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I don't think it's necessarily "allow" but more like tolerate. My Cancer grandpa was known to cheat on my Cap grandma with multiple women but she had tolerated it at first.. but then other things became a problem for them and so their marriage ultimately failed. She had tolerated it because she was satisfied with how comfortable she'd become in life and simply treated him as someone who "provided for the children." In a way, the marriage was dead anyway. I have seen this toleration in 3 other women and they've all explained that they let this happen because they have accepted that it is "the nature of men." And that they want to "keep" their marriage- for the children, for the comfort and perhaps even for the companionship. But some marriages never survive after infidelity and even when it does, there's always a sense of resentment.
too much deep resentment is gonna eat them up.

what do you think of Mon'que's and Sidney's situation??

I've never heard of them before, until now when I googled, women who allow their men to cheat and that came up too.
Hmm.. I don't know.

She's a Sag sun, Aries moon, Sag merc, Scorpio venus and Aqua mars




it's like her poor Scorpio venus is confused by all the fire and air. 😢



(edit j/k btw....cause individually those fire/air wouldn't go for it)

and I know Aries moon peeps in real life who would NEVER go for that.

even Sag suns, and Aqua mars indiviuallly.



it's just her individually, and NO MAN has EVER shown her that she is the only one.



it's like some peeps will NEVER know what it's like.



this is all they got. 😢



and she seems to desire him more than he does her.
geez, she can do so much better

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but if you are deep in love and stuck there...you don't know any better. 😢



that's all her world. it's ALL she knows.



he just treats her like a sister, it seems from their interaction. like a sisterly love,

that's why he goes out with other women.

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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
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You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
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All men can't control them.
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
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No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
That doesn't decide of anyone being gay... a man can't cheat on his woman just because he was horny... its simple difference between an immature and mature...
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Yes it absolutely, even more proof is that gays usually have many partners, it's not a problem for them.
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
That doesn't decide of anyone being gay... a man can't cheat on his woman just because he was horny... its simple difference between an immature and mature...
Yes it absolutely, even more proof is that gays usually have many partners, it's not a problem for them.
A mature man would make a family... an immature will only think about filling his sexual needs cuz he can't afford a family, all he can do is run from taking responsibilities by switch partners...

Grow up kid, u can't stamp this horny theory over "Men"
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That's not an argument. You're just throwing out random opinions and treating them as fact.

WHY should we reproduce? Because life is designed to continue? No it's not. Because it's a magical boat ride? No it's not. Because there's sex and it's very pleasurable? Well l rest my case.
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I don't, so yes i would like an answer too.
have you been in a long term relationship? longer than a few years? and stayed monogamous?

not even emotional cheating too. meaning you don't fall for other people.
3 years.

I would never be able to cheat, goes against my nature completely.

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Out of fear to be caught or low testosterone?
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men cheat on a physical level for the most part.



the women shouldn't try to understand a male's reasoning for cheating from her perspective. she just simply has to understand the man is wired differently from her. when the woman try to understand it from her perspective. she would undoutedly believe it's a captital punishment crime. the reality is men and women are very different in this respect FOR THE MOST part.

a man with a healthy sex drive and a good dick game will most likely cheat. i'm someone that's been on both sides of the fence again with many many guy friends.



in every verifiable source of comparison from strip clubs to hoor houses we can see men frequent these places farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more than women. whY? it's because of variety. that's it. men would cheat because another girl has darker skin. maybe fairer skin. or blonde. whatever it might be....even if someone has certain types..... they don't want those same types to be exactly the same. men just like variety. vast majority of men given power/status/money are going to be absolutely raging cheaters. it's just what it is.





on top of the hoorhouse and strip club disparity, just look at the community of gay men.



the average gay man has 50 sex partners. not 5. not 10. not 20. not 35. fookin 50. if that doesn't prove men love variety i don't know what will.
But then there reaches a moment where the man meets someone at the right time, and he no longer has the desire to cheat. Isn't that what happened to you?

As long as the man is open about wanted multiple sex buddies - it's all fair. But if he isn't, how can a woman understand what she doesn't know?
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
That doesn't decide of anyone being gay... a man can't cheat on his woman just because he was horny... its simple difference between an immature and mature...
Yes it absolutely, even more proof is that gays usually have many partners, it's not a problem for them.
A mature man would make a family... an immature will only think about filling his sexual needs cuz he can't afford a family, all he can do is run from taking responsibilities by switch partners...

