My dear girls and women

I just want to writebit because I think some of you can benefit or ignore or disagree...from the night of my age I think I am allowed.

So here what I want to say to you.

I was crazy in my youth years but somehow I don’t remember ever being dumped or cheated on except one time by the man whom I loved and he was 12 y/older and I totally screwed it up and in 10 years I’ve heard that he was still in love with me but I was living the country and that was it...

Coming here at 26 meeting my Cap husband and being married for 25 years...whatever happened we are still together.

When I’ve met Scorpio - my main goal was not to lose him. So I’ve developed no demands politic in this relashionships. It worked. I cane to dxp to learn about Scorpio men traits.

Dxp gave me a lot of clarity on Scorpio men behavior so I could understand their dark side and enjoying pain and suffering. We had not one argument in almost decade now and we are still emotionally involved and I would die if he told me to.

However...I am getting tired of his complications in life and I had decided to kill the pain by trying to meet somebody else.

For a longest time I couldn’t find anybody who will come close.

Then I’ve met Cancer man who was a very close to what I was looking for. He helped me a lot! I was able to tell Scorp off! Still don’t understand how. And I went on Cancer ass too hard so he told me to stop. I was torn apart but he stopped me from being sick for a Scorp. I realized it’s possible. He just texted me asking if we can ever reconnect and we did but I stopped stalking him with texting because he thought me it’s not cool! I’ve listened.

He said on a day he will decide to settle down we will talk...

Then I’ve met other awesome men with whom we communicating but Scorp and Cancer thought me invaluable lessons...wait! If you care and want something to happen - wait!

My 2 Gemini friends...and I used to hate Gem men...happened to become my confidants and people I can talk about anything with. Again...patience, respect, no demands. They are there for me. To calm my nerves. I had lunch with one yesterday and he said he can’t believe how cool I am and how much fun we having just talking...and if we ever get together he will be happy!

And last but not least my dear Aries who blocked me after I screwed up message. After he cooled off and came back I said let’s ahree that you’ve never going to do this again unless we talk and clear the air. He agreed. So we communicating all day every day for 5 weeks now. And it’s rarely sexual. Mostly about what happened in life. Hourly. He wakes me up with flowers and calling me ‘the mother of his phsychotic flower patch’...he is funny as hell and we are totally open and in tune. Aries liars? I don’t see it! Or maybe I have this effect on people?

So my dear women! Don’t suffer. If you losing your mind over a man...know that there is someone else who can be as good or better! Let them breathe and breathe yourself! Stop hanging over their asses like if there is no tomorrow!

And one important thing - at the first sign of disrespect or abuse - don’t wait for them to change! End it! I could never tolerate emotional or physical abuse. That’s a total deal breaker!!! No! Don’t subject yourselves to ANY abuse or disrespect!

That’s all unless you have questions...I am sure I’ll find an answer. And don’t ever try to make it work with men you don’t adore and attracted to. It’ll fire back! And it’ll hurt.

Love to all! ❤️❤️❤️

Hillar

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Exactly ‼️

That was a great. thank you for sharing.

Mind clarifying what you consider "abuse" and 'disrespect"?

Do you consider if someone you adore goes hot/cold as disrespectful? or do you consider that breathing time and to be patient for a time when both of your lives ebb and flow?

Posted by stillstillwater

That was a great. thank you for sharing.

Mind clarifying what you consider "abuse" and 'disrespect"?

Do you consider if someone you adore goes hot/cold as disrespectful? or do you consider that breathing time and to be patient for a time when both of your lives ebb and flow?

Hot/cold is depends on how rs are going. If he went cold...don’t be stalking him with ‘why’ and leave him alone and don’t wait!

Look for other options in a meantime.

You dont know what’s going on with him at cold period. Nor you have to be suffering’ the key is to find yourself what to do!

No! Him going cold is not an abuse!

There is always a reason for that.

And you will never know!

So instead of bawling your eyes out - get on a dating site and find somebody to talk to so you can get busy and put your mind at ease because as far as I’ve heard - men on those sites are charming. Even if he bullshit - you’ll be entertained and feeling that someone likes you!

Or go out. Being ‘in waiting’ - talk to people. Meet somebody just for a drink. Don’t sit on your ass doing nothing! If he went cold - get hot!

When you’ll be hot - you’ll project your energy and people will get drawn to you. It’s a fact!

