Trapping men with pregnancy (Page 2)

but see, how many people actually know how to love?

this is why there's this kind of problem going on.

that stupid ass quote on the flower. is lame. people are gonna pick up the flower NO MATTER WHAT.

this is better.

Posted by lisabethur8
that stupid ass quote on the flower. is lame. people are gonna pick up the flower NO MATTER WHAT.

this is better.

That's sexist. ^^^^

Men don't possess women, or any part of them!!!!

I also think its perfectly nature to have sex with your lover without condoms, and the women like me get on birth control..meanwhile if I trust you and you trust me to be monogamous. I am down to have fun.

Even if intentions are up in the air between us. Ill still be on birth control and still have fun..and if I end up getting something because I trusted you to begin with. Your in fucking trouble.

You are..

Women possess men. Not men possessive with women at all. That's kinda of twisted..

Hey I'm a Taurus and I liked that quote! 🙂

I do agree with you lisa...most people don't know what love truly is...they want to posses that which they love and to truly love means that you don't posses. I think that when someone loves you and you love them back you do hold that persons heart in your hand and they hold yours but you nurture it, protect it, encourage it, heal it, etc... Women that do this whole getting pregnant to keep a man never really truly loved the man or the baby because if they did and he didn't love them back then they would let him go because they would want him to have happiness and true love in his life even if it meant it wasn't with them. I honestly think they are just selfish people who are insecure and don't know how to really love. They just want what they want and don't care what they have to do to get it. :/ And if they loved their baby then they wouldn't want their child coming into the world because of lies and manipulation.

PS. I liked the flower quote too, especially the last line. 🙂

Posted by GENERALIZOD
MEN CAN TRAP TOO WITH PREGNANCY. SAY AN ELEGANT SWANLIKE WOMAN WITH A BUDDING MODELING CAREER.

Yes, I had one confess in detail. We weren't even in a committed relationship - just really close friends.

Also, a trick of men when you want a divorce.

Accountability has been a reoccurring theme... real life.

It's as though it is written on my sword and engraved on casings.

Good lord, do some of you live in a damned cave?

This concept is not new, nor has it changed.

There are lame ass bitches who do this shit all the time. Heads out of asses, ladies.

Posted by size zero superhero
Claims of criminally-insane trollops using pregnancy to trap men, are akin to...
"years of chain-smoking tricked my lungs into cancer. those cigarettes are sly bastards, lemme tellya"
"drinking cheap gin by the truckload fooled my liver until I developed cirrhosis"
"WHAT? I weigh 400lbs? Burger King & Taco Bell scammed my metabolism!"

quit pointing fingers. especially if:
(A)broke; don't have two nickels to rub together
(B)habitually banging fertile partners of questionable mind/intent/sanity/overall competence
(C)hit it raw, regularly."bu-ut she said she's on The Pill", "I h8 condoms!" Do you know for certain the pill is used properly for max efficacy(daily, by clock schedule)? Or only hanging on hope & a prayer, assuming the BC is on lock? Bring/wear a raincoat = all doubt removed.
[D]you already have existing 1-night-stand babies with previous bootycall stock
(E)your sex partner(s)goofed up & has "lil souvenirs" from past 1-nighters or short-lived FWBs

😄

(flame away, IDC)

+1

In a lot of situations it's just guys being dumb fucks and banging without condoms. Fucking whiners. "I DON'T LIKE THEM." Too damned bad. Use them or stfu if you knock her up. Contraception shouldn't always be entirely up to her.

Nevermind they do this with questionable chicks. You'll either catch an STD or the baby virus. Quit being morons.

Sure, there are scenarios where the chick is being a shady bitch, but there are also a lot of scenarios where the guys were just being stupid asses and are running away from responsibility and pegging it all on her. Such honorable human beings.

Posted by deathnirvana
Women trap men with pregnancy, false rape charges, alimony, divorce fees, suffering of marriage

Men trap women with exceptionally good looks

Lol

Men fuck up women by raping them, using them for sex, emotionally abusing them, setting them to stupid image standards, physical abuse, go as far as alienating the woman from her family and friends to better control, take no responsibility for their actions, knock chicks up and run away.

But that's only some men.

Just like only some women do "false rape charges" (biggest go to for ignorant twats such as yourself seeing as how that percentage is insanely low), trap men with pregnancy, etc.

Now gtfo of here with that "false rape" bullshit you child.

Posted by size zero superhero

For real ^

LOL @ gendered victim-versus-perpetrator complexes. Certain individual men are well capable, willing & eager to fvc.k others over provided it suits their interests. Some women operate in the exact same way. Appraising overall trustworthiness & predicting one's motives on the sole basis of whether the individual has a wang or a wedge renders you a provincial idiot...at most 😉

Also confounding, how *exceptional good looks* were isolated as a means which men may successfully manipulate women. Meanwhile in reality, the exact opposite scenario is the FAR more likely one. It's generally not women who are making exceptions & overlooking awful character flaws, just for the sake of having a trophy partner to show off, because the guy in question is ~so hawt...try again. That's guy-territory. No need to project those shallow priorities onto women 😄

Seriously.

And I knew dude was joking about the looks bit, but I'm still rather irritated from some of the bs in that rape thread where this myth seems to be clinging to the notion of rape being faked is as common as people state- when it isn't. "Joking" about something like that is just utter ignorance.

Some guys do fucked up shit to manipulate women and some women do it to guys. All around, these people are assholes- something everyone should be able to agree upon.

