It sucks to be single.
This time of year
You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
November?
Marry me
One less gift to buy
Posted by KoniuchaaIts embarrassing to some.
I don't understand why people say that
Posted by SecretNovember and December. It's the holidays.
November?
Posted by BuffaloBills28I've been single for years, too many to count. I've had plenty of time to develop myself
Only time you truly ever have to develop yourself is when you are single.
Posted by everlynnBecause I love the holidays and I never get to spend it with someone special. Would be nice!Posted by pinkbird03Why?
It sucks to be single.
click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03#suspectPosted by BuffaloBills28I've been single for years, too many to count. I've had plenty of time to develop myself
Only time you truly ever have to develop yourself is when you are single.click to expand
Posted by SsupermanOh but I love shopping!!! And wrapping presents!
One less gift to buy
Posted by bawlikestogomooYes! ?
Marry me
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
Posted by HarukkaNo. it's about love, happiness, family, and tradition. It's a magical time of the year!Posted by KoniuchaaThey need someone to survive from the blackoles inside them.
I don't understand why people say thatclick to expand
@pinkbird03 answer my survey.
Posted by themagnetorebornLol... I am picky! And shy and I may have cut one person off too soon. I'll admit I'm part of this problem! But I mean im looking for one special guy. Not a fling. I have every right to be selective ?
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
Posted by pinkbird03Diagnosis: NFES (not flexible enough syndrome)Posted by themagnetorebornLol... I am picky! And shy and I may have cut one person off too soon. I'll admit I'm part of this problem! But I mean im looking for one special guy. Not a fling. I have every right to be selective ?
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too closeclick to expand
Posted by VirgofemAgreed! Relationships are too much work! It is easier for me to be single. But I do want to find someone that makes me feel like they are the easiest thing ever. I can hope for that!! And yes, I'm always with my family for the holidays. That does make me happy ?
I know, this will sound cold but I'm just being me....
I have never thought we were all supposed to be married, have kids or live the so called acceptable life. Some of us, probably a lot of virgos (wink wink) are meant to journey through life alone. Alone but not lonely. I have had relationships but truth, it's too much damn work. I like being with me.
Yep, holidays are tough, no doubt. But I'm sure your family would love to have you around. My family begs me to come home. Sometimes I do and other times, I want a more contemplative holiday season.
Embrace your journey!
Posted by KoniuchaaLol, you're a Scorpio, so I'm skeptical.Posted by themagnetorebornI have also been single for a while and I'm certainly no suspectPosted by pinkbird03#suspectPosted by BuffaloBills28I've been single for years, too many to count. I've had plenty of time to develop myself
Only time you truly ever have to develop yourself is when you are single.
To any recent crimes ?click to expand
And also, the OP said she's been single for years.
Posted by themagnetorebornLolol this may be true!Posted by pinkbird03Diagnosis: NFES (not flexible enough syndrome)Posted by themagnetorebornLol... I am picky! And shy and I may have cut one person off too soon. I'll admit I'm part of this problem! But I mean im looking for one special guy. Not a fling. I have every right to be selective ?
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
click to expand
Posted by themagnetorebornlol
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
😆
Posted by themagnetorebornWhat am I a suspect of??Posted by KoniuchaaLol, you're a Scorpio, so I'm skeptical.Posted by themagnetorebornI have also been single for a while and I'm certainly no suspectPosted by pinkbird03#suspectPosted by BuffaloBills28I've been single for years, too many to count. I've had plenty of time to develop myself
Only time you truly ever have to develop yourself is when you are single.
To any recent crimes ?
And also, the OP said she's been single for years.
click to expand
@magnet, if you're single, and are high stadnards guy yourself....
you maybe in the running for some of these ladies.
get your PM open. lol 😛 😆
you maybe in the running for some of these ladies.
get your PM open. lol 😛 😆
Posted by KoniuchaaThe Scorpios I know are set in their ways. So maybe, right now, you're set in yours.Posted by themagnetorebornSo have IPosted by KoniuchaaLol, you're a Scorpio, so I'm skeptical.Posted by themagnetorebornI have also been single for a while and I'm certainly no suspectPosted by pinkbird03#suspectPosted by BuffaloBills28I've been single for years, too many to count. I've had plenty of time to develop myself
Only time you truly ever have to develop yourself is when you are single.
