Posted by GemitatiHe is a Leo.
What's his asses sign?
Posted by TheSagLady
It's a more polite version of "im so sick of you. right now"
Posted by Prettymomma1922Ok. What have you done to piss him off?Posted by GemitatiHe is a Leo.
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Posted by bubblebathSo, him saying "you're forcing me to walk away" and "for right now" all mean he just needs space? And that he hasn't reallly walked away?
he just wants space, if he wanted to leave he would have probably been more straightforward
pls dont overreact, he is still your bf
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Prettymomma1922Ok. What have you done to piss him off?Posted by GemitatiHe is a Leo.
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Posted by Prettymomma1922Not enough info. Sorry.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Prettymomma1922Ok. What have you done to piss him off?Posted by GemitatiHe is a Leo.
What's his asses sign?
I've tried to talk to him and have a face to face conversation.
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Posted by GemitatiI tried to have a conversation about anything and everything. He's been sorta distant. I was trying to figure out if it's just over thinking and over analyzing or what.Posted by Prettymomma1922Not enough info. Sorry.Posted by GemitatiPosted by Prettymomma1922Ok. What have you done to piss him off?Posted by GemitatiHe is a Leo.
What's his asses sign?
I've tried to talk to him and have a face to face conversation.
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Posted by compyMy sign is a Leo as well.
That's not enough either. Go deeper. He is distressed by something. What is your sign?
Posted by compy
That's funny. You should understand each other mutually. You are seeking for some validation only, but you are not willing to search for the root of the problem. As two Leos, you are probably clashing a lot with self-esteem. Communicate!
Posted by Prettymomma1922PM me if you are not comfortable in making details more public.Posted by compy
That's funny. You should understand each other mutually. You are seeking for some validation only, but you are not willing to search for the root of the problem. As two Leos, you are probably clashing a lot with self-esteem. Communicate!
I am willing to search for the of the problem. However, I can't force him to tell me what it is, if he doesn't want to. That's all I've wanted this whole week is for him to communicate with me. Instead, he's shutting me out. And it's really not helping. I'd like to think that he didn't walk away and that he was only saying those things cause he was pissed off or mad at the time saying it. But, in all honesty, I'm at the point where I just don't know.
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Posted by compyI have no idea how to do that. Or even how to open a message on here. Someone told me how to before but I don't have those options.Posted by Prettymomma1922PM me if you are not comfortable in making details more public.Posted by compy
That's funny. You should understand each other mutually. You are seeking for some validation only, but you are not willing to search for the root of the problem. As two Leos, you are probably clashing a lot with self-esteem. Communicate!
I am willing to search for the of the problem. However, I can't force him to tell me what it is, if he doesn't want to. That's all I've wanted this whole week is for him to communicate with me. Instead, he's shutting me out. And it's really not helping. I'd like to think that he didn't walk away and that he was only saying those things cause he was pissed off or mad at the time saying it. But, in all honesty, I'm at the point where I just don't know.
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Posted by bubblebathOkay but after that, I'd given him space. That's why I didn't answer his text. That's why he sent me that text Thursday and why I didn't answer it then either. That's why we didn't talk Friday as well. And the only reason I contacted him yesterday (Saturday) is because we were supposed to get together and have a face to face conversation. Otherwise, I wouldn't have. I would've continued to give him his space. And that's why, I haven't contacted him today. I don't feel like I'm overbearing. I just ask for communication between us. I don't try to be overbearing. But then, him saying what he's said last night...I don't even know.Posted by Prettymomma1922"You don't give me any space. You realize that right"
In all honesty, I don't know what happened between us. Last Sunday, we were fine. When I left him Monday morning when he went to work, everything was fine. He sent me a "good morning" text that day. I asked him later on how his day was and that was it. Then all of a sudden, he stopped answering any texts. Didn't call on his way home from work like he usually does. Nothing. And it seems to me he's been really distant since then. I've asked him to have a face to face conversation since Tuesday. When I went to his second job Tuesday night to grab something from him, he wouldn't hug me. Told me that's not a good idea when usually it's a hug and kiss goodbye. We discussed having a face to face conversation that night in person and decided that it would be Saturday (last night) but instead I got everything I just posted about. Wednesday is sent him a text just simply saying "hope you're having a good day today. And not as irritated." I have no idea why he's so frustrated or irritated. Then his response back to me was "yes I'm still irritated. You don't give me any space. You realize that right." So, I never answered. Then Thursday he texted and said "I appreciate you giving me space last night and today. I just need to clear my head a bit. Im not mad at you, im just frustrated " and I didn't answer that either. Then, i had to call him that night and tell him about the car accident I got into. I waited till he got out of work to tell him as to not irritate or worry him while he was there. He told me that he appreciates me waiting and that it's really okay that I called to tell him that. We talked for about 5 mins and that was it. We didn't talk at all Friday. And then Saturday came, I texted "good morning" he said "good morning." Then I asked if we were still Geri g together later on. Then, all of what I've stated above was said.
