDo you always use protection? 😕
I don't trust AIDS, that'd be my answer.
Posted by tizianiI have not been sexually active for 7 months now. I know there are people who I can have sex with but I just don't trust them. I think it's hard to press people to get tested unless we are gonna date?Posted by whatisthisallaboutIf you're worried about that then just get an STD test.Posted by tizianiHmm... but the thing is many stds can be symptom-less... it's just too hard to tell... be careful out there.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNo we didn't, neither of us were sexually active for years.Posted by tizianiSo did you use protection with her? :p
Yes, I have.
And if you're sexually active get a second test immediately after the first results come in, to pick up everything.
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uggg. Not sure when I can break my dry spell 😆
Posted by drunkghostI know. There was a guy I was interested in, but after I realized that he's like that, I just couldn't trust him anymore.
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Posted by PhoenixRisingThat's why I am single and not sexually active.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Jayc3onHow if she got mad at you and said that she felt you didn't trust her?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by Jayc3onIf you had been on several dates with a girl you met online, and you felt ready to be intimate with her. Would you use a condom with her the first time you have sex? Would you always use a condom before you decide you want to date her seriously?
Nope
Of course I would wear a condon. You can never get caught slippin.
Lol. I'd be out.
You're not going to manipulate me to having sex without protection. That alone is enough of a turn off to end it.
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I don't know where to find quality people. =.=
Posted by Astrology101hahaha. I think it is a real struggle when you are attracted to the person, but you don't trust that person enough to do sexy things with them.Posted by whatisthisallabout?? my sex life.Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.click to expand
Posted by SoulOfABirdHow if you find that out after you are together? Do you just break up with the person?
I would not want to be with a guy who has sex with strangers... period
One of my ex bfs had sex with prostitutes before he met me. He got tested after we got together and he was clean, but I NEVER gave him head. I loved him, but I felt it's too gross to have his thing near my mouth.
Posted by Astrology101That's where I am at right now.Posted by whatisthisallaboutI don't care anymore. Dating sucks and having my own principles seems to be too much to ask.Posted by Astrology101hahaha. I think it is a real struggle when you are attracted to the person, but you don't trust that person enough to do sexy things with them.Posted by whatisthisallabout?? my sex life.Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.
They can fuck anyone they want to except me.
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Yes, dating sucks. Last week I went on a date with a Taurus guy. I think he's cute and he told me he was super attracted to me, but I sensed that he expected the girl to do all the work, so no thank you.
Posted by drunkghostI feel it is hard to even get to the monogamous stage, espeically if you meet someone online.Posted by whatisthisallaboutit's one thing if you're in a monogamous relationship but even then trust needs to run deepPosted by drunkghostI know. There was a guy I was interested in, but after I realized that he's like that, I just couldn't trust him anymore.
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Chances are they are juggling between mutiple girls and if you ask, they probably would admit that he's intimate with all of them (and probably without protection if they let him) =.=
Posted by OrGasMeYes, we all grow smarter over time! 🙂
I have when I was younger. But I haven't had many partners and I guess I've been really lucky.
I would be smart about it now though...
The last few people I was attracted to are all in this category. I was/am torn. It really sucks when you want the person, but you don't want the person at the same time 😆
My dick and condoms don't get along, it's like putting pressure on a person to be a certain way but they don't add up. Little InnovationQey always shrinks in a condom so I make sure I'm in a committed relationship when I part the Red Sea with my staff.
Posted by InnovationQeySee? that's the thing though... I think guys in general don't like to use condoms, and they want to have sex before they are sure they want to be in a committed relationship with the girl, and if they meet girls off internet, it's possible that they just have sex and never see the girl again after a couple of dates. My friend Troy had a different girl over every weekend until he met his current girl friend at work...
My dick and condoms don't get along, it's like putting pressure on a person to be a certain way but they don't add up. Little InnovationQey always shrinks in a condom so I make sure I'm in a committed relationship when I part the Red Sea with my staff.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis. If you want A1 freaky deaky sexy time, get tested together for some peace of mind, otherwise you're not getting any homie!Posted by Astrology101hahaha. I think it is a real struggle when you are attracted to the person, but you don't trust that person enough to do sexy things with them.Posted by whatisthisallabout?? my sex life.Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.click to expand
I can't speak for all the other men, promiscuity is just a popular form of behavior. May the force be with them,plus that baby momma shit ain't cool at all. Knew a few people who got more kids then fingers on one hand.