To any recent crimes ?
And also, the OP said she's been single for years.
click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Oh pfft, I don't have high standards. I get along with most women, but I'm not sure why to be honest. My mom told me that when I was born, I was surrounded by all women (true story).
@magnet, if you're single, and are high stadnards guy yourself....
you maybe in the running for some of these ladies.
get your PM open. lol 😛 😆
Maybe my Venus sextile Mars and Venus sextile Jupiter aspect explains this. But my point is, the OP should just be a little more open and flexible.
Posted by lisabethur8Ok I'll answerPosted by themagnetorebornlol
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
😆click to expand
No to introvert, anti-social, low self esteem, and bad vibes
3. I have great social skills when I don't feel pressured by a stranger lol if I like a guy I've met out, then I'm shy. But I don't go to the right places to be decent guys so I should join more clubs.
5 and 8. I've dated a lot, but if I don't like a guy, I don't like him. There are reasons.
9 and 10 yes
I also hang out with a lot of gay guys.. this doesn't help me attract available men lol.
Posted by pinkbird03Wait...so you consider yourself an extrovert? o.OPosted by lisabethur8Ok I'll answerPosted by themagnetorebornlol
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
😆
No to introvert, anti-social, low self esteem, and bad vibes
3. I have great social skills when I don't feel pressured by a stranger lol if I like a guy I've met out, then I'm shy. But I don't go to the right places to be decent guys so I should join more clubs.
5 and 8. I've dated a lot, but if I don't like a guy, I don't like him. There are reasons.
9 and 10 yes
click to expand
Anyways, if a guy is interested in you and asks you out, then give it a shot. Your situation won't change unless you yourself make it.
Posted by themagnetorebornI'd say I'm somewhere in the middle!! I have dated a lot of men. I do try ya know. I meet guys from dating sites though. No luck there!! Dr. Laura says I need to go to finer places to meet finer men.Posted by pinkbird03Wait...so you consider yourself an extrovert? o.OPosted by lisabethur8Ok I'll answerPosted by themagnetorebornlol
OP is leaving out important details
1) Is she introverted
2) Is she anti-social
3) Does she have good social skills
4) Does she give off bad vibes
5) Has she said no to many relationship opportunities in the past
6) Does she cut off people once they get too close
7) Does she have low self-esteem
8) Does she make an effort to put herself out there
9) Does she spend too much time in her head than make things happen
10) Does she have unrealistic, high standards for a partner
The list goes on. If OP answers yes to at least 6 of these questions, we have a problem.
😆
No to introvert, anti-social, low self esteem, and bad vibes
3. I have great social skills when I don't feel pressured by a stranger lol if I like a guy I've met out, then I'm shy. But I don't go to the right places to be decent guys so I should join more clubs.
5 and 8. I've dated a lot, but if I don't like a guy, I don't like him. There are reasons.
9 and 10 yes
Anyways, if a guy is interested in you and asks you out, then give it a shot. Your situation won't change unless you yourself make it.
click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaaFor some, yea. I mean, single, no kids and no grandkids. Some feel embarrassedPosted by SsupermanWhat is? Being single this time of year?Posted by KoniuchaaIts embarrassing to some.
I don't understand why people say thatclick to expand
Posted by GetMistedOh I so totally want one, but between my parents and my brother, there's too many animals. And I feel guilty leaving them every time I do see them and say goodbye. Imagine how I'd feel about my own!
Get a cat
But it is an option. Maybe someone will surprise me with that as a Christmas gift!! Doubt it lol aww 😢
I added a few photos of myself with a few pets 🙂
Why? Go ahead, I'd like to hear your logic (or lack therof) as to why.
Posted by MiZLeoThat's completely understandable. It's your personal preference. Mine is just the opposite :-)
Being in a relationship during the holidays is so overrated. Honestly I'm to the point where I'd just like to go on a cruise for the holidays now and not have to deal with all of the hassle of the all. Cooking. Whose house your going to. Oh and if you're with someone u gotta figure out how you're going to spend time with your family and their family. Such a headache. Presents. Ugh. I have a big family too. There are about 15 ppl in my immediate family. I'm so over it.
