I'm at a loss.

Dealing with a Leo woman right now who I started talking to in April, only to find out she had been in a marriage for 7 years (I recently found out that her husband is very jealous and doesn't let her have any male friends. She seemed quite distressed about it from what I heard about it). She never told me and I found out from someone else she spoke to about it. It's been 2 months no contact (she texted me a hello message and then ghosted with no reply) but whenever we're around each other, the energy feels so thick that you couldn't cut it with a knife made of diamond. I'd say the worst part is that when she sees me, she doesn't look away or even blink. Even if I avoid eye contact, she makes it known she's looking at me intently. And when we lock eyes, I feel paralyzed by it. And to top it all off, we've never had a conversation about those feelings. It went from platonic to no contact and within that span of no communication, the feelings just appeared out of thin air. I still second guess if she's even attracted to me but everyone who hears of the situation says otherwise. Any advice on this one? Synastry is below if it helps. As a sidenote, there's heavy Pluto to both of our major planets in our own natals.

https://imgur.com/a/2x35ilf

Whether she’s attracted to you or not doesn’t really matter. She is married. What is your end game here?

Posted by Jarax

but whenever we're around each other, the energy feels so thick that you couldn't cut it with a knife made of diamond.

Poetry

Stay away from married women; you are literally asking for trouble.

Also, her very jealous husband could be monitoring her phone. Very jealous ppl do crazy shit...

Posted by alexscaries

Play with fire, daddy-o.

Feels that way tbh. Today, she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation), said she changed her number, etc (which doesn't even make sense because she had been staring at me when I walked past a few hours earlier). Is it common for Leos to try to lie and manipulate people to their face? Because right now, I'm just going with it to see where she takes it knowing that she's full of it.

I think the funniest part was that while we were talking, other guys tried to get her attention and one dude even tried to bump the back of her head with a box and she got real serious on him for a second. It feels like I'm the only one not falling for the bullshit and feeding her ego.

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Posted by alexscaries

Play with fire, daddy-o.

Feels that way tbh. Today, she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation), said she changed her number, etc (which doesn't even make sense because she had been staring at me when I walked past a few hours earlier). Is it common for Leos to try to lie and manipulate people to their face? Because right now, I'm just going with it to see where she takes it knowing that she's full of it.

I think the funniest part was that while we were talking, other guys tried to get her attention and one dude even tried to bump the back of her head with a box and she got real serious on him for a second. It feels like I'm the only one not falling for the bullshit and feeding her ego.

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“Today she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation”

She sounds like a nut job 🤪

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Play with fire, daddy-o.

Feels that way tbh. Today, she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation), said she changed her number, etc (which doesn't even make sense because she had been staring at me when I walked past a few hours earlier). Is it common for Leos to try to lie and manipulate people to their face? Because right now, I'm just going with it to see where she takes it knowing that she's full of it.

I think the funniest part was that while we were talking, other guys tried to get her attention and one dude even tried to bump the back of her head with a box and she got real serious on him for a second. It feels like I'm the only one not falling for the bullshit and feeding her ego.

“Today she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation”

She sounds like a nut job 🤪

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If I had to call it, I'd say her ego and pride are just astronomically huge so she just can't admit when she's wrong. It's sad to watch lmao.

So let me get this straight…

You’ve been speaking for 2 months to a married woman that flirts with you and leads you on but her husband of 7 years doesn’t trust her and that upsets her. Of course, there’s no reason that he shouldn’t trust her…is there?

She didn’t tell you about being married, not that she lied… she just forgot to tell you. When you found out, she ghosted you but continues to come by your way to stare intently at you?? Of course you are mesmerised by her, forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest!

I’m sorry… what are you at a loss over??

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Play with fire, daddy-o.

Feels that way tbh. Today, she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation), said she changed her number, etc (which doesn't even make sense because she had been staring at me when I walked past a few hours earlier). Is it common for Leos to try to lie and manipulate people to their face? Because right now, I'm just going with it to see where she takes it knowing that she's full of it.

