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Disagreement with Scorpio friend over her Aries crush (Page 2)
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Posted by blackphaseEyes wide open! Aye aye ma'am! I'm gonna have to work extra hard at not getting myself tangled up in these kinds of situations; they're emotionally draining, tbh. :/Posted by WhoAmIHey, how else would we learn right? We all have to make a few mistakes to be able to learn from them and overcome them. But from what I know of Libras, you guys do tend to just go with the flow, just be careful where the flow is leading you. Keep your eyes wide open at all times 😉
@blackphase HAHAHAHAHAHA I tend to give people three different vibes, depending on who they are:
a. Extremely shy and awkward (I'm scared of you :S) kind of vibe if they're friends of my friends and I've only met them for the first time and have no one to use as a social crutch.
b. Don't fucking touch me or I'll kill you, when people are complete strangers and I have no idea why they're approaching me in the first place.
c. Friendly vibe and inviting personality when either A) feeling pressured in a social situation and the anxiety over disappointing friends/coworkers/boss/family is a lot greater than the anxiety over making mistakes and being around people I don't know. (this one would probably help explain more why it's so hard for me to "put my foot down", although I have been actively trying to improve in doing so) or B) I consider them friends and am comfortable around them 🙂
Also, you are absolutely right, I don't like to cause any scenes. I try to just keep the peace. So I do get what you mean when you say that it might give the wrong message. :/ Lesson definitely learned from this time.
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamI get what you mean... I did tell her I'd give her some space to think about the whole situation and process it. And no, I'm not worried about myself. I'll just have to learn how to live with the situation, which is fine. I'm just trying to make sure that this affects her as little as humanly possible (you know, other than the damage already caused).
Your friend is a stupid bitch.
You're a naive, silly bitch.
The Aries is just a drunk, silly bitch who doesn't know how to keep his hands to himself. Also, you need to understand that alcohol is "truth serum." I wouldn't be surprised if he had some small inkling of interest in you, tbh. So letting him hang all over you was just dumb on your part.
You all handled the situation poorly, tbh. This is what happens when you're a dumb, passive aggressive person. Libras do this shit all the time and omg when it all blows up in their face, they don't know what to do.
How about you knock off the silly bitch passive aggressive nonsense and do what needs to be done instead of worrying about yourself and "rocking the boat?" I am always amazed that Libras go on about being fair and balanced, when the sole purpose of that "balance" is for their own emotional needs, which in the long haul isn't really fair to anyone but themselves.
Also, your "friend" really isn't a "friend" if this his how she's going to treat you. It amazes me how easily Scorps will cut ties with friends when their sole issue is that their insecurity and psychosis is raging half the time when it comes to most matters. If it doesn't fit their world view, everyone is untrustworthy. "Scorps are SO LOYAL!" Orly? They are until their skewed view is challenged in some way, shape, or form. That's far from loyalty.
As far as "fixing," back off and let your "friend" be a stupid bitch about all of it. Maybe she'll come to her senses.Right now isn't the time to confront her or try to talk common sense into such a mental midget.
Posted by blackphaseDang girl, I wish I had your guts!!Posted by WhoAmII know they are, that's why I am so unapproachable 😛Posted by blackphaseEyes wide open! Aye aye ma'am! I'm gonna have to work extra hard at not getting myself tangled up in these kinds of situations; they're emotionally draining, tbh. :/Posted by WhoAmIHey, how else would we learn right? We all have to make a few mistakes to be able to learn from them and overcome them. But from what I know of Libras, you guys do tend to just go with the flow, just be careful where the flow is leading you. Keep your eyes wide open at all times 😉
@blackphase HAHAHAHAHAHA I tend to give people three different vibes, depending on who they are:
a. Extremely shy and awkward (I'm scared of you :S) kind of vibe if they're friends of my friends and I've only met them for the first time and have no one to use as a social crutch.
b. Don't fucking touch me or I'll kill you, when people are complete strangers and I have no idea why they're approaching me in the first place.
c. Friendly vibe and inviting personality when either A) feeling pressured in a social situation and the anxiety over disappointing friends/coworkers/boss/family is a lot greater than the anxiety over making mistakes and being around people I don't know. (this one would probably help explain more why it's so hard for me to "put my foot down", although I have been actively trying to improve in doing so) or B) I consider them friends and am comfortable around them 🙂
Also, you are absolutely right, I don't like to cause any scenes. I try to just keep the peace. So I do get what you mean when you say that it might give the wrong message. :/ Lesson definitely learned from this time.
