ladylibra21
@ladylibra21
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Speak love into existence
I'd be happy with a tall dark and handsome guy who's down to Netflix and chill one night a week. That would be a good start ?
Posted by aphrodite3No wonder you always cranky. I bet you get lots of ass by calling girls bitches all the time.
What's wrong with these bitches like deadass??
Posted by aphrodite3I don't Believe in depending on men for money never have never will I can make my own what I mean by supporting and motivating is actually saying hey how was this project coming along and listening and maybe providing some insight from time to time you know someone to consult from time to time. Maybe you should evaluate the kind of women you keep picking instead of placing is all in one basket.
I notice lot of women say they want someone to believe in them or motivate them.. motivate and believe in you to do what though? From what I see that's code word for give you money and if not what are your motivations?. Man I know 100 niggas who'd fuck with you. So your love is easy to find out here.
Posted by SsupermanRight like wtf was meant to be a beautiful thread for people to put love out there not complain about what they have dealt with in the pastPosted by aphrodite3No wonder you always cranky. I bet you get lots of ass by calling girls bitches all the time.
What's wrong with these bitches like deadass??click to expand
Posted by blackphaseFacts!Posted by aphrodite3Dude.. we mean we want someone who believes that we can accomplish shit on our own, someone who pushes us to be the best version of ourselves that we can possibly be. Someone who motivates us to chase our dreams and live life to the fullest.. It's got nothing to do with money.. You misunderstand what relationships are about completely.. That's why you have such a bad track record with women.
I notice lot of women say they want someone to believe in them or motivate them.. motivate and believe in you to do what though? From what I see that's code word for give you money and if not what are your motivations?. Man I know 100 niggas who'd fuck with you. So your love is easy to find out here.click to expand
It's good to have high standards but you no one is perfect. Some nice and loyal is enough to appreciate and be happy in my opinion.
My problem is I get caught up in looks (I want a certain type) and work ethic (someone with a decent job like me). I just don't tend to find this very easily.
My problem is I get caught up in looks (I want a certain type) and work ethic (someone with a decent job like me). I just don't tend to find this very easily.
Posted by pinkbird03Just say yes to Aphrodite looks like a good description of him ?
I'd be happy with a tall dark and handsome guy who's down to Netflix and chill one night a week. That would be a good start ?
Posted by aphrodite3lol he's kinda right in a way so I approve this commentPosted by pinkbird03you have to see people for the beauty inside of them.. you know how many ugly muthafuckas im around 24/7 but they're not less than to me because I can look those ugly muthafukas un their eyes and see a person.. not who they work for. So when I call bitches superficial. I'm not buggin out because I see what they see. I look into their eyes and it's like wow.. nothing but superficialness like it's a blackhole of fucking death... But when it comes to you. You know what you need to do. Be a good person. That's it. And you know what I mean by that. And that goes for all you bitches who see this shit too because I know ya creepy ass bitches watching too.. suck my dick
It's good to have high standards but you no one is perfect. Some nice and loyal is enough to appreciate and be happy in my opinion.
My problem is I get caught up in looks (I want a certain type) and work ethic (someone with a decent job like me). I just don't tend to find this very easily.click to expand
Posted by aphrodite3I didn't say the guy had to be super good looking or have an amazing job. That's not true.Posted by pinkbird03you have to see people for the beauty inside of them.. you know how many ugly muthafuckas im around 24/7 but they're not less than to me because I can look those ugly muthafukas un their eyes and see a person.. not who they work for. So when I call bitches superficial. I'm not buggin out because I see what they see. I look into their eyes and it's like wow.. nothing but superficialness like it's a blackhole of fucking death... But when it comes to you. You know what you need to do. Be a good person. That's it. And you know what I mean by that. And that goes for all you bitches who see this shit too because I know ya creepy ass bitches watching too.. suck my dick
It's good to have high standards but you no one is perfect. Some nice and loyal is enough to appreciate and be happy in my opinion.
My problem is I get caught up in looks (I want a certain type) and work ethic (someone with a decent job like me). I just don't tend to find this very easily.click to expand
@aphrodite3 Are you finished derailing my thread with your negative thoughts? Feel feel to positively state what you want in a person but please stop with your negative thoughts his thread was meant to put positive energy out.
Posted by aphrodite3That's the plan ?Posted by pinkbird03Well then do what you do. It'll come when the time is right. Don't rush itPosted by aphrodite3I didn't say the guy had to be super good looking or have an amazing job. That's not true.Posted by pinkbird03you have to see people for the beauty inside of them.. you know how many ugly muthafuckas im around 24/7 but they're not less than to me because I can look those ugly muthafukas un their eyes and see a person.. not who they work for. So when I call bitches superficial. I'm not buggin out because I see what they see. I look into their eyes and it's like wow.. nothing but superficialness like it's a blackhole of fucking death... But when it comes to you. You know what you need to do. Be a good person. That's it. And you know what I mean by that. And that goes for all you bitches who see this shit too because I know ya creepy ass bitches watching too.. suck my dick
It's good to have high standards but you no one is perfect. Some nice and loyal is enough to appreciate and be happy in my opinion.
