@brianafay
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How to Get Someone's Attention Effectively
Getting someone's attention requires clear communication, confidence, and understanding their interests. Using direct eye contact, a friendly tone, and a genuine approach can help you stand out and make a memorable impression. Tailoring your message to the person's preferences increases your chances of success.
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Posted by tiziani
Damn, I'd have to dig up some repressed memories for this one.
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I am assuming the men will have the best responses but the ladies might surprise me
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?
Drove to their place in a trench coat and boots... nothing else. Yes, it got their attention
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Posted by Capz
leo moon*
You can leave
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?Drove to their place in a trench coat and boots... nothing else. Yes, it got their attention
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Wow Mreow
Earlier in the grocery store some dude intentionally ran his cart into mine in an attempt to talk to me I guess ?
That was a first for me
I personally can't see myself going to that extreme
The worst I've ever done is throw ice at someone in the club
I don't know. I'm pretty plain with love/courting displays. Surprisingly perhaps, my venus is in leo.
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?Drove to their place in a trench coat and boots... nothing else. Yes, it got their attention
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Wow Mreow
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Meow! ?
Posted by carrazeda
I don't know. I'm pretty plain with love/courting displays. Surprisingly perhaps, my venus is in leo.
So you've made a mix tape or two
Posted by carrazeda
I don't know. I'm pretty plain with love/courting displays. Surprisingly perhaps, my venus is in leo.So you've made a mix tape or two
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Actually I've made one this week but I'm not sure if I'll share with her! ? Not out of shyness (I'm not shy when courting, just plain!), just probably not the right thing to do.
Posted by carrazeda
I don't know. I'm pretty plain with love/courting displays. Surprisingly perhaps, my venus is in leo.So you've made a mix tape or two
Actually I've made one this week but I'm not sure if I'll share with her! ? Not out of shyness (I'm not shy when courting, just plain!), just probably not the right thing to do.
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Nailed it ! ?♥️
Posted by Senorita_LL
By not giving them attention. 😄
I totally get it - usually my method of choice as well
Talk to everyone in the room but them
Don't make eye contact
Laugh at everyone else's jokes but don't even crack a smile at theirs
Posted by tiziani
Damn, I'd have to dig up some repressed memories for this one.
Haha
Go on Tiz, dig deep, as deep as you can
😛
Posted by brianafay
Earlier in the grocery store some dude intentionally ran his cart into mine in an attempt to talk to me I guess ?That was a first for me
I personally can't see myself going to that extreme
The worst I've ever done is throw ice at someone in the club
Lmaoo? Throwin ice n s***
So i was with a guy ... didn't seem him that often, LDR thing. Anyway he comes to my house but had to do some studying for exams which i wasn't too pleased about. I kept busy for a while but i really had the hots for this one and wanted him, so i dressed up as a French Maid...feather duster etc and stood in the doorway of the room he was working in.....haha....tacky i know, but it worked and he was delighted
I think if that happened now, I would just go out for the day and leave him to it
🙂
Talk to every female in the room but her. Lol
Posted by Senorita_LL
By not giving them attention. 😄I totally get it - usually my method of choice as well
Talk to everyone in the room but them
Don't make eye contact
Laugh at everyone else's jokes but don't even crack a smile at theirs
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Omg I am a sag! I do all that too lolol
Hilarious how many people do that
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.
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Holy shit
Posted by brianafay
Hilarious how many people do that
lol I mirror —it works tho lol
Funny, I don't like getting attention in my day-to-day life [outside of work] ?
Sometimes if I'm feelin myself I will wear booty shorts and a tight-ish shirt (or loose shirt without a bra) in public.
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.
While staring at their bulges. ?
Dyed my hair blonde... thank the Lord it looks good on me
Took sexy pics and posted them knowing they'd see it
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.While staring at their bulges. ?
I thought only Sagittarius women did that.
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I've heard aqua woman do too!
Not me thou, I'm innocent ?
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.While staring at their bulges. ?
I thought only Sagittarius women did that.
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I absolutely do
I couldn't stop staring at Conor McGregors during the fight the other night
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.While staring at their bulges. ?
I thought only Sagittarius women did that.
I absolutely do
I couldn't stop staring at Conor McGregors during the fight the other night
McGregor selling the bulge.
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He's a show-er
Unless he had a chubby
Wasn't bulge only - entire outline - I know what his mushroom tip looks like —
i let him think he made all the moves 🙂
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.While staring at their bulges. ?
I thought only Sagittarius women did that.
I've heard aqua woman do too!
Not me thou, I'm innocent ?
I always thought you're a Sagittarius. 😆
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May as well be, sag dom at 29% lol but nope Aqua sun.
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?hmm walked down the hall
that was for cappie 🙂
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Don't strain yourself!
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?Only social media stalking
Sometimes google searches
But that's not really getting someone's attention
I don't do much
I want men to come to me
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Aries like to play damsel in distress though typically?
I know an Aries who faked her car breaking down so she'd have a reason to call the guy she liked to come rescue her - he was a mechanic - they're getting married in October !
Posted by Astrology101
I have called people repeatedly to get their attention. ?
Scorpio moon
For how many hours straight though ? That's the real question
What's your record ?
