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Men don't divorce...
Understanding Divorce Initiation and Gender Roles
Research shows women initiate about half of divorces, often due to emotional or relational issues rather than wealth. Men may not divorce as frequently, but factors like dissatisfaction or conflict influence decisions across genders. Recognizing these patterns helps clarify the dynamics behind divorce rates.
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
Only? i thought women initiate almost all divorces 😄
Posted by Cheeseburger
Cocaine is a helluva drug.
I am glad you know. Try sex instead.
Thanks I am LMAO!!!
Posted by Cheeseburger
Cocaine is a helluva drug.I am glad you know. Try sex instead.
Thanks I am LMAO!!!
What, are you two years old or did someone skull fuck you dumb?
You asked the dumbest question in the most retarded way, hence, my comment.
But, no worries. It's my bad. I should've known that you wouldn't get the joke.
Good luck beating your stats.
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No! I got your joke and send you one in return. But you didn't get that which is fine.
But with that pic I am still laughing and sending to my friends! Lol
Posted by DivaCanLeo
they just cheat.
Yes it is easier and not so scary for them as divorce .. although ultimately it costs them ... they nearly always get caught
Posted by DivaCanLeo
they just cheat.Yes it is easier and not so scary for them as divorce .. although ultimately it costs them ... they nearly always get caught
exactly, they're just much more messy. Why women probably divorce them. They don't help with kids, they cheat, etc etc etc
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Yes and it's kind of cowardly, the sneaking around....silly buggers lol
Why do two people get divorced? Truly it comes down to failure to compromise.
Posted by BubbleLeaf
Why do two people get divorced? Truly it comes down to failure to compromise.
I am just trying to make a point that men apparently do divorce!
Posted by BubbleLeaf
Why do two people get divorced? Truly it comes down to failure to compromise.I am just trying to make a point that men apparently do divorce!
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Men have feelings too
Anyone pushed too far will ask for divorce..
I don't know if you are married or not, just curious..
Why would you ever divorce a man?
Posted by BubbleLeaf
Why do two people get divorced? Truly it comes down to failure to compromise.I am just trying to make a point that men apparently do divorce!
Men have feelings too
Anyone pushed too far will ask for divorce..
I don't know if you are married or not, just curious..
Why would you ever divorce a man?
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I am married for 23 years.
I would divorce him for tons of reasons but he isn't nasty or anusibe so I keep him, feed him, just like a sibling.
I would divorce if I fell in love for someone else (if he ask me to be together).
I am also very irritated by nagging with age. Nagging is very hard to bypass.
Posted by tiziani
Nagging is the worst. There is no reason to nag. Why don't they teach us this is schools? At an early age where it can set in.
??
Posted by tiziani
Nagging is the worst. There is no reason to nag. Why don't they teach us this in schools? At an early age where it can set in.I'm dying
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Wave starwars, wave...am I too late?
I hope so...LOL
Joke. You k now I love you...in some places...
Posted by tiziani
Nagging is the worst. There is no reason to nag. Why don't they teach us this is schools? At an early age where it can set in.
May I suspect you had been victim of nagging?
Your post seem so...alive and heartfelt...
Posted by tiziani
Nagging is the worst. There is no reason to nag. Why don't they teach us this in schools? At an early age where it can set in.I'm dying
Wave starwars, wave...am I too late?
I hope so...LOL
Joke. You k now I love you...in some places...
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Can I touch your corner? Left or right? Lower or higher?
50% of women with children initiate divorce
19% of women without children initiate divorce
31% of all men initiate divorce
Are you playing statistical games with us to make it look like divorce is 50-50 ?
Posted by rabidtalker
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/women-more-likely-than-men-to-initiate-divorces-but-not-breakups-study-finds_us_55d61f03e4b0ab468da049bb50% of women with children initiate divorce
19% of women without children initiate divorce
31% of all men initiate divorce
Are you playing statistical games with us to make it look like divorce is 50-50 ?
No games!
Here everyone saying that men don't leave families.
Like at ALL! 3% at most.
So 31% ? so I am golden! Thanks...
A statistic is nothing without context.
Posted by LillyPetal
A statistic is nothing without context.
What do you mean?
Posted by LillyPetal
A statistic is nothing without context.What do you mean?
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Statistics can be taken out of context. For example, if I say "50% of people say they hate bunnies" it doesn't mean much if I only surveyed 6 people. It also doesn't mean much if I surveyed people who are of a religion that requires them to hate bunnies or who are of a culture where they are raised to hate bunnies or if they are in a bunnie-hating society. You know what I mean?
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
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My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
Posted by LillyPetal
A statistic is nothing without context.What do you mean?
