@Gemitati
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How to suspect infidelity 'correct' way?
How to Detect Infidelity Respectfully and Accurately
Trust your intuition and observe consistent behavioral changes rather than invasive checks. Open communication can help clarify doubts without damaging the relationship. Focus on building trust and understanding rather than suspicion. Seeking advice from a relationship counselor may also provide clarity and peace of mind.
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
Install a tracking device on phone or car.
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I would. But society frawn upon that!
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lol
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
Install a tracking device on phone or car.
I would. But society frawn upon that!
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lol
Lol you a tracker and stay calm and act stupid lol
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It's wrong by everyone I've ever read from.
You must do nothing they say and keep trusting even if he moves out! Lol
If you follow him to see where he went - it's breaking of trust and you shouldn't have! Maybe his friends mother sick and he is sitting for her...lol
Or laying on her warming her up...lol
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
Install a tracking device on phone or car.
I would. But society frawn upon that!
This is why I am asking 'correct' way?
Everyone basically suggesting suspicion is the end of everything! I disagree!
You find out you wrong - cry with happiness and suspect no more! Lol
society— you mean dxp LOL
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Not nessesarily. Everywhere people saying the same thing. You mustn't suspect your partner or divorce!
What—
Posted by juliette
hire a private investigator.
And break the trust? Nooooo
Don't you all read what I wrote?
Posted by oknoobs
and fuck his dad
So you were trolling?
Posted by oknoobs
and fuck his dadand mom
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Depends if she is pretty? Or anyway? Lol
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
Lol if you are with your partner for a very long time and you start suspecting infidelity trust your instincts I guaranty you it's 10000000% correct.
Agree. However not nessesarily cheating but might just lost it for you and bored.
Not everyone who would like to cheat - able to.
My friends husband offered himself to a whole bunch of women but he is so butt ugly and has such slimy and disquisting personality - she is so lucky or he would be somewhere else a long time ago!
It's the first time I've seen man who wants to get laid so badly and can't! We are laughing for years!
He even started to get manicure and ladies telling how he brings candy and flowers and hitting on them! And he rips well too! And everyone tells another one when he is asking for a date!
Also at stores. He is a big shopper! Lol
The cheater is trying to get tips on how to be less obvious. Lawl
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?
I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?now you are really nitpicking.
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Hydorah just loves my cheating threads and missing it! Lol
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?now you are really nitpicking.
Hydorah just loves my cheating threads and missing it! Lol
i was actually being sarcastic.
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I know 🙂
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
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well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
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It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
Install a tracking device on phone or car.
That's real creepy ?
lol it's a special advise tailored for gemitati
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What's creepy? Tracking device to catch someone cheating? Why creepy?
What's your suggestion? Probably none...
And advice tailored for me - shove it!
I don't have time for devices.
I am hardly on time for my stuff! I am not 25 anymore...it's not that easy! Lol
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
This is Irony.
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
you're doing it for years, if anything you should give tips, not asking for one lol
about decent way, well maybe ask the so about it. but in a very calm way. if the truth is only you need. offer a solution, divorce, separation and make room that you are just being paranoid. if you are still suspecting, then private investigator it is.
idk, i haven't been actually in a situation.
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I wasn't asking an advise!!!
I read another thread and it popped in my head as a long time question no one ever answered!
So you always post about you only?
It's really posing me off...
I said private investigator by popular opinion is not 'cool'...
Posted by LadyNeptune
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.
It's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
you're doing it for years, if anything you should give tips, not asking for one lol
about decent way, well maybe ask the so about it. but in a very calm way. if the truth is only you need. offer a solution, divorce, separation and make room that you are just being paranoid. if you are still suspecting, then private investigator it is.
idk, i haven't been actually in a situation.
I wasn't asking an advise!!!
I read another thread and it popped in my head as a long time question no one ever answered!
So you always post about you only?
It's really posing me off...
I said private investigator by popular opinion is not 'cool'...
i was telling exactly the same thing 😄 you were inspired with mobile cell phones thread.
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So you just copy/pasting?
Posted by leowww
Ask your husband?
Ask my husband what?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
Posted by LadyNeptune
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.It's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
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what do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.It's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
what do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.
