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Dirty bed
Is It Acceptable to Sleep in a Bed with Cat Litter Sand
Sleeping in a bed with a lot of cat litter sand can be unhygienic and uncomfortable. It is generally advisable to ask your partner to clean the sheets and maintain cleanliness for health and comfort reasons. Open communication about cleanliness standards is important in relationships.
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It's pretty nasty.
I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
Lmao
😱 😱 😱
My relationship with his bed would be based on Fire, lots and lots of fire-
room on fire, girl on fire, house on fire
Posted by PootyButt
I have cats. Sometimes there's a little litter in the bed that can be swiped out with my hand, and I wash the sheets frequently because of their nasty paws. What you are describing is nasty, though.Show him the movie, Trainspotting.
I haven't heard of the movie. I will look it up. Thanks!
Yes, a little litter that you can just wipe it off of the bed would be ok, but the whole bed is just way too much =.=
Posted by -elle-
*dry heaves*
elaborate? 😕
I have borderline OCD... I may dump as well ?
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Posted by PootyButt
I have cats. Sometimes there's a little litter in the bed that can be swiped out with my hand, and I wash the sheets frequently because of their nasty paws. What you are describing is nasty, though.Show him the movie, Trainspotting.
Ceiling baby. ?
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what is ceiling baby?
Posted by Seraphlight
Ew that's horrible!
it is =.=
Posted by wagtail
My relationship with his bed would be based on Fire, lots and lots of fire-room on fire, girl on fire, house on fire
are you saying to burn his house down? 😱
Posted by Teena
I have borderline OCD... I may dump as well ?
high fives! 😆
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
Posted by Hare
That's nasty as fuck.
It is. I am still puzzled that why no one has ever said anything to him? He seemed surprised that it bothers me (or maybe offended??).
Posted by PootyButt
I have cats. Sometimes there's a little litter in the bed that can be swiped out with my hand, and I wash the sheets frequently because of their nasty paws. What you are describing is nasty, though.Show him the movie, Trainspotting.
I haven't heard of the movie. I will look it up. Thanks!
Yes, a little litter that you can just wipe it off of the bed would be ok, but the whole bed is just way too much =.=
Is there a way to spoiler tag? I'm about to spoil, so don't scroll down if you don't want to know...
There is a character who dies from getting infected with a disease from his kitten's poop. Lovely stuff!
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That's real life. Kitty dung is bad and they track bacteria all over. Indoor outdoor kitty okay. Not litter box cat.
Posted by -elle-
Can you please tell us his sun sign?I am so curious....lol
Pisces/Aries cusp 😄
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
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hahahahaha now he's sour. I gotta teach you my passive aggressive bitchiness. It's quite the skill. You will get your way and he will be thanking you for it.
Posted by wagtail
My relationship with his bed would be based on Fire, lots and lots of fire-room on fire, girl on fire, house on fire
are you saying to burn his house down? 😱
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I would never say that
....directly
Posted by TheLibraMudra
My Virgo Venus can not handle this 1 bit
Get hitch already!
You can't seem handle anything!
Posted by TheLibraMudra
My Virgo Venus can not handle this 1 bit
Get hitch already!
You can't seem handle anything!
Posted by PootyButt
I have cats. Sometimes there's a little litter in the bed that can be swiped out with my hand, and I wash the sheets frequently because of their nasty paws. What you are describing is nasty, though.Show him the movie, Trainspotting.
I haven't heard of the movie. I will look it up. Thanks!
Yes, a little litter that you can just wipe it off of the bed would be ok, but the whole bed is just way too much =.=
Is there a way to spoiler tag? I'm about to spoil, so don't scroll down if you don't want to know...
There is a character who dies from getting infected with a disease from his kitten's poop. Lovely stuff!
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Damn, that's dark, but I think I should find that movie LOL
Posted by exo
"clean your sheets or no cheeks."simple.
HAHAHA. That's such a catchy line. I like it 😆
Posted by -elle-
*dry heaves*elaborate? 😕
It means that is so gross I can't even speak about it.
