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Posted by PalerioWhen I check my drunk texts - I had never found anything I wouldn't say sober!
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Maybe because I don't hold back and tell it all without holding forever before o blow up into...drunk texting insults or love admitting or whatever that is...
Posted by pinkbird03I go with my gut instincts .. level doesn't matterPosted by SofiaV87How do you know what's true and what's not?
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
Does level of drunkenness factor in?click to expand
I love getting drunk texts. It gives me something to give them crap about the next day when I can prove how retarded they are when hosed.
I don't take them seriously at all unless they mention something that is concerning like, "I think I'm pregnant" or "I slept with your brother"... that kind of thing.
I don't take them seriously at all unless they mention something that is concerning like, "I think I'm pregnant" or "I slept with your brother"... that kind of thing.
Posted by SofiaV87True some people use it as an excuse to reveal their real feelings in a more "safe way" so that people like the op can possibly discredit those feelings if in fact, they don't reciprocate.
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
Posted by AdreamuponwakingYes, I've learned that everything that is said by a drunk person isn't all factual .. it's really mixed & just dependsPosted by SofiaV87True some people use it as an excuse to reveal their real feelings in a more "safe way" so that people like the op can possibly discredit those feelings if in fact, they don't reciprocate.
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
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Posted by pinkbird03He's chasing you because you remain to be a challenge.Posted by PalerioPosted by pinkbird03Has he told you directly he doesn't want commitment or it's just something you're assuming? Are his actions contradicting his words? Because from a guy's standpoint, when one's good-looking and only wants sex, it's not that complex to just go to a bar, pick up a random stranger and have it the very same day.Posted by PalerioWe've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.Posted by pinkbird03It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.Posted by PalerioWhat kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
Same for attractive women, unless they are passive-aggressive types that love attention, it's hard to imagine them investing a month of their life dating a guy towards whom they have no genuine interest. They normally just say bye.
Oh hes got a casual friend that he's known for years and hooks up with when he's single. He doesn't need me. He just wants me. But like I said, he knows I won't unless we're exclusive. That's why I am surprised at his drunk texts for literally 3 hours non-stop while he was with his friends. A lot of sweet talk.. We also did talk in the morning when he was sober. But that was more of a how are you, catch up on life type of conversation. I know... my situation is nuts. I'm also back on a dating site, which he knows. Oh and he said last week he wasn't sure what he wants. It sounded like he wants a serious relationship but he wants to have fun too. Well I'm not giving him both.
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My Leo friend once left me a nasty message on my phone! Drunk as heck! Calling me (and my innocent husband whom she adores) names that o can't repeat...
We are still friends!
Because we have connection and it doesn't matter what she said!
We've been together trough thick and thin and I knew where she is coming from!
We used to be so close until we had gotten into business!
They both working getting biweekly checks!
They didn't get why we rather to not to see them and burden them with our issues!
We had such dirrerent life's then.
And Leos aren't big on sympathies!
So we had dissapeared!
8 years later we are still not ready to go party! We are still recuperating and taking our time to get shit together. But if you true friends - you can survive!
If she was warmer and not no-nonsense and had been a shoulder I can cry on - none of this would had happened! She is just my Leo bitch I love and apparently she loves me still because we had just had warmest convo last night and
life goes on!
Don't sweat small stuff! Focus on bigger picture! Never mind drunk texts or calls.
It's all crap that doesn't break your neck'
We are still friends!
Because we have connection and it doesn't matter what she said!
We've been together trough thick and thin and I knew where she is coming from!
We used to be so close until we had gotten into business!
They both working getting biweekly checks!
They didn't get why we rather to not to see them and burden them with our issues!
We had such dirrerent life's then.
And Leos aren't big on sympathies!
So we had dissapeared!
8 years later we are still not ready to go party! We are still recuperating and taking our time to get shit together. But if you true friends - you can survive!
If she was warmer and not no-nonsense and had been a shoulder I can cry on - none of this would had happened! She is just my Leo bitch I love and apparently she loves me still because we had just had warmest convo last night and
life goes on!
Don't sweat small stuff! Focus on bigger picture! Never mind drunk texts or calls.