I put a costume on
Not far. I kind of like not getting attention. Ever. I'm a bit antisocial I guess. Even in dxp pms with people I know like me I still don't know what to do with it. I try my best to be a decent person and chat with them as long as they want to keep it going, but as for wanting and craving their attention it just doesn't happen. I guess I'm malfunctioned. I do want to feel love, attention, and companionship, I just don't know how to engage the cravings to actually try within myself.
Posted by Astrology101
I have called people repeatedly to get their attention. ?Scorpio moon
For how many hours straight though ? That's the real question
What's your record ?
Umm my ex and me had a fight. I called him 66 times if I remember correctly. He wasn't picking. He said sorry.?
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Not too shabby
Posted by Wineaux15
Took sexy pics and posted them knowing they'd see it
This will get my attention for sure!
Posted by Soul
Not far. I kind of like not getting attention. Ever. I'm a bit antisocial I guess. Even in dxp pms with people I know like me I still don't know what to do with it. I try my best to be a decent person and chat with them as long as they want to keep it going, but as for wanting and craving their attention it just doesn't happen. I guess I'm malfunctioned. I do want to feel love, attention, and companionship, I just don't know how to engage the cravings to actually try within myself.
Really ? I feel like cart boy was probably a Leo
The Leos I know are the types to GET YOUR ATTENTION if they want it - even by throwing something at you or running their cart into you
Posted by Senorita_LL
By not giving them attention. 😄
LOLOL! Twinsies! —
Posted by Soul
Not far. I kind of like not getting attention. Ever. I'm a bit antisocial I guess. Even in dxp pms with people I know like me I still don't know what to do with it. I try my best to be a decent person and chat with them as long as they want to keep it going, but as for wanting and craving their attention it just doesn't happen. I guess I'm malfunctioned. I do want to feel love, attention, and companionship, I just don't know how to engage the cravings to actually try within myself.Really ? I feel like cart boy was probably a Leo
The Leos I know are the types to GET YOUR ATTENTION if they want it - even by throwing something at you or running their cart into you
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I could see that being a Leo thing lol. For me though I just never feel the want for people's attention. I mean sure I've seen people I'm attracted to, but it just stays a secret. I'll even pretend like I want nothing major to do with them whatsoever, even if I do. When I see people I'm constantly analyzing the fine details of them. Every feature and small detail I possibly can. The second I sense they notice me however I feel the need to get away quickly. It's really odd.
Posted by Soul
Not far. I kind of like not getting attention. Ever. I'm a bit antisocial I guess. Even in dxp pms with people I know like me I still don't know what to do with it. I try my best to be a decent person and chat with them as long as they want to keep it going, but as for wanting and craving their attention it just doesn't happen. I guess I'm malfunctioned. I do want to feel love, attention, and companionship, I just don't know how to engage the cravings to actually try within myself.Really ? I feel like cart boy was probably a Leo
The Leos I know are the types to GET YOUR ATTENTION if they want it - even by throwing something at you or running their cart into you
I could see that being a Leo thing lol. For me though I just never feel the want for people's attention. I mean sure I've seen people I'm attracted to, but it just stays a secret. I'll even pretend like I want nothing major to do with them whatsoever, even if I do. When I see people I'm constantly analyzing the fine details of them. Every feature and small detail I possibly can. The second I sense they notice me however I feel the need to get away quickly. It's really odd.
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Stop doing that!
All kinds of crazy shit.
Posted by Soul
Not far. I kind of like not getting attention. Ever. I'm a bit antisocial I guess. Even in dxp pms with people I know like me I still don't know what to do with it. I try my best to be a decent person and chat with them as long as they want to keep it going, but as for wanting and craving their attention it just doesn't happen. I guess I'm malfunctioned. I do want to feel love, attention, and companionship, I just don't know how to engage the cravings to actually try within myself.Really ? I feel like cart boy was probably a Leo
The Leos I know are the types to GET YOUR ATTENTION if they want it - even by throwing something at you or running their cart into you
I could see that being a Leo thing lol. For me though I just never feel the want for people's attention. I mean sure I've seen people I'm attracted to, but it just stays a secret. I'll even pretend like I want nothing major to do with them whatsoever, even if I do. When I see people I'm constantly analyzing the fine details of them. Every feature and small detail I possibly can. The second I sense they notice me however I feel the need to get away quickly. It's really odd.
Stop doing that!
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I hope I will eventually, I just don't know how to make things work social wise. I know how to make the things at my job and in my house work, and I know how to make the things I want to be good at work, but when it comes to relationship I'm just lost lol.
Posted by OrGasMe
In church I would praise Jesus harder than the other girls when my crush was around to show how holy I was.While staring at their bulges. ?
I thought only Sagittarius women did that.
I've heard aqua woman do too!
Not me thou, I'm innocent ?
I always thought you're a Sagittarius. 😆
May as well be, sag dom at 29% lol but nope Aqua sun.
We'll look over that. 😉 😆
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hardy har har 😛
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?
Yelled at them...
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?Yelled at them...
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I can not picture you being a holla-er
As long as you yelled something nice and not "RACK CITY BITCH!!"
Posted by brianafay
To get someone's attention?Yelled at them...
I can not picture you being a holla-er
As long as you yelled something nice and not "RACK CITY BITCH!!"
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Oh yeah I can yell when I need to and it does catch others off guard. No, I wouldn't yell that lmao
Lol @ CC
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To get someone's attention?