Sag man in a relationship for 25 years with a taurus woman eight years his senior. He wants us both.

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I recently found out that the Sag man that I have been seeing has been in a relationship with a taurus woman for 25 years. He is currently incarcerated, and I go visit him every weekend. I found out at the repass of his brother's funeral that he has a woman. I then confronted him when he called, and he finally says that he wants the both of us. He has feelings for both of us, and don't want to let none of us go. This woman is much older looking. I honestly thought that the family was playing a prank on me... He is now telling me that he is confused and don't know what to do as he has feelings for us both...This woman never comes to vivit him, nor do she do anything...I am confused and heart broken...
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It’s up to you and what you’re willing to accept. If you love him and want to make it work despite her, that’s your prerogative. If it bothers you and you want to talk to her about it, I wouldn’t blame you. Would you be okay with him loving you both? Would you want her to know and everything be in the open? I think you should search your feelings as to what you want rn and what you need, if this relationship can give you that.
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Posted by Jan12girl

In jail (that too for murder) and has another women on side . Either one is enough to run away from. I don’t know why people get drawn to mess?


How do everybody know this dude in jail and for murder? It doesn't say anywhere in the op's post. If that's true (and I hate to say this cus I do like the op) then why is some giving emotional support to her because a murderer broke her heart? And I don't care. Call me a loser for this but I like the idea of having more than one woman for a two some or threesome. So I'm not ducking that dude for that part.
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Posted by ScorpioDreams

Why are some of these comments so harsh? Despite the circumstances, heartbreak is heartbreak. Sometimes a kind word or two or some helpful advice is all that is needed. I’m so sorry you’re hurting over this. You definitely deserve better. I hope you find it in your heart to make the best decision that’s right for you.

I saw the lady wrote

“I need all of these comments”
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Posted by Jan12girl

In jail (that too for murder) and has another women on side . Either one is enough to run away from. I don’t know why people get drawn to mess?

How do everybody know this dude in jail and for murder? It doesn't say anywhere in the op's post. If that's true (and I hate to say this cus I do like the op) then why is some giving emotional support to her because a murderer broke her heart? And I don't care. Call me a loser for this but I like the idea of having more than one woman for a two some or threesome. So I'm not ducking that dude for that part.
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I think OP mentioned it in the past.
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Posted by Easha23000us

I recently found out that the Sag man that I have been seeing has been in a relationship with a taurus woman for 25 years. He is currently incarcerated, and I go visit him every weekend. I found out at the repass of his brother's funeral that he has a woman. I then confronted him when he called, and he finally says that he wants the both of us. He has feelings for both of us, and don't want to let none of us go. This woman is much older looking. I honestly thought that the family was playing a prank on me... He is now telling me that he is confused and don't know what to do as he has feelings for us both...This woman never comes to vivit him, nor do she do anything...I am confused and heart broken...

You expecting a man who's incarcerated to have a working moral compass regarding anything? Why are you doing this to yourself? You think u gonna change him? You thrive in chaos? What is it?

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Posted by ScorpioDreams

Why are some of these comments so harsh? Despite the circumstances, heartbreak is heartbreak. Sometimes a kind word or two or some helpful advice is all that is needed. I’m so sorry you’re hurting over this. You definitely deserve better. I hope you find it in your heart to make the best decision that’s right for you.

Bc she is doing it to herself. He isn't. His life story tells what kind of person he is and what she can expect from him. She can shower him with love,compassion,understanding but that don't mean shit, he's not the type of person who knows how to receive it. Ultimately I don't mean shit to him.

And she doesnt deserve better until she learnes how to love herself. Until she learns she's gonna get shit
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In jail (that too for murder) and has another women on side . Either one is enough to run away from. I don’t know why people get drawn to mess?

How do everybody know this dude in jail and for murder? It doesn't say anywhere in the op's post. If that's true (and I hate to say this cus I do like the op) then why is some giving emotional support to her because a murderer broke her heart? And I don't care. Call me a loser for this but I like the idea of having more than one woman for a two some or threesome. So I'm not ducking that dude for that part.

Someone mentioned it here that he is in for murder.

