Who pays? (Page 2)

Posted by ellesbelles

Posted by Soul
I'd pay for it. If she offered and was sincere though I would let her pay. It's pretty selfish if you think about it. If someone truly wants to pay your cost and you refuse to let them, you are taking away the positive feeling they would gain from doing a good deed for you. You're basically taking that positive feeling for yourself. Which with that said if you did let them pay it would make you selfless and them selfish. But if you want to be selfless by making them selfish does that make you selfish too? Did I just open a paradox—

lol.....do you have some Libra hidden in there or 6th house placements? That's essentially my analysis with most decisions like that.

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I have Uranus in Capricorn 6th house.

Posted by Arielle83

Posted by LadyNeptune
The person who made the reservation should pay.

Yeah.

Girl: "I made us reservations of where I want to go, but you pay, k bae."

Guy: "otay"

Hahaa

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I can't ever see being with a guy who would wait until after the meal to break the news he can't cover the bill. That's a conversation that would happen before we are out the door.

Are people embarrassed to talk about money with each other but have zero reservations about smashing?? I don't understand that shit.

This whole premise is bizarre to me. Why wait until the bill comes to announce your short on cash. That's annoying and kinda disrespectful.

If this was within the first few dates I would ghost someone who pulls this ish. If it was a relationship I'd be pissed they put me in that position. Awkward.

Posted by Arielle83
Do you expect brah to pay even if you don't plan on seeing him again?

Yes I expect them to pay always.

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Posted by bkbella86

Posted by CrimsonGirl
Either or. I really don't care. I could pay for him on every date and wouldn't care

That’s sad. What would your father have to say about that?

Why ask people their opinion and then call them "sad" when, as a woman, she can support herself and her man?

Sounds like you need a free lunch.

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I didnt call her sad, just her take on this is sad.

The one who has more money.

If he’s actually complaining after he invited me out to dinner then yeah I’ll pay. But you’d never hear from me again. Bad sign. Although if there’s a good reason I’ll forgive him. If not then no. Beat feet,

If there was no communication on either side before the date then we both pay. No one should expect someone else to pay for them to have fun.

I know it’s a nice gesture. But really you should only go out if you can afford to. If not, you’re just using someone else.

In a relationship, the rules shall change. Meaning there are none. Whoever has money there pocket can pay. How do you expect to find love when the prerequisite is finances? Doomed to fail imo,

Posted by ellesbelles

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by ellesbelles
we split it.

Why?

Because that's fair.

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lol libra venus.

(and aries moon too)

How do you 2 knows who has how much?

Posted by aquarius_man
if its my gf, its me who pays

always have always will

if its just a date, we split the check and i tip

water signs ive noticed expect you to pay all the time, i dated a scorpio woman she never even pretended to take out her wallet and we were just dating.one of the reasons i didnt want to see her again. also, the stingy cancer women - (ok ok i know they are generous when they care about u) - same; never even bother to pretend they want to split, they expect you to be 'the man' although its just a fucking date

on the other hand, fire signs always want to pay the check themselves

ps: once a libra woman paid for my drinks on our 1st date together coz i had forgotten my wallet at home (yes it sounds like a barefaced lie but it was the naked truth); she was pretty furious she had to pay 😄 😄 i totally get her 🙂

lol

you should watch Terrace house Aloha state. there's finally a scorpio woman, in her late 20s there and a gemini with cancer mars, gemini venus dated her, and he took every girl out in the show to like a nice lunch or place to eat....

to socialize and get to know everyone..

SPOILERS

but when he got to the scorpio woman? he took her out to the most expensive restaurant ever. lol oh lord!! chandelairs and a view upstairs overlooking the hawaiian ocean at night, with the most delicious dinner.

it was so romantic!!!

edit and yes he paid. forked over alot. 😆 😄 and got also a nice jewelry too.

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Posted by aquarius_man

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by aquarius_man
if its my gf, its me who pays

always have always will

if its just a date, we split the check and i tip

water signs ive noticed expect you to pay all the time, i dated a scorpio woman she never even pretended to take out her wallet and we were just dating.one of the reasons i didnt want to see her again. also, the stingy cancer women - (ok ok i know they are generous when they care about u) - same; never even bother to pretend they want to split, they expect you to be 'the man' although its just a fucking date

on the other hand, fire signs always want to pay the check themselves

ps: once a libra woman paid for my drinks on our 1st date together coz i had forgotten my wallet at home (yes it sounds like a barefaced lie but it was the naked truth); she was pretty furious she had to pay 😄 😄 i totally get her 🙂

Not this fire sign!

I do have a lot of water tho,

Could be why

now let me add some insult to injury - the libra was a black girl who called herself a bounty (if you know what that means) so my failure to pay for dinner was... aggravating 😄 (i was also stealing her drugs and she was a forensic science graduate therefore she could tell i was stealing but hey - those were my salad days i was young and dumb)

true, ive met aries ppl who are pretty exact about their money (but its only a handful, most aries are generous) but hey if youre a man and have the money why not pay for the fucking dinner. shell repay you tenfold when she gives you some punani

No p***y is worth being broke

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i wonder about men like you and your thinking...smh.

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Posted by bkbella86

the person with the 200 $

its only logical

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He has enough to cover the bill tho. If it were me, he’s using his $ 50. I would help with the tip and never call again.

Guys it's ok it's on me

I got this

Me loaded ma friends ....

Lets go to le cirque ..order what you want dxp

Based on question saying "Your man"

If I am going out with my man and I know he has 50 $ , then this question is fiction. I would never let that bill reach that much because I know it might create concern or some sort of ugh atmosphere. It would only reach that amount if I told him beforehand to not worry cuz I have it covered. Guys I dated were old fashioned in this sense and I wouldn't want them to worry. My go to answer if they protest is to smile and say something to the tune of "You know, maybe we could get some drinks on the way home? Or some cotton candy?" Then they would pay for that, which would be cheaper...and this way everyone is happy and it's a win/win. There's always ways to find considerate things to do in return.