Ugh. *Facepalm*
The last time a guy hit on me.. I'm pretty sure he went home and cried! LOLclick to expand
Posted by WhoAmIHmph. I personally would walk away then, but if you really want to help her out I'd just leave the bold parts out or she'll tell you to go f*ck yourself. I'm not saying you were going to say any of that, but just incase you felt you needed to add it to soften her up a bit, don't. It sounds all nice and sweet to most people, but to a Scorp with a bruised ego, she will probably hear/read that very differently.
... The project is of no benefit to me, financially speaking. Her business is a startup, so they needed additional support in the crew, and I provided it for them because it's something I have experience on and something I enjoy, and also because I would love to see her be successful with her business, and if I get to help her get there, I would be honored.
PS. That end line had me cracking. Hahahaha
@blackphase I'm a very sheltered 24yrs old LOL It wasn't until 2 years ago that I had to learn things the hard way, living for the first time in a state where I had absolutely no family or close friends to rely on. It doesn't help that I'm not exactly your average social person, either. I don't meet new people frequently, and when I do it's usually for work/school-related reasons. So I'm not exactly the kind of person with a lot of experiences like these.
Still learning.
Still learning.
Posted by PhoenixRisingGotcha. The whole time I was thinking if I didn't explain that I was trying to look out for her, despite this whole fiasco, it would come off as if I didn't really care. But what you say makes sense. I'll definitely keep that in mind, and the comments to myself...Posted by WhoAmIHmph. I personally would walk away then, but if you really want to help her out I'd just leave the bold parts out or she'll tell you to go f*ck yourself. I'm not saying you were going to say any of that, but just incase you felt you needed to add it to soften her up a bit, don't. It sounds all nice and sweet to most people, but to a Scorp with a bruised ego, she will probably hear/read that very differently.
... The project is of no benefit to me, financially speaking. Her business is a startup, so they needed additional support in the crew, and I provided it for them because it's something I have experience on and something I enjoy, and also because I would love to see her be successful with her business, and if I get to help her get there, I would be honored.
PS. That end line had me cracking. Hahahahaclick to expand
Posted by GobshiteNow, now, he's sensitive. Don't be mean 😢 hahahaPosted by SensitiveBlues
Grow up!
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Posted by Arielle83No, I didn't want him like my friend did. And it's not that it was 'hard' to tell him to back off, but rather that I didn't feel the need to. Again, I'm used to my friends acting that way towards me with no sexual intents, so his behaviour wouldn't have raised any flags for me. The only time when he crossed that line of what I thought was just his normal behavior, was when he kissed me. Maybe if I had grown somewhere else and around people who didn't always act that way towards me, I would've been able to tell the difference lol Lesson learned. Now I know.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYeah I thought she wanted him like her friend did.
Your friend is a stupid bitch.
You're a naive, silly bitch.
The Aries is just a drunk, silly bitch who doesn't know how to keep his hands to himself. Also, you need to understand that alcohol is "truth serum." I wouldn't be surprised if he had some small inkling of interest in you, tbh. So letting him hang all over you was just dumb on your part.
You all handled the situation poorly, tbh. This is what happens when you're a dumb, passive aggressive person. Libras do this shit all the time and omg when it all blows up in their face, they don't know what to do.
How about you knock off the silly bitch passive aggressive nonsense and do what needs to be done instead of worrying about yourself and "rocking the boat?" I am always amazed that Libras go on about being fair and balanced, when the sole purpose of that "balance" is for their own emotional needs, which in the long haul isn't really fair to anyone but themselves.
Also, your "friend" really isn't a "friend" if this his how she's going to treat you. It amazes me how easily Scorps will cut ties with friends when their sole issue is that their insecurity and psychosis is raging half the time when it comes to most matters. If it doesn't fit their world view, everyone is untrustworthy. "Scorps are SO LOYAL!" Orly? They are until their skewed view is challenged in some way, shape, or form. That's far from loyalty.
As far as "fixing," back off and let your "friend" be a stupid bitch about all of it. Maybe she'll come to her senses.Right now isn't the time to confront her or try to talk common sense into such a mental midget.
