Dilemma99
@Dilemma99
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He broke up w/ his ex. Got with me. Got back w/her. They broke up and now he’s back w/ me?
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Posted by Dilemma99
So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is:
This man, who is in love with another woman...
- picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around)
- tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you")
- suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
And where did this myth that a man wouldn't take you to meet his friends "unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex" nonsense come from?
The gesture has as much value as your used plane ticket.
The gesture has as much value as your used plane ticket.
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:
Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
I see women talk about meeting the guys friends and family all the time thinking it really means he's going to make her the one and in some cases this is true. The majority of the time it's not, you're just tagging along and it end up with his friends or dropping by his families homes. My brothers would bring home practically every girl they dated to something that was going on in our home. Some I never saw again.
You are the master of your own demise.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.click to expand
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99
So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is:
This man, who is in love with another woman...
- picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around)
- tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you")
- suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.click to expand
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99
So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is:
This man, who is in love with another woman...
- picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around)
- tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you")
- suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?click to expand
He likes how easy you are to do what he wants when it suits him.
If it’s not you, it can be someone else.
Who the warm body is, is irrelevant.
You’re convenient.
Don’t ever try and date someone that is recently single.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Dilemma99Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99
So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is:
This man, who is in love with another woman...
- picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around)
- tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you")
- suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?
He likes how easy you are to do what he wants when it suits him.
If it’s not you, it can be someone else.
Who the warm body is, is irrelevant.
You’re convenient.
Don’t ever try and date someone that is recently single.click to expand
I broke up with my ex and met someone a month later and we dated for a year. Not everyone needs time.
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...click to expand
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?click to expand
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Posted by Maxian
He's just using you as a rebound or in between rebound (if that's a thing).
Leave the little man and let him figure his shite out on his own.
What’s an in between rebound? Plus, can’t you have feelings for your rebound? I’ve know some people who have ended up with their rebounds.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.click to expand
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*click to expand
I’m not a troll.
Here’s a screenshot of my cousin’s text to me. My cousin and the ex are all in a group chat together and she sent me a screenshot of their group text where the ex mentions him texting her.
https://imgur.com/a/UDTLSvT
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*
I’m not a troll.
Here’s a screenshot of my cousin’s text to me. My cousin and the ex are all in a group chat together and she sent me a screenshot of their group text where the ex mentions him texting her.
https://imgur.com/a/UDTLSvT<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Why are you so obsessed over a guy who clearly hasn't let the other chick go. What is mentally wrong with you? Is it that hard for you to go find a less shitty guy out there?
Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*
I’m not a troll.
Here’s a screenshot of my cousin’s text to me. My cousin and the ex are all in a group chat together and she sent me a screenshot of their group text where the ex mentions him texting her.
https://imgur.com/a/UDTLSvT
Why are you so obsessed over a guy who clearly hasn't let the other chick go. What is mentally wrong with you? Is it that hard for you to go find a less shitty guy out there?click to expand
Why are you saying he clearly hasn’t let her go? Genuinely asking, why would he be spending a whole week with me so soon if he hasn’t let her go?
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*
I’m not a troll.
Here’s a screenshot of my cousin’s text to me. My cousin and the ex are all in a group chat together and she sent me a screenshot of their group text where the ex mentions him texting her.
https://imgur.com/a/UDTLSvT
Why are you so obsessed over a guy who clearly hasn't let the other chick go. What is mentally wrong with you? Is it that hard for you to go find a less shitty guy out there?
Why are you saying he clearly hasn’t let her go? Genuinely asking, why would he be spending a whole week with me so soon if he hasn’t let her go?
Why would he not? He’s already told you that you guys are just friends. He gets to have FWB while he still has feelings for his ex.click to expand
I just didn’t think a man would spend so many days with a woman he didn’t like. I have a hard time even spending one evening with a guy that I’m not interested in.
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Dilemma99Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwiPosted by Dilemma99Posted by SassyKiwi
Lol this 22 year old chick be constantly flying out to a shitty guy to be his booty call? What is your sign? Girl you can get laid without investing a single dime to better guys but clearly that is beyond you 🤣
I’m a Virgo. He’s a Leo and his ex is a Leo too...
So you are ok with constantly flying to him as long as he is willing to have you around? Like what is your endgame here?
I just figured since he couldn’t wait to see me since I came out here only a few weeks after their breakup and we’re spending so many days together so he likes me and wants more than casual.
Why do you talk in circles? You also joined today. *Pets troll*
I’m not a troll.
Here’s a screenshot of my cousin’s text to me. My cousin and the ex are all in a group chat together and she sent me a screenshot of their group text where the ex mentions him texting her.
https://imgur.com/a/UDTLSvT
Why are you so obsessed over a guy who clearly hasn't let the other chick go. What is mentally wrong with you? Is it that hard for you to go find a less shitty guy out there?
