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How to Handle Trust Issues in Dating
If you find earrings from another woman in his car, it indicates potential dishonesty. Confront him calmly to seek clarity. Trust your instincts and consider ending the relationship if he continues to lie. Honesty and respect are essential for a healthy partnership.
I would definately ask
I'd have to consider alot of other things.
Like if this is the only piece of questionable evidence, I'd just file it away and watch his behavior. See if he gets nervous.
If there has been questionable behavior after questionable behavior, I may have to bail.
I consider the source and review the complete body of work.
I would definately ask
How’s having a virgo moon? R u in a relationship?
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
I'd say "who does the earring in your car belong to" and then watch him lie?
If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
I’d be like “oh Bae did you buy me a new earring?!”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’d be like “omg I was looking for these”
Then stay quiet, wait and watch lol
Goldennnn i should have
Depends. How dirty is his car?
Might just mean he's a slob and hasn't cleaned it out in a minute.
Does he have lots of sisters? Is close to his mom and grams? Does he drive them often?
Shit could be his bros earring. Jewelry doesn't have to be gender specific.
I wouldn't freak out. He has a past, you have a past, we all have a past.
If your gonna ask be super chill about your approach. Attract more flies with honey than vinegar and all that...
If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
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How?
As a guy I could give excuses like ie. sister, cousin, and even coworkers. But my personality type would definitely bring up the earring situation. But just don't seem to insecure and let him know what you expect out of an exclusive relationship and if any boundaries are broken then you will exit. If you give an inch most will want a mile. No your worth
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
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Lol to see if ur a fellow pisces. Well air water or earth for sun?
If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
How?
You have to post it to imgur and get a link to the direct image here
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Oh ok thnx
Ok but true story. I dated this guy in HS and he borrowed his bro’s car without permission and we got funky in the backseat. Earrings were lost, and I heard about it later lol
His was on the side of the driver door
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
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If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
How?
You have to post it to imgur and get a link to the direct image here
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I posted the link to the pic
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
What are they attached too?
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If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
How?
You have to post it to imgur and get a link to the direct image here
I posted the link to the pic
Okay I may be too trusting and gullible as fuck but those are pretty flashy and his car looks pretty clean.
If he was trying to hide something those wouldn’t be here.
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Truuuu....is it truly his car? 👀
Depends. How dirty is his car?
Might just mean he's a slob and hasn't cleaned it out in a minute.
Does he have lots of sisters? Is close to his mom and grams? Does he drive them often?
Shit could be his bros earring. Jewelry doesn't have to be gender specific.
I wouldn't freak out. He has a past, you have a past, we all have a past.
If your gonna ask be super chill about your approach. Attract more flies with honey than vinegar and all that...
Hey i just posted the pic and his sister doesnt live here but his moms is here and the earrings dont look like she would wear them. I just txtd him and he hasnt said anything probably thinkin of a lie cuz his txt has slowed down since then
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
Lol to see if ur a fellow pisces. Well air water or earth for sun?
I'm a water sun scorpio ♏️
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Awesome!!!!!! How can u easily detach? My last post ur response gave me a vibe that ur so carefree
If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
How?
You have to post it to imgur and get a link to the direct image here
I posted the link to the pic
Okay I may be too trusting and gullible as fuck but those are pretty flashy and his car looks pretty clean.
If he was trying to hide something those wouldn’t be here.
Truuuu....is it truly his car? 👀
If he’s claiming it’s his car and it’s not you have bigger problems lmao
If he was doing that it’d be insta goodbye. That’s ridiculous
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Lmao righhtttt. U only tuck those earrings if they hurt ur ears and ur the driver 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ok but true story. I dated this guy in HS and he borrowed his bro’s car without permission and we got funky in the backseat. Earrings were lost, and I heard about it later lol
I posted the earring
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
What are they attached too?
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A hair pic
If he said he’s “only talking to you” that doesn’t sound like he’s making it very exclusive....
Is his car messy or clean?
I didn’t check the back the earring caught me off guard i was too busy snappin a pic of it before he cane back. Can we post pics here?
If you want
How?
You have to post it to imgur and get a link to the direct image here
I posted the link to the pic
Okay I may be too trusting and gullible as fuck but those are pretty flashy and his car looks pretty clean.
If he was trying to hide something those wouldn’t be here.
Truuuu....is it truly his car? 👀
If he’s claiming it’s his car and it’s not you have bigger problems lmao
If he was doing that it’d be insta goodbye. That’s ridiculous
Lmao righhtttt. U only tuck those earrings if they hurt ur ears and ur the driver 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Either he’s too dumb to hide them well or he’s a liar.
Either way not worth your time if those scenarios are the case.
Ask him about it.
Who knows. Maybe he does drag on the side.
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Haven’t responded to the txt yet
Soooooo if you’re dating a guy and he claims he’s only talking to u & then u find earrings in his car from another woman..Would u bring it up & if he sounds like he’s lying cut it off or just keep playing along?
just say, omg these are really beautiful earrings, and then wait.
when i was living with my pisces ex, his house had these kind of stuff from his ex wife, it turns out he is a hoarder. no big deal there. but who knows.
