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Would you attend a friends wedding with out your significant other?
Why isn’t he going?
Attending wedding's make me uncomfortable so I'd love to have my so with me. I'd probably be a bit disappointed if they wouldn't accompany me (if they had nothing major going on). But if it's important to a good friend I'd go alone.
Sure especially if I have friends there.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Does he know the people getting married? I would feel awkward going if I didn’t.
Also weddings are lame so I wouldn’t want to go.
He does know them. The girl is his best friends ex. So out of solidarity for his friend he isn't going.
I'd go without him and no grudge-holding. I went to a handful of weddings without my ex-Gem while we were together, bothered me once or twice but I got over it and I'm not gonna make someone do something they don't want to. I enjoy having my life, my S/O has theirs, and we have a life together - I don't need to be with them 24/7.
All my closest friends will be there so I'll be fine without him. I'm just getting others opinions/perspective.
My other friends whom are going think his reasons are stupid...I get it tho
My other friends whom are going think his reasons are stupid...I get it tho
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturnsPosted by Boots1313Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Does he know the people getting married? I would feel awkward going if I didn’t.
Also weddings are lame so I wouldn’t want to go.
He does know them. The girl is his best friends ex. So out of solidarity for his friend he isn't going.
I personally think that’s a good reason, respecting his friend.click to expand
Yes, especially since his friend did the same when my boyfriends ex got married. He didnt go to her wedding
Posted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battlesclick to expand
Ok I 100% get him.
It would suck to open social media and have to scroll past pics of his friends laughing and having fun at an ex’s wedding.
Your bf gets a pass. This time.
Posted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battlesclick to expand
ya that's a tough one for him to be in. Was she also friends with you guys or she more of a friend via the bestfriend of his? ex's and weddings and loyalty to buds just makes it all around ikky.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
Ok I 100% get him.
It would suck to open social media and have to scroll past pics of his friends laughing and having fun at an ex’s wedding.
Your bf gets a pass. This time.click to expand
I agree. And I know from expiernece with my ex how shitty that is. To see that on fb/instagram.
Posted by justagirlPosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
ya that's a tough one for him to be in. Was she also friends with you guys or she more of a friend via the bestfriend of his? ex's and weddings and loyalty to buds just makes it all around ikky.click to expand
She's my friend totally unrelated to my bf. I started dated my guy and we realized we have an overlapping social group
Posted by Boots1313Posted by justagirlPosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
ya that's a tough one for him to be in. Was she also friends with you guys or she more of a friend via the bestfriend of his? ex's and weddings and loyalty to buds just makes it all around ikky.
She's my friend totally unrelated to my bf. I started dated my guy and we realized we have an overlapping social groupclick to expand
Gothca, I still think him supporting his bestfriend is admirable.
Posted by justagirlPosted by Boots1313Posted by justagirlPosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
ya that's a tough one for him to be in. Was she also friends with you guys or she more of a friend via the bestfriend of his? ex's and weddings and loyalty to buds just makes it all around ikky.
She's my friend totally unrelated to my bf. I started dated my guy and we realized we have an overlapping social group
Gothca, I still think him supporting his bestfriend is admirable.click to expand
I do aswell. Especially since his friend did the same when my bfs ex got married.
My friend doesn't get it, but oh well
Posted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battlesclick to expand
You have your loyalties and he has his. Go to your friend's wedding without him.
SO has a reason not to go. Ifnit was just ‘I don’t wanna’ I would put a leash on him and make him go.
But him not going out of a loyalty to his friend - different story. Let him be and maybe he want to spend time with a friend on that day.
Nothing else would be ok for me to let him not to go. This I can understand.
Kind of childish but sweet at the same time.
But him not going out of a loyalty to his friend - different story. Let him be and maybe he want to spend time with a friend on that day.
Nothing else would be ok for me to let him not to go. This I can understand.
Kind of childish but sweet at the same time.
Posted by GuardianAnuPosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
You have your loyalties and he has his. Go to your friend's wedding without him.click to expand
Agreed.
Posted by Gemitati
SO has a reason not to go. Ifnit was just ‘I don’t wanna’ I would put a leash on him and make him go.
But him not going out of a loyalty to his friend - different story. Let him be and maybe he want to spend time with a friend on that day.
Nothing else would be ok for me to let him not to go. This I can understand.
Kind of childish but sweet at the same time.
Yes exactly. And I think he is planning on doing something with his friend that day.
His friends sister is going...I find that kind of funny. To each their own..
Posted by Boots1313Posted by Gemitati
SO has a reason not to go. Ifnit was just ‘I don’t wanna’ I would put a leash on him and make him go.
But him not going out of a loyalty to his friend - different story. Let him be and maybe he want to spend time with a friend on that day.
Nothing else would be ok for me to let him not to go. This I can understand.
Kind of childish but sweet at the same time.
Yes exactly. And I think he is planning on doing something with his friend that day.
His friends sister is going...I find that kind of funny. To each their own..click to expand
Girls vs boys...she is feeling like going. He doesn’t. Sometimes friends are closer than siblings. You know...
Posted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
Ok I 100% get him.
It would suck to open social media and have to scroll past pics of his friends laughing and having fun at an ex’s wedding.
Your bf gets a pass. This time.
I agree. And I know from expiernece with my ex how shitty that is. To see that on fb/instagram.click to expand
Remember before social media when you could do the full fade and never have to deal with that person again? I miss those days.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
Ok I 100% get him.
It would suck to open social media and have to scroll past pics of his friends laughing and having fun at an ex’s wedding.
Your bf gets a pass. This time.
I agree. And I know from expiernece with my ex how shitty that is. To see that on fb/instagram.
Remember before social media when you could do the full fade and never have to deal with that person again? I miss those days.click to expand
I hate social media more and more everyday. The older I get the less use I have of it. My bf deleted everything but his fb...and I'm thinking of doing the same. It's just to easy to feel insure and compare your life. Not to mention feel like you have to keep up with the Jones's. Also it's too easy to keep in contact with someone...good and bad.
Le sigh...
Posted by FungalInfectionsPosted by Boots1313Posted by LadyNeptune
Why isn’t he going?
The girl getting married is his best friends ex who his best friend is still heartbroken over. So he thinks its disrespectful to his bff if he went.
I get his reasons, I'm a little upset to go alone. But this is something I'm not making a big deal out of. He has his reasons. Chose my battles
Appreciate that your partner has integrity and is trying to do the correct thing in a moral sense. He deserves recognition for that and not a guilt trip.click to expand
I'm not guilt tripping him at all. I hear him 100% . Likeni said I'm a lil sad but I didnt Express that to him because I do feel he is doing the right thing. I commend him tbh. Like you said he has integrity. One of the reasons i decided to date him.
So general consensus... unless there is a good reason (ie: my boyfriends) then you would make him go?
For future reference for when his bestfriends ex isn't getting married 😉 lol
For future reference for when his bestfriends ex isn't getting married 😉 lol
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