Rainbow87
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Please help me. My boyfriend is jealous and obsessed about my past.
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Your bf is an insecure bitch.
This is alllll your fault Ms lady.
You shoulda been deleted everything.
The minute he asked you to be in a relationship, you should developed delete fever
You shoulda been deleted everything.
The minute he asked you to be in a relationship, you should developed delete fever
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Is he a fixed sign?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Waiting to hear his sign
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.click to expand
Show me your shekels
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekelsclick to expand
Only after I like what I see
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I seeclick to expand
I'm afraid thats not how it works.
Posted by nanobot
"How dare you have talked to men before we met."
Relatable
We would be doing in Goa soon.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
I'm afraid thats not how it works.click to expand
Just a flash.
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
I'm afraid thats not how it works.
Just a flash.click to expand
No freebies, no exceptions.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
I'm afraid thats not how it works.
Just a flash.
No freebies, no exceptions.click to expand
What is the name of the pimp??
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Sounds suffocating😕
Would love to see his placements
Would love to see his placements
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
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My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
I meant why delete anything
This is entertainingclick to expand
Course she had to delete everything.. at least, from the moment that she knows he is a sick jealous.
Thats why she is a leo moon cause if she was a true leo sun she wouldn t need to show anything to her king to made her feel great. 😉 note: she dont want to loose him at any cost but still dont delete anything from her past.. sounds cancer thing only..
Yeah.. course.. go marry someone with this kind of behaviour.. go plan a child.. and i wanna see ur securities then...
Guys.. this thread is very “today’s” problems! Social networks, human emotion, human mental fragility and in this case probably an over reacting sense of loosing someone, that it’s scary and sick. He def need to see someone. But when you criticize him only by her words.. it shows u re also emotional weak.
I can tell you by my past experience some traditional ideas are contrary what maybe most think.. i actually think that the most unstable, jealous and unpredictable ones are the mutable and cardinals..
the fixed sun signs are very problematic and not flexible sure.. but they have the security of stability “i know who i am and i know what i want”
She started a new relation.. she made it clear he was/is her boyfriend/husband so why da fk mix past relations in social networks?
He is sick and she should be careful but she also needs to know the meaning of the word ”relationship”
I can tell you by my past experience some traditional ideas are contrary what maybe most think.. i actually think that the most unstable, jealous and unpredictable ones are the mutable and cardinals..
the fixed sun signs are very problematic and not flexible sure.. but they have the security of stability “i know who i am and i know what i want”
She started a new relation.. she made it clear he was/is her boyfriend/husband so why da fk mix past relations in social networks?
He is sick and she should be careful but she also needs to know the meaning of the word ”relationship”
Meanwhile.. really keen to know his placements
Posted by nanobot
"How dare you have talked to men before we met."
Relatable
As a scorpio moon I get it.
When I say thg at my jealousy runs deep, it runs deep
You smile too much at the waitress prepare for a one person trip to Antarctica.
You smile too much at the waitress prepare for a one person trip to Antarctica.
Posted by Rainbow87
Hi
I really need to vent because I'm scared of losing my boyfriend because of his jealousy. Lately he's been very controlling and goes through my phone to see my past activity on Facebook. He's obsessed about my past and wants to find out everything!
He reads my old Facebook posts and messages I had with guy friends when I was single. I try to tell him that it doesn't make sense that he's reading that when it happened like 5 years ago way before I met him. The messages are harmless but it still bothers him. And he tells me that I don't love him because it's impossible to love more than one person and I already loved my previous boyfriends. I think he's overreacting because I made mistakes and met the wrong men. It could happen that you love someone but that love could die but he doesn't believe in that.
It has gotten to the point that I prefer to quit social media since I'm having problems with my boyfriend all the time. What can I do to make him understand that the past is in the past and he should focus on the present? I have been faithful and I haven't talked to other men since we started dating. But still, he's mad and jealous about my past relationships. I'm desperate. I don't know what to do.
My husband's the same way. I don't take it to heart.
You got Facebook.
I got journals, pictures, jewelry...
Posted by -Damous
That’s something that really is HIS problem as I’ve had this kind of problem, but never have went looking through peoples things or anything.
He needs to get over it if he wants to keep a healthy relationship with you.