So i don't get what's so hard to tell him to back off?
You ain't interested, tell him.click to expand
Posted by Arielle83
True. If your friend saw him doing this to you, couldn't you tell by her reaction, that it was uncouth?
That implies she had a reaction lol if she had seemed uncomfortable, I probably would've noticed a lot faster. But she was pretty much acting the same way with us, hugging everyone else as well and laughing her life away. Obviously, she's good at hiding her feelings, given that when he kissed me, she was still chatting and laughing with someone else, leaving me with no clue that she had even seen it happen. I'm just glad I was honest about it before she went and assumed that I would never tell her. :/
Actually, her words were, and I quote "I'm so glad you guys (not just him and me, but the rest of her friends as well) are getting along so well. They seem to really like you, it's nice"
Posted by GobshiteAs much as it pains me to say it, this is 100 true.Posted by starwars
she told you that she think he likes you even though she likes him , which obvs hurt her and it has crossed your mind. but you kept with the "idc" attitude until he kissed you and it finally "hit" you. regardless the fact that your friend pointed it out before and it has crossed your mind.
It's the typical Scorpio test bullshit...
The fact is, the Scorpio already staked her claim on the Aries. Scorpios get incredibly deluded after honing in on their target - all rationality simply goes out the window.
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I'm a Scorpio female and when I first read this post I wanted to scream "f you" to the Libra. We do get jealous, we do get irrational and we do expect loyalty. She's feeling betrayed right now, even if you technically did nothing wrong . If you want to save the friendship, stay far away from the Aries. Never let him touch you again, don't even look it him.
Posted by CruellaWhiteCan you read?
op get a life....know what i mean....your friend has a sleazy bf she has to live with that it serves her right for betraying you karma....
If they are business partners sue for sexual harassment.
She is not a friend.
Nowhere in her post did she say this was her friend's boyfriend. Just a dude the friend has a crush on.
Posted by Stefanie87Roger that. I mean, given the circumstances, I don't think I have to worry about ever seeing him again lol I'm just worried I might never get my friend back. :/Posted by GobshiteAs much as it pains me to say it, this is 100 true.Posted by starwars
she told you that she think he likes you even though she likes him , which obvs hurt her and it has crossed your mind. but you kept with the "idc" attitude until he kissed you and it finally "hit" you. regardless the fact that your friend pointed it out before and it has crossed your mind.
It's the typical Scorpio test bullshit...
The fact is, the Scorpio already staked her claim on the Aries. Scorpios get incredibly deluded after honing in on their target - all rationality simply goes out the window.
I'm a Scorpio female and when I first read this post I wanted to scream "f you" to the Libra. We do get jealous, we do get irrational and we do expect loyalty. She's feeling betrayed right now, even if you technically did nothing wrong . If you want to save the friendship, stay far away from the Aries. Never let him touch you again, don't even look it him.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamLmao thank you!! And as to why I don't sue for sexual harassment? That would make no sense cuz anyone could argue that I was okay with it, which I was because I didn't see anything wrong with it until the kiss. Also, I'm not trying to ruin anyone's life. Just trying to save a friendship (that I might never get back, anyway).Posted by CruellaWhiteCan you read?
op get a life....know what i mean....your friend has a sleazy bf she has to live with that it serves her right for betraying you karma....
If they are business partners sue for sexual harassment.
She is not a friend.
Nowhere in her post did she say this was her friend's boyfriend. Just a dude the friend has a crush on.click to expand
Posted by CruellaWhiteThat's because I'm not trying to point fingers... What's done is done, there's no point in worrying about the past. Now what do I do about my (potentially lost forever) friend?
Why is this all about YOU and the FRIEND....why is the guy not being strung up by the balls—
String him up by the balls!
Posted by GobshiteSigh... Unfortunately... 😢Posted by Arielle83
True. If your friend saw him doing this to you, couldn't you tell by her reaction, that it was uncouth?
Scorpios are the masters of poker faces... 😉
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Well... Quick update for you guys. Texted her saying I would not shoot on the 17th, but wanted to discuss with her first to make sure she had a replacement and I wouldn't just ditch them irresponsibly. She replied that it's okay. 'Thanks for checking in, no need to update the group on your availability" and that she had been contacted by a few people that wanted to help with this project, so she would be working with them instead. So there's that.
