Ex won't leave me alone..

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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?
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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?
Are you the dumper? How long were you dating? Scorpio's can be obsessive if they're being dumped.
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I have a Gemini who keeps doing that. Making up diff accounts even though I don’t add any of them... with guys like this you just need to keep on ignoring. Don’t ever ingage not even a little because they will think theres still some hope around. Crazzzyyy. And yea they don’t respect your new relationship at all it’s so sick to watch guys act like that. Like they didn’t already have their chance 😒 selfish.
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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?


Lol yes a Scorpio 😅😅

But I don't have social media anymore so he has no way to reach me.

He's a good person just toxic and persistent.
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Posted by Crabbystoner
My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?



I feel like they are like this yes. I just "dumped" my Scorp bf who never really was my bf. Lol. Well he was one of those fake commitmentphobes.
And now, judging by his texts, you would think we were married and I divorced him by text.

NOW he wants to say he loves me and blah blah blah.
The last time I left him for 6 months and he kept at it for the whole duration. Whining.

I dunno. I feel like breaking up with male Scorps makes them more obsessive.


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Men often do this when it's too late

Lol

Can't treat you well and then panic when It's over

Silly
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Posted by Crabbystoner
My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?
I wish! Lmao🤣🤣💦💦🤣
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Posted by Crabbystoner
My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?







I feel like they are like this yes. I just "dumped" my Scorp bf who never really was my bf. Lol. Well he was one of those fake commitmentphobes.


And now, judging by his texts, you would think we were married and I divorced him by text.





NOW he wants to say he loves me and blah blah blah.


The last time I left him for 6 months and he kept at it for the whole duration. Whining.





I dunno. I feel like breaking up with male Scorps makes them more obsessive.








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Men often do this when it's too late



Lol



Can't treat you well and then panic when It's over



Silly click to expand




He's shi...tting himself. Now all of a sudden he wants us to go out and to for me to meet his friends blah blah blah.

But yeah we both know it's too late this time. click to expand
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Yes my dear.....much much too late .... does he think you're a fool? 🙄

Well done you👍
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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?



Are you the dumper? How long were you dating? Scorpio's can be obsessive if they're being dumped. click to expand
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Yes and about 5-6 months . I know, I had to tell him I changed my number awhile back so he wouldnt text me anymore and it worked but then I see a message pop up on fb from another account he made :/
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
I have a Gemini who keeps doing that. Making up diff accounts even though I don’t add any of them... with guys like this you just need to keep on ignoring. Don’t ever ingage not even a little because they will think theres still some hope around. Crazzzyyy. And yea they don’t respect your new relationship at all it’s so sick to watch guys act like that. Like they didn’t already have their chance 😒 selfish.
I dated a gemini and 10/10 never would again. It was literal mental and emotional abuse, not all are the same but I know what you mean by crazy. Sorry you have to go through that.
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Posted by Crabbystoner
My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?



I feel like they are like this yes. I just "dumped" my Scorp bf who never really was my bf. Lol. Well he was one of those fake commitmentphobes.
And now, judging by his texts, you would think we were married and I divorced him by text.

NOW he wants to say he loves me and blah blah blah.
The last time I left him for 6 months and he kept at it for the whole duration. Whining.

I dunno. I feel like breaking up with male Scorps makes them more obsessive.


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He doesnt like that you arent paying him attention now. He thrived on it and now that its not happening, his hard to get commitmentphobe attitude is out the window. Scorpios like to usually act all hard but are soft af when it comes to love. My ex never really played hard to get though, he was clingy af and not afraid to show it.
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Posted by NelsonSacramento
So no chart we going solo with the sun
Many things also missing like how many time did the relationship last? The cause of breakup?

One won't easily guess why he still after you specially with sun alone.

Had to look up chart but rising is cap and moon is sag. Lasted 5-6 months maybe and i broke up with him because we were not as compatible as I initially thought. Also I tried breaking up a few times but with how he carried on it was hard so I finally got the balls to do so.
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Ghost him. Don’t answer any of his messages ever again. Avoid him everywhere.



You know it had never happened and never will don’t you? Lol click to expand
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Haha yeah so I only replied because I felt bad and thought maybe this time he will get it through his head...I told him to respect that I want him to leave me alone and he replied with he feels its been enough time and I told him I was the one who asked to be left alone so it really isnt up to him and he threw out "I will always be here for you and never turn away" near the end...so I am hoping by this time he realizes that me not reaching out to him means I dont wanna talk.
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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?











I feel like they are like this yes. I just "dumped" my Scorp bf who never really was my bf. Lol. Well he was one of those fake commitmentphobes.




And now, judging by his texts, you would think we were married and I divorced him by text.









NOW he wants to say he loves me and blah blah blah.




The last time I left him for 6 months and he kept at it for the whole duration. Whining.









I dunno. I feel like breaking up with male Scorps makes them more obsessive.














click to expand









Men often do this when it's too late







Lol







Can't treat you well and then panic when It's over







Silly click to expand










He's shi...tting himself. Now all of a sudden he wants us to go out and to for me to meet his friends blah blah blah.





But yeah we both know it's too late this time. click to expand





Yes my dear.....much much too late .... does he think you're a fool? 🙄



Well done you👍 click to expand



Thank you so much for your support ! Many bisous to you!!!
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Awwwww.....you are welcome darling....many bisous and hugs back at you 😘😘😘😘😘😘

Keep strong.....good things coming to you Lala 🌟❤️🌟
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So no chart we going solo with the sun





Many things also missing like how many time did the relationship last? The cause of breakup?











One won't easily guess why he still after you specially with sun alone.






