Does anybody TRULY KNOW how you feel/think

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Aloha Sagis

Right.....So I was think about this ALL the time.

How well does anybody 'actually' know how you REALLY think or feel?

The thing is I always thought people 'really' knew the true Sagi that I am but to be totally honest NOBODY does. Only I know the true me. Am I making sense?

I say all this because I have really learnt a lot about myself these past couple of years. I've really gotten to know myself better. I know WHY I act the way I do, I know WHAT makes me react the way I do. I KNOW my flaws, I know what I need to do to better myself (to evolve)

I suppress my saddest thoughts (still now) and paint the biggest smile on my face and really mean it. Subconsciously I am suffering but because I suppress my sad feelings but I can consciously smile to the world making them believe that I'm fine, in turn making myself THINK I am too.

Now this isn't to lie to people or pull the wool over their eyes as such, it is purely because I'm always alright in the end, so I'd rather not trouble/burden people with my saddest most deepest thoughts.


Everyone knows me as the life and soul of the party. I always turn EVERYBODYS frowns upside down. Even with all these smiles and this humour I have I just don't think people 'really' KNOW me. I could never possibly explain the things that RACE through my mind at any given minute, its just not possible. Sometimes even I myself have problems with my thoughts. It almost feels like my head is gonna explode! Lol

Last year was a pretty tough and bad year for me and it really tested my strengths as a person. It made me realize that I am infact made me hard stuff! I surprised myself.

I don't think generally people realize that Sags are very DEEP thinkers. We have deep feelings when we love/ when we're sad.

My lovers in the past have always said 'I know you better than you know yourself' and it always leaves me thinking 'You don't know the fucking half of it'. And its true, they don't. I only wish they did! Believe me! I want someone to UNDERSTAND my every movement but I don't think that will ever happen.


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Cont...

I long for someone to 'connect' with to 'bond' with. Don't get me wrong, I have very close friendships but even they will never TRULY understand me.

In a partnerships I am extremely loyal. I try my level best to make my partner feel at ease. This includes reigning in my Sagi friendliness with other men and just generally make THEM feel comfortable in my presence. I don't think the men in my life have TRULY appreciated the lengths I go to. I dote on them. My efforts have always gone unoticed I feel. It makes me wonder........

Will I ever find that 'bond'?

I'm not sad about it, I just question it. When will someone actually appreciate me for ME. The true loyal Sagi friend and lover that I am.

Ughhhh.............lol

Maybe this is an inkling of how a Sagi thinks(?) (Well me anyway)
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I would have to agree. But I feel like that's true of many signs.

My Leo ex who is also my BFF always tells me I don't think about anything and all I want to do is laugh. I tell him I think about things all the time. I just don't broadcast it nor dwell on it. I just keep it moving. And for me laughter makes everything better. So I guess if he feels that way , and he's known me forever, no one really knows me lol.
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Im not a Sag (obviosuly) but I think and repeat THINK I know a little about my Sag.

I know her feelings are deep and she get's hurt really easily but covers it up with a smile. But at night she cries for someone to understand her and find that one person. She also thinks to much which makes her come off bi-polar because it seems more like she is fighting herself, and thinking something is wrong with her. Also, I think she felt lost most of her life coming up because she is trying to find herself, hence why she experiments with a lot. She sacrifices a lot for me and means well but may not go about doing the action or saying the right words which gets me mad. Very insecure and cares what other thinks about her even though she hides it oh so well lol. Wants me to run around the world with her and make her feel like she is bigger then life. She wants someone who understands her even though she may not know how to express what she is trying to say. She wants someone to kind of give her clues on how to do something but not tell her, or order her. So on and so on....

That's just a little bit I picked up just by reading through the fake smiles of hers. I think its so cute because I respect the fact she's human, and appreciate just her in general. Even though I never told her I just like her just for being her, and don't want her to change lol.
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my aires bff and my virgo friend, knows me pretty well. they dont know 100% , im too much of a secretive scorpio moon for all that.

the scorp is pretty remarkable on how much he's picked up about me. he knew i was the black sheep of the family, how i looked like the type to have a water bed, i mean just the oddest things, he had picked up on. most guys with scorponic traits pick up on what i DONT put down. its a skill that anyone will need *sag chick 411* in trying to get close to a scorp moon. unfortuanetly, you have to assume, but you have to assume right.