Oh, well. It all seems real now. I'm pretty sure I lost a friend. :/
Oh, well. It all seems real now. I'm pretty sure I lost a friend. :/
Posted by tizianiWe met a little over 4yrs ago in a meetup group for girls that were new in town. Of the few that I kept in touch with, she was one of them, and I don't make friends often so she was one of the few friends that I had here overall. We used to give each other advice all the time and go on trips and create projects, so it was a fun friendship. She helped me through some of my worst anxiety attacks, and I helped her overcoming her issues as well. Would've never even imagined this happening. BUT, I guess I understand it from her point of view, so it'll just have to be another lesson learned.
What was your friendship based on?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMFG you guys, I feel so stupid! xD
I was so mad today about how the whole situation.. I mean, I lost a friend, and all my "newly-found" friends that I met through her, and it was all due to one big stupid misunderstanding... So my mind kept replaying the night of, trying to figure out where exactly everything went wrong (I do this when I'm upset about something).. And I remembered one little detail I had thought nothing of (even after the kiss), that he did not once, but twice that night. And before I mention this, let me just say that it used to be something me and my friends (girls or guys) used to do to disgust the other when we were kids, so I kind of assumed that was the case here lol but he put his finger on my mouth twice. In front of her. And to make matters worse, the first time he did it, I feigned biting him and just lightly grabbed it with my teeth (then slapped his arm away laughing and screaming 'Ewwww' when he tried to touch my tongue). And the second time he did it was right before the kiss. He put his finger in my mouth and I laughed like 'why does this idiot keep doing that? lmao' and that's when he turned and kissed me.
Idk why, but I googled it and apparently it's something sexual? It might seem like something very obvious to most people, but hey, in case you haven't noticed by my previous posts, this girl right here: not a lot of experience.
So I might have very well given him the green light without realizing it. In front of her. Twice. I'm so fucking stupid. -_- No wonder she hates me so freaking much. WTF.
...I've been laughing about this for at least 20mins. I have to laugh at my own stupidity, what else can I do? Sigh... Been a great day. False alarm, guys. Turns out it was my fault all along!! -_-
I was so mad today about how the whole situation.. I mean, I lost a friend, and all my "newly-found" friends that I met through her, and it was all due to one big stupid misunderstanding... So my mind kept replaying the night of, trying to figure out where exactly everything went wrong (I do this when I'm upset about something).. And I remembered one little detail I had thought nothing of (even after the kiss), that he did not once, but twice that night. And before I mention this, let me just say that it used to be something me and my friends (girls or guys) used to do to disgust the other when we were kids, so I kind of assumed that was the case here lol but he put his finger on my mouth twice. In front of her. And to make matters worse, the first time he did it, I feigned biting him and just lightly grabbed it with my teeth (then slapped his arm away laughing and screaming 'Ewwww' when he tried to touch my tongue). And the second time he did it was right before the kiss. He put his finger in my mouth and I laughed like 'why does this idiot keep doing that? lmao' and that's when he turned and kissed me.
Idk why, but I googled it and apparently it's something sexual? It might seem like something very obvious to most people, but hey, in case you haven't noticed by my previous posts, this girl right here: not a lot of experience.
So I might have very well given him the green light without realizing it. In front of her. Twice. I'm so fucking stupid. -_- No wonder she hates me so freaking much. WTF.
...I've been laughing about this for at least 20mins. I have to laugh at my own stupidity, what else can I do? Sigh... Been a great day. False alarm, guys. Turns out it was my fault all along!! -_-
^^^Lol Don't act like you didn't know...
Posted by exoExtremely. Stupidity breaks friendships, guys. Take notes! -_-
derpy libra women, smh.
Posted by FoxCan totally see why people would think that. I don't think this level of stupidity should be legal. -_-
when libras play pretend.
Posted by exoI don't like attention, so no. I'm only comfortable around friends, which I thought he was. Had it been any other of my friends doing the same things while drunk, I would've reacted the same way, if that answers your question.
like, couldn't you find anyone else to show you some attention?
@Wynter Lmbo dafuq is this shit?? That's some serious pedoshit going on in that movie o.O Creepy af. Probably would've raised major flags too lol if that had happened. It was more like this:
Fingers in the mouth means he wants to stick his dick in your mouth.