Grow up kid, u can't stamp this horny theory over "Men"
That's not an argument. You're just throwing out random opinions and treating them as fact.

WHY should we reproduce? Because life is designed to continue? No it's not. Because it's a magical boat ride? No it's not. Because there's sex and it's very pleasurable? Well l rest my case.
hahaha... don't get mad... i just give an example cuz u pointed out a man who can control his sexual need as a gay... i didn't said its part of that argument we were having ? its just an answer...
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Im not getting mad, l'm proving your reason to be nonsense.
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I don't, so yes i would like an answer too.
have you been in a long term relationship? longer than a few years? and stayed monogamous?

not even emotional cheating too. meaning you don't fall for other people.
3 years.

I would never be able to cheat, goes against my nature completely.


Out of fear to be caught or low testosterone?
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i'd rather have a man with LOW testosterone, no sex drive, asexual than a sex maniac. GROSS.
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My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
he sounds like he watched a lot of porn.

good thing he is your ex.
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This film should be fun



"It's all fun and games when an attractive new male teacher comes to town. That is, until a lonely housewife discovers he is really a mentally deranged psychopath, after she mistakingly had a fling with him one night."



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lol @tiz with cheating films again.



I didn't even watch the Keanu Reeves one. not interested.



but this is for you, tiz. lmao

https://www.facebook.com/I-am-Unsatisfied-wife-my-husband-isnt-enough-for-me-1425120564407456/



look at all the UNSATISFIED wives....
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There aren't any psychopaths on that link so I couldn't say much about that. If unsatisfied wives is your thing, no judgement from me. I'm going to watch the film. The Keanu Reeves one is deranged too.

Imo you guys talk about cheating too much. I mean really, a whole thread? But do what you gotta do.

lol



it's dxp.



dxp LOVES cheating topics and being single. smh.
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in every verifiable source of comparison from strip clubs to hoor houses we can see men frequent these places farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more than women.
Because only men need to pay for sex. If a woman wants sex it very easy to get.

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unless they are hot male gigolos though.



and wealthy older women usually pay for them. i'm sure that is still going on...

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in every verifiable source of comparison from strip clubs to hoor houses we can see men frequent these places farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr more than women.
Because only men need to pay for sex. If a woman wants sex it very easy to get.


unless they are hot male gigolos though.



and wealthy older women usually pay for them. i'm sure that is still going on...



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Movies aren't real life. But yes the male escort game is geared towards other men and older women because, again, women don't need to pay for sex. We can get it whenever we want. Golden pussy yo.
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I don't, so yes i would like an answer too.
have you been in a long term relationship? longer than a few years? and stayed monogamous?

not even emotional cheating too. meaning you don't fall for other people.
3 years.

I would never be able to cheat, goes against my nature completely.


Out of fear to be caught or low testosterone?
i'd rather have a man with LOW testosterone, no sex drive, asexual than a sex maniac. GROSS.
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Well...it's really weird. But I respect your opinion...though sure you need your head checked! Just a suggestion...mwhaa
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It goes back to biology on some level. It was biologically advantageous for a man to spread it around to a lot of women in terms of getting his DNA out there, but it must have become a problem pretty quickly when we started civilizing ourselves and forming families. What man can afford to take care of unlimited children? So, men began to control their sexual urges more. And it was always advantageous for a woman to hook a good man for the first few years of her baby's life. She wouldn't need other men trying to get in on that when the baby was her primary concern.

But as I've said before, we have big brains and big emotional needs. So we override some of our baser instincts to get those emotional needs met. Or we don't, and then we are rightly called jerks.

maybe.

but I think it's more basic than that. it's having a possession that's yours, mine mine mine.

and not to be shared.

just like your home or car, or anything you own.You do not want to share. and with someone it's even DEEPER than that. you will KILL, or cut off penis.
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but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
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it's warnings for the cheating men who marry
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My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
he sounds like he watched a lot of porn.

good thing he is your ex.
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He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.



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but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
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Why would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?

He has someone left to play with....
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but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
lol

it's warnings for the cheating men who marry
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What warning?

You married and you were cheating and now what?
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It goes back to biology on some level. It was biologically advantageous for a man to spread it around to a lot of women in terms of getting his DNA out there, but it must have become a problem pretty quickly when we started civilizing ourselves and forming families. What man can afford to take care of unlimited children? So, men began to control their sexual urges more. And it was always advantageous for a woman to hook a good man for the first few years of her baby's life. She wouldn't need other men trying to get in on that when the baby was her primary concern.