The moment I felt such a thing touch my body, I would have bolted for the door.
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I see. Thanks for the elaboration lol
Yes, it is super gross. I still cannot understand why no one has said anything to him though 😕
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
I don't think it was too direct.
Someone has to tell him. How many people said nothing just because they thought it would hurt feelings? If you say nothing...then he just thinks that's normal. *shrugs*
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I feel a little better. Thanks lol
Posted by TheLibraMudra
My Virgo Venus can not handle this 1 bitGet hitch already!
You can't seem handle anything!
Please get off my nuts.
-pat pat-
I know you're kind of special so I'll spare you the harsh words I could hit you with.
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Please go ahead. I just got new tablet to write harsh words by stupid people who are saying to be married...
Go ahead. No harm done yet...for you.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
hahahahaha now he's sour. I gotta teach you my passive aggressive bitchiness. It's quite the skill. You will get your way and he will be thanking you for it.
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Hahah, I totally need that. I piss people off because I don't have the skill to word things nicely.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
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Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
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How is it mean?
When's his birthday?
Tell me he is an aqua. I know it.
Posted by feby
Kitty litter in the bed is fucking nasty. I would never let my skin touch those sheets
It is.
I like cats but not the litter =.=
Posted by feby
Kitty litter in the bed is fucking nasty. I would never let my skin touch those sheets.... Saaaame. —
Op if you have to tell him something basic like... Cleaning his sheets... Just no.
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That's why I also put the 3rd point out there 😆
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
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I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
How is it mean?
When's his birthday?
Tell me he is an aqua. I know it.
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He is Pisces/Aries cusp :p
Is there any astorological aspects for bad hygiene? 😕
Posted by AneemA
Yeah that is very uncomfortable. Why would he keep the litter box in his bedroom though. That's gross. I would place a litter box somewhere not in frequently used space or near a bathroom.He seriously need to straighten up a few things.
So no, it's not too much for you to point those things out.
@Hare, I love your poster. While i was typing my comment, your kangaroo is right above my writing space. I feel like he was waiting for me to finish my typing lol
Thanks. He has a roommate so I am not sure if his roommate asks him to... but still, I think I will talk to him about other places to put the litter box.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
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I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
How is it mean?
When's his birthday?
Tell me he is an aqua. I know it.
He is Pisces/Aries cusp :p
Is there any astorological aspects for bad hygiene? 😕
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There are extreme tendencies alluded to certain signs. Do you have his birth chart?
That is so disgusting, and should be a total deal breaker.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
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Or he could just be a lazy slob.
Posted by feby
Kitty litter in the bed is fucking nasty. I would never let my skin touch those sheets
How does one reapond when they realize the condition of this man's bed consists of; heaping piles of cat shit and heavy piss pebbles?
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
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I know his mom left when he was young or something. can't remember. not sure if he was sexually abused or anything.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
I know his mom left when he was young or something. can't remember. not sure if he was sexually abused or anything.
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So.. are you gonna Joan of ark this dude or what?
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
Or he could just be a lazy slob.
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Most people live decently and those who don't nor.ally have some trauma to work through. Not always. But is he lazy enough to lack pride when he brought a women to his room knowing damn well he may get laid? No. He was apathetic about something. That's a cry for help imo
Posted by feby
Kitty litter in the bed is fucking nasty. I would never let my skin touch those sheetsHow does one reapond when they realize the condition of this man's bed consists of; heaping piles of cat shit and heavy piss pebbles?
I would help him clean his sheets and tell him not to let his cats run hell all over his bed.
When that didnt work i would suggest sleeping elsewhere but granted that i like him enough i would make upgrading his cleanliness a long term goal.
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But wouldn't your faith in them diminish a bit? I dunno. I'd be so shocked to help before even realizing what I felt.
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
How is it mean?
When's his birthday?
Tell me he is an aqua. I know it.
He is Pisces/Aries cusp :p
Is there any astorological aspects for bad hygiene? 😕
There are extreme tendencies alluded to certain signs. Do you have his birth chart?