Impossible. He need to be dumped or leave her and treat.
My money is on Aqua or maybeee Aries.
I had an aqua take my phone then locked himself in the bathroom once.
Good times..😂
I had an aqua take my phone then locked himself in the bathroom once.
Good times..😂
Oh and my advice is to have a serious conversation with him and let him know that you won't be putting up with that type of behavior.. unless you know.. you are.
im feeling gemini on this one (he seems extreme)
anyways he should probably work on himself first, it could stem from his past issues. it's not your fault and although you might want to stay with him, it will cause many problems down the line. it could affect your own happiness and mental health
anyways he should probably work on himself first, it could stem from his past issues. it's not your fault and although you might want to stay with him, it will cause many problems down the line. it could affect your own happiness and mental health
Posted by DMV
This is alllll your fault Ms lady.
You shoulda been deleted everything.
The minute he asked you to be in a relationship, you should developed delete fever
He would find something else to bitch about...lost case.
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I seeclick to expand
Just admit you don’t have money, bozo!
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
I'm afraid thats not how it works.
Just a flash.click to expand
Quick shooter alert! 😂😂😂
Posted by Rainbow87
Hi
I really need to vent because I'm scared of losing my boyfriend because of his jealousy. Lately he's been very controlling and goes through my phone to see my past activity on Facebook. He's obsessed about my past and wants to find out everything!
He reads my old Facebook posts and messages I had with guy friends when I was single. I try to tell him that it doesn't make sense that he's reading that when it happened like 5 years ago way before I met him. The messages are harmless but it still bothers him. And he tells me that I don't love him because it's impossible to love more than one person and I already loved my previous boyfriends. I think he's overreacting because I made mistakes and met the wrong men. It could happen that you love someone but that love could die but he doesn't believe in that.
It has gotten to the point that I prefer to quit social media since I'm having problems with my boyfriend all the time. What can I do to make him understand that the past is in the past and he should focus on the present? I have been faithful and I haven't talked to other men since we started dating. But still, he's mad and jealous about my past relationships. I'm desperate. I don't know what to do.
Find a new boyfriend
Posted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
I'm afraid thats not how it works.
Just a flash.
No freebies, no exceptions.
What is the name of the pimp??click to expand
Do you have this phrase saved so you can copy/paste it?
Free advise: don’t ask stupid questions more than once...you may pass for a ‘bit off’ instead of ‘stupid’...
Looks like a troll account.
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by DMV
When I say thg at my jealousy runs deep, it runs deep
You smile too much at the waitress prepare for a one person trip to Antarctica.
Why though? I have never been jealous in that sense.
Im a scorp moon myself but find it hard to relate to this component.
click to expand
I'm territorial.
How special would I feel if i got the same batty eyes that some back alley Sally is getting.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by TurnOnPosted by LadyNeptune
Men (and women) who constantly accuse usually are guilty of cheating themselves.
Show me your boobs.
Show me your shekels
Only after I like what I see
Just admit you don’t have money, bozo!click to expand
I don't have money.
Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
I meant why delete anything
This is entertaining
Course she had to delete everything.. at least, from the moment that she knows he is a sick jealous.
Thats why she is a leo moon cause if she was a true leo sun she wouldn t need to show anything to her king to made her feel great. 😉 note: she dont want to loose him at any cost but still dont delete anything from her past.. sounds cancer thing only..
You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this.click to expand
"You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this."
the OP posted 4 months ago this (I wonder if its the same boyfriend):
"Yesterday for some odd reason my boyfriend posted a shirtless picture of himself on Facebook. He has a good body because he works out a lot.
He posted a picture like that once but when he was single. I got a little mad because it was a picture he had sent me two weeks ago. It was a selfie of him with shorts and his shirt open where you could see his chest. And now he posted it on Facebook and I wonder why. Do you find this appropriate?
He said it won't happen again but I feel like he wants to be noticed.
I think any picture showing your body is provocative. "
so it seems they feed each other in this area 🙂
Posted by Pandora101Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
I meant why delete anything
This is entertaining
Course she had to delete everything.. at least, from the moment that she knows he is a sick jealous.
Thats why she is a leo moon cause if she was a true leo sun she wouldn t need to show anything to her king to made her feel great. 😉 note: she dont want to loose him at any cost but still dont delete anything from her past.. sounds cancer thing only..