other than that, i show people what i want them to see and know about me. the clown goes home and i turn off when i want to unwind. this is usually at home (cancer rising that i am)

there are 2 sides to saggis, mutable signs. a dark side and a good side. maybe thats where all the bi-polarness comes from. if people knew how bad the darkside is, theyd pray for the clown to stick around 24/7.

speaking for myself, i am not that complex. i just dont let any ol tom dick or harpo in. how special would my boyfriend feel if i treated every other dude like him? how special would my husband feel, if i treated him like every other boyfriend? i always leave alot to be desired to save something for the one who truly matters. which is why i dont call male suitors by pet names. you have to mean something to get this venus in cap to call you boo, baby, whatever.

as a sag, i am a book waiting to be written on. i crave spontaneity. i crave to learn. i want someone to teach me something i dont already know. so in a way, i know myself...but theres so much more to be written, that i dont know who I am truly capable of being.
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Posted by SagChick411
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww that is toooooo cute!!!

'Even though I never told her I just like her just for being her, and don't want her to change'

I wonder if my Scorp has any idea about the way I FEEL. lol



he's still figuring you out. for example, you dont think your being consistent right now...but your helping him establish a patten about you and what makes you tick. now, if u were to ever stop being the clown and started being a wallflower because he bitches and moans that your sagginess is too much and he gets jealous because of it...he would ultimately grow bored of you....and drop you. so, never stop being you...even if it frustrates him. he will learn to cope. at the same time, you will become a more thoughtful sag. a sag still nonetheless.
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Posted by scorp1110
Im not a Sag (obviosuly) but I think and repeat THINK I know a little about my Sag.

I know her feelings are deep and she get's hurt really easily but covers it up with a smile. But at night she cries for someone to understand her and find that one person. She also thinks to much which makes her come off bi-polar because it seems more like she is fighting herself, and thinking something is wrong with her. Also, I think she felt lost most of her life coming up because she is trying to find herself, hence why she experiments with a lot. She sacrifices a lot for me and means well but may not go about doing the action or saying the right words which gets me mad. Very insecure and cares what other thinks about her even though she hides it oh so well lol. Wants me to run around the world with her and make her feel like she is bigger then life. She wants someone who understands her even though she may not know how to express what she is trying to say. She wants someone to kind of give her clues on how to do something but not tell her, or order her. So on and so on....

That's just a little bit I picked up just by reading through the fake smiles of hers. I think its so cute because I respect the fact she's human, and appreciate just her in general. Even though I never told her I just like her just for being her, and don't want her to change lol.



from only these "casual encounters", youve sure picked up on alot.
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Yea, I guess that's my pisces moon, I think, which I read is said to feel deeply and be psychic somehow. So I can feel a lot about people somehow. But I picked up more but don't want to write a book lol.

With me and her it's more of me battling myself which causes me to pick a fight.



pisces mooners are truly psychic. where does your moon and merc fall? which house? any apects to neptune or uranus?
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Yea, I guess that's my pisces moon, I think, which I read is said to feel deeply and be psychic somehow. So I can feel a lot about people somehow. But I picked up more but don't want to write a book lol.

With me and her it's more of me battling myself which causes me to pick a fight.



pisces mooners are truly psychic. where does your moon and merc fall? which house? any apects to neptune or uranus?
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Overload overload lol... Where do I get that info from? My natal chart
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O ok thanks. But how does one communicate with a sag to understand her better?




well mutable signs are about communicating. so talking works wonders, who knew? also take her to places where her sagginess will come out to play. outdoors, beach, games, arcades, food outings, sports. nething to get her blood going and mind racing. in her enviornment, she will be more receptive and open. whats her mars sign agian?
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Yea, I guess that's my pisces moon, I think, which I read is said to feel deeply and be psychic somehow. So I can feel a lot about people somehow. But I picked up more but don't want to write a book lol.

With me and her it's more of me battling myself which causes me to pick a fight.



pisces mooners are truly psychic. where does your moon and merc fall? which house? any apects to neptune or uranus?