....like I've said a zillion times-
Libras are the cock teases of the zodiac. They're also masters of playing dumb. It's their only defense for their questionable behavior that usually lands them in hot water.
Libras are the cock teases of the zodiac. They're also masters of playing dumb. It's their only defense for their questionable behavior that usually lands them in hot water.
Posted by WhoAmIThe self deprecation isn't cute. Ease up cause I'm not buying it. You're not stupid. You clearly like the dude and still in denial about it. Have you talk to him since the finger sucking/kiss? Is there potential there?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMFG you guys, I feel so stupid! xD
I was so mad today about how the whole situation.. I mean, I lost a friend, and all my "newly-found" friends that I met through her, and it was all due to one big stupid misunderstanding... So my mind kept replaying the night of, trying to figure out where exactly everything went wrong (I do this when I'm upset about something).. And I remembered one little detail I had thought nothing of (even after the kiss), that he did not once, but twice that night. And before I mention this, let me just say that it used to be something me and my friends (girls or guys) used to do to disgust the other when we were kids, so I kind of assumed that was the case here lol but he put his finger on my mouth twice. In front of her. And to make matters worse, the first time he did it, I feigned biting him and just lightly grabbed it with my teeth (then slapped his arm away laughing and screaming 'Ewwww' when he tried to touch my tongue). And the second time he did it was right before the kiss. He put his finger in my mouth and I laughed like 'why does this idiot keep doing that? lmao' and that's when he turned and kissed me.
Idk why, but I googled it and apparently it's something sexual? It might seem like something very obvious to most people, but hey, in case you haven't noticed by my previous posts, this girl right here: not a lot of experience.
So I might have very well given him the green light without realizing it. In front of her. Twice. I'm so fucking stupid. -_- No wonder she hates me so freaking much. WTF.
...I've been laughing about this for at least 20mins. I have to laugh at my own stupidity, what else can I do? Sigh... Been a great day. False alarm, guys. Turns out it was my fault all along!! -_-
^^ Another Scorpio chick who sees right through you OP
SMDH...
SMDH...
If you're telling the truth about the whole lack of experience and social anxiety, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. It could be that both combined have resulted in a serious lack of social cues comprehension.
Seriously though stop it with the "I'm stupid, it's all my fault" schtick. You really need to learn from all of this and please have some clear boundaries when interacting with men who are not family or your SO.
Seriously though stop it with the "I'm stupid, it's all my fault" schtick. You really need to learn from all of this and please have some clear boundaries when interacting with men who are not family or your SO.
Posted by Wynter😆! That's probably how the Scorp saw it. The whole time watching like:
I like the OP, personally.
I just don't think Scorps and OP mix well... There's a definite disconnect in communication IMO
Scorpio energy might be a tad like swimming in the deep end for this little one - especially in delicate matters of the Heart.
Another mistake like this and she'd fucking drown you for realz next time.
~shrugs~
I just don't think Scorps and OP mix well... There's a definite disconnect in communication IMO
Scorpio energy might be a tad like swimming in the deep end for this little one - especially in delicate matters of the Heart.
Another mistake like this and she'd fucking drown you for realz next time.
~shrugs~
Posted by PhoenixRisingHell no. I told him he needs to ease up on the drinking and kissing random people. He apologized one-too-many times. I told him I don't care anymore, the damage is already done. We haven't spoken since.Posted by WhoAmIThe self deprecation isn't cute. Ease up cause I'm not buying it. You're not stupid. You clearly like the dude and still in denial about it. Have you talk to him since the finger sucking/kiss? Is there potential there?
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMFG you guys, I feel so stupid! xD
I was so mad today about how the whole situation.. I mean, I lost a friend, and all my "newly-found" friends that I met through her, and it was all due to one big stupid misunderstanding... So my mind kept replaying the night of, trying to figure out where exactly everything went wrong (I do this when I'm upset about something).. And I remembered one little detail I had thought nothing of (even after the kiss), that he did not once, but twice that night. And before I mention this, let me just say that it used to be something me and my friends (girls or guys) used to do to disgust the other when we were kids, so I kind of assumed that was the case here lol but he put his finger on my mouth twice. In front of her. And to make matters worse, the first time he did it, I feigned biting him and just lightly grabbed it with my teeth (then slapped his arm away laughing and screaming 'Ewwww' when he tried to touch my tongue). And the second time he did it was right before the kiss. He put his finger in my mouth and I laughed like 'why does this idiot keep doing that? lmao' and that's when he turned and kissed me.
