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Posted by mzmeeEWWWWW. gross.Posted by lisabethur8Wanted something different? He watched a lot of threesome porn. Got himself a bisexual chick and married her. HellI don't know. He never answered that question. Came to my own conclusion with that one. I thought I gave him freaky slutty sex guess it wasn't enough.Posted by mzmeePosted by lisabethur8He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.Posted by mzmeehe sounds like he watched a lot of porn.
My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
good thing he is your ex.
how can a man have lots of sex with you and then still watch porn? 😕
that's weird to me.
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send him a gift,
with two dildoes in the box "here you go buddy!!!" and add "Shove it up your ass!!" 😆
😆
Posted by PootyButtPosted by lisabethur8I am doing this for me. And for my husband, on some level, but mostly for me. I'm excited about being able to pursue things with the Scorp, but I'm not doing this for him, either. You name it. I've done it. Therapy, couples therapy, time apart, pouring all of my love into him. And he changed too, to try to keep me, but it's not enough. My advice to people is don't poison the well you drink from. Once you realize you've done it, and the other person is poisoned, there's no coming back.Posted by PootyButtPosted by lisabethur8I believed that too. All of my life and then through about 12 years of marriage. But when you come to the realization that neither of you are happy, and that in fact, you make each other unhappy and hold one another back...well, we both only get this one life, as far as we know.Posted by PootyButtgaslighting man??Posted by lisabethur8What? No. Just years of run of the mill verbal and emotional abuse.Posted by PootyButtok. I hope he didn't beat you and abuse you. you should always report those fuckers.Posted by lisabethur8I'll share it, maybe, when the embarrassing and challenging parts are over.Posted by PootyButti'm confused with you and that other woman talking.Posted by GemitatiIf he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉Posted by PootyButtWhy would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?Posted by lisabethur8Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*
but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.
because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.
so divorce it shall be.
I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
He has someone left to play with....
what's your story?
that doesn't seem like something you should divorce though. (physical violence and beating up YES! you do, because he no longer is protecting you and caring for your welfare, and can kill you) but you'd have to post your story in depth.
whenever you feel like it.
ehhh. I don't believe in divorces though.
I've seen worse in marriages. where a couple HATES eachother and even has physical abuse where she also beats up on him but it's not where they are gonna kill eachother, but they won't leave.
and 12 years is a long ass time.
going to another man thinking that they're gonna do better for you is always wrong in my eyes.
he may turn up to be another DUD too just like your husband.
they are all the same. DUDS. it's YOU who has to fix yourself, and do better for yourself.
Not your partner.
he isn't responsible for your happiness. Never put on a man his responsibility to make you happy. it will make disappointed in him!! cause you place all your hopes and dreams on him.
but that's just me.
my husband said to me, the other day, "you put all your energy and love into ME, you need to do something for yourself!!!"
well, I guess. I don't want to though. I just want to LOVE Him and snuggle him. he feels suffocated. 😆
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he says i'm CLINGY and needy and suffocating. CLING!!!! *HUGS TIGHT*
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well I don't know. I don't know the whole story,
and it makes me uncomfortable when I hear of women or men leaving their marriage after so long.
unless there is physical violent abuse or lots of cheating.
or the other broke up with you and abandoned you.
if abandoned, there's no choice but to go off and look for another love, who won't abandon you.
Posted by lisabethur8Lol. I thought the bisexual chick thing was in for the guys??Posted by mzmeeEWWWWW. gross.Posted by lisabethur8Wanted something different? He watched a lot of threesome porn. Got himself a bisexual chick and married her. HellI don't know. He never answered that question. Came to my own conclusion with that one. I thought I gave him freaky slutty sex guess it wasn't enough.Posted by mzmeePosted by lisabethur8He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.Posted by mzmeehe sounds like he watched a lot of porn.
My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
good thing he is your ex.
how can a man have lots of sex with you and then still watch porn? 😕
that's weird to me.
send him a gift,
with two dildoes in the box "here you go buddy!!!" and add "Shove it up your ass!!" 😆
😆click to expand
Posted by mzmeeI have no idea. lol just having fun.Posted by lisabethur8Lol. I thought the bisexual chick thing was in for the guys??Posted by mzmeeEWWWWW. gross.Posted by lisabethur8Wanted something different? He watched a lot of threesome porn. Got himself a bisexual chick and married her. HellI don't know. He never answered that question. Came to my own conclusion with that one. I thought I gave him freaky slutty sex guess it wasn't enough.Posted by mzmeePosted by lisabethur8He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.Posted by mzmeehe sounds like he watched a lot of porn.