Why are you saying he clearly hasn’t let her go? Genuinely asking, why would he be spending a whole week with me so soon if he hasn’t let her go?
Why would he not? He’s already told you that you guys are just friends. He gets to have FWB while he still has feelings for his ex.
I just didn’t think a man would spend so many days with a woman he didn’t like. I have a hard time even spending one evening with a guy that I’m not interested in.
A man doesn’t have to like you romantically to be able to spend time with you.
It just means he doesn’t dislike you, or he’s only in it for the sex.click to expand
So he doesn’t dislike me...wouldn’t that mean he likes me then?
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?click to expand
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.click to expand
I’m not happy to be a doormat. When he added me back a day after their breakup and saw me only a few weeks later I figured he realized he actually wanted to be with me so I didn’t/don’t view myself as a doormat since I thought he was choosing me to be with.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
I’m not happy to be a doormat. When he added me back a day after their breakup and saw me only a few weeks later I figured he realized he actually wanted to be with me so I didn’t/don’t view myself as a doormat since I thought he was choosing me to be with.click to expand
Thirsty Leos never truly cut someone off if it doesn't suit their egotistical purposes. You're not his final choice, you're just his choice for now until you cramp his style and/or he decides otherwise. Which won't be long now...
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
I’m not happy to be a doormat. When he added me back a day after their breakup and saw me only a few weeks later I figured he realized he actually wanted to be with me so I didn’t/don’t view myself as a doormat since I thought he was choosing me to be with.
Thirsty Leos never truly cut someone off if it doesn't suit their egotistical purposes. You're not his final choice, you're just his choice for now until you cramp his style and/or he decides otherwise. Which won't be long now...click to expand
Then how do you know when you’re the final choice?
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.click to expand
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?
Posted by xiongmaoPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?
You’re the person that he turns to, so he feels good about himself again after his break ups with his ex.click to expand
So by that logic isn’t he using his ex too?
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?click to expand
He's using you to make himself feel better and not be alone. You're his spare part. She is his first choice.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by PhoenixRising
...He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?click to expand
You seem to only want to absorb the information that fits the narrative in your head. The mere fact that you highlighted that statement and ignored everything written after that says a lot. That's fine. This is your road to walk.
Yes, I am sure he likes you because of the standards you have set for yourself, which aren't very high.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99Posted by PhoenixRising
...He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?
You seem to only want to absorb the information that fits the narrative in your head. The mere fact that you highlighted that statement and ignored everything written after that says a lot. That's fine. This is your road to walk.
Yes, I am sure he likes you because of the standards you have set for yourself, which aren't very high.click to expand
I'm fairly sure she's a Pisces mooner. There's no other explanation.
Posted by Dilemma99
Why are you saying he clearly hasn’t let her go? Genuinely asking, why would he be spending a whole week with me so soon if he hasn’t let her go?
There is no way you are 22 years old and this naive. Did the Wizard raise the age limit to join this site? 'Cause you must be lying.....
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Dilemma99Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99
So this guy (30/m) I’m (22/f) seeing just broke up with his ex recently. He wanted to marry her but it didn’t work out. He met me, we hooked up, and spent a week together when I flew out to see him. 2 days later he sends me a text saying he’s working things out with his ex, that we’re just friends, and to take this picture I had added on social media down (from the week we spent together), then he unfollowed me and I saw that he added his ex back. Fast forward 2 weeks later he added me back on social media and saw that he and the ex unfollowed each other. He told me that broke up again the night before. Anyways, I flew back out to see him 3 weeks after they broke up again
....So my question is, has this Leo man developed feelings for me/like me? I just don’t think a Leo man will spend days with you (I’m out here for a week) and have you meet his friends unless he has feelings for you and it’s not about sex.
Did you even read what you just wrote before hitting "post message"?
To summarize, because the rest is really just filler to make this scenario sound nicer than it actually is:
This man, who is in love with another woman...
- picks you up, just to put you back on the shelf where he thinks you belong, picks you up again---all on your dime (because you're the one flying out to see him, not the other way around)
- tells you to take down a photo of the two of you spending time together (basically saying "I don't want there to be any evidence I spent time with you")
- suggest you stay friends and promotes the idea that you meet other men...
And you think because he let you tag along with the homies one day, that this means more?
He is sending you a very clear message that you're not quite following. Both through his actions and his words. All that stuff your cousin told you/sent in screenshots, is just noise to cloud the very simple fact that if he wanted to be with you, there wouldn't be much confusion on your part. I am not sure how someone (especially a fixed sign at that) that is hoping, begging and pleading with another woman to stay with him can genuinely have feelings for anyone else within weeks of his relationship ending.
No, I don't think this is just about sex. It's about the fact that he thinks you're disposable and convenient.