And emotional or physical abuse is when he calls you names and criticized you and making you feel bad about yourself or putting hands on you. Simple disappearing isn’t an abuse. He is a human man! His brain is developing and sometimes he is hurt for thousands of reasons and don’t want to be vulnerable in front of you. Ego! Hunting him with questions will only make him upset and feeling like shit and trapped. Men don’t deal well with it. They still thinking they are all IT...lol

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

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Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

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Are you drunk?

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

Are you drunk?

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What part of ‘no spread’ are you not getting.

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Is this worthy of reading?

Not for you. No.

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

Are you drunk?

What part of ‘no spread’ are you not getting.

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I was just wondering if you need a donut because of your hemorrhoids that making you bitching? Or is it ‘dick on call’ isn’t responding to your calls?

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

Are you drunk?

What part of ‘no spread’ are you not getting.

I was just wondering if you need a donut because of your hemorrhoids that making you bitching? Or is it ‘dick on call’ isn’t responding to your calls?

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I need a donut cause I’m hungry, biatch.

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Hillar

Here you are! Welcome, woman with ‘dick on call’...lmao

Disappointed there isn’t donuts. Who hosts a dickaholic meeting without a spread. Lame.

Are you drunk?

What part of ‘no spread’ are you not getting.

I was just wondering if you need a donut because of your hemorrhoids that making you bitching? Or is it ‘dick on call’ isn’t responding to your calls?

I need a donut cause I’m hungry, biatch.

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You must be able to afford a...donut!

This thread 😂😂😂

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

Posted by Gemitati

And emotional or physical abuse is when he calls you names and criticized you and making you feel bad about yourself or putting hands on you. Simple disappearing isn’t an abuse. He is a human man! His brain is developing and sometimes he is hurt for thousands of reasons and don’t want to be vulnerable in front of you. Ego! Hunting him with questions will only make him upset and feeling like shit and trapped. Men don’t deal well with it. They still thinking they are all IT...lol

True good points.

So at those moments you just enjoy the company of other men?

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Curious question, did you end it on ur Cap husband?

Ended as divorced? No.

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And emotional or physical abuse is when he calls you names and criticized you and making you feel bad about yourself or putting hands on you. Simple disappearing isn’t an abuse. He is a human man! His brain is developing and sometimes he is hurt for thousands of reasons and don’t want to be vulnerable in front of you. Ego! Hunting him with questions will only make him upset and feeling like shit and trapped. Men don’t deal well with it. They still thinking they are all IT...lol

True good points.

So at those moments you just enjoy the company of other men?

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Not nessesary physical but exploring other options seeing if there someone out there who can be good for you for companionship, friendship, just a conversation...

My friend texted me that she has a date with man from website and she doesn’t even like him.

I said no. You’ll be miserable. Thinking about your estranged love.

It’s not fair to the man and to you.

She had cancelled and keep looking while dream of her life deciding on their future together.

She had admitted that searching for men is taking her mind off of her pain.

And she is seeing somebody who can be potential dates but still not as attracted to anyone yet. I know she will find it.

Posted by Haruuka

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

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what's up with the scorpio? you know if he finds out he would, well, not be chill like a cap.

Nobody going to find out nothing!

We are still figuring out shit!! Just talked...he sounds like he is really sick and tired. I said make sure we talk on your BDay. He said of course, you’ll be the only one who remembers so I’ll want my present.

I almost cried...

Posted by Lionheart917

Lol why not just move on instead of waiting?

Because you can’t! Because God made only one of him! And for almost decade he became part of you and history is too amazing and unforgettable. Like he said I’ll take it to my grave...so am I.

Though it’s been enough waiting so I am letting myself to live a little...no one gets hurt. So why not?

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

I do however think sometimes the hot cold thing is disrespectful depending on where in the relationship it is. I've had guys pretend they are completely into me, saying they miss me ect then I have sex after like 5 dates they vanish only to come back like a month later. I think that is disrespectful of me. However if they are busy for a week they are probably just busy having a life of their own.

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Lol why not just move on instead of waiting?

Because you can’t! Because God made only one of him! And for almost decade he became part of you and history is too amazing and unforgettable. Like he said I’ll take it to my grave...so am I.

Though it’s been enough waiting so I am letting myself to live a little...no one gets hurt. So why not?