It doesn’t matter if someone is into threesome or foursome that’s their choice . But she clearly is not ok with there being a second woman that’s what her op was about if I got it right . I stand by what I said that one should not opt for a messed up person. It makes your life mess too .

Every one has their way of giving emotional support. I think sometimes a harsh advice should also be given . Of course the op can take it in the way she finds right . Anyone can have it in them to make life that doesn’t guarantee pain and that’s what I aimed at .
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Oh yeah I understand that. I wouldn't like it if my woman had more men as side dudes too. In my case I think we'll have to compromise somehow. If she wants side dudes then it's only fair I have side chicks too and we can all have 'somes' two, three, foursomes, etc.

As for the rest of that other stuff...eee yeah ok. Fair enough.
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Even without this other woman this relationship was not gonna be sunshine and rainbows. Its hard to love an excon. Your gonna need to be the breadwinner and provide EVERYTHING for him. He won't be able to work and make a decent wage with his record. It checks out that he has an older woman in his life. He needs a place to land and someone lonely enough to buy his love.

I still think you can have him over her if you can give him more and do more for him financially. You'll have him for a time at least... until he can find the next mark with a bit more than you.

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I recently found out that the Sag man that I have been seeing has been in a relationship with a taurus woman for 25 years. He is currently incarcerated, and I go visit him every weekend. I found out at the repass of his brother's funeral that he has a woman. I then confronted him when he called, and he finally says that he wants the both of us. He has feelings for both of us, and don't want to let none of us go. This woman is much older looking. I honestly thought that the family was playing a prank on me... He is now telling me that he is confused and don't know what to do as he has feelings for us both...This woman never comes to vivit him, nor do she do anything...I am confused and heart broken...

You expecting a man who's incarcerated to have a working moral compass regarding anything? Why are you doing this to yourself? You think u gonna change him? You thrive in chaos? What is it?
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My stupid heart..
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Posted by ImperfectStorm

I am sorry that you’re heartbroken. The fact that you never heard this from him says a lot.. he is very secretive and deceptive. I don’t think I have to tell you that you deserve better, I think you probably already know that. When someone is deceptive from the beginning like that, it makes you wonder what else he has lied about or is hiding. Be careful.

Spoken like a true Scorpio. Thank you.
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Posted by Monimai

I just read why women possibly choose these kind of men

They write :

• Desperate ( we all are desperate so there's more to it)

• Trying to change a bad man into a decent man (🤷🏻‍♀️)

• Lonely (ok)

• Cannot get anyone to date them on the outside or lonely in a failing marriage (I really believe there are plenty other fish and they deserve a chance too!)

Also :

• Gratitude. He's likely to be grateful. Prisoners need all the support they can get from the outside and gratitude is a rare quality in relationships (mmm not in healthy relationships)

• Distance. She is in control of how she allows him to be involved in her emotional life. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." (That one is okay)

• Safety. She knows he's not going to turn up unexpectedly and turn her life upside down. She will have plenty of notice if and when he's getting out.(This one is what I would be worried about)

• Rescue. She is rescuing him. He needs rescuing.(ugh)

• Righteousness. If he has convinced her he is innocent she is doing a righteous thing by giving him her love and support.

• Redemption. If he expresses remorse to her, then she's doing a good deed by helping redeem him with her love and support.

Another one:

They feel bad for people in cages and prefer to communicate by letters. They crave getting to know the real person without a mask. This practice should not surprise people as it is a byproduct of a society obsessed with putting on a show for others and the impersonal nature of social media. You don't get any more real than alone in a jail cell and nothing to prove. Raw and Real.



Ok!?

Whatever made you decide to choose this man. End it now.C'mon what more you need he already cheated so...can you trust someone like that!? Besides all the other things,just this one factor would make me run away. He fooled you these whole years. Now is a good time to end it otherwise,what is your future plan? You wanna accept her? Will she accept you? Will HE be faithful (lol) on top a Sagittarius xD he love plenty...

And he don't want drama when he is out so he will dump both of you or still play you both until he will be stable enough to go... And what's left? I hope no children...