So if it’s not just about sex that means it’s more than that? He likes me?
He likes how easy you are to do what he wants when it suits him.
If it’s not you, it can be someone else.
Who the warm body is, is irrelevant.
You’re convenient.
Don’t ever try and date someone that is recently single.
I broke up with my ex and met someone a month later and we dated for a year. Not everyone needs time.click to expand
You aren’t the best example. You clearly can’t handle being alone, and judging by how unaware and needy you seem, I would never look to you as a stable source of healthy relationship experience.
At 22, you come across as someone that will take any crumbs as long as you aren’t alone.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?click to expand
His ex has all the power. You get him when she decides.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?
His ex has all the power. You get him when she decides.click to expand
Hmmm interesting.
I think this Leo would’ve broken up with her/was in the process of breaking up with her though. He got upset when he found out that she was seeing someone else while they were broken up. He told her he was unsure about being with her because of that and she called him a hypocrite and said she deserved better then broke up with him. He begged her “not to do this” and to just stay and have dinner with him but she still dipped.
So if he was unsure about her, aka didn’t really want to be with her, how does she have the power and I’ll get him when she decides?
Posted by MaxianPosted by PhoenixRising
There is no way you are 22 years old and this naive. Did the Wizard raise the age limit to join this site? 'Cause you must be lying.....
I know women in their 30s who are this naive. Sheltered or live in a society where having a side chick is quite normal.click to expand
Normalizing the idea of being a side chick is one thing, and isn't isolated to age or new, fair point. However, she is choosing when and where to apply logic to this dynamic.
Based on what she's going back and forth on, she's good and doesn't need anything more from anyone in this thread speaking on it. Clearly.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Dilemma99Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
As soon as I read the title I was like "he's a Leo, isn't he?"
And I skipped to the end and saw:Posted by Dilemma99
has this Leo man
Oh man...
Basically, he's too much of a pussy to be on his own and he's using you as his backup plan whenever stuff doesn't work out with the other hoe.
And you allow him to use you, so of course he will use you.
How did you know he’s a Leo?
Because they're very predictable in that way, and very greedy, just like MY Leo ex. My ex wanted both me and his ex - I'm a man and his ex is a woman. While I was around, I was supposedly his first choice. But he never truly cut her loose, always gave her small openings to weasel herself through, more than once.
Even though he knew full well how much it bothered me, and knew I had major trust issues stemming from my previous ex. But he didn't give a shit. His dick was more important than me or her.
They'll hold onto anyone they like enough, anyone who kisses their ass. Once I fully realized and accepted the reality of our situation, I threw him in the trash. But it's been a year and he's still trying to get close to me, even used my recently departed mother as an excuse to squirm his way back into my life.
BUT, unlike you, I respect myself too much to allow him to use me like that. Whereas you're clearly happy to be a doormat. More power to ya.
@xiongmao he's in it for the ego boost. He has at least one side-piece willing to drop everything and fly around just to be around him. And when he's had his fill, he puts her on the shelf to be used later, and goes back to the other one. Rinse & repeat.
So how does he use me and then go back to his ex when SHES the one who was ignoring him and then deciding to breaking up with him again?
His ex has all the power. You get him when she decides.
Hmmm interesting.
I think this Leo would’ve broken up with her/was in the process of breaking up with her though. He got upset when he found out that she was seeing someone else while they were broken up. He told her he was unsure about being with her because of that and she called him a hypocrite and said she deserved better then broke up with him. He begged her “not to do this” and to just stay and have dinner with him but she still dipped.
So if he was unsure about her, aka didn’t really want to be with her, how does she have the power and I’ll get him when she decides?click to expand
He’s got unfinished business. He’s to her like you are to him. He he was upset about her seeing someone else while broken up, then he still wants her. He’s telling u a sob story to keep you around and it works.
Posted by blackphvse
Your mistake was so easily going back to him after he broke up with his ex the second time. I didn't even read passed that, you can't redeem yourself. He sees you as an easy hook up.
So he’ll never like me in a romantic way?
Posted by blackphvsePosted by Dilemma99Posted by blackphvse
Your mistake was so easily going back to him after he broke up with his ex the second time. I didn't even read passed that, you can't redeem yourself. He sees you as an easy hook up.
So he’ll never like me in a romantic way?
I'm not saying he doesn't or won't. I just think it's too late to make him see you as something other than an easy catch, cause he knows that now. Like he can see that he could walk away from you and you'd still be there if he wanted to come back.. I just think he'll treat you like a doormat.click to expand
Please don’t give her false hope. His actions and words, plus him being desperately still in love with his ex means he doesn’t like her. He doesn’t and never will have feelings for her.
I’m sure @phoenixrising would agree. She seems to have a pretty good read on people.
he is a yo-yo not a man
this is going to be a terrible question OP but I’ve got to know...
