ninjamu
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his no-title girl & his undeclared feelings
i could very well be wrong but in my opinion, because of what she wrote on fb, i think he might be feeling like inadequate. his ego has been bruised, it probably has nothing to do with how much he likes her as it is how much he likes the idea of being better than the bf. and now that he knows he's not he probably would rather mess around with another girl who will make him feel like more of the "number one" guy. thats just my 2 cents
thx for the input, CG!
i said something along those lines. i find it interesting that he would still get involved if he knew he couldn't handle it. i almost get the feeling that he didn't want to. my take is that he only went for it to prove that he was more worthy in hopes that she'd choose him over her bf.
i said something along those lines. i find it interesting that he would still get involved if he knew he couldn't handle it. i almost get the feeling that he didn't want to. my take is that he only went for it to prove that he was more worthy in hopes that she'd choose him over her bf.
i think you might be right about the more wanting to prove he was more worthy. in his mind it might of been a nice conquest, but he lost so now he's off for new game.
I think it is a combination. He likes her way more than he was willing to admit and now his ego is hurt. The old one two punch of why dating sucks so much.
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thx for the input, CG!
i said something along those lines. i find it interesting that he would still get involved if he knew he couldn't handle it. i almost get the feeling that he didn't want to. my take is that he only went for it to prove that he was more worthy in hopes that she'd choose him over her bf.
Oh for sure! Men do weird things from time to time. He will probably moon over her for years. Because of the one-two punch above.
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