But I read somewhere your Venus in Scorpio is amused when you can control him.

That will be gone when he is out.Free bird Michael fly free xD

Or what's your plan when he wants to leave you( accuse him of domestic violence) and boom gone again?

He curses,he isn't a decent man,or is he now a church going man? Spiritual? Or a Muslim? So if he is a Muslim you have to accept that in his religion he can have plenty of wives. How did he changed,you are 43 you wrote somewhere,and he was 18 when jailed? How many decades was he in Jail!?

All in all I can only advice you to cut this off before he gets out...but now since he got your address and all he will definitely come around,so also change the place you live.

But I don't think you feel this way.

All you think about is that the girl from him is much older looking and doesn't do nothing for him.

Use your damn brain woman!

Well

C'est La Vie


He has been incarcerated for 29 years. I have known him since elementary school, and always had a crush on him. I reached out to him, and we started up from there. I feel used and hurt, so I guess I do deserve this treatment for being so gullible. I really thought that he was genuine. The sad thing is that I still take his calls daily.
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I need all of these comments....

For your next shitty book?

I would tell you to go fuck yourself, but you might like that too much, so bite me loser.

So you are indeed collecting the comments for your next shitty books, okay then.
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Comments to put in my book booty bandit? Your fruity ass would like a nice chick flick. Go paint your nails or something, trying to be a hard ass when you are soft as fuck. Dick please...
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Posted by Easha23000us
Posted by MrNobody
Posted by Easha23000us

Posted by MrNobody
Posted by Easha23000us

I need all of these comments....

For your next shitty book?

I would tell you to go fuck yourself, but you might like that too much, so bite me loser.

So you are indeed collecting the comments for your next shitty books, okay then.

Comments to put in my book booty bandit? Your fruity ass would like a nice chick flick. Go paint your nails or something, trying to be a hard ass when you are soft as fuck. Dick please...

So it isn't?
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What the fuck do you think ass wipe?
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Posted by Easha23000us
Posted by MrNobody
Posted by Easha23000us

Posted by MrNobody
Posted by Easha23000us

I need all of these comments....

For your next shitty book?

I would tell you to go fuck yourself, but you might like that too much, so bite me loser.

So you are indeed collecting the comments for your next shitty books, okay then.

Comments to put in my book booty bandit? Your fruity ass would like a nice chick flick. Go paint your nails or something, trying to be a hard ass when you are soft as fuck. Dick please...

So it isn't?
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What the fuck do you think ass wipe?
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Posted by Monimai

I just read why women possibly choose these kind of men

They write :

• Desperate ( we all are desperate so there's more to it)

• Trying to change a bad man into a decent man (🤷🏻‍♀️)

• Lonely (ok)

• Cannot get anyone to date them on the outside or lonely in a failing marriage (I really believe there are plenty other fish and they deserve a chance too!)

Also :

• Gratitude. He's likely to be grateful. Prisoners need all the support they can get from the outside and gratitude is a rare quality in relationships (mmm not in healthy relationships)

• Distance. She is in control of how she allows him to be involved in her emotional life. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." (That one is okay)

• Safety. She knows he's not going to turn up unexpectedly and turn her life upside down. She will have plenty of notice if and when he's getting out.(This one is what I would be worried about)

• Rescue. She is rescuing him. He needs rescuing.(ugh)

• Righteousness. If he has convinced her he is innocent she is doing a righteous thing by giving him her love and support.

• Redemption. If he expresses remorse to her, then she's doing a good deed by helping redeem him with her love and support.

Another one:

They feel bad for people in cages and prefer to communicate by letters. They crave getting to know the real person without a mask. This practice should not surprise people as it is a byproduct of a society obsessed with putting on a show for others and the impersonal nature of social media. You don't get any more real than alone in a jail cell and nothing to prove. Raw and Real.



Ok!?

Whatever made you decide to choose this man. End it now.C'mon what more you need he already cheated so...can you trust someone like that!? Besides all the other things,just this one factor would make me run away. He fooled you these whole years. Now is a good time to end it otherwise,what is your future plan? You wanna accept her? Will she accept you? Will HE be faithful (lol) on top a Sagittarius xD he love plenty...