Are you not attractive OP? The reason why I ask is because you’re carrying yourself as if you’re not. Or are you attractive and you think the ex looks better than you and in turn this makes you insecure so you think you’ve “won” by getting him (you didn’t btw)? Or his is ex a troll? I’m just trying to figure out why you’re doing this.
Are you not attractive OP? The reason why I ask is because you’re carrying yourself as if you’re not. Or are you attractive and you think the ex looks better than you and in turn this makes you insecure so you think you’ve “won” by getting him (you didn’t btw)? Or his is ex a troll? I’m just trying to figure out why you’re doing this.
Posted by Dilemma99Posted by Fly_Five
this is going to be a terrible question OP but I’ve got to know...
Are you not attractive OP? The reason why I ask is because you’re carrying yourself as if you’re not. Or are you attractive and you think the ex looks better than you and in turn this makes you insecure so you think you’ve “won” by getting him (you didn’t btw)? Or his is ex a troll? I’m just trying to figure out why you’re doing this.
how attractive am I compared to his ex? Well we’re both petite and have curly hair so we’re similar in features.Personally I don’t think she’s that attractive, she’s his age so she looks much older IMO, and I have a more natural look. Here are some pics of both of us. I tried to show us done up, body, face, etc. for a fair comparisonclick to expand
Hmph. She's actually a very beautiful woman, so I am not sure what you are seeing (e.g. "I don't think she's that attractive") Lol, like really?
I see the similarities between you, so I get why he's dipping back and forth now. Both beautiful women that can attract better energy if you choose.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Dilemma99Posted by Fly_Five
this is going to be a terrible question OP but I’ve got to know...
Are you not attractive OP? The reason why I ask is because you’re carrying yourself as if you’re not. Or are you attractive and you think the ex looks better than you and in turn this makes you insecure so you think you’ve “won” by getting him (you didn’t btw)? Or his is ex a troll? I’m just trying to figure out why you’re doing this.
how attractive am I compared to his ex? Well we’re both petite and have curly hair so we’re similar in features.Personally I don’t think she’s that attractive, she’s his age so she looks much older IMO, and I have a more natural look. Here are some pics of both of us. I tried to show us done up, body, face, etc. for a fair comparison
Me:
Her:
her:
Hmph. She's actually a very beautiful woman, so I am not sure what you are seeing (e.g. "I don't think she's that attractive") Lol, like really?
I see the similarities between you, so I get why he's dipping back and forth now. Both beautiful woman that can attract better energy if you choose.click to expand
So you think he’s dipping back and forth because he thinks I’m beautiful?
She’s hot af.
No wonder he wanted to marry her. Classy. Love her hair.
No wonder he wanted to marry her. Classy. Love her hair.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Normalizing the idea of being a side chick is one thing, and isn't isolated to age or new.... However, she is choosing when and where to apply logic to this dynamic.
A woman in her 30s is better in bed than a woman in her 20s. That’s a real woman that knows what she wants and how to get it. She’s totally in control of his dick.
Posted by MaxianPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by PhoenixRising
Normalizing the idea of being a side chick is one thing, and isn't isolated to age or new.... However, she is choosing when and where to apply logic to this dynamic.
After she showed the pics I'm damn sure OP lives in Lalaland.click to expand
How am I living in Lala land? You can be brutally honest.
Posted by MaxianPosted by Dilemma99Posted by MaxianPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by PhoenixRising
Normalizing the idea of being a side chick is one thing, and isn't isolated to age or new.... However, she is choosing when and where to apply logic to this dynamic.
After she showed the pics I'm damn sure OP lives in Lalaland.
How am I living in Lala land? You can be brutally honest.
Girl, with all respect. Stop chasing a man who wants someone else to be his wife. This Leo wants you because you're there and probably because he can't be alone either.
All people in this thread have already been brutally honest for 5 pages long.
Close your legs cause he ain't yours!click to expand
If he wanted her to be his wife then why did he tell her he was unsure if he wanted to be her? That’s the confusing part.
Posted by blackphvse
Why do you want him? He's juggling two women back and forth. Even if he did leave her for good and pick you, you could NEVER trust him since he's the type of guy to do this. That's the honest truth, Open your eyes and save yourself some heartache while ya still can. You'd never be happy with this man, find someone who wants you and only you.
I don’t think it’s accurate to say he’s juggling two women. Both he and the ex saw other women during their breakup. The only reason why he’s talking to OP is because his ex dumped him and he’s hurt about finding out about the other guy so he went back to OP because a) she’s a sure bet because she’s proven to be a doormat (sorry OP) b) to make his ex jealous.
If the ex didn’t dump him or he wasn’t so upset about his ex seeing another man OP wouldn’t be in the picture at all. She’s only here because he’s hurt and things didn’t work out in his favor, not because he’s trying to have his cake and it eat too.
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