Idk why, but I googled it and apparently it's something sexual? It might seem like something very obvious to most people, but hey, in case you haven't noticed by my previous posts, this girl right here: not a lot of experience.
So I might have very well given him the green light without realizing it. In front of her. Twice. I'm so fucking stupid. -_- No wonder she hates me so freaking much. WTF.
...I've been laughing about this for at least 20mins. I have to laugh at my own stupidity, what else can I do? Sigh... Been a great day. False alarm, guys. Turns out it was my fault all along!! -_-click to expand
Posted by wagtailGosh, thank you. I think you're the only one on this thread who feels that way lol I told my friend about the whole thing and she didn't understand what I did wrong in the first place, either. She says our Scorp friend (mutual friend) is just highly sensitive about things like these (she's known her for way longer) and to not stress about this too much.. :/ I told her about the finger thing, and she was like 'what do you mean? My friends do that too.. How is that a signal?' So I guess I'm not alone there hahahaha
I like the OP, personally.
I just don't think Scorps and OP mix well... There's a definite disconnect in communication IMO
Scorpio energy might be a tad like swimming in the deep end for this little one - especially in delicate matters of the Heart.
Another mistake like this and she'd fucking drown you for realz next time.
~shrugs~
Posted by IllaLupusVery true. Agree 100% .
You did allow him to continue with his advances until finally he kissed you. From the looks of it he might have believed that doing so was acceptable... I mean allowing him to get touchy and flirty? Could have interpreted it as an opportunity. Your friend is right by feeling like you caused THAT situation to happen but needs to look at her dude also.
Specially when comes from a scorp moon
Posted by letterbox10It's called low selt-esteem. I recognize when I've done something stupid and can be pretty harsh to myself. Or so I've been told. But it keeps me from making mistakes like these twice, so that's a plus. And yes, I've heard many times before that I can be awkward around people. Yes, there's one-too-many jokes that I don't get and have to ask people what they mean and feel stupid because I'm the only one that doesn't get them. Yes, I've said things to people that are insensitive and only realized it when other people have told me so. -_- It only makes it worse, guys. Because every time something like this happens, it gives me a reason not to be social in the first place. "If you hadn't befriended them, or helped them, or gone to the stupid party, none of this would've happened".
If you're telling the truth about the whole lack of experience and social anxiety, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. It could be that both combined have resulted in a serious lack of social cues comprehension.
Seriously though stop it with the "I'm stupid, it's all my fault" schtick. You really need to learn from all of this and please have some clear boundaries when interacting with men who are not family or your SO.
@littlemegabytes Well, to (hopefully) save you tons of reading... Here's a summary:
She texted me the next day and apologized about the hateful messages. Said she didn't take my social anxiety into account and that she understood why I would only stay around him (given that I only knew three people at the party, two of whom were busy with their friends). She said she also understood why I felt so comfortable around her two friends (she's known for a long time that all my close friends act that way with me), given the way they act around me, and I had even told her before that they reminded me of my close friends back at home, so I felt very comfortable around them. She didn't realize I had spent the majority of the party with a bunch of unknown people instead of them because she spent the whole night around him and, obviously, every time I hung out with her, by definition I was near him. So she thought I was 'always around him whenever I was in the vicinity'.
All in all, a bunch of misunderstandings. But in the end, she said she needed space and to set boundaries, and that included me talking to her friends. One thing I forgot to mention before is that a few days before the party (and the main reason why I spent the majority of the party with strangers instead of her or her friends) is that she got upset because she felt 'left out' because her friends were 'going around her inviting me to things and only inviting her as an afterthought', which wasn't even true and I explained to her that she was always part of the original plans. And didn't even make sense in the first place. The one time I hung out with one of her friends without inviting her, was when her friend offered to meet my aggressive dog to see if he could help me train him. Was I supposed to invite her to meet my aggressive dog?
Anyway, as I'm sure you've read by now, I've recently contacted her, let her know that I wouldn't help with the last project, to which she replied she already had replacements, and she'd be working with a different crew this time. So there's that.