he said it pretty clearly. do you sometimes feel that you are too overbearing? this is one thing that destroys relationshipsclick to expand
Posted by compyI got your message. But I can't open it. I can't even send you a message.Posted by Prettymomma1922PM me if you are not comfortable in making details more public.Posted by compy
That's funny. You should understand each other mutually. You are seeking for some validation only, but you are not willing to search for the root of the problem. As two Leos, you are probably clashing a lot with self-esteem. Communicate!
I am willing to search for the of the problem. However, I can't force him to tell me what it is, if he doesn't want to. That's all I've wanted this whole week is for him to communicate with me. Instead, he's shutting me out. And it's really not helping. I'd like to think that he didn't walk away and that he was only saying those things cause he was pissed off or mad at the time saying it. But, in all honesty, I'm at the point where I just don't know.
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Posted by tizianiSo does that mean he walked away then? Everything has space I'm giving it to him. I'm just trying to figure out whether he really walked away or not, or if he just said it cause he was pissed at the time? The fact that he said that he would message me when he's ready to talk, tells me he didn't and isn't. That's just me though.
According to your story, he expects you to mind read and his communication skills aren't that great. So it's his problem to work on. There's nothing you can do.
Posted by Prettymomma1922Maybe don't show up at his work unannounced. That's psycho gf territory right there.
In all honesty, I don't know what happened between us. Last Sunday, we were fine. When I left him Monday morning when he went to work, everything was fine. He sent me a "good morning" text that day. I asked him later on how his day was and that was it. Then all of a sudden, he stopped answering any texts. Didn't call on his way home from work like he usually does. Nothing. And it seems to me he's been really distant since then. I've asked him to have a face to face conversation since Tuesday. When I went to his second job Tuesday night to grab something from him, he wouldn't hug me. Told me that's not a good idea when usually it's a hug and kiss goodbye. We discussed having a face to face conversation that night in person and decided that it would be Saturday (last night) but instead I got everything I just posted about. Wednesday is sent him a text just simply saying "hope you're having a good day today. And not as irritated." I have no idea why he's so frustrated or irritated. Then his response back to me was "yes I'm still irritated. You don't give me any space. You realize that right." So, I never answered. Then Thursday he texted and said "I appreciate you giving me space last night and today. I just need to clear my head a bit. Im not mad at you, im just frustrated " and I didn't answer that either. Then, i had to call him that night and tell him about the car accident I got into. I waited till he got out of work to tell him as to not irritate or worry him while he was there. He told me that he appreciates me waiting and that it's really okay that I called to tell him that. We talked for about 5 mins and that was it. We didn't talk at all Friday. And then Saturday came, I texted "good morning" he said "good morning." Then I asked if we were still Geri g together later on. Then, all of what I've stated above was said.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Prettymomma1922Maybe don't show up at his work unannounced. That's psycho gf territory right there.
In all honesty, I don't know what happened between us. Last Sunday, we were fine. When I left him Monday morning when he went to work, everything was fine. He sent me a "good morning" text that day. I asked him later on how his day was and that was it. Then all of a sudden, he stopped answering any texts. Didn't call on his way home from work like he usually does. Nothing. And it seems to me he's been really distant since then. I've asked him to have a face to face conversation since Tuesday. When I went to his second job Tuesday night to grab something from him, he wouldn't hug me. Told me that's not a good idea when usually it's a hug and kiss goodbye. We discussed having a face to face conversation that night in person and decided that it would be Saturday (last night) but instead I got everything I just posted about. Wednesday is sent him a text just simply saying "hope you're having a good day today. And not as irritated." I have no idea why he's so frustrated or irritated. Then his response back to me was "yes I'm still irritated. You don't give me any space. You realize that right." So, I never answered. Then Thursday he texted and said "I appreciate you giving me space last night and today. I just need to clear my head a bit. Im not mad at you, im just frustrated " and I didn't answer that either. Then, i had to call him that night and tell him about the car accident I got into. I waited till he got out of work to tell him as to not irritate or worry him while he was there. He told me that he appreciates me waiting and that it's really okay that I called to tell him that. We talked for about 5 mins and that was it. We didn't talk at all Friday. And then Saturday came, I texted "good morning" he said "good morning." Then I asked if we were still Geri g together later on. Then, all of what I've stated above was said.click to expand
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