You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this.
"You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this."
the OP posted 4 months ago this (I wonder if its the same boyfriend):
"Yesterday for some odd reason my boyfriend posted a shirtless picture of himself on Facebook. He has a good body because he works out a lot.
He posted a picture like that once but when he was single. I got a little mad because it was a picture he had sent me two weeks ago. It was a selfie of him with shorts and his shirt open where you could see his chest. And now he posted it on Facebook and I wonder why. Do you find this appropriate?
He said it won't happen again but I feel like he wants to be noticed.
I think any picture showing your body is provocative. "
so it seems they feed each other in this area 🙂click to expand
It's a troll. "She" never even responds to any of the threads he/she/it makes. Just posts the OP and then vanishes.
Posted by Weeds
Looks like a troll account.
exactly
the wording of the opening post is an invitation for the type of responses which she/he craved and got
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Pandora101Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
I meant why delete anything
This is entertaining
Course she had to delete everything.. at least, from the moment that she knows he is a sick jealous.
Thats why she is a leo moon cause if she was a true leo sun she wouldn t need to show anything to her king to made her feel great. 😉 note: she dont want to loose him at any cost but still dont delete anything from her past.. sounds cancer thing only..
You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this.
"You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this."
the OP posted 4 months ago this (I wonder if its the same boyfriend):
"Yesterday for some odd reason my boyfriend posted a shirtless picture of himself on Facebook. He has a good body because he works out a lot.
He posted a picture like that once but when he was single. I got a little mad because it was a picture he had sent me two weeks ago. It was a selfie of him with shorts and his shirt open where you could see his chest. And now he posted it on Facebook and I wonder why. Do you find this appropriate?
He said it won't happen again but I feel like he wants to be noticed.
I think any picture showing your body is provocative. "
so it seems they feed each other in this area 🙂
It's a troll. "She" never even responds to any of the threads he/she/it makes. Just posts the OP and then vanishes.click to expand
"It's a troll. "She" never even responds to any of the threads he/she/it makes. Just posts the OP and then vanishes. "
I thought so myself, but someone wrote in the comments that they read some previous posts so I gave a benefit of doubt, until I looked it up
on the other hand, its can be a good thing, starting a conversation on this topic, and seeing that people who are wording their opening posts intentionally only to condemn their partners are the same themselves (meaning now it posted: he is insecure and jealous because of posts, 4 months ago it posted she is jealaus of his posts).... so some of them are trolls, some of them are deluded
or both 🙂
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by Pandora101Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoonPosted by Black-MambaPosted by leoSunCancermoon
Bet scorpio!! And i agree with dmv... u should deleted all of that.
Why?
My bet goes for scorpio in first place. Then gemini has a good chance here..
Why? Cause only a scorpio go deep like this.. and maybe a gemini 😂
I meant why delete anything
This is entertaining
Course she had to delete everything.. at least, from the moment that she knows he is a sick jealous.
Thats why she is a leo moon cause if she was a true leo sun she wouldn t need to show anything to her king to made her feel great. 😉 note: she dont want to loose him at any cost but still dont delete anything from her past.. sounds cancer thing only..
You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this.
"You shouldn't cater to neuroses like this."
the OP posted 4 months ago this (I wonder if its the same boyfriend):
"Yesterday for some odd reason my boyfriend posted a shirtless picture of himself on Facebook. He has a good body because he works out a lot.
He posted a picture like that once but when he was single. I got a little mad because it was a picture he had sent me two weeks ago. It was a selfie of him with shorts and his shirt open where you could see his chest. And now he posted it on Facebook and I wonder why. Do you find this appropriate?
He said it won't happen again but I feel like he wants to be noticed.
I think any picture showing your body is provocative. "
so it seems they feed each other in this area 🙂
It's a troll. "She" never even responds to any of the threads he/she/it makes. Just posts the OP and then vanishes.click to expand
Yeah.. maybe she works the same with him.. throwing drama xits for being noticed.. maybe the problem is her 🙈🙈 i wasted my time waiting for his placements.
dump him. he sounds like a bitch
Posted by TheRabbitPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by TheRabbit
It's no wonder the suicide rate is climbing among men. With a support network like some of you people, I'd probably put a bullet in my brain, too.
