Why?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Ladyluck31 on Tuesday, May 9, 2017 and has 11 replies.

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@Pisces_Daydreamer
9 Years

isn't it that they give you all the lovey dovey stuff which makes you think they are falling in love..... when in reality, when they have achieved their initial challenge of catching you, they then withdraw because they have met their objective?!

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@LeoGurlz
12 Years

The same reason we as women are taught to give love. Nature. There are some men out there who love and express it easily.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Simple. Men in love don't withdraw. Young guys (or emotionally immature guys) might withdraw right before confessing their feelings if they are afraid to do so. Otherwise a guy who is withdrawing is looking for space. Whether or not he comes around is anyone's guess.

The real question is, is he actually in love with you?

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Ladyluck31

When do some men emotionally withdrawal when falling in love

They don't.

It just seems that way to you, and all women because the female believes that just because she is in love that he automatically is suppose to, and act like it.

When these men are withdrawing, it's because they are NOT in love with you, but, you're acting like they do because you're too involved with your own feelings to recognize it's all just you being thirsty.

Just even threads like this, proves the point .... look at how many women are clueless, and can't comprehend the reality of that men aren't helpless to your feelings, like you are.