My problem is I get caught up in looks (I want a certain type) and work ethic (someone with a decent job like me). I just don't tend to find this very easily.click to expand
Posted by aphrodite3When I think of motivation, money doesn't factor at all. In fact, I think when there isn't a bunch of money in the picture making things artificially easy, it's the real test of who is truly there for you. The question is, will my partner and I both commit to making each other feel loved and making the world a better place and not give up even if we don't immediately succeed at it?
I notice lot of women say they want someone to believe in them or motivate them.. motivate and believe in you to do what though? From what I see that's code word for give you money and if not what are your motivations?. Man I know 100 niggas who'd fuck with you. So your love is easy to find out here.
The key to that is being able to trust that love and respect for one another is unshakeable no matter what.
It might sound corny, but that's my guiding principle in love.
Consistency, respect, communication, support
Posted by ladylibra21So you want a miracle? Even if a man like this existed you would dump him soon because he would be too perfect become too boring and predictable. 😉
OK I am creating this thread so that people have a place to speak what they want from love into existence I'll start .
I want someone who believes in me. Someone to show me when I don't believe in myself . Someone to motivate me but also give me reality . I want someone who isn't afraid to dream and roll with the punches someone who doesn't miss a beat. I want him to be unafraid to dance even if he can't dance. I want him to sweep me up and look at me with love and understanding always and if he doesn't understand I want him to inquire. Someone soft of spirit but Will fight to the death for his family. I want someone who knows things; things that I don't know, handy things, survival type things.I want someone who reads to me, cooks with me, and actively searches the world for new things with me. I want someone who can give me my space but come back with stories to tell and arms that are open. I want someone who is strategic with their life but not afraid to take chances. With someone who loves my son close to as much as I do if not equal to. I want to feel that no matter where we are in time or space that I am secure in the love this person has for me. I want more balance and I have ever had in my life and I want to share it with that person.
I am putting this out there in the belief that this person will find this person find me.
I want a woman who makes me feel like "Woooooow, she really IS different, even though she is hot, beautiful with big titties and a big round ass".
Posted by EnochtheWiseThat would result in an overpopulation problem.
Libras should run the world IMO.
No more wars + food for all + emphasis on love and making it 😛
Posted by aphrodite3Don't assume all woman (ppl) are the same, is rather simplistic. Thank you.
I notice lot of women say they want someone to believe in them or motivate them.. motivate and believe in you to do what though? From what I see that's code word for give you money and if not what are your motivations?. Man I know 100 niggas who'd fuck with you. So your love is easy to find out here.
Posted by ladylibra21Can't be anything nice here. DXP is the ghetto of the Astro worldPosted by SsupermanRight like wtf was meant to be a beautiful thread for people to put love out there not complain about what they have dealt with in the pastPosted by aphrodite3No wonder you always cranky. I bet you get lots of ass by calling girls bitches all the time.
What's wrong with these bitches like deadass??click to expand
Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceAww I like your mindset on this. Unrequited love hurts so bad I am dealing with it now that's why I am putting it out there what I want so what is for me can find me.
I want nothing. She already exists. I don't know how she feels about me but hey if she doesn't feel the same way I have the feelings I have for her. They will be used for inspiration.
Posted by ladylibra21Yes, unrequited love is a MOFO smh...Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceAww I like your mindset on this. Unrequited love hurts so bad I am dealing with it now that's why I am putting it out there what I want so what is for me can find me.
I want nothing. She already exists. I don't know how she feels about me but hey if she doesn't feel the same way I have the feelings I have for her. They will be used for inspiration.click to expand
Posted by daron76Posted by ladylibra21Yes, unrequited love is a MOFO smh...Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceAww I like your mindset on this. Unrequited love hurts so bad I am dealing with it now that's why I am putting it out there what I want so what is for me can find me.
I want nothing. She already exists. I don't know how she feels about me but hey if she doesn't feel the same way I have the feelings I have for her. They will be used for inspiration.click to expand
I would almost go through a regular ol break up. Because at least I know hey cared at some point most of the time.
Posted by ladylibra21Posted by daron76Posted by ladylibra21Yes, unrequited love is a MOFO smh...Posted by PoopMcPoopFaceAww I like your mindset on this. Unrequited love hurts so bad I am dealing with it now that's why I am putting it out there what I want so what is for me can find me.
I want nothing. She already exists. I don't know how she feels about me but hey if she doesn't feel the same way I have the feelings I have for her. They will be used for inspiration.
I would almost go through a regular ol break up. Because at least I know hey cared at some point most of the time.