But as I've said before, we have big brains and big emotional needs. So we override some of our baser instincts to get those emotional needs met. Or we don't, and then we are rightly called jerks.
I know we Gems likentobtalk...but you are like a superGem! Yapping your head off... And you said you have a man...? Where is he? MIA?
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My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
It's irresistable, our sexuality is outgoing, we'll have it as much as possible, we never know if we'll get it again, so we take....and take
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What is funny, we have guys in the thread sayin why dudes cheat and women are still trying to explain it away.

i dunno why i find this funny but i do. Just goes to show many ignore the opposite sex when it comes to communication eh?
men and women really think differently. react and do stuff differently.
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yes we do and at the same time not so different. We just process things differently really.
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
That doesn't decide of anyone being gay... a man can't cheat on his woman just because he was horny... its simple difference between an immature and mature...
Yes it absolutely, even more proof is that gays usually have many partners, it's not a problem for them.
A mature man would make a family... an immature will only think about filling his sexual needs cuz he can't afford a family, all he can do is run from taking responsibilities by switch partners...

Grow up kid, u can't stamp this horny theory over "Men"
That's not an argument. You're just throwing out random opinions and treating them as fact.

WHY should we reproduce? Because life is designed to continue? No it's not. Because it's a magical boat ride? No it's not. Because there's sex and it's very pleasurable? Well l rest my case.
hahaha... don't get mad... i just give an example cuz u pointed out a man who can control his sexual need as a gay... i didn't said its part of that argument we were having ? its just an answer...

Im not getting mad, l'm proving your reason to be nonsense.
Things will make sense if u want them to make sense... my bad that i m not gud at explaining my points ? i can understand y u got confused ?

It's not big deal my friend... u got ur perspective and i got mine... i myself m an immature tough ? but its a bit awkward for me to accept that a male can cheat because he couldn't get sex for a while...
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No but, even family men try and have affairs....l see them, in cafes, on the street, no matter how old, dude will check a chick out, and try and get with her ? That's my point. Men, we need sex, we'll try and get more than we have, always, if theres a possibility, we're in there. Edit : l don't mean "in there" like that...?But of course, it also means that...
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Of course....you have an entire body controlling your V, whereas our pens are like a far extension of our bodies...we have an uncontrollable impulse. The hotter our chick is, the more we'll want other chicks....it's too powerful.
I don't believe that either.



that's way too shallow.
You have to believe it cause it's true.

Edit : also, we're all women fundamentally....x+y, x+x, the y is just an extension, like a nuclear clit. The clock's ticking on men, as we get older we find it hard to get it up, we turn into women basically. So while we have it, it's like a firehose on full blast, we really need to put out the fires....
How can someone be a man who can't control his sexual desires?
All men can't control them.
If they have will they can... they can't be called men if they don't have strong will to control... reason of cheating a woman could be anything but this reason is more of an immature thing...
No it's not. It's always the same thing, time and time again, men can't help themselves. Maybe you're gay if you don't have that drive towards women.
That doesn't decide of anyone being gay... a man can't cheat on his woman just because he was horny... its simple difference between an immature and mature...
Yes it absolutely, even more proof is that gays usually have many partners, it's not a problem for them.
A mature man would make a family... an immature will only think about filling his sexual needs cuz he can't afford a family, all he can do is run from taking responsibilities by switch partners...

Grow up kid, u can't stamp this horny theory over "Men"
That's not an argument. You're just throwing out random opinions and treating them as fact.

WHY should we reproduce? Because life is designed to continue? No it's not. Because it's a magical boat ride? No it's not. Because there's sex and it's very pleasurable? Well l rest my case.
hahaha... don't get mad... i just give an example cuz u pointed out a man who can control his sexual need as a gay... i didn't said its part of that argument we were having ? its just an answer...

Im not getting mad, l'm proving your reason to be nonsense.
Things will make sense if u want them to make sense... my bad that i m not gud at explaining my points ? i can understand y u got confused ?