She texted me the next day and apologized about the hateful messages. Said she didn't take my social anxiety into account and that she understood why I would only stay around him (given that I only knew three people at the party, two of whom were busy with their friends). She said she also understood why I felt so comfortable around her two friends (she's known for a long time that all my close friends act that way with me), given the way they act around me, and I had even told her before that they reminded me of my close friends back at home, so I felt very comfortable around them. She didn't realize I had spent the majority of the party with a bunch of unknown people instead of them because she spent the whole night around him and, obviously, every time I hung out with her, by definition I was near him. So she thought I was 'always around him whenever I was in the vicinity'.
All in all, a bunch of misunderstandings. But in the end, she said she needed space and to set boundaries, and that included me talking to her friends. One thing I forgot to mention before is that a few days before the party (and the main reason why I spent the majority of the party with strangers instead of her or her friends) is that she got upset because she felt 'left out' because her friends were 'going around her inviting me to things and only inviting her as an afterthought', which wasn't even true and I explained to her that she was always part of the original plans. And didn't even make sense in the first place. The one time I hung out with one of her friends without inviting her, was when her friend offered to meet my aggressive dog to see if he could help me train him. Was I supposed to invite her to meet my aggressive dog?
Anyway, as I'm sure you've read by now, I've recently contacted her, let her know that I wouldn't help with the last project, to which she replied she already had replacements, and she'd be working with a different crew this time. So there's that.
@littlemegabytes Sorry, the post was too long, so it got cut off and I had to edit it. But it should be okay now.
Posted by littlemegabytesWait-- WHAT? Hahahahahaha OMG I'm so sorry you had to go through that. That's hilarious, though. I don't even know what to say to that. Maybe she thought that you still kept in touch cuz you thought he was hot? Hahahahaha
Here's a little story. I was friend with a Scorpio for two years.
There was a guy mowing my yard one day. Idk who the hell he was. I didn't ask and just let him now my yard, I waved and said hey thanks, that's very nice of you. It was hot outside and he was hot, as in visually. I told my roommate and my friend (Scorpio) that there was a hot guy outside mowing my lawn and to go take a peek out the window. That was the last I ever saw or heard from him.
It turned out that it was a friend of the next door neighbor, who she started dating months later to this incident. This Scorpio turned against me because I called this random dude "hot" months prior to this. She felt "betrayed" and drunkenly forced this mysterious lawn mower guy to publically announce that I was ugly, at a party, in front of everyone, including myself lol.
My point - It's very easy and often times totally invalid for a Scorpio woman to feel "betrayed."
Posted by SensitiveBluesBitch... Ho... Anything else? Maybe try something next time that actually does apply to me. But thank you, though. I'll keep your thoughts in mind.Posted by littlemegabytescompletely different then what the OP is writing.
Here's a little story. I was friend with a Scorpio for two years.
There was a guy mowing my yard one day. Idk who the hell he was. I didn't ask and just let him now my yard, I waved and said hey thanks, that's very nice of you. It was hot outside and he was hot, as in visually. I told my roommate and my friend (Scorpio) that there was a hot guy outside mowing my lawn and to go take a peek out the window. That was the last I ever saw or heard from him.
It turned out that it was a friend of the next door neighbor, who she started dating months later to this incident. This Scorpio turned against me because I called this random dude "hot" months prior to this. She felt "betrayed" and drunkenly forced this mysterious lawn mower guy to publically announce that I was ugly, at a party, in front of everyone, including myself lol.
My point - It's very easy and often times totally invalid for a Scorpio woman to feel "betrayed."
This ho is an actressclick to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesTriffling idiot. Fake. Cum dumpster.Posted by WhoAmIYou're a trifling idiot. Your FAKE ACT might have some people defending your senseless behaviorPosted by SensitiveBluesBitch... Ho... Anything else? Maybe try something next time that actually does apply to me. But thank you, though. I'll keep your thoughts in mind.Posted by littlemegabytescompletely different then what the OP is writing.
Here's a little story. I was friend with a Scorpio for two years.
There was a guy mowing my yard one day. Idk who the hell he was. I didn't ask and just let him now my yard, I waved and said hey thanks, that's very nice of you. It was hot outside and he was hot, as in visually. I told my roommate and my friend (Scorpio) that there was a hot guy outside mowing my lawn and to go take a peek out the window. That was the last I ever saw or heard from him.