Had to look up chart but rising is cap and moon is sag. Lasted 5-6 months maybe and i broke up with him because we were not as compatible as I initially thought. Also I tried breaking up a few times but with how he carried on it was hard so I finally got the balls to do so. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand


What made you change your mind that you weren't as compatible as you thought with him?
How did you try to break with him in those few times?
Did you say to him on what wasn't working out on your relationship before breaking up for good? click to expand
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At first everything was good and I had a lot of feelings for him but as time went on he started to get under my skin a lot which isnt normal in a relationship, especially with me because I never have felt that way in a relationship before. His driving scared me most of the time which would make me upset, I told him no to sex one time and he still kept trying and got in there, he seemed to not have much respect for others...like working at a store that he also had a side business for as well and trying to take one of the customers from the store, when the owner found out he told him he couldnt do anything involving his side business anymore which is understandable because the owner is paying rent and employing you and you try taking one of his customers then have an attitude about it ? I broke up with him, well tried to, by talking but every time he flipped out and started crying, making me feel guilty so I stayed until I was really unhappy and finally left for good. I did tell him how I felt about certain things but it didnt change. He had good qualities and bad like everyone else but I feel he deserves to be with someone who matches him and felt that was not me. What got me the most was when i told him we were done he said no we arent doing what you want.
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My scorp ex from over a year ago wont leave me be...he decided to go outta his way tonight and make another account since I blocked his main one. He said something along the lines of you can text me in case you dont want someone to read whats sent here...this pissed me off cause I am assuming he meant my current bf and clearly has no respect for my relationship. I have asked him numerous times to leave me alone and he always says he will but months later pops up outta nowhere...his behaviour seems obssessive...which is worrisome to me, especially since when I broke up with him, shortly after he tried forcing himself on me to get a kiss numerous times even though I didnt want to. Anyone else have this problem with scorps or any sign in general ?







I feel like they are like this yes. I just "dumped" my Scorp bf who never really was my bf. Lol. Well he was one of those fake commitmentphobes.


And now, judging by his texts, you would think we were married and I divorced him by text.





NOW he wants to say he loves me and blah blah blah.


The last time I left him for 6 months and he kept at it for the whole duration. Whining.





I dunno. I feel like breaking up with male Scorps makes them more obsessive.








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He doesnt like that you arent paying him attention now. He thrived on it and now that its not happening, his hard to get commitmentphobe attitude is out the window. Scorpios like to usually act all hard but are soft af when it comes to love. My ex never really played hard to get though, he was clingy af and not afraid to show it. click to expand


You're ABSOLUTELY right!

You're lucky.
I wish mine had been like yours from the get go.

Because now that means I have to find a new even better sex partner that gives me multiple orgasms in one session.


UGH

Tinder...here I come.

I still text him though. But everytime he asks to meet up I air him ir have an excuse. I don't know why he even bothers asking because he knows I won't see him anymore. I told him that I want a relationship. The other day, he had issues with his sick dad. I made the mistake of saying that Id be there if he needs me. Obviously, he "needed" me. But I came up with an excuse for not going.


Tinder sucks when you have too many matches. How am I supposed to choose who to date and bone if theyre all cute ?


Sorry for the rant ! I just feel sucky right now. click to expand
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I would cut off contact with him completely, that is the only way to fully get over someone, i know you wanna be there but was he there for you when you needed it ? Tinder is only for hookups these days so dont expect a serious relationship if thats what you want but shiiiit if you just wanna get wet then go for it lool. You will find a guy who is nice, doesnt play games and wants to make you hit the O multiple times. Just be patient girl 🙂 no worries, we all need to rant. if you lived near me I would set you up with him !!
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Get a restraining order. If he breaks it by contacting you, he goes to play bumper butts and I doubt he'd want that.

I was flirting back and forth with a dude like this yeeeears ago. We established nothing was going to happen but he started taking it way far acting like my bf and even messaging me telling me that he was broken hearted that I deleted his comment (a comment I didnt even see!) so I had to cut it off.
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Posted by confusedbiotch
Get a restraining order. If he breaks it by contacting you, he goes to play bumper butts and I doubt he'd want that.

I was flirting back and forth with a dude like this yeeeears ago. We established nothing was going to happen but he started taking it way far acting like my bf and even messaging me telling me that he was broken hearted that I deleted his comment (a comment I didnt even see!) so I had to cut it off.
If he contacts me one more time I will tell him if he doesnt leave me alone for good then he will be getting a restraining order...he may possibly be scared off by that and realise I am being 100% serious. Thats odd, usually its the girls who have that behaviour...
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Posted by confusedbiotch
Get a restraining order. If he breaks it by contacting you, he goes to play bumper butts and I doubt he'd want that.

I was flirting back and forth with a dude like this yeeeears ago. We established nothing was going to happen but he started taking it way far acting like my bf and even messaging me telling me that he was broken hearted that I deleted his comment (a comment I didnt even see!) so I had to cut it off.

If he contacts me one more time I will tell him if he doesnt leave me alone for good then he will be getting a restraining order...he may possibly be scared off by that and realise I am being 100% serious. Thats odd, usually its the girls who have that behaviour... click to expand
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Was just about to suggest taking action and you got there first👍

Be firm

Good luck 😉
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I have 2 exes that do this to me, 1 Scorpio and 1 Gemini, for some reason it doesn't seem to bother me much though. I just have fun with them being blunt and as rude as possible. I joke around a lot with them, it's entertaining for now, because I'm single.

I also recognize that I am currently doing this with an Aqua. He's never told me to leave him alone, but I usually stop contacting him and then will pop up out of no where and message him when I miss him. I don't go to the extreme of creating fake accounts but I am feeling quite stalkerish reading all these posts. :/