I think the funniest part was that while we were talking, other guys tried to get her attention and one dude even tried to bump the back of her head with a box and she got real serious on him for a second. It feels like I'm the only one not falling for the bullshit and feeding her ego.

“Today she finally talked to me and pretended like she forgot who I was. Asked for my name three different times during the conversation (even though she very clearly called my name out to start the conversation”

She sounds like a nut job 🤪

If I had to call it, I'd say her ego and pride are just astronomically huge so she just can't admit when she's wrong. It's sad to watch lmao.

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Cringeworthy 😬

Posted by sweethearts

So let me get this straight…

You’ve been speaking for 2 months to a married woman that flirts with you and leads you on but her husband of 7 years doesn’t trust her and that upsets her. Of course, there’s no reason that he shouldn’t trust her…is there?

She didn’t tell you about being married, not that she lied… she just forgot to tell you. When you found out, she ghosted you but continues to come by your way to stare intently at you?? Of course you are mesmerised by her, forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest!

I’m sorry… what are you at a loss over??

No, she doesn't know that I know she's married. We talked starting in April and she ghosted me in May.

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Posted by sweethearts

So let me get this straight…

You’ve been speaking for 2 months to a married woman that flirts with you and leads you on but her husband of 7 years doesn’t trust her and that upsets her. Of course, there’s no reason that he shouldn’t trust her…is there?

She didn’t tell you about being married, not that she lied… she just forgot to tell you. When you found out, she ghosted you but continues to come by your way to stare intently at you?? Of course you are mesmerised by her, forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest!

I’m sorry… what are you at a loss over??

No, she doesn't know that I know she's married. We talked starting in April and she ghosted me in May.

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So what at you at a loss over? Because a married woman ghosted you? Because you thought there was something there with an unavailable woman?

What have you lost exactly?

Posted by Jarax

Dealing with a Leo woman right now who I started talking to in April, only to find out she had been in a marriage for 7 years (I recently found out that her husband is very jealous and doesn't let her have any male friends. She seemed quite distressed about it from what I heard about it). She never told me and I found out from someone else she spoke to about it. It's been 2 months no contact (she texted me a hello message and then ghosted with no reply) but whenever we're around each other, the energy feels so thick that you couldn't cut it with a knife made of diamond. I'd say the worst part is that when she sees me, she doesn't look away or even blink. Even if I avoid eye contact, she makes it known she's looking at me intently. And when we lock eyes, I feel paralyzed by it. And to top it all off, we've never had a conversation about those feelings. It went from platonic to no contact and within that span of no communication, the feelings just appeared out of thin air. I still second guess if she's even attracted to me but everyone who hears of the situation says otherwise. Any advice on this one? Synastry is below if it helps. As a sidenote, there's heavy Pluto to both of our major planets in our own natals.

https://imgur.com/a/2x35ilf

She is interested and unhappily married. You probably filled a whole that was lacking in her marriage. Feel bad for her. She is probably pretty conflicted herself.

Why not tell her you know? Clear the air and be done with it?

She’s a leo lol

Enough said. Stay away from Leo women😂

You could play a part in her triangulation tactic

Whether she’s attracted to you or not doesn’t really matter. She is married.

Posted by iamlanaxxx

She’s a leo lol

Enough said. Stay away from Leo women😂

You could play a part in her triangulation tactic

I actually second this. Called her out on her lies (Kinda told her if she didn't like me as a friend it was cool too) and she kept reading them but not responding (Only responded to ask what I was talking about and such in the first few messages). This is after she sent an FB friend request using my phone but then never accepted it and said she forgot (Despite all this messaging taking place on said messenger). I digress, the day after, I sent a third message saying I didn't want conflict and that I was just "tying up loose ends" with people for clarity but that I didn't expect much from doing this. She read it and then 15 minutes later, she blocked me lmao. I think it's for the best. I'm sure she'll just not talk to me at work like before.