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It's still considered snooping
Posted by leowww
Ask your husband?Ask my husband what?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
If he suspects infidelity?
Your husband could know.... No?
What urge, you started a thread on infidelity and you can't stop talking about cheating on your husband, Wtf do you expect?
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That's what you want to see!
And yes he suspecting...so?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.It's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
what do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.
It's still considered snooping
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who is snooping? what are you babbling about?
Posted by Gemitati
I've been fighting this batal forever.If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?
Are these answers for you?
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Where would I have time for that—
And I am not suspecting.
And if I was I would hire investigator and go trough the phone and pockets and ask daily! You know - I don't follow rules.
I think if you suspect - you allowed to take every measure to find out.
Others have an opinion that you can't!
So my question - do you just keep quiet and wait and suffer in silence? No way!
Posted by leowww
Ask your husband?Ask my husband what?
I love this 'just feeling urge to type' posts...
If he suspects infidelity?
Your husband could know.... No?
What urge, you started a thread on infidelity and you can't stop talking about cheating on your husband, Wtf do you expect?
That's what you want to see!
And yes he suspecting...so?
So ask him 🙂
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I know the answer! And you just got it and you keep saying same crap!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Ok I'll throw you a bone. Burner phones are your friend.It's snooping!!! And it's no no by popular opinion.
what do you mean snooping. burner phones don't leave a trace.
It's still considered snooping
who is snooping? what are you babbling about?
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I just have no idea about those phones!
I am just thinking you somehow get him that kind of phone so you can see his every call? No?
Posted by yupvirgoo
It's stupid, isn't it?People say that checking SO's phone, emails or social media means you don't trust your partner and therefore why even be in a relationship with them?
BUT
When they're apparently cheating, people blame you for "not seeing the signs?"
I've been married for 17 years now and we have known each other 3 years longer than that but I still look through her phone and she has access to mine as well. If there's nothing to hide, why the fvck should this be an issue? We're more curious rather than suspicious of each other, really. Plus, it satisfies our moon in the 8th house.
Thank you!
Exactly!
And you are the only one came up with a thing I am thinking but people are just don't get it!
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
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"Aflow"?
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
"Aflow"?
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
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So you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!
I am against looking through people's phones. People need to have their private life , and if they want to cheat they'll just use another phone anyway.
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
"Aflow"?
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
So you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!
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Szory?
You are Tatiana Szory ?
Posted by hydorah
I don't understand this thread, aren't you the one who's cheating?I don't have to post about me all the time have I?
Can't I just talk about things in general—
About you for an example...
If I post thread Hello Hydorah! Would you ask me if I am cheating? What ta strange brain work!!!
well i would assume you're talking about hydorah, and not saying hello to everybody in general.
In your first post, it looks like you were asking for yourself, why do you need to know the details?
this is cold war secrets, you won't get intel that easy
It seemed I was asking for myself?
Stop assuming and just go with a flow...
"Aflow"?
Miroslav aflow, the bulgarian spy?
I thought he had been killed in 1979?
So you don't see spaces huh? I am sorry!
Szory?
You are Tatiana Szory ?
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I seriously thought you are smart(ER)!
What a disappointment! Well...
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.
Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
Posted by Crabra
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
What's drone?
Posted by Crabra
Recent Tosh.0 episode showed a guy catching his cheating wh0re wife with a drone. Was equally sad and hilarious, and admittedly pretty damn brilliant.Thing is if you have to go to such extremes and/or mistrust so much, there is no point staying in the relationship regardless if they are cheating or not.
What's drone?
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I've been fighting this batal forever.
If you suspect your partner is cheating but you could be wrong - how do you get peace of mind established?
Checking phones -Nono!
Emails - Nono!
Pockets - god forbid!
So people sometimes hear stories that triggering jealousy and suspicion.
At some times they just think it might be that partner is cheating but they tired or worries and acting strange.
And of course question 'so you have someone else' will never produce answer 'yes' in both cases!
So what is suspicious partner correct tactic should be?
I don't think snooping is the relationship breaker. You've got your answer - life goes on!
You still suspicious - continue investigation until you get that peace of mind! How else?