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@Boots1313
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Sticky situation...should I wait or give him an ultimatum?
You're being dramatic.
What's the alternative to waiting until the end of this month?
Break up because he wont tell your ex bf right this very second?
What do you care what your ex thinks or knows anyway? Why is that important? It not like no one else knows in his or your family. You even said, your friends and family know.
What's the alternative to waiting until the end of this month?
Break up because he wont tell your ex bf right this very second?
What do you care what your ex thinks or knows anyway? Why is that important? It not like no one else knows in his or your family. You even said, your friends and family know.
Women and ultimatums......
Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
Posted by pisceswoman123This is my "llama that doesn't like drama" facePosted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......click to expand
Okay, thank you all for confirming what I basically knew i'm just over thinking and being "dramatic"- can take harsh criticism, its cool. ( i realize this is a ME issue, that I need to work on)
like I said above, a lot of it stems from old trust issues that i'm working on and some insecurities. I;ve been kept a "Secret" in the past, I've been lied to and cheated on, I've been played and lead on. All in ALL in just trying to guard my heart
also ultimatum was maybe the wrong word to use since I wouldn't necessary leave, but maybe pull back a bit IF by the end of April it hasn't happend?
i'm just so happy and excited with him, plus hes adorable and I wanna show him off a bit! is that so wrong? lol
like I said above, a lot of it stems from old trust issues that i'm working on and some insecurities. I;ve been kept a "Secret" in the past, I've been lied to and cheated on, I've been played and lead on. All in ALL in just trying to guard my heart
also ultimatum was maybe the wrong word to use since I wouldn't necessary leave, but maybe pull back a bit IF by the end of April it hasn't happend?
i'm just so happy and excited with him, plus hes adorable and I wanna show him off a bit! is that so wrong? lol
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......click to expand
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂
If you don’t learn to chill out and go with it you will lose this guy, eventually! Can’t see anything sticky about this, it’s really all in your head. Enjoy yourself with your new man and stop overthinking about how others are going to react. There’s only 2 people in this relationship.
Posted by jeane
You're being dramatic.
What's the alternative to waiting until the end of this month?
Break up because he wont tell your ex bf right this very second?
What do you care what your ex thinks or knows anyway? Why is that important? It not like no one else knows in his or your family. You even said, your friends and family know.
Very true, Im rushing this and its mostly because i'm just excited to be with him and i know hes a catch and i just want to appreciate him out in open on social media a bit. (i know emphasis on something that isn't real life and unimportant in the real world)
My friends are getting on my case a bit too "I cant post this pic because what if "insert name sees" (ie ex) but you and "current guy" look so cute"
WHy does he care what my ex thinks "Bro code"
if it was up to me i would have already said something to him, but out of respect my Bull asked to do it since hes known the guy 10 years. "Let me do it on my terms"
But over all I am being DRAMATIC
i just needed to hear it from others,,,and basically read it out loud.
Posted by sweetheartsI have NO CHILL 😢
If you don’t learn to chill out and go with it you will lose this guy, eventually! Can’t see anything sticky about this, it’s really all in your head. Enjoy yourself with your new man and stop overthinking about how others are going to react. There’s only 2 people in this relationship.
I'm usually the one to take "the bull by the horns" - PUN Intended
I forgot to mention a pretty big detail above-he rents said ex's parents upstairs apartment.
SO his living situation AND a Friendship is a bit on the line.
But we wouldn't have even involved ourselves with eachother if we didn't think we were "meant to be" (insert other cliche lovey dovey things here)
Posted by Boots1313Mine was wholly judgemental tho. Wholly as in Whole Foods. 😄Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂click to expand
Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Boots1313Mine was wholly judgemental tho. Wholly as in Whole Foods. 😄Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂
click to expand
Fine by me frog, fine by me
Posted by Boots1313jk jk, i'm just pulling your leg! 😄Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Boots1313Mine was wholly judgemental tho. Wholly as in Whole Foods. 😄Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂
Fine by me frog, fine by me
click to expand
"Whoever you are, I have always depended on the kindness of strangers."
Posted by Mr_PinchyThat is a very funny llama face 😂Posted by pisceswoman123This is my "llama that doesn't like drama" facePosted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
click to expand
Posted by Boots1313Don’t feel silly. We are just joking around.Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂click to expand
Glad we could help 😋
Posted by sweethearts+1👍
If you don’t learn to chill out and go with it you will lose this guy, eventually! Can’t see anything sticky about this, it’s really all in your head. Enjoy yourself with your new man and stop overthinking about how others are going to react. There’s only 2 people in this relationship.
Posted by pisceswoman123no truly, thank you!Posted by Boots1313Don’t feel silly. We are just joking around.Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Mr_PinchyLol. Only dramatic ones
Women and ultimatums......
LOL thanks for the laugh...GOD now feel silly haha
and 100% better.
The kindness and judgement of strangers 🙂
Glad we could help 😋click to expand
I'd rather feel silly, then get all worked up about it and hyperventilate and start automatically thinking the worse. (neurotic by nature)
It's OK. You're in the early stages. All of this is totally normal.
Just don't punish him for other people's past mistakes.
Just don't punish him for other people's past mistakes.
Posted by jeane
It's OK. You're in the early stages. All of this is totally normal.
Just don't punish him for other people's past mistakes.
Very true, just hard to sometimes detach from those inner feelings.
Lucky we both have past hurt in relationships and were open about it.
Essentially how we bonded, i was impressed by his emotional side and openess.
But as my grandma always said "don't beat a dead horse"
so after awhile, we needed to put the topic of "i've been hurt" to rest.
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