It's all crap that doesn't break your neck'
Posted by SofiaV87In my experience, it has been..especially regarding sexual attraction.Posted by AdreamuponwakingYes, I've learned that everything that is said by a drunk person isn't all factual.... it's really mixed & just dependsPosted by SofiaV87True some people use it as an excuse to reveal their real feelings in a more "safe way" so that people like the op can possibly discredit those feelings if in fact, they don't reciprocate.
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
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Alcohol doesn't make attraction and or feelings magically appear that weren't already there in the first place.
People just suppress them.
I did an experiment with myself to confirm this past December at the conclusion of a crazy weekend in which
I was hit on by a friend of mine at the time (Fri), and my ex and her current husband ( sun). Saturday I had witnessed my current crush at the time get semi-physical with multiple people ( some of whom she said she was not attracted to earlier ) at a Christmas party after flirting with me. She was really drunk. I was confused. I needed answers.
So the next day I got really drunk ( with my ex and her husband) to see what would happen.I turned down their offer for a threesome.lol
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by SofiaV87In my experience, it has been..especially regarding sexual attraction.Posted by AdreamuponwakingYes, I've learned that everything that is said by a drunk person isn't all factual.... it's really mixed & just dependsPosted by SofiaV87True some people use it as an excuse to reveal their real feelings in a more "safe way" so that people like the op can possibly discredit those feelings if in fact, they don't reciprocate.
I believe some of what ppl say when they are drunk is true, not all
Alcohol doesn't make attraction and or feelings magically appear that weren't already there in the first place.
People just suppress them.
I did an experiment with myself to confirm this past December at the conclusion of a crazy weekend in which
I was hit on by a friend of mine at the time (Fri), and my ex and her current husband ( sun). Saturday I had witnessed my current crush at the time get semi-physical with multiple people ( some of whom she said she was not attracted to earlier ) at a Christmas party after flirting with me. She was really drunk. I was confused. I needed answers.
So the next day I got really drunk ( with my ex and her husband) to see what would happen.I turned down their offer for a threesome.lol
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Exactly lol
Posted by xXxQueenliciaXxX
I used to believe that a drunk mouth speaks a sober mind, until I was in that position myself and I said some crazy things that in no way were true.
If the person is blackout wasted or really really drunk, that's the realm of drunkness where the person just becomes belligerent and there's a high probability that they're just talking out of their ass and don't mean a word of what they're saying.
—
Trust me, it happens. I'm pretty sure I'm not an Asian woman by day and a crime fighter by night.
Yeah, I actually said that.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingIs that a good thing or a bad thing?? He literally begged to come over to my place tonight, after knowing I had other options than hanging out with him during the day and didn't text him once or initiate conversation. But I didn't want to hang out at night either because I was tired and that's booty call hours. He's never once tried to have sex when we dated before, but I know he really wants it. Am I just a challenge or does he like me? I asked him straight up tonight. Do you like me for more than my body? He said yeah. That's it. He's a cap though- feelings don't come easy.Posted by pinkbird03He's chasing you because you remain to be a challenge.Posted by PalerioPosted by pinkbird03Has he told you directly he doesn't want commitment or it's just something you're assuming? Are his actions contradicting his words? Because from a guy's standpoint, when one's good-looking and only wants sex, it's not that complex to just go to a bar, pick up a random stranger and have it the very same day.Posted by PalerioWe've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.Posted by pinkbird03It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.Posted by PalerioWhat kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
Same for attractive women, unless they are passive-aggressive types that love attention, it's hard to imagine them investing a month of their life dating a guy towards whom they have no genuine interest. They normally just say bye.
Oh hes got a casual friend that he's known for years and hooks up with when he's single. He doesn't need me. He just wants me. But like I said, he knows I won't unless we're exclusive. That's why I am surprised at his drunk texts for literally 3 hours non-stop while he was with his friends. A lot of sweet talk.. We also did talk in the morning when he was sober. But that was more of a how are you, catch up on life type of conversation. I know... my situation is nuts. I'm also back on a dating site, which he knows. Oh and he said last week he wasn't sure what he wants. It sounded like he wants a serious relationship but he wants to have fun too. Well I'm not giving him both.