And he don't want drama when he is out so he will dump both of you or still play you both until he will be stable enough to go... And what's left? I hope no children...

But I read somewhere your Venus in Scorpio is amused when you can control him.

That will be gone when he is out.Free bird Michael fly free xD

Or what's your plan when he wants to leave you( accuse him of domestic violence) and boom gone again?

He curses,he isn't a decent man,or is he now a church going man? Spiritual? Or a Muslim? So if he is a Muslim you have to accept that in his religion he can have plenty of wives. How did he changed,you are 43 you wrote somewhere,and he was 18 when jailed? How many decades was he in Jail!?

All in all I can only advice you to cut this off before he gets out...but now since he got your address and all he will definitely come around,so also change the place you live.

But I don't think you feel this way.

All you think about is that the girl from him is much older looking and doesn't do nothing for him.

Use your damn brain woman!

Well

C'est La Vie

He has been incarcerated for 29 years. I have known him since elementary school, and always had a crush on him. I reached out to him, and we started up from there. I feel used and hurt, so I guess I do deserve this treatment for being so gullible. I really thought that he was genuine. The sad thing is that I still take his calls daily.
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29 years already? Why are you wasting your time with him? Find one that's not in prison. Even from there he managed to cheat on you. 🙈
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That's not the insult you think it is.

Cunts are the origin of all beauty and life in this world and the only bloodshed not born of violence. All hail the cunt!!

*Bows down* to the sacred cunt

See you in the sacred grove for our full moon naked dance circle fellow devotee.
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Meet you there....🌝

I remember ex Virgo told me one of his death metal mates challenged a bloke when he was using cunt as a derogatory term. He says “how could you refer to something so beautiful in an insulting way”

All hail death metal men

🤘🏻
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https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?% 20id=15344058">Posted by MrNobody
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Posted by Easha23000us

I need all of these comments....

For your next shitty book?

I would tell you to go fuck yourself, but you might like that too much, so bite me loser.

So you are indeed collecting the comments for your next shitty books, okay then.

Comments to put in my book booty bandit? Your fruity ass would like a nice chick flick. Go paint your nails or something, trying to be a hard ass when you are soft as fuck. Dick please...

So it isn't?

What the fuck do you think ass wipe?

I asked because of that particulary comment I first replied of to you as it implies me that you want to gathered all up all of other responds for your novel writing, since you eventually did made a book in the past. So I questioned it.

Is that real hard to give a straightfoward answer without a need to insult others like a cunt?
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I guess you are speaking of your cunt mother. And you insulted me first referring to my book as shitty. You truly did not read it because those who did gave great reviews.Lastly, my work does not consist of comments from bloggers. It is a novel of fiction tales, thank you very much.
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That's not the insult you think it is.

Cunts are the origin of all beauty and life in this world and the only bloodshed not born of violence. All hail the cunt!!

Shhhh🥱

How’s it going with the Sag man

Did you make a decision as to what to do? ❤️
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My heart wants to stay but my mind says to cut it off. I will do so on Saturday.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
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Posted by MrNobody
Posted by LadyNeptune

That's not the insult you think it is.

Cunts are the origin of all beauty and life in this world and the only bloodshed not born of violence. All hail the cunt!!

Shhhh🥱

How’s it going with the Sag man

Did you make a decision as to what to do? ❤️

My heart wants to stay but my mind says to cut it off. I will do so on Saturday.
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Proud of you. It’s a tough thing to do. You know you need better for yourself tho, and it’s important you acknowledge that you’re finally listening to your intuition and doing better for yourself.
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Posted by Easha23000us
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Easha23000us
Posted by MrNobody
Posted by LadyNeptune

That's not the insult you think it is.

Cunts are the origin of all beauty and life in this world and the only bloodshed not born of violence. All hail the cunt!!

Shhhh🥱

How’s it going with the Sag man

Did you make a decision as to what to do? ❤️

My heart wants to stay but my mind says to cut it off. I will do so on Saturday.
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Stay strong (((Easha)))

You are worth more

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