It turned out that it was a friend of the next door neighbor, who she started dating months later to this incident. This Scorpio turned against me because I called this random dude "hot" months prior to this. She felt "betrayed" and drunkenly forced this mysterious lawn mower guy to publically announce that I was ugly, at a party, in front of everyone, including myself lol.
My point - It's very easy and often times totally invalid for a Scorpio woman to feel "betrayed."
This ho is an actress
but look you're not a Friend, you're just another cum dumpster.
you don't even respect your friendships
i don't respect hoez.
you'ze a hoclick to expand
Got it. I'll make sure to add them to the list. If you don't like what you're reading and think this post is full of lies, by all means, tell me more. I've been bullied before, your words are nothing new. Maybe try harder? -_-
Posted by littlemegabytesNo, I only ever saw him as a friend 🙂 It wasn't only him, either. I felt very comfortable with both of her friends (she later introduced me to a bunch more, but those two were always a lot closer). They were both very nice and hilarious to be around. Like I said, reminded me of home and my close friends over there, so I loved hanging out with all of them. But I don't see him that way. To me, he was always off-limits. He was always 'my friend's crush', if that makes sense.Posted by SensitiveBluesWell yea, she likes him! I am pretty sure.
No man I just met or even a long term friend is going to put his disgusting finger in my mouth. Hell no.
Unless we making love or he my BF, that's just a NO.
I call BS on this whole story, this bytch is trolling us mightly.
OP, just be honest with yourself, and us, for a second now. Screw other people's feelings. What are your RAW feelings for the sake of this thread?
Do you have feelings for him?click to expand
Oh I don't know my chart.. I don't know much about astrology and zodiac stuff, my friend is the one that knows all about this hehe. Hold up, lemme google that!
Posted by littlemegabytesScratch that. Found it!Posted by WhoAmIDid you post your chart? All I saw was that you were a Libra. What were your other placements?Posted by littlemegabytesNo, I only ever saw him as a friend 🙂 It wasn't only him, either. I felt very comfortable with both of her friends (she later introduced me to a bunch more, but those two were always a lot closer). They were both very nice and hilarious to be around. Like I said, reminded me of home and my close friends over there, so I loved hanging out with all of them. But I don't see him that way. To me, he was always off-limits. He was always 'my friend's crush', if that makes sense.Posted by SensitiveBluesWell yea, she likes him! I am pretty sure.
No man I just met or even a long term friend is going to put his disgusting finger in my mouth. Hell no.
Unless we making love or he my BF, that's just a NO.
I call BS on this whole story, this bytch is trolling us mightly.
OP, just be honest with yourself, and us, for a second now. Screw other people's feelings. What are your RAW feelings for the sake of this thread?
Do you have feelings for him?click to expand
Zodiac : Tropical
Placidus Orb : 0
Sun: Libra
Moon: Aries
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Virgo
Mars: Scorpio
Jupiter: Virgo
Saturn: Aquarius
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
Lilith: Capricorn
Asc node: Capricorn
Ascendant: Leo
II: Virgo
III: Libra
IV: Scorpio
V: Sagittarius
VI: Capricorn
VII: Aquarius
VIII: Pisces
IX: Aries
Midheaven: Taurus
XI: Gemini
XII: Cancer
Posted by WhoAmIDon't thank me, I'm still not convinced you didn't know exactly what you were doing...Posted by wagtailGosh, thank you. I think you're the only one on this thread who feels that way lol I told my friend about the whole thing and she didn't understand what I did wrong in the first place, either. She says our Scorp friend (mutual friend) is just highly sensitive about things like these (she's known her for way longer) and to not stress about this too much.. :/ I told her about the finger thing, and she was like 'what do you mean? My friends do that too.. How is that a signal?' So I guess I'm not alone there hahahaha
I like the OP, personally.
I just don't think Scorps and OP mix well... There's a definite disconnect in communication IMO
Scorpio energy might be a tad like swimming in the deep end for this little one - especially in delicate matters of the Heart.
Another mistake like this and she'd fucking drown you for realz next time.
~shrugs~click to expand
But scratch it up to a lesson learned.
(hopefully)
Posted by Arielle83Ewwww I wasn't sucking on it, that's disgusting lol but I get what you mean! xD
Dude, he could of had his finger inside someone else before you were sucking on it.
Icky
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