LolaRed
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Fight with Sag guy... will he come back?
Posted by LolaRedTypo... he said you're a super person, not hyper lol
I met a sag sun cap Venus guy almost 2 months ago. He was in town on vacation. We had an amazing day and night together before he had to fly home the day after we met. We've been messaging everyday since and made plans for me to come visit him in a couple of weeks. While I was booking the trip we got into a small disagreement amount the trip. I didn't like his tone of voice and felt like maybe he just wasn't that interested and felt a little hurt and disrespected. So I told him maybe we should just forget all it it. The nextmorning I apologized to him for overreacting and asked if we can still make the trip work. He replied I think your a hyper person. It I know when something's. It going to work for me. I was a little short with you bc i was bogged down with work, but for you to say let's just call it all off is a bit much for me. We can continue to message but I don't see this working as a relationship".
I was heartbroken but told him ok, that's fair and sorry I overreacted. We've communicated a few times since(much less then before)- me initiating but him always responding within 30 mins.
I really want to send him a message sincerely apologizing for what I said just bc i feel it needs to be done. I also planned to explain to him that at the time I was going through a few really stressful things (2 involving two different exs) -which I briefly mentioned leading up to our convo. As well as a close family member being put in life support- which I didn't tell him about. I'm a libra and my scales were all thrown off balanc lol. I want him to understand where my reaction was coming from (hopefully so that he knows that was very out of character for me - which it is) but I don't want him to fe like im just giving him excuses to explain away how crazy my behavior was.
Do you think I should send this to him now that we are having friendly exchanges? The hung is i dont just want a friendship with him. I felt myself falling for him and am heartbroken that I caused all of this to happen.
Posted by OmniVirgoFlirtVirgo/libra cusp with libra venus
What's your sign OP?
Posted by OmniVirgoFlirtI think his comments offended my proud Leo moon ?
What's your sign OP?
No, don't send him any more messages.
You apologized and that's all you needed to do.
He will only come back if he misses you.
Let him miss you and comd find you...
For now, leave things alone. He doesn't need any more explanations.
Sag will only pull away much more if you keep looking for him, let him go if he really wants you let him come back on his own.
You apologized and that's all you needed to do.
He will only come back if he misses you.
Let him miss you and comd find you...
For now, leave things alone. He doesn't need any more explanations.
Sag will only pull away much more if you keep looking for him, let him go if he really wants you let him come back on his own.
Sag sun, Cap venus. Evasive champions.
This.
Posted by Mike79
He will only come back if he misses you.
Let him miss you and comd find you...
...let him come back on his own.
This.
Posted by Mike79Ok. I never sent the message. On Monday I asked him how his weekend was and he told me he spent it with his daughter then sent me a couple of photos and a video of them together. I replied about how cute it was but haven't contacted him since. So it's been almost 3 days since we've spoken- which is the longest we haven't communicated since we met 2 months ago. I don't plan to initiate any more convos and will wait and see if he reaches out. If he does great, but if he doesn't I guess I've saved myself heartache- meaning he mustn't have been that into me...
No, don't send him any more messages.
You apologized and that's all you needed to do.
He will only come back if he misses you.
Let him miss you and comd find you...
For now, leave things alone. He doesn't need any more explanations.
Sag will only pull away much more if you keep looking for him, let him go if he really wants you let him come back on his own.
On another note, he's a great connection to have for my professional career- so I don't have a problem switching gears if it seems that will be the only viable relationship for us to have. But I think I will wait a couple months before reaching out if I don't hear from him before then.
Posted by Koniuchaa^
How long have you been together?
I think is if someone is so easily willing to give up on everything for one little thing, then they clearly aren't that in to you.
Unless you were acting super crazy and out of control.
I would just ignore him and move on
If someone wants out because they don't want to commit or whatever reason. They can always zero in to one of your flaws and magnify it. Then they can convince themselves and you the reason why they can't be with you.
If the guy really wants to be with you nothing can stop him.
You are really naive. Most people know that after a one night stand 9 times out 10 it's over and that's when you live in the same city let alone another country!!!!!! During the awkward moments between putting your clothes on and getting to the car... people use "filler" conversation. "Okay, I will call you soon" "Come visit me in Canada" "Text you later on today." Both parties really know it's over and all that talk is polite conversation.
Most of us know that guys lose interest after sex unless there was a pre-existing foundation of love that was established over time. Men live for the chase, the hunt. You gave it up the first night, did you really think he wanted to build something special with you? Do you think he wants his daughters to be around a woman with such low sexual morals.
Men pursue women they want; they call, text, send money, flowers etc. The disinterest you are sensing is real.
If you stopped contacting him, regardless of what bullshit you tell us, that man would be happy and stop contacting you.
Stop summoning up excuses to have him in your life, you are making a fool of yourself, boosting his ego and making yourself look pathetic. Next time, if you want a man don't sleep with him too fast.
Most of us know that guys lose interest after sex unless there was a pre-existing foundation of love that was established over time. Men live for the chase, the hunt. You gave it up the first night, did you really think he wanted to build something special with you? Do you think he wants his daughters to be around a woman with such low sexual morals.
Men pursue women they want; they call, text, send money, flowers etc. The disinterest you are sensing is real.
If you stopped contacting him, regardless of what bullshit you tell us, that man would be happy and stop contacting you.
Stop summoning up excuses to have him in your life, you are making a fool of yourself, boosting his ego and making yourself look pathetic. Next time, if you want a man don't sleep with him too fast.
Don't make excuses for your reaction, you reacted