I hope eventually you will be able to move on from the Scorpio. It seems the Aries is more compatible with you and can actually make you happy if you give it a chance. Let go of the past and start over.

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Not unless Scorpio will tell me that it’s over. And considering I am not suffering anymore...I can live with that. 5 weeks vs 9 years is impossible to compare! Yes I am laughing! Feels good. Like a fuzzy band aid that preventing sharp aged stone from piercing my heart. So far so good.

Thanks for your words.

I promise as soon as I’ll be able to - I’ll make a change.

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Lol why not just move on instead of waiting?

Because you can’t! Because God made only one of him! And for almost decade he became part of you and history is too amazing and unforgettable. Like he said I’ll take it to my grave...so am I.

Though it’s been enough waiting so I am letting myself to live a little...no one gets hurt. So why not?

That’s a tough one ☝️ i wish you a lot of luck!

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❤️❤️❤️

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I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

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Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

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Posted by Lionheart917

Lol why not just move on instead of waiting?

Because you can’t! Because God made only one of him! And for almost decade he became part of you and history is too amazing and unforgettable. Like he said I’ll take it to my grave...so am I.

Though it’s been enough waiting so I am letting myself to live a little...no one gets hurt. So why not?

I hope eventually you will be able to move on from the Scorpio. It seems the Aries is more compatible with you and can actually make you happy if you give it a chance. Let go of the past and start over.

Not unless Scorpio will tell me that it’s over. And considering I am not suffering anymore...I can live with that. 5 weeks vs 9 years is impossible to compare! Yes I am laughing! Feels good. Like a fuzzy band aid that preventing sharp aged stone from piercing my heart. So far so good.

Thanks for your words.

I promise as soon as I’ll be able to - I’ll make a change.

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What about your Capricorn husband?

You will leave him for the aries?

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And emotional or physical abuse is when he calls you names and criticized you and making you feel bad about yourself or putting hands on you. Simple disappearing isn’t an abuse. He is a human man! His brain is developing and sometimes he is hurt for thousands of reasons and don’t want to be vulnerable in front of you. Ego! Hunting him with questions will only make him upset and feeling like shit and trapped. Men don’t deal well with it. They still thinking they are all IT...lol

True good points.

So at those moments you just enjoy the company of other men?

Not nessesary physical but exploring other options seeing if there someone out there who can be good for you for companionship, friendship, just a conversation...

My friend texted me that she has a date with man from website and she doesn’t even like him.

I said no. You’ll be miserable. Thinking about your estranged love.

It’s not fair to the man and to you.

She had cancelled and keep looking while dream of her life deciding on their future together.

She had admitted that searching for men is taking her mind off of her pain.

And she is seeing somebody who can be potential dates but still not as attracted to anyone yet. I know she will find it.

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Yeah I absolutely agree with you. That you should always try to date as many guys as possible and it doesn't have to be physical but more for companionship and even networking... just make more friends with guys that could be potential romantic interests.

It's good to just be out there to keep your mind off of just "that one special person" if they haven't committed to you.

And yeah seeing other men opens your eyes to that there are many men out there who can make you happy than just being stuck on one.

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Lol why not just move on instead of waiting?

Because you can’t! Because God made only one of him! And for almost decade he became part of you and history is too amazing and unforgettable. Like he said I’ll take it to my grave...so am I.

Though it’s been enough waiting so I am letting myself to live a little...no one gets hurt. So why not?

I hope eventually you will be able to move on from the Scorpio. It seems the Aries is more compatible with you and can actually make you happy if you give it a chance. Let go of the past and start over.

Not unless Scorpio will tell me that it’s over. And considering I am not suffering anymore...I can live with that. 5 weeks vs 9 years is impossible to compare! Yes I am laughing! Feels good. Like a fuzzy band aid that preventing sharp aged stone from piercing my heart. So far so good.

Thanks for your words.

I promise as soon as I’ll be able to - I’ll make a change.

What about your Capricorn husband?

You will leave him for the aries?

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It’s too early to tell. Making such statement after few weeks would be just wrong.

But for sure I will leave anybody for a Scorpio.

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I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

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Thanks! 👿

Posted by Haruuka

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Posted by Haruuka

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

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How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

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Posted by Haruuka

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Posted by Haruuka

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

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Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

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Posted by Haruuka

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

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Apparently we are to attached emotionally that he doesn’t have to play macho with me! He told me once that he knows I’ll never hurt or will judge him...and it was like the best thing I’ve ever heard!

