Why is This A Red Flag Still?

So, I dont know if anyone has ever seen the show Crashing on HBO with the comedian Pete Holmes. It is about a comedian struggling to make it in the new york comedy scene.

Anyhow the quality of the episodes tends to be up and down. So I kind of wait to see what the reaction is on Reddit before I watch it. Just to know if it is a filler ep meaning little in terms of plot advancement happens or something to watch

Anyway there was this episode where the redditors says pete meets this new girl. They really hit it off, and have sex on the first date. The redditers immediately take issue with this saying there is something off with the girl for hooking up with him the first time.

I watched the ep myself and they seem to click, so this isnt her just trying to get some random D.

So my question is this - why is there still such judgment for 1st date sex? Granted there are men and women out there that are just looking to hook up.

But then there are situations where people can have chemistry and an immediate connection. Which can be so strong that inhibitions can be thrown to the wayside and people go for it.

That happened in my early 20's with a cap ex. There was a immediate connection, we clicked so well with interests and similar personalities that we hooked up on the first date.

I've never judged a woman for hooking up with me on the first date. Even if I like someone that is relationship material, I do want to have sex with them still. Dont get why it has to be one or the other.

Do you guys judge people for putting out on the 1st date even if you clicked on a personal level with them?

LOL Unreal... swear to god fundamentalist christians are so freaking repressed.

I'm glad my parents raised me non-religious even though they believed in god.

I'm weary of people that are self-righteous in regards to sex. Those people usually are freaks on the dl or are asexual.

I wouldn't judge...and guys who have sex on first date but then judge the women are assholes and hypocrites.

Some women might even judge guys that sleep with them on the first date like he's not "keeper material" and just throw away what could've been a great relationship.

People can be very weird.

I mean you can immediately tell if the persons goal is only to get some. But there are people you hit it off immediately with and can have an overwhelming attraction as a result.

I mean people that judge 1st date sex regardless of the fact they connected with the person really lack emotional maturity.

I am easy but that doesnt necessarily mean I am not seeking a relationship especially if it is with the right person.

I'm glad that people who are in their 30's for the most part (not always mind you) are less judgemental and uptight about sex then a lot of 20 somethings tend to be

Forgot to mention my favorite part of the episode is where he tells his 2 comedian friends about liking and hooking up with the girl.

They then imply he is having a spiritual crisis because the character used to be a full on devout christian but is now questioning his faith.

They offer to have him meet with their rabbi to talk about him being "lost" At first he agrees to it, but then after the meeting is happening, he is nowhere to be found there.

The next thing you see is him holding hands and then cuddling on a tourist ship with the girl he had first date sex with.

I thought that was a nice middle finger to judgy people like them

I mean, I like to believe a woman knows she gonna throw the pussy in the air before she even left the damn house...

You can fall for the "I didn't know I was gonna do this... My bra and panties don't even match" and shit.. But she fuckin knew... She did that shit on purpose. She was putting on deodorant thinking "I'ma get some dick tonight".

1st date sex is she knew she was gonna fuck before she got there.

It don't even phase me, I can't tap myself on the back like yeah my seduction was good and my game was on point.. Cuz I literally couldn't of done much to fuck it up anyway.

Nothing is wrong with that. People got desires. We all a victim to our flesh.

@arielle83 - Yeah I think if someone is pushing for a relationship right out of the gate there is something off.

But if they are genuinely interested and like someone without putting a timeframe or pressure on it, the situation seems legit.

If a girl has an ulterior motive of expecting commitment by the 3rd date just cause we smashed, there is something way off there.

Even if I hadnt had sex on the 1st date with a girl and she is already pressing for commitment on 3 dates I would have to next her.

I have to really get to know someone before making any commitment period.

The girl in that show isnt pressing for commitment she is just enjoying spending time with him, that is it. Those are the kind you want to date who dont push anything and live in the moment.