Posted by GetMistedLol none live with me. I am getting a hibiscus ? plant though. That will be my baby ?Posted by BuffaloBills28Not with all those cats.
You're attractive. A guy is gonna come into your life eventually. I guess you have to be a bit more patient.click to expand
Posted by GetMistedYou're just a hater ?Posted by pinkbird03Men hate hibiscusPosted by GetMistedLol none live with me. I am getting a hibiscus ? plant though. That will be my baby ?Posted by BuffaloBills28Not with all those cats.
You're attractive. A guy is gonna come into your life eventually. I guess you have to be a bit more patient.click to expand
Posted by BuffaloBills28Thank you!!
You're attractive. A guy is gonna come into your life eventually. I guess you have to be a bit more patient.
Posted by ExplicitCouldn't have said it better!!
- Don't have to have a perfect body? Check.
- Don't have to look perfect every time he/she see's you? Check.
- Don't have to deal with emotional crap and jealousy? Check.
- Don't have to hear complaints about not opening up? Check.
- Don't have to explain OCD habits? Check.
- Don't have to wake up one day and second guess who you're dating? Check.
- Don't have to put a smiley face on when you feel like crap? Check.
It's a wonderful time to be single!
Posted by sakuraflowersI spoil mine! Wrap presents up for them to open. They love Christmas just as much as I do.Posted by GetMistedYour cat must have gotten a lot of presents for the holidays. 😛
Get a catclick to expand
Posted by GetMistedGood Game!Posted by tiziani*OregonTrailPosted by GetMistedI've never been single on myspace tbfPosted by tizianifixed*
The worst part of being single is being poked on myspace
click to expand
Posted by GetMistedReally? Am I only one that has a stocking for my cat? Santa Paws even visits.... ?Posted by sakuraflowersI've never gotten my cat a gift for the holidays.Posted by GetMistedYour cat must have gotten a lot of presents for the holidays. 😛
Get a catclick to expand
It really doesn't
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.
Posted by sakuraflowersLol that's part of it. I like others to be happy. Every gift I buy is meant to be special. catnip blankets are a popular gift!!Posted by pinkbird03I was just gonna reply to @GetMisted that I think partly you would want someone special to spoil over the holidays, but I guess you already do. 😛Posted by sakuraflowersI spoil mine! Wrap presents up for them to open. They love Christmas just as much as I do.Posted by GetMistedYour cat must have gotten a lot of presents for the holidays. 😛
Get a catclick to expand
Posted by SsupermanHow much ?
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.
Posted by pinkbird03$ 50 plus gas.Posted by SsupermanHow much ?
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.click to expand
Posted by Ssuperman? Not bad!!Posted by pinkbird03$ 50 plus gas.Posted by SsupermanHow much ?
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.click to expand
Posted by SsupermanI don't know what all you're including in that $ 50, but it's the holidays, I think you can get more.Posted by pinkbird03$ 50 plus gas.Posted by SsupermanHow much ?
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.click to expand
Posted by pinkbird03I mean, that's just to show up, eat, smack you on the booty (to look like you have a legit dude) and leave. Hugging the mom is an extra $ 5.Posted by Ssuperman? Not bad!!Posted by pinkbird03$ 50 plus gas.Posted by SsupermanHow much ?
I am seriously considering renting myself out for the holidays.click to expand
Posted by GetMisted12 Drummers DrummingPosted by pinkbird03I'll date you. What are you getting me for the holidays?Posted by sakuraflowersLol that's part of it. I like others to be happy. Every gift I buy is meant to be special. catnip blankets are a popular gift!!Posted by pinkbird03I was just gonna reply to @GetMisted that I think partly you would want someone special to spoil over the holidays, but I guess you already do. 😛Posted by sakuraflowersI spoil mine! Wrap presents up for them to open. They love Christmas just as much as I do.Posted by GetMistedYour cat must have gotten a lot of presents for the holidays. 😛
Get a cat
click to expand
Eleven Pipers Piping
Ten Lords a Leaping
Nine Ladies Dancing
Eight Maids a Milking
Seven Swans a Swimming
Six Geese a Laying
Five Golden Rings
Four Calling Birds
Three French Hens
Two Turtle Doves
and a Partridge in a Pear Tree
Posted by GetMistedI love football too haha jets vs patriots Saturday night game Christmas Eve I believe ?