Posted by PeanutbutterI know. I am not getting any for a while now —Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis. If you want A1 freaky deaky sexy time, get tested together for some peace of mind, otherwise you're not getting any homie!Posted by Astrology101hahaha. I think it is a real struggle when you are attracted to the person, but you don't trust that person enough to do sexy things with them.Posted by whatisthisallabout?? my sex life.Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.click to expand
Posted by SoulOfABirdWell, we were together after talking for 3 weeks so yea not a lot of time. I did break up with him first, but then he said, "If I knew you'd punish me for my past, I shouldn't have been honest with you."--> I just want to reinforce him being honest so I gave him another chance. I don't want him to just lie to his next gf.Posted by whatisthisallaboutFirst of all, how long had you been with that guy and you had intercourse already yet you didnt know him well enough to know that? So basically you rushed into having intercourse with a guy you barely know if you dont even know his dating history? I dont know Id much rather have sex with a guy I know in and out and he knows me in and out. How the heck can you get intimate then? But different strokes for different folks I guess.Posted by SoulOfABirdHow if you find that out after you are together? Do you just break up with the person?
I would not want to be with a guy who has sex with strangers... period
One of my ex bfs had sex with prostitutes before he met me. He got tested after we got together and he was clean, but I NEVER gave him head. I loved him, but I felt it's too gross to have his thing near my mouth.
Second of all, why were you with a guy that didnt have enough respect for you to tell you that he had intercourse with hookers before you got intimate? That's gross and no respect. Id definitly break up with him.click to expand
Posted by InnovationQeyI know. I don't personally know someone with kids with multiple-women, but I know there are people like that out there. Multiple kids with multipe women and never married.
I can't speak for all the other men, promiscuity is just a popular form of behavior. May the force be with them,plus that baby momma shit ain't cool at all. Knew a few people who got more kids then fingers on one hand.
Commitment is a concept that's too hard for most, mention marriage to these millennials and they fall out their seat.
Posted by InnovationQeyI know lol I think I have heard guys saying that they want kids, family life, and all that but never want to be married or tied down to a woman. It's very confusing 😆
Commitment is a concept that's too hard for most, mention marriage to these millennials and they fall out their seat.
The consequence behind bein afraid of commitment is that these clowns would rather wam bam thank you ma'am or sir their way through life and while they doin that these people are bein turned into weirdos. Everybody wanna be gay or lesbian now, so it's best they put some type of posterity or seed down before it's nowhere left to plant that seed of theirs because everybody bumpin coochies and playin with each other assholes.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutI feel your pain ? ? ?Posted by PeanutbutterI know. I am not getting any for a while now —Posted by whatisthisallaboutThis. If you want A1 freaky deaky sexy time, get tested together for some peace of mind, otherwise you're not getting any homie!Posted by Astrology101hahaha. I think it is a real struggle when you are attracted to the person, but you don't trust that person enough to do sexy things with them.Posted by whatisthisallabout?? my sex life.Posted by Astrology101I haven't given head to anyone for years now lol Can't turst people nowadys 😉Posted by whatisthisallaboutHe used to make jokes.. never said no to getting tested. But he never got tested either. One time I was upset and he started kissing me and suddenly he asked me me to give him head. He knew I wouldn't do it until he got tested yet he asked. I don't know what he was thinking. It felt like I was rejecting him when it was really a matter of him getting tested.Posted by Astrology101Haha. My ex didn't like to use condoms, either. I just kept pestering him. He got tested 1-month into our relationship so don't give up, just keep pestering the person. 😆
Lemme know what you find out. I had a similar problem. My ex didn't want to wear a condom. But when I told him we should both get tested he wasnt being pro-active. So I didn't do nothing with him. He asked me to give him head and I couldn't.
My experience is that either the person gets upset, or he'll do it. I don't have luck recently, but I guess if he's a decent guy, he'd get tested eventually.click to expand
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