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Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Aries 0°26'
Moon Taurus 7°36'
Mercury Pisces 5°59'
Venus Taurus 15°47'
Mars Capricorn 18°30'
Jupiter Taurus 2°37'
Saturn Capricorn 2°11'
Uranus Capricorn 0°57'
Neptune Capricorn 10°05'
Pluto Scorpio 12°14' R
Lilith Leo 23°55'
Asc node Pisces 23°14'
I don't know the birth time though.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
Cats make my skin go all crazy if they don't take baths... Which is 80% of cats lol... Litter in the bed would be a no. Especially the ammonia from the cat box where I sleep. Even if it's well maintained. Yuck lol
Yea, when I had my own cat, I had to wipe her down every other day and I had to put the litter box in some other room.
"What in the hell is... Have you been to the beach? The fuuuuuuuuuuuck is that? Did you say Litter? Ummmmmmmm. There's bacteria and parasites lurking in your cat's ass okay, did you know that?"
HAHAHA. This is a bit mean but so funny. Do you have any educational videos I can share with him? 😆
How is it mean?
When's his birthday?
Tell me he is an aqua. I know it.
He is Pisces/Aries cusp :p
Is there any astorological aspects for bad hygiene? 😕
is he a grungy hipster?
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haha not quite
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
Or he could just be a lazy slob.
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very true.
Posted by Deedee86
It's pretty nasty.I don't know if I would break up with him over it though. I guess it depends on how much I liked him.
I suggest you make it very clear that you find it gross without being obnoxious and insulting.
For example, act weird when he asks you to spend the night. When he finally begs you to tell him what the problem is you can hesitantly tell him about your cat litter phobia. Make it seem like the issue is with your quirks not his filth, that way he won't get defensive.
He actually texted me today and asked me if I wanted to come over. I said, if you have time to clean your sheets/blankets today, then yes. I guess that's too direct cause he didn't text me back 😆
Well hell, he NEEDS to be told soon, obviously. Did you know pregnant women are discouraged from having a house cat? The bacteria in the cats poop threaten the baby.
He sounds a bit irresponsible. He shouldn't need to be told how to prepare his environment for a lady. Or maybe he's into dirtty stuff, who knows maybe your first date can be to a dumpster for a quickee
I think that's irresponsible for sure. I also suspect that if it's a sign of depression?
How could anyone be so unaware of his immediate environment? 😕
I don't know the age but it could be the way they were brought up, or a lack of hugeine due to sexual abuse at a young age. There are many theories but it's still a fact that it's a problem that needs immediate addressing.
Or he could just be a lazy slob.
Most people live decently and those who don't nor.ally have some trauma to work through. Not always. But is he lazy enough to lack pride when he brought a women to his room knowing damn well he may get laid? No. He was apathetic about something. That's a cry for help imo
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I have two teenaged sons. Their rooms are disaster areas and I'm on them to clean them daily. Their only excuse is laziness.
Granted, they are not trying to get girls in bed but still. It may be a maturity issue.
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1. Would it be ok with you if the guy you are seeing have a lot of cat litter sand in the sheets/blankets in his bed? (Picture the beach towel after you have used it to clean yourself up after a beach day. That's the density of sand in his bed. This guy keeps his cat's litter box in his room so that's where the sand comes from.)
2. Would you tell him to wash his sheets/blankets? If so, how would you tell him?
(I told him if he doesn't clean his sheets/blankets, I don't want to be in his place.)
3. Would it be overly dramatic if I dump him over this? 😕
(I just don't see it working out if I have to point it out to a guy how dirty his bed is. Obviously, if it bothers him too, he wouldn't let it become that dirty. If it doesn't bother him, then I am sure it's gonna be a forever battle, which I don't think it's worth fighting.)
I have made the first 2 points clear to him, but I am curious if other girls are actually ok with that?
I mean, I can't believe it if no one else has ever told him that it is not acceptable. Or maybe there are girls who don't mind it at all? (If so, I am curious to know why they are ok with it.)