My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
good thing he is your ex.
how can a man have lots of sex with you and then still watch porn? 😕
that's weird to me.
send him a gift,
with two dildoes in the box "here you go buddy!!!" and add "Shove it up your ass!!" 😆
😆
click to expand
Posted by PootyButtPosted by lisabethur8I think women should have just as much say in their relationships, and whether they stay in them, as men.Posted by PootyButtPosted by lisabethur8I am doing this for me. And for my husband, on some level, but mostly for me. I'm excited about being able to pursue things with the Scorp, but I'm not doing this for him, either. You name it. I've done it. Therapy, couples therapy, time apart, pouring all of my love into him. And he changed too, to try to keep me, but it's not enough. My advice to people is don't poison the well you drink from. Once you realize you've done it, and the other person is poisoned, there's no coming back.Posted by PootyButtPosted by lisabethur8I believed that too. All of my life and then through about 12 years of marriage. But when you come to the realization that neither of you are happy, and that in fact, you make each other unhappy and hold one another back...well, we both only get this one life, as far as we know.Posted by PootyButtgaslighting man??Posted by lisabethur8What? No. Just years of run of the mill verbal and emotional abuse.Posted by PootyButtok. I hope he didn't beat you and abuse you. you should always report those fuckers.Posted by lisabethur8I'll share it, maybe, when the embarrassing and challenging parts are over.Posted by PootyButti'm confused with you and that other woman talking.Posted by GemitatiIf he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉Posted by PootyButtWhy would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?Posted by lisabethur8Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*
but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.
because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.
so divorce it shall be.
I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
He has someone left to play with....
what's your story?
that doesn't seem like something you should divorce though. (physical violence and beating up YES! you do, because he no longer is protecting you and caring for your welfare, and can kill you) but you'd have to post your story in depth.
whenever you feel like it.
ehhh. I don't believe in divorces though.
I've seen worse in marriages. where a couple HATES eachother and even has physical abuse where she also beats up on him but it's not where they are gonna kill eachother, but they won't leave.
and 12 years is a long ass time.
going to another man thinking that they're gonna do better for you is always wrong in my eyes.
he may turn up to be another DUD too just like your husband.
they are all the same. DUDS. it's YOU who has to fix yourself, and do better for yourself.
Not your partner.
he isn't responsible for your happiness. Never put on a man his responsibility to make you happy. it will make disappointed in him!! cause you place all your hopes and dreams on him.
but that's just me.
my husband said to me, the other day, "you put all your energy and love into ME, you need to do something for yourself!!!"
well, I guess. I don't want to though. I just want to LOVE Him and snuggle him. he feels suffocated. 😆
edit
he says i'm CLINGY and needy and suffocating. CLING!!!! *HUGS TIGHT*
well I don't know. I don't know the whole story,
and it makes me uncomfortable when I hear of women or men leaving their marriage after so long.
unless there is physical violent abuse or lots of cheating.
or the other broke up with you and abandoned you.
if abandoned, there's no choice but to go off and look for another love, who won't abandon you.click to expand
ok. you're right.
you should go and do that goddess test btw.
just go look through the posts, the topic doesn't have many replies so it's easy to find.
I saw an interview with male porn stars. They said the more sex they had the more they wanted sex.
As for my previous experience with cheating, years ago, it was pretty simple. The man (who was married) paid attention to me. Complimented me. Made me "feel" like I was desired. All those things were lacking in my 5 year relationship. Still wrong but that was my immature self.
By the way... I was also on the receiving end of being cheated on, numerous times.
As for my previous experience with cheating, years ago, it was pretty simple. The man (who was married) paid attention to me. Complimented me. Made me "feel" like I was desired. All those things were lacking in my 5 year relationship. Still wrong but that was my immature self.
By the way... I was also on the receiving end of being cheated on, numerous times.
Posted by Gob_ShiteI see it with a lot of men who can't handle power.
Immense wealth can have an adverse effect on the ego...
it does not do good with their ego.
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ehhh. I don't believe in divorces though.
I've seen worse in marriages. where a couple HATES eachother and even has physical abuse where she also beats up on him but it's not where they are gonna kill eachother, but they won't leave.
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going to another man thinking that they're gonna do better for you is always wrong in my eyes.
he may turn up to be another DUD too just like your husband.
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my husband said to me, the other day, "you put all your energy and love into ME, you need to do something for yourself!!!"
well, I guess. I don't want to though. I just want to LOVE Him and snuggle him. he feels suffocated. 😆
edit
he says i'm CLINGY and needy and suffocating. CLING!!!! *HUGS TIGHT*