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Posted by pinkbird03Posted by AdreamuponwakingIs that a good thing or a bad thing?? He literally begged to come over to my place tonight, after knowing I had other options than hanging out with him during the day and didn't text him once or initiate conversation. But I didn't want to hang out at night either because I was tired and that's booty call hours. He's never once tried to have sex when we dated before, but I know he really wants it. Am I just a challenge or does he like me? I asked him straight up tonight. Do you like me for more than my body? He said yeah. That's it. He's a cap though- feelings don't come easy.Posted by pinkbird03He's chasing you because you remain to be a challenge.Posted by PalerioPosted by pinkbird03Has he told you directly he doesn't want commitment or it's just something you're assuming? Are his actions contradicting his words? Because from a guy's standpoint, when one's good-looking and only wants sex, it's not that complex to just go to a bar, pick up a random stranger and have it the very same day.Posted by PalerioWe've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.Posted by pinkbird03It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.Posted by PalerioWhat kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
Same for attractive women, unless they are passive-aggressive types that love attention, it's hard to imagine them investing a month of their life dating a guy towards whom they have no genuine interest. They normally just say bye.
Oh hes got a casual friend that he's known for years and hooks up with when he's single. He doesn't need me. He just wants me. But like I said, he knows I won't unless we're exclusive. That's why I am surprised at his drunk texts for literally 3 hours non-stop while he was with his friends. A lot of sweet talk.. We also did talk in the morning when he was sober. But that was more of a how are you, catch up on life type of conversation. I know... my situation is nuts. I'm also back on a dating site, which he knows. Oh and he said last week he wasn't sure what he wants. It sounded like he wants a serious relationship but he wants to have fun too. Well I'm not giving him both.
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He likes you because you remain a challenge.
I don't think that's a good base for relationships.imho
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI don't know. I'm on the fence with that one. I do fear that once he gets sex, he will be gone. But sometimes sex brings people together, especially if it's really good which is honestly what we are both expecting given certain circumstances. Besides, challenges make u feel like you are winning something to be proud of. But the aftermath is still risky. It's hard to know what he's really thinking about us.Posted by pinkbird03Posted by AdreamuponwakingIs that a good thing or a bad thing?? He literally begged to come over to my place tonight, after knowing I had other options than hanging out with him during the day and didn't text him once or initiate conversation. But I didn't want to hang out at night either because I was tired and that's booty call hours. He's never once tried to have sex when we dated before, but I know he really wants it. Am I just a challenge or does he like me? I asked him straight up tonight. Do you like me for more than my body? He said yeah. That's it. He's a cap though- feelings don't come easy.Posted by pinkbird03He's chasing you because you remain to be a challenge.Posted by PalerioPosted by pinkbird03Has he told you directly he doesn't want commitment or it's just something you're assuming? Are his actions contradicting his words? Because from a guy's standpoint, when one's good-looking and only wants sex, it's not that complex to just go to a bar, pick up a random stranger and have it the very same day.Posted by PalerioWe've only dated for a month. I want commitment, but he's not ready for that. He's a great looking guy who has had girls handed to him his whole life. I'm not throwing myself at him and will not sleep with him unless we are exclusive. That's why I walked away. It's only been a week though. He said he doesn't want me to give up on him. I'm torn. I've started talking to other guys and have plans to do things with them when the weather conditions are best for what we are planning. But it's hard because I like him the most. Ugh I hate dating.Posted by pinkbird03It depends on what the text said. The type of relationship you have with him. Last time you've spoke with him. Last you've seen him. The time he sent it.Take into account every variable you can think of and draw conclusions based on much their text differs from their normal way of behaving with you.Posted by PalerioWhat kind of truths? What kind of insight can you gain?
There's a lot of truth in drunk texts.
Ultimately just believe what you see. It makes no sense to read between the lines of a text that it's in your face already.
Same for attractive women, unless they are passive-aggressive types that love attention, it's hard to imagine them investing a month of their life dating a guy towards whom they have no genuine interest. They normally just say bye.
Oh hes got a casual friend that he's known for years and hooks up with when he's single. He doesn't need me. He just wants me. But like I said, he knows I won't unless we're exclusive. That's why I am surprised at his drunk texts for literally 3 hours non-stop while he was with his friends. A lot of sweet talk.. We also did talk in the morning when he was sober. But that was more of a how are you, catch up on life type of conversation. I know... my situation is nuts. I'm also back on a dating site, which he knows. Oh and he said last week he wasn't sure what he wants. It sounded like he wants a serious relationship but he wants to have fun too. Well I'm not giving him both.
He likes you because you remain a challenge.
I don't think that's a good base for relationships.imhoclick to expand
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