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I should have but didnt then i txt him the nxt today about it to save face when i should have earlier but i didnt say anything bcuz i was going to play along but im tired of games so i just brought it up 🤣🤪 crazy i kno
Soooooo if you’re dating a guy and he claims he’s only talking to u & then u find earrings in his car from another woman..Would u bring it up & if he sounds like he’s lying cut it off or just keep playing along?
just say, omg these are really beautiful earrings, and then wait.
when i was living with my pisces ex, his house had these kind of stuff from his ex wife, it turns out he is a hoarder. no big deal there. but who knows.
I should have but didnt then i txt him the nxt today about it to save face when i should have earlier but i didnt say anything bcuz i was going to play along but im tired of games so i just brought it up 🤣🤪 crazy i kno
well so what if you brought that up. no big deal. what did he say?
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Girl nothing probably wont now lol
It's a must to bring it up for me, I'm non confrontational as a general rule still I'm going to address the elephant in the room. "What are these?" Lol
I luv ur responses. What r some placements of urs that u dont mind sharing?
Lol why? I'll never tell!!!!! Lol
Lol to see if ur a fellow pisces. Well air water or earth for sun?
I'm a water sun scorpio ♏️
Awesome!!!!!! How can u easily detach? My last post ur response gave me a vibe that ur so carefree
If I'm being honest when you (not you just a person) takes a lot of l's (losses) in life you learn not to hold on to anything.
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Gotcha #scorptaughtme 🥰 I’m at the beginning of that now. Accepting the fact that ppl do come in ur life for different reasons and seasons
Normally I'd say its not worth your time, but in these hard rona days making the minutes pass is worth it.
Go through his ex-gfs sm and all his girl friends pics and see if you can match up the earring to the girl.
I would have acted like they were his and said "nice earrings, what do you wear them with"?
I would definately ask
How’s having a virgo moon? R u in a relationship?
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I was dating before Covid...
Took a break from Mr Bull, after 3 months of no communication he texted again and hasnt stopped since.
I have no lack of male attention tbh.
What is his sign?. 🐈
I would definately ask
How’s having a virgo moon? R u in a relationship?
I was dating before Covid...
Took a break from Mr Bull, after 3 months of no communication he texted again and hasnt stopped since.
I have no lack of male attention tbh.
Did he give a reason why no contact after 3 months?
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I initiated the no contact. Not him.
I dated a Virgo a couple of years ago. One night, I stayed at his place and left
My hoop earrings on his nightstand. About 2 weeks later he came to visit me and returned my earrings. He showed up to my house with a completely different pair of earrings. They actually looked nicer than mines lol. My first mind told me that he had another woman stay over his place during that time and mixed our earrings up. I didn’t waste anytime, I confronted him about it and asked him to leave. He looked so sad like he didn’t have a clue.
What if you found a pair of women's shoes at his apartment? Afaf
I’d ask him whose they were. Especially if he told you he was dating just you.
That woman knew what she was doing, if she isn’t related to him.
This reminds me of a guy I almost dated years ago.
He was dropping me home and as I was about to leave the car I noticed my earring was missing.
He started flipping out looking for it like a madman.
I didn't understand why he was so nervous so I started questioning him and turns out he had a long term girlfriend 🙄
I then found the earring soon after inside my cleavage but didn't tell him. Let him stress and worry about his girl finding my earring. Jackass. 🤡
Soooooo if you’re dating a guy and he claims he’s only talking to u & then u find earrings in his car from another woman..Would u bring it up & if he sounds like he’s lying cut it off or just keep playing along?
just say, omg these are really beautiful earrings, and then wait.
when i was living with my pisces ex, his house had these kind of stuff from his ex wife, it turns out he is a hoarder. no big deal there. but who knows.
I should have but didnt then i txt him the nxt today about it to save face when i should have earlier but i didnt say anything bcuz i was going to play along but im tired of games so i just brought it up 🤣🤪 crazy i kno
well so what if you brought that up. no big deal. what did he say?
Girl nothing probably wont now lol
also i must say i'm one of those women who loses their jewelry all the time. and i don't wear it anymore. who knows how many fucked up shits i initiated lol
anyway chill, it all depends on type of ppl you hang out. but as an old fart, i would recommend chill, the truth will came out.
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It did. Trying to use manipulation tactics on me
Soooooo if you’re dating a guy and he claims he’s only talking to u & then u find earrings in his car from another woman..Would u bring it up & if he sounds like he’s lying cut it off or just keep playing along?
Mmm nope.
I would look up the make of the earrings find out where they came from online. Then I would find out their value. Then pawn them.
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Beauty supply 🤣🤣🤣 tarnished
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Soooooo if you’re dating a guy and he claims he’s only talking to u & then u find earrings in his car from another woman..Would u bring it up & if he sounds like he’s lying cut it off or just keep playing along?