Statistics can be taken out of context. For example, if I say "50% of people say they hate bunnies" it doesn't mean much if I only surveyed 6 people. It also doesn't mean much if I surveyed people who are of a religion that requires them to hate bunnies or who are of a culture where they are raised to hate bunnies or if they are in a bunnie-hating society. You know what I mean?
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Well here we are dealing with cold census number of marriages vs divorces.
All population of USA.
No bunnies! Lol
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
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So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Posted by DonJohn
Just lol if u marry a modern sloot that's already been dicked 3 miles long.Recent study shows the vagina contains traces of DNA of every man that dicked them.
All cultures throught history was right. Chasity belts virgin brides et all. U can't make a ho the housewife.
Lol just lol @ the modern dating pool
Tjanks for this wonderful...whatever
Good bye
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
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It happens all the time.
Nothing really surprising here.
Are you doubting the info?
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
It happens all the time.
Nothing really surprising here.
Are you doubting the info?
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I couldn't understand the response so I asked if this was what it was meant to convey.
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
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Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
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Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
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Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
I'll keep a cheater for two reasons only:
1) If he's a good provider for my kids;and
2) if he's a good father to them.
If neither are there, he's worthless to me.
Posted by aquarius09
I'll keep a cheater for two reasons only:1) If he's a good provider for my kids;and
2) if he's a good father to them.
If neither are there, he's worthless to me.
So you will use chater if he keeps your satisfied financially!
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
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Was it englash?
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
Was it englash?
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Guess so. I thought what I wrote was in perfect English
Posted by aquarius09
I'll keep a cheater for two reasons only:1) If he's a good provider for my kids;and
2) if he's a good father to them.
If neither are there, he's worthless to me.
So you will use chater if he keeps your satisfied financially!
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No, not me. My children with him
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
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You sound bitter you should work on that.
men don't divorce until they find a backup/affair/mistress.
Posted by whatisthisallabout
men don't divorce until they find a backup/affair/mistress.
You go against popular dxpnet opinion that men don't divorce for backup mistresses! How about that?
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
50 percent are initiated by women so then whose initiating the other 50 percent? I don't understand the question.
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😄
Good point.
Posted by DonJohn
Just lol if u marry a modern sloot that's already been dicked 3 miles long.Recent study shows the vagina contains traces of DNA of every man that dicked them.
All cultures throught history was right. Chasity belts virgin brides et all. U can't make a ho the housewife.
Lol just lol @ the modern dating pool
Good bye
Id be interested in reading that study. Please link it.
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
You sound bitter you should work on that.
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So, because I shared what happened in my marriage I'm bitter?
You sound kinda judgmental and bossy
In most cases men have hurdles, in that
# they ask permission from the father of the daughter.
# get the money together to get the ring.
# ask the woman to marry him.
Less effort for a work to get a divorce than try to save marriage?
Posted by Gemitati
...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case
I'm sure that 50% dealt with a lot of bs before coming to the decision of divorce. Most married women with children that I know complain that they feel like single mothers because the husband's are not as active with the children as they should be so they might as well be single.
My ex wife said that stuff also to her friends. She didn't work, pay bills or do shit with the kids. I divorced her, pay child support and nothing changed. She became a single mother for the first time and actually came out pretty good.
So you're stating you took care of her and she didn't hold up her end of the bargain but trashed you to her friends?
Did I say she "trashed" me? Nope.
Are you retarded? I asked the question because you did not explain it right the first time.
Now, why I gotta be retarded? And y'all wonder why men pump and dump yalls asses. Rude ass
You sound bitter you should work on that.
So, because I shared what happened in my marriage I'm bitter?
You sound kinda judgmental and bossy
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Posted by PootyButt
I hate to agree with ole Misogyny 101 about anything, but I actually read this study too. It's not the vagina where they found stray semen DNA from ex lovers, it was in the breast tissue of women. *giggle*But this shouldn't freak anyone out. The theory is that the stray DNA is used by the woman to improve immunity for herself and any future children with another partner.
They've also found traces of male DNA in female brains and other body parts, but that has been determined to have come from male fetuses the women carried, either to term or not.
Was it posted by an official source though and were they conclusive?
I found several articles on this subject but none of them were from official sources.
Also, the articles I read mentioned that these studies were conducted on flies and some mammals, not humans and they suggested that there is no conclusive scientific evidence as of yet to conclude that this phenomenon happens in human females. A theory that was mentioned was that the advantage here would be that the female would hold out for the best DNA collected for her offspring. All very interesting nonetheless.
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Any man has rights for test if they willing to pay for it.
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...so 50% of divorces initiated by women with children?
Even 47% will be too much. Don't you think so. Unless all divorced by women men are wealthy!
But that not the case