Overload overload lol... Where do I get that info from? My natal chart
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lol yep.
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Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Scorpio 21.51 Ascendant Pisces 17.43
Moon Pisces 15.03 II Taurus 3.08
Mercury Sagittarius 0.40 III Gemini 1.52
Venus Libra 5.37 IV Gemini 23.42
Mars Virgo 27.52 V Cancer 14.30
Jupiter Sagittarius 15.19 VI Leo 9.20
Saturn Scorpio 8.59 VII Virgo 17.43
Uranus Sagittarius 8.19 VIII Scorpio 3.08
Neptune Sagittarius 27.39 IX Sagittarius 1.52
Pluto Scorpio 0.21 Midheaven Sagittarius 23.42
Lilith Aquarius 26.59 XI Capricorn 14.30
Asc node Gemini 15.55 XII Aquarius 9.20

That's the chart in full
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Looking at your chart, you have mutability which i think its important because the scorp has to change as well to be with a sag. mars in virgo also helps you alot too. that mars sign gets things done right and over analyzes everything. i am a virgo martian as well.

i am also a big believer that the sag dating the scorp needs to have water in personal planets or in water houses.
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as a sag, i am a book waiting to be written on. i crave spontaneity. i crave to learn. i want someone to teach me something i dont already know. so in a way, i know myself...but theres so much more to be written, that i dont know who I am truly capable of being.



Truly wonderful words! Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww *hugs*

P.S thanks for the tip on the Scorp moon.

My Scorp is still resisting. I'm giving him a good run for his money as I am resisting. This is getting pretty interesting for me now. I am truly testing myself and I REFUSE to fail! I feel empowered!
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Hmmm Sutekh

I may be wrong but I thought my moon was in the 1st, mars in the 7th, Neptune in 9th and 10th.

But hey what do I know—

I guess reading is fun and mental huh **Pow Pow**




he's using equal house system. the rest of us use placidus



All yall regular a $ $ NOOBs 😄
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sutekh is very passionate about his equal house


i saw that...moon in his first. damn. too psychic for me. and he's a pisces rising.
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Hmmm Sutekh

I may be wrong but I thought my moon was in the 1st, mars in the 7th, Neptune in 9th and 10th.

But hey what do I know—

I guess reading is fun and mental huh **Pow Pow**




he's using equal house system. the rest of us use placidus



All yall regular a $ $ NOOBs 😄



sutekh is very passionate about his equal house


i saw that...moon in his first. damn. too psychic for me. and he's a pisces rising.
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That means nothing to me care to elaborate?
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Thank you for bringing this up!!
I was just thinking about this the other day.


As much as I consider myself an extrovert and an open book...apparently a lot of people see me as private and reserved
& feel like I am hard to really get to know.

It shocks me a little to hear that people consider me private honestly, I don't see myself that way.
I think I talk too much/reveal too much about myself.

I mean, I talk a lot when I get started, and I'm VERY opinionated (obvi.) But I guess without realizing it I don't usually talk about my personal feelings or really anything too personal in general. I rarely get deep with people.

People know how I "feel" about certain things...like opinions and preferences, etc...but they don't usually know how I FEEL.
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Funny how I was feeling and thinking exactly just like you. You are right, it is very hard to find anyone who truly understands how you feel or that can magically guess what you need.

Sometimes I feel disgusted of my own dark thoughts and the fact that no matter how bad things are I always have that little bit of hope inside me. For me, my problem is the fact that I still have hope disgusts me so badly that my only way to hide that disgustment is by showing a pessimistic face to everyone else, even if deep inside me all I have is hope but I am too disgusted to accept it. I always say "What I say doesn't necessarily mean what I truly feel or what I'll do" I don't know if any of you sags feels the same way but anyways....

For me the only sign that comes close to even knowing the real me is another Sag, I can only openly share my feelings and feel understood among my own kind. Unfortunately I don't have a lot of sags in my life, damn we are hard to find! But the few ones that I have in my life can truly understand my feelings, and I feel like we have this unspoken language between each other. I feel a stronger connection to the sag girls than the sag guys though.

The second sign that has come close to it is Gemini, but then again my sister is a Gemini and she is my confident and my two close friends are geminis as well so maybe it's because I spend too much time with them. Anyways, point being is that I trust her (my sister) and tell her everything but I don't feel the same connection as with the Sags, she listens, and understands but when it comes to understanding and giving advice she is not very good at it, not saying its bad, its appreciated it, but she simply doesn't get it right, and same applies to my gemini buddies... I can feel like I can talk and open up to them but I feel like they never truly get what I feel...

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Posted by brianafay

I mean, I talk a lot when I get started, and I'm VERY opinionated (obvi.) But I guess without realizing it I don't usually talk about my personal feelings or really anything too personal in general. I rarely get deep with people.

People know how I "feel" about certain things...like opinions and preferences, etc...but they don't usually know how I FEEL.



OMG + 1

Cannot stress your words enough!!! Well put 🙂