@lisabethur8
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Posted by No
That's so 1950s*Judging you in black and white *
looks like a bitter woman. lol
That's the point, we're talking 1950s ?
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I think of all the Queens throughout history. There were powerful women all throughout history. I love reading the biography of powerful people... particularly women. It gives you perspective and an open mind as to the changing tides of society, social constraints, and different cultures. Thinking outside the vacuum, rising above the fray.
Posted by clippityclop
Depends on what the relationship is like. Every relationship is different. If you both are equal bread winners, then there should be equal catering.
You don't understand that concept catering to your man doesn't mean you are hating it but must do it.
It is natural feelings to care, cater, shelter and take care of your man because you love him. Not because he said so or he makes more.
Man can also participate in taking care of his woman however putting up shelf or cleaning out garage is not every day task as making dinner for your loved one. If you don't feel like it - you wont understand.
If I don't have to work, and he's paying all the bills then why not?
There's no way I'm going to someone's job and coming home the same time he is, splitting bills, and catering to him. I just don't believe in that.
But if I had a breadwinner and provider I'd definitely do all of that and more.
Posted by clippityclop
Depends on what the relationship is like. Every relationship is different. If you both are equal bread winners, then there should be equal catering.You don't understand that concept catering to your man doesn't mean you are hating it but must do it.
It is natural feelings to care, cater, shelter and take care of your man because you love him. Not because he said so or he makes more.
Man can also participate in taking care of his woman however putting up shelf or cleaning out garage is not every day task as making dinner for your loved one. If you don't feel like it - you wont understand.
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It just depends on the relationship itself. I know my boyfriend is useless when it comes to being a handy man. I know more about putting things together than he does. I think that it really just depends on the relationship is all I'm saying, and who does what in and around the house. :/ nurturing should be a given though in any relationship 🙂
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also, that woman above, I would be too creeped out by getting free clothes from the deceased. but I don't know, I don't really know, maybe it's not that bad. I don't mind getting free clothes from my aunts, relatives who died/passed away. although it's NOT something they do though. Hmmm no one in my family has EVER done this..so I don't know.
but there are other ways to sell stuff on amazon too, like selling clothes. this chick has some good ideas.