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Exactly! Having to wonder if they just spent all that time faking it is the worst. Like, what kinda human are you?!?!
@ladylibra21 how's your relationship going?
Posted by pinkbird03No where he is almost pulled away completely except when he saw me on the turnpike the other day and did the stair and drive it really pisses me off like just leave me alone if you don't want anything. Like I was singing not paying attention and kept saying this car beside me out of the corner my eye but I didn't register it was him until I looked over and then he laughed and pulled off.
@ladylibra21 how's your relationship going?
Posted by ladylibra21What do you think is going on in his head?? Seriously, I don't get him at all.Posted by pinkbird03No where he is almost pulled away completely except when he saw me on the turnpike the other day and did the stair and drive it really pisses me off like just leave me alone if you don't want anything. Like I was singing not paying attention and kept saying this car beside me out of the corner my eye but I didn't register it was him until I looked over and then he laughed and pulled off.
@ladylibra21 how's your relationship going?click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I don't think he is emotionally ready and he is probably unsure if I am what he wants because I am the first to show interest in him in a while so he may be thinking if someone actually likes me there are other possibilities but he won't act on other people either because he feels comfortable where he is at but also inferior in his job. So until he feels professionally secure in how he precieves himself he won't have time to look at anyone to see if I am what he is ants or if there is something better. That is my guess I know I am done though I don't deserve to be waiting around.Posted by ladylibra21What do you think is going on in his head?? Seriously, I don't get him at all.Posted by pinkbird03No where he is almost pulled away completely except when he saw me on the turnpike the other day and did the stair and drive it really pisses me off like just leave me alone if you don't want anything. Like I was singing not paying attention and kept saying this car beside me out of the corner my eye but I didn't register it was him until I looked over and then he laughed and pulled off.
@ladylibra21 how's your relationship going?click to expand
Posted by ladylibra21I know how you feel. I'm tired of waiting around tooPosted by pinkbird03I don't think he is emotionally ready and he is probably unsure if I am what he wants because I am the first to show interest in him in a while so he may be thinking if someone actually likes me there are other possibilities but he won't act on other people either because he feels comfortable where he is at but also inferior in his job. So until he feels professionally secure in how he precieves himself he won't have time to look at anyone to see if I am what he is ants or if there is something better. That is my guess I know I am done though I don't deserve to be waiting around.Posted by ladylibra21What do you think is going on in his head?? Seriously, I don't get him at all.Posted by pinkbird03No where he is almost pulled away completely except when he saw me on the turnpike the other day and did the stair and drive it really pisses me off like just leave me alone if you don't want anything. Like I was singing not paying attention and kept saying this car beside me out of the corner my eye but I didn't register it was him until I looked over and then he laughed and pulled off.
@ladylibra21 how's your relationship going?click to expand
Love and the perfect person is always around the corner. When you least expect it, your twin flame will be sweeping you off your feet! I'm fortunate enough to say that love is always in the air & im deeply loved and appreciated from those who come into my life!!! So believe it and you'll begin to see it.
Posted by ladylibra21
I want someone who believes in me. Someone to show me when I don't believe in myself . Someone to motivate me but also give me reality . I want someone who isn't afraid to dream and roll with the punches someone who doesn't miss a beat. I want him to be unafraid to dance even if he can't dance. I want him to sweep me up and look at me with love and understanding always and if he doesn't understand I want him to inquire. Someone soft of spirit but Will fight to the death for his family. I want someone who knows things; things that I don't know, handy things, survival type things.I want someone who reads to me, cooks with me, and actively searches the world for new things with me. I want someone who can give me my space but come back with stories to tell and arms that are open. I want someone who is strategic with their life but not afraid to take chances. With someone who loves my son close to as much as I do if not equal to. I want to feel that no matter where we are in time or space that I am secure in the love this person has for me. I want more balance and I have ever had in my life and I want to share it with that person.
You forgot to add: someone who will look the other way when you pin your baby's hands to the wall, while you beat him.
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I want someone who believes in me. Someone to show me when I don't believe in myself . Someone to motivate me but also give me reality . I want someone who isn't afraid to dream and roll with the punches someone who doesn't miss a beat. I want him to be unafraid to dance even if he can't dance. I want him to sweep me up and look at me with love and understanding always and if he doesn't understand I want him to inquire. Someone soft of spirit but Will fight to the death for his family. I want someone who knows things; things that I don't know, handy things, survival type things.I want someone who reads to me, cooks with me, and actively searches the world for new things with me. I want someone who can give me my space but come back with stories to tell and arms that are open. I want someone who is strategic with their life but not afraid to take chances. With someone who loves my son close to as much as I do if not equal to. I want to feel that no matter where we are in time or space that I am secure in the love this person has for me. I want more balance and I have ever had in my life and I want to share it with that person.
I am putting this out there in the belief that this person will find this person find me.