It just makes me lol when the guys whine and complain when they get screwed over- usually due to them allowing their penis to make important decisions. Like was mentioned in the OP- you can't cry being trapped when your dumb ass didn't wear a condom. The whole point of sex is for procreation. You don't take preventative measures, guess what the number one risk factor will be?

And if she says she's taking the pill, wtf are you doing relying solely on that?? Pills have like the highest rate of error. Pills are so finicky and if you don't take them at the exact same time, are taking antibiotics, or even forget, you're sol. It's why I never bothered with that method. Too many issues if it's not done just so.

So guys, you go and bone a chick without a condom, it's as much as your fault as it is hers.

Posted by truecap
Okay, so I suppose it is still possible in this day and age to be "trapped" by a pregnancy, even though you know that's a risk of having sex.

If you're having sex, it's not a trap. There's always that possibility of getting pregnant, it's not like you don't know!

this still going on?

well if men are stupid to be trapped that's their fault.

and what if the woman who is trapping the guy, she finds out that he's a drug addicted, fucked up criminal— all this time.
(yes i know, sometimes people just love certain types of men no matter what) but in the case of entrapment, they do so because they LIKE the qualities of the man. So desperate and they figured get 'em emotionally and with sexual coercion. (yes, sexual coercion, there are men who can't keep their pants together)

and he can't help pay for the baby, so he just lives with her and her momma or parents or whatever.

now what happens then—?

who is really trapped?

a man i know: "i agreed to have a baby with her because she didn't need marriage...so i am free"

i looked at him sth like: "WTF?! are you stupid or what?! a marriage is a sheet of paper...a baby is a commitment for life..."

it really depends on each person's perspective on things.

ps...it was the second time the guy was having a baby without getting married...imagine how the first "thing" ended. imagine how this one will end...

Men trapping women is more common today than women trapping men

Posted by tiziani

^I'm just gobsmacked all round at these stories to be honest man.

I am also.

paranoia, desperation, insecurity, jealousy .... it's quite an eye-opener to realize that most people would rather nurture lower brain functions.

I think the woman should also take a day after pill to help with that

Really? So why are abortions on the rise?

Posted by starlover

Posted by Sn1p3r187
I think the woman should also take a day after pill to help with that

Why should they ?

The morning after pill can harm the body, why should women put their health at risk for a sex life?

Men need to make sure If they don't want to be a daddy,they put something on the end of it......

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Then take another pill to help with that. Condoms break more than pills do, more like put your health at risk so you don't have to be mommy. So where men should put something at the end of it women should take a pill, or have the child, or get a coat hanger. Grim, but that's the reality there.

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Posted by StarChild63
Men trapping women is more common today than women trapping men

Can you give me an example? Because I was under the impression that most men enjoy their independence and bachelor status. Usually it's the women poking holes in condoms, freezing sperm, going off birth control, etc.

Saying they pulled out when they didn't ..

Pulling off the condom mid-coitus....

It happens. There are men who try to trap women for various reasons. To take away the woman's independence, men get baby fever too, keep her from leaving him, etc. Many of the same reasons a woman might do it.

Again though, it's each person's responsibility to protect against pregnancy.

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Interesting. I've only heard of these instances where the guy was just being a selfish asshole and didn't want to deal with the condoms or ruin his moment by pulling out.

I know of someone who claimed condoms never worked. ...because he didn't like using them. Then, for some magical reason, his wife's birth control wasn't working either (she was using the ring). I don't think she was using it properly as well. ...how I don't know since the ring is pretty effing easy to use and hard to screw up.

...these genes are spreading rapidly. They have 5 kids. Two with each other and the rest from previous relationships. :/

Posted by CapTenn
Sure, it possible.

People are crazy. I get the personal protection and responsibility thing, but serious, monogamous relationships eventually lead to trust, and alternative means of contraception. Who wants to wear (or wants their man to wear) condoms in a committed relationships? Not me, and not any woman in any serious relationship I've been in. Eventually, that nonsense gets tossed aside, thankfully.

Thus, trust is born within the relationship. She's going to take the pill, you love her, she loves you, and you're on the same page -- no kids.

The woman can change her mind and deceive, happens all the time, unfortunately. Maybe she feels the relationship is in trouble and slipping away, and in desperation to hold on to it, she decides to get pregnant. Oopsie!!! That's a trap by my definition.

And, IMO, it's most certainly a financial trap, if you hadn't planned for it. Say a $ 1000 bucks a month, for the next 18-20 years, medical expenses, dental bills, a car, extra curricular activities, college, weddings, etc.

That's what I call a trap!

Pill is poison, destroys libido and women health. We have only 6-7 fertile days in the month, rest is nothing , it isn't difficult know that, just a little atention and care is needed.
Men must control your ejaculation not arrive and you get everything done.
Using this method for years and not fails. Not tantric men don't serve for me. Also good for the relationship, pill isn't in any level , only is good for Farmaphia accounts. If you like poison, you take it.

You and most people, women too, are sexist . World seen from a cock ... Taking pill ... hmm ... no, better control ejaculation and good sex education, less lies and less magic-pills because is no magic there.
Besides, sex-nervous men are sick, unhappy and powerless, his women the same.

Posted by StarChild63

Men trapping women is more common today than women trapping men

What utter nonsense. Women with sticks up their ass due to not being able to handle their feelings make complete fools out of themselves.

and here we see it

^^So what does that make Deinonychus or Utahraptor or even good old Tyrannosaurus clux?