I want a cheese wheel, a pint of whiskey, and to be left alone on Monday, Thursday, Saturday, and Sunday so I can watch football.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Who uses this site to find a date? How many stupid messages do you get like this? Please do share some if you don't mind.
"Hey sexy mama. let's meet up right now. come over. 220b north oak belton mo, 64012. Samuel..."
"Sit on my face"
Would you do it? Like a felon, DUI charges, drug charges and etc?
To me it does show bad character but I believe in second chances. But it would be harder for me to gain trust for the dude.
When you ask man 'do you love me'?
And he says 'I will tell you when I am ready'
THEN
You say I love you at the end of a conversation and
he is briefly said 'I love you too' vaguely and hanges up
seems just to get over with...
THEN
You say 'I love
A friend has been asking me for advice and it got me thinking. Here is the situation:
Guy was chasing a girl for several months. He was always gushing to others about how great she was and his face lit up when he was around her. They blatantly flirted
In reference to a barista that I see almost everyday. He gives me extra shots in my coffee, the occasional free drink, calls me darling, sweetheart, and just added in love. (He's not British)
The darling and sweetheart, I took as commonplace fillers,
I'm slowly falling for a male colleague who's 4 years younger. This is an unexpected attraction as I normally know early on from meeting someone whether I would like the person or not. With him, I didn't bother until a few months after when I started to f
Now she won't text me back. Guess that was a bad move. I'm just so sick of these relationships where new people want go so fast out of fear of wasting time. It's impossible for me to develop the trust and respect required to actually commit. Most people d
I'm a strong woman who believes a man is the man in the relationship despite me having strong will I know when to let a man lead. Men have it harder then women in society they are looked at as the bread winner they work hard not only to take care of thems
Let's discuss
Any experienced ones around?
some men here say why not, if he is not making a move, go ahead and let him know you are interested in him, but does that really work? the guys seem flattered and appreciate her courage and honesty but seem to want someone challenging. is that true. how m
Have you or your SO or partner get angry about something and then turn around and have sex as a sort of outlet to take their anger out on? Whether it is because of you, them or something else. Personally I think it's very hot. How about you?
Ok. I had met this nicest man who is over 60. Very nice. Living in a subsidized home. On SSD.
His wife left him after 3O years of marriage. He sold a house and living alone and all the ladies in the apartment complex just love him.
He is helpful and f
Place i work, a married man with 2 young children in mid 30s having affair with co worker in very early 20s.
So disappointed
I was talking to the pisces earlier and this time she was letting me touch her and she was opening up to me about herself. so towards the end of the evening i held her wrist and i said "i wanted this" while she was holding something in her hand. she holds
"Comes from insecurity" - Aqua sun/Taurus moon
"Comes from own ego issues" - Aries sun/Gemini moon
Discuss
I'm very happy to say that I'm getting divorced and I cannot wait til it happens.
We finally agreed to it and I've been wanting out for sometime.
Too toxic of a relationship between Leo and Scorpio although it wasn't really astrologically related.
Hey, I'm new here. I came in here in search of some answers on how to deal with my Gemini lover and soul mate I believe. We met five years ago. I started truck driving school and he was an instructor. The attraction was instant magic which turned se
Hello, I am a male sun Scorpio, moon Aries. Up until a couple weeks ago when she broke up with me over text, me and my Aquarius girlfriend had been happily dating for nearly two years with very few problems. I would appreciate some advice.
Okay, some b
I was talking to an acquaintance earlier and he was saying how he was in a relationship and he bought a house with his gf. While she was at work the old hags there put an idea in her mind saying she is too young to get tied down and she should enjoy her y
What's you're Experience can it work...?