Do you think the boyfriend's behavior is acceptable or fixable?
That's not for me or anyone else here except the OP and the boyfriend (If it's a legit thread) to decide.
My point is the lack of compassion and humanity shown by some posters. Lots of people get fucked up emotionally and mentally by life events they have absolutely no control over. Is the resulting behaviour acceptable? Probably not. Should they work on fixing those issues? Absolutely. Do they deserve to be called names and mocked? Fuck no.
People with mental health issues didn't choose that path. They didn't wake up one day and think " you know, I'm going to make life miserable for everyone around me, just because I have nothing better to do with my time". Some of these people are just doing the best they can each and every minute. And sometimes they're forced to take life one single minute at a time, just to get by.
These people need help to fix themselves. In this case, the boyfriend likely isn't ready for a relationship and the OP probably needs to walk before the behaviour becomes too toxic.
But if the faux-aggro keyboard warrior schtick from the emotionally stunted potatoes on here is any indication of the type of support the boyfriend will get from people around him, like I said, I'm not surprised suicide rates keep climbing.click to expand
I think that its only because the girl is posting on here and most people are telling her to leave him for her own sake. If a guy was posting here then answers would be more supportive of the guy. But thats just imo.
Posted by DMV
When I say thg at my jealousy runs deep, it runs deep
You smile too much at the waitress prepare for a one person trip to Antarctica.
Something about that fire sun + scorpio moon combo...
My motto- Be careful what you look for because you might not like what you see.
My boyfriend is a Libra with a lot of air placements. He sounds like a Taurus or Scorpio but he's not.
Well, I had told him twice that I was going to delete my Facebook account and open a new one to get rid of all my past because even some of my pictures bothered him!!! I thought opening a new account was the best thing to do to leave all my past was behind. And he told me: "No, don't do it. Just keep your old Facebook". So I trusted him but he keeps stalking me and judging me about everything I have there about my past. I would understand if I did something bad NOW but he's judging me about things I posted before I met him.
He also has a past himself, which is not good but I didn't judge him. He confessed that he cheated and that he slept with many girls. Maybe that's where his insecurities are coming from. He thinks that because he did that I'm going to do the same thing.
He tells me that I chat with men and delete the messages after. That's NOT TRUE. He makes things up in his head. Yesterday I told him I had made my decision of getting rid of Facebook bacause it causes problems but he told me the not to do it. Well, too bad. I won't listen to him this time.
Well, I had told him twice that I was going to delete my Facebook account and open a new one to get rid of all my past because even some of my pictures bothered him!!! I thought opening a new account was the best thing to do to leave all my past was behind. And he told me: "No, don't do it. Just keep your old Facebook". So I trusted him but he keeps stalking me and judging me about everything I have there about my past. I would understand if I did something bad NOW but he's judging me about things I posted before I met him.
He also has a past himself, which is not good but I didn't judge him. He confessed that he cheated and that he slept with many girls. Maybe that's where his insecurities are coming from. He thinks that because he did that I'm going to do the same thing.
He tells me that I chat with men and delete the messages after. That's NOT TRUE. He makes things up in his head. Yesterday I told him I had made my decision of getting rid of Facebook bacause it causes problems but he told me the not to do it. Well, too bad. I won't listen to him this time.
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I really need to vent because I'm scared of losing my boyfriend because of his jealousy. Lately he's been very controlling and goes through my phone to see my past activity on Facebook. He's obsessed about my past and wants to find out everything!
He reads my old Facebook posts and messages I had with guy friends when I was single. I try to tell him that it doesn't make sense that he's reading that when it happened like 5 years ago way before I met him. The messages are harmless but it still bothers him. And he tells me that I don't love him because it's impossible to love more than one person and I already loved my previous boyfriends. I think he's overreacting because I made mistakes and met the wrong men. It could happen that you love someone but that love could die but he doesn't believe in that.
It has gotten to the point that I prefer to quit social media since I'm having problems with my boyfriend all the time. What can I do to make him understand that the past is in the past and he should focus on the present? I have been faithful and I haven't talked to other men since we started dating. But still, he's mad and jealous about my past relationships. I'm desperate. I don't know what to do.