@loonylibra
11 Years
Is my boyfriend a narcissist?
Signs Your Partner May Be a Narcissist
A narcissistic partner often exhibits superficial charm, excessive need for admiration, and difficulty handling boundaries. They may also become passive aggressive or emotional when challenged. Noticing consistent patterns of manipulation or draining behavior can indicate narcissism. Consulting a mental health professional can provide clarity and support in understanding your relationship.
Also, to add on we got in a relationship quickly and he said that loved me quickly and we had sex quickly.We've been together for 5 months. I knew these were red flags but I brushed them off because I thought time doesn't measure anything. But reading about narcissists now has me thinking something different.
What's your bf's sun, moon and Venus?
Is there any Scorpio in his chart?
Posted by aquarius09
What's your bf's sun, moon and Venus?
I'm also curious.
Need more info
Hmm seems too happy for you.
Posted by loonylibra
He's very superficial in the way that he seems too perfect, always happy even his family is in on it. They're too nice.
Sounds like hell
Posted by aphrodite3
omg.. no fucking wonder... you bitches equate abuse with being happy and nonabuse as being unhappy. interesting story.
Are you familiar with sarcasm.
Your not very perceptive are you.
Posted by aphrodite3
omg.. no fucking wonder... you bitches equate abuse with being happy and nonabuse as being unhappy. interesting story.Are you familiar with sarcasm.
Your not very perceptive are you.
you sounded dead serious. I can't tell based off of the deadness in this thread. I'm sorry.
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Your forgiven.
I think op just doesn't believe she's worthy of someone who sees value in her. Which is why she's throwing out narcissistic labels. He cares about me and is happy all the time? Something MUST be wrong with him!
Posted by aphrodite3
btiches like you is gonna have a long life of thotness with nothing to show for it... what the fuck are your achievements you house wench!?Aquaboy?!
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Posted by loonylibra
He's very superficial in the way that he seems too perfect, always happy even his family is in on it. They're too nice. He's super clingy and when I asked for some space he became passive aggressive and had sort of a tantrum. At times I feel drained from talking to him. I don't know if this is all in my head because I've dealt with a narcissist before and with him it's a little different. It hasn't gotten as bad as it could be so sometimes I wonder if it's happening at all. Please give me feedback if you have information. It's all really hard to wrap my head around. Thank you.More information definitely needed but the fact that he reacts in a passive aggressive manner at your request for some space is enough cause for concern.
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I'm only replying to you because you seem like the only that understands narcissistic behavior. None of this has anything to do with zodiac signs. And there's not much information I can give you because the relationship is still young. He doesn't tell me anything deeply. It's on the surface as in he never talks about his emotions or his past hurt. He wants to come across as happy and that nothing is ever wrong but that's so fake to me. It's a facade that he's hiding behind and I know it. That's narcissistic behavior if you guys would look it up instead of just saying I'm stupid and jumping to conclusions.
Posted by aphrodite3
btiches like you is gonna have a long life of thotness with nothing to show for it... what the fuck are your achievements you house wench!?
Haha wow you're so funny
Posted by sagsagsag
Your bf, what's his sign? My wild guess would be one of the fire signs, yes?What made you think he's a narcissist? That he seems to be always happy? What's wrong with that?
I dont see anything wrong based on what you wrote, tbh.
A narcissist is someone that hides behind a facade. It seems fake to me is all. Obviously you guys dont truly know what narcissism is
Posted by loonylibra
He's very superficial in the way that he seems too perfect, always happy even his family is in on it. They're too nice. He's super clingy and when I asked for some space he became passive aggressive and had sort of a tantrum. At times I feel drained from talking to him. I don't know if this is all in my head because I've dealt with a narcissist before and with him it's a little different. It hasn't gotten as bad as it could be so sometimes I wonder if it's happening at all. Please give me feedback if you have information. It's all really hard to wrap my head around. Thank you.I'm assuming that people have gaslighted you before?
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Yes
Posted by aphrodite3
so you tell him you need space in a committed relationship and you get suspicious of him because he got mad? fucking nimrod
If you think I'm a "nimrod" then don't fucking answer.
Narcissism would be like if he was being into himself and was selfish. Someone after his own needs. And yeah a superficial air about him.
If he treats you well then why do you think he's a narcissist?
Posted by clippityclop
Narcissism would be like if he was being into himself and was selfish. Someone after his own needs. And yeah a superficial air about him.If he treats you well then why do you think he's a narcissist?
It seems fake. Like he's trying to lure me in and get me under his spell. I know it sounds like paranoia but it's a gut feeling I guess
Posted by clippityclop
Narcissism would be like if he was being into himself and was selfish. Someone after his own needs. And yeah a superficial air about him.If he treats you well then why do you think he's a narcissist?
It seems fake. Like he's trying to lure me in and get me under his spell. I know it sounds like paranoia but it's a gut feeling I guess
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Well if you feel like he might be putting on a fake air with you that can't be good. The last thing someone should be in a relationship is fake. 😢
Plenty of youtube channels ('assc direct', 'understanding narcissists', 'thrive after abuse' to name a few) that will help you figure out if you're dealing with a true narc. The feeling something is very off about the person / situation is usually a sign you're dealing with a toxic personality.
Posted by DonumDei
Also, before I forget to mention, there is such thing as covert narcissism you also may wish to look into.
Looked into this and I think this might be it
Posted by Kemetisinme
Plenty of youtube channels ('assc direct', 'understanding narcissists', 'thrive after abuse' to name a few) that will help you figure out if you're dealing with a true narc. The feeling something is very off about the person / situation is usually a sign you're dealing with a toxic personality.
Thank you! Watching right now
A lot of people don't talk about their feeling.
And yes a lot of people are too nice, and too perfect. There is nothing wrong with that.
But you talk about your gut feeling tells u something about him.. why ?
It's not something I can explain entirely. Something's wrong and you'd know what I meant if you talked with him
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He's very superficial in the way that he seems too perfect, always happy even his family is in on it. They're too nice. He's super clingy and when I asked for some space he became passive aggressive and had sort of a tantrum. At times I feel drained from talking to him. I don't know if this is all in my head because I've dealt with a narcissist before and with him it's a little different. It hasn't gotten as bad as it could be so sometimes I wonder if it's happening at all. Please give me feedback if you have information. It's all really hard to wrap my head around. Thank you.