It's not big deal my friend... u got ur perspective and i got mine... i myself m an immature tough ? but its a bit awkward for me to accept that a male can cheat because he couldn't get sex for a while...
No but, even family men try and have affairs....l see them, in cafes, on the street, no matter how old, dude will check a chick out, and try and get with her ? That's my point. Men, we need sex, we'll try and get more than we have, always, if theres a possibility, we're in there. Edit : l don't mean "in there" like that...?But of course, it also means that...
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how do you know they have someone? maybe those guys are single.
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but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
lol

it's warnings for the cheating men who marry
What warning?

You married and you were cheating and now what?
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you talking about yourself? 😕

my ex husband cheated on me, but you don't see me crying over him anymore.
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My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
he sounds like he watched a lot of porn.

good thing he is your ex.
He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.



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how can a man have lots of sex with you and then still watch porn? 😕



that's weird to me.
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It goes back to biology on some level. It was biologically advantageous for a man to spread it around to a lot of women in terms of getting his DNA out there, but it must have become a problem pretty quickly when we started civilizing ourselves and forming families. What man can afford to take care of unlimited children? So, men began to control their sexual urges more. And it was always advantageous for a woman to hook a good man for the first few years of her baby's life. She wouldn't need other men trying to get in on that when the baby was her primary concern.

But as I've said before, we have big brains and big emotional needs. So we override some of our baser instincts to get those emotional needs met. Or we don't, and then we are rightly called jerks.
I know we Gems likentobtalk...but you are like a superGem! Yapping your head off... And you said you have a man...? Where is he? MIA?
Hahaha! Only online, my dear. I like to write much more than I like to talk. My brain has already been busy thinking about all this shit, so when someone brings it up, I just blurt.

He is on the other side of the country, I'm not sure he's mine yet, and I'm leaving a marriage and getting my shit in order before letting those feelings I have blossom into something physical.
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you're married now and separated??

and where are you going?

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but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
Why would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?

He has someone left to play with....
If he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉
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i'm confused with you and that other woman talking.



what's your story?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by PootyButt
Posted by lisabethur8
but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
Why would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?

He has someone left to play with....
If he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉
i'm confused with you and that other woman talking.



what's your story?
I'll share it, maybe, when the embarrassing and challenging parts are over.
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ok. I hope he didn't beat you and abuse you. you should always report those fuckers.
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Posted by PootyButt
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Posted by PootyButt
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by PootyButt
Posted by lisabethur8
but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
Why would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?

He has someone left to play with....
If he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉
i'm confused with you and that other woman talking.



what's your story?
I'll share it, maybe, when the embarrassing and challenging parts are over.
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btw, Pootybutt,

I got the link to the goddess archetype test you can take!!



you asked for it yesterday.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/the-powder-room/ladies-what-female-goddess-archetype-are-you--7946939/?p=3

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Posted by PootyButt
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by PootyButt
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by PootyButt
Posted by lisabethur8
but if you do a violent behavior toward someone even if they did you wrong, all you have to do is divorce.

because, no one wants to end up in prison for violently killing off a penis and causing someone to die.

so divorce it shall be.
Oh, girl! Quit talking about mutilating penises! *vomit*

I'm very possessive too, but I wouldn't kill my lover for cheating. I'd probably just leave and make him feel really really really bad.
Why would heifers bad if he is beating and you left him?

He has someone left to play with....
If he lost me, he'd feel bad. 😉
i'm confused with you and that other woman talking.



what's your story?
I'll share it, maybe, when the embarrassing and challenging parts are over.
ok. I hope he didn't beat you and abuse you. you should always report those fuckers.
What? No. Just years of run of the mill verbal and emotional abuse.
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gaslighting man??



that doesn't seem like something you should divorce though. (physical violence and beating up YES! you do, because he no longer is protecting you and caring for your welfare, and can kill you) but you'd have to post your story in depth.

whenever you feel like it.
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My ex told me he cheated because he saw a hot piece of ass and she was throwing it at him all the time. Made him feel good. Then he took it too far. Equated it with love in a way, he was immature, thought with his dick. According to him, I did nothing wrong. He was a childish asshole.
he sounds like he watched a lot of porn.

good thing he is your ex.
He did and we still had sex a lot. One good thing tho, since he's been gone, I can get some sleep. We had it daily until almost dawn sometimes.






how can a man have lots of sex with you and then still watch porn? 😕



that's weird to me.
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Wanted something different? He watched a lot of threesome porn. Got himself a bisexual chick and married her. HellI don't know. He never answered that question. Came to my own conclusion with that one. I thought I gave him freaky slutty sex guess it wasn't enough.