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Posted by Gemitati

And emotional or physical abuse is when he calls you names and criticized you and making you feel bad about yourself or putting hands on you. Simple disappearing isn’t an abuse. He is a human man! His brain is developing and sometimes he is hurt for thousands of reasons and don’t want to be vulnerable in front of you. Ego! Hunting him with questions will only make him upset and feeling like shit and trapped. Men don’t deal well with it. They still thinking they are all IT...lol

True good points.

So at those moments you just enjoy the company of other men?

Not nessesary physical but exploring other options seeing if there someone out there who can be good for you for companionship, friendship, just a conversation...

My friend texted me that she has a date with man from website and she doesn’t even like him.

I said no. You’ll be miserable. Thinking about your estranged love.

It’s not fair to the man and to you.

She had cancelled and keep looking while dream of her life deciding on their future together.

She had admitted that searching for men is taking her mind off of her pain.

And she is seeing somebody who can be potential dates but still not as attracted to anyone yet. I know she will find it.

Yeah I absolutely agree with you. That you should always try to date as many guys as possible and it doesn't have to be physical but more for companionship and even networking... just make more friends with guys that could be potential romantic interests.

It's good to just be out there to keep your mind off of just "that one special person" if they haven't committed to you.

And yeah seeing other men opens your eyes to that there are many men out there who can make you happy than just being stuck on one.

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That being stuck on one who doesn’t even appreciate it is a bitch and waste of time! Unless you have time to waste - get out and play...again not nessesarily playing in bed!

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

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Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

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Posted by Haruuka

I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

Apparently we are to attached emotionally that he doesn’t have to play macho with me! He told me once that he knows I’ll never hurt or will judge him...and it was like the best thing I’ve ever heard!

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The thing is, I don’t think he will ever leave his wife, even if he have feelings for you.

He can’t trust you, he just can’t

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Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

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Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

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I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

Apparently we are to attached emotionally that he doesn’t have to play macho with me! He told me once that he knows I’ll never hurt or will judge him...and it was like the best thing I’ve ever heard!

The thing is, I don’t think he will ever leave his wife, even if he have feelings for you.

He can’t trust you, he just can’t

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What can I say? We will just wait and see...

Just one thing...he trusts me with something that if I disclosed or spilled by accident or out of spite...he would be dead! So...you just assuming which is ok. You have no idea...

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Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

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Except when you are falling in love young everything seems like happiness or tragedy! And this is why we have dxp flooded with these posts about why did he leave one will he be back? And most replying because he is SOB! Forgetting that he is also person with fears and feelings and sometimes confused afyer 1st or 5th date...waking up with feelings gone!

Like WTF! It doesn’t make him SOB!

Does it?

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I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

Apparently we are to attached emotionally that he doesn’t have to play macho with me! He told me once that he knows I’ll never hurt or will judge him...and it was like the best thing I’ve ever heard!

The thing is, I don’t think he will ever leave his wife, even if he have feelings for you.

He can’t trust you, he just can’t

What can I say? We will just wait and see...

Just one thing...he trusts me with something that if I disclosed or spilled by accident or out of spite...he would be dead! So...you just assuming which is ok. You have no idea...

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I was talking about another kind of trust

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Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

Except when you are falling in love young everything seems like happiness or tragedy! And this is why we have dxp flooded with these posts about why did he leave one will he be back? And most replying because he is SOB! Forgetting that he is also person with fears and feelings and sometimes confused afyer 1st or 5th date...waking up with feelings gone!

Like WTF! It doesn’t make him SOB!

Does it?

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I think it depends on the circumstances obviously not always a SOB but if a guy is purposely stringing you along while keeping his other options open he's in the very least incredibly selfish

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I stopped reading after :”enjoying pain and suffering. ”

Why would I enjoy pain and suffering?

I mean, what is point then from the relationship?

I know nothing perfect but (enjoying pain) is not normal

It’s actually normal. When at the beginning you just feeling this void as a physical pain. And it’s excruciating to the point when you can’t dunction.

Then later when it’s not as sharp it’s still there and becoming somehow bearable...then you back to able to function and thoughts of your love settling somewhere in a corner of your heart and you learning how to love this feeling and you nursing your bleeding heart as if it was a sick child.

As long as there is hope...for it to get well...

Cancer venus kind of love, you love pain, live through it, that’s why you love scorpio venus, cuz we give pain to our lovers 😅

How about suffering yourself? We just talked...again...and he sounds like a dead man! I can pick it at first hello! And he said he will call later...I am wrecking my brain about what to say to him to ease his pain...

Even if I’m burning in hell, I don’t show my emotions for someone who is not sure about me, or with someone else.

Apparently we are to attached emotionally that he doesn’t have to play macho with me! He told me once that he knows I’ll never hurt or will judge him...and it was like the best thing I’ve ever heard!

The thing is, I don’t think he will ever leave his wife, even if he have feelings for you.

He can’t trust you, he just can’t

What can I say? We will just wait and see...

Just one thing...he trusts me with something that if I disclosed or spilled by accident or out of spite...he would be dead! So...you just assuming which is ok. You have no idea...

I was talking about another kind of trust

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To me there is just one kind of trust!

It’s is you trust somebody completely in everything or you don’t trust them at all. There is no such a ‘selective’ trust. Like I give you my life in your hands but I think you’ll screw me up with another man!

We are doing the same exactly thing!

So do you think he would judge me for exactly the same thing he is doing? No!

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Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

Except when you are falling in love young everything seems like happiness or tragedy! And this is why we have dxp flooded with these posts about why did he leave one will he be back? And most replying because he is SOB! Forgetting that he is also person with fears and feelings and sometimes confused afyer 1st or 5th date...waking up with feelings gone!

Like WTF! It doesn’t make him SOB!

Does it?

I think it depends on the circumstances obviously not always a SOB but if a guy is purposely stringing you along while keeping his other options open he's in the very least incredibly selfish

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But one will never know prior to being hurt right? Unfortunately...love would be too easy if we did know! 🥂

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

Except when you are falling in love young everything seems like happiness or tragedy! And this is why we have dxp flooded with these posts about why did he leave one will he be back? And most replying because he is SOB! Forgetting that he is also person with fears and feelings and sometimes confused afyer 1st or 5th date...waking up with feelings gone!

Like WTF! It doesn’t make him SOB!

Does it?

I think it depends on the circumstances obviously not always a SOB but if a guy is purposely stringing you along while keeping his other options open he's in the very least incredibly selfish

But one will never know prior to being hurt right? Unfortunately...love would be too easy if we did know! 🥂

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You don't know before being hurt but after being hurt you have a choice to continue letting that person hurt you or move on with your life.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Ah Ha! Thank you! Absolutely fabulous advice! I agree with everything said here 🙂

Everyone creates their own destiny.

Except when you are falling in love young everything seems like happiness or tragedy! And this is why we have dxp flooded with these posts about why did he leave one will he be back? And most replying because he is SOB! Forgetting that he is also person with fears and feelings and sometimes confused afyer 1st or 5th date...waking up with feelings gone!

Like WTF! It doesn’t make him SOB!

Does it?

I think it depends on the circumstances obviously not always a SOB but if a guy is purposely stringing you along while keeping his other options open he's in the very least incredibly selfish

But one will never know prior to being hurt right? Unfortunately...love would be too easy if we did know! 🥂

You don't know before being hurt but after being hurt you have a choice to continue letting that person hurt you or move on with your life.

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That’s the point of this thread. Don’t dwell on those who are in question - don’t sit and mope. Act! 😀

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Which Sign and House is your north node in?

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25 Taurus 16’59”

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Posted by saggurl88

Can I get cliff notes on the topic? I would like to know whats going on, but it's too long to read 😄

I think this is the best summary:

I couldn't agree more. As I've gotten older i've realized that you shouldn't be waiting around for a men or keeping yourself on hold. If a guy is really into you he will let you know, don't waste your time sitting around for a man who hasn't made his intentions clear. Also I use to be the one to hold onto a dead end relationship, I was in a toxic relationship for years. If your not happy leave, its the best thing you can do for yourself before your self esteem is ruined.

Which Sign and House is your north node in?

25 Taurus 16’59”

Damnit Lady! Its Opposite is scorpio.

North node teaches us life lessons, karmic bonds, vices and virtues.

Id love to have Coffee with you. 🙂 Id walk away feeling nourished.

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Let’s!

But please tell me what does Scorpio opposite means to me?

I believe in the North Node. Mine is in Pisces and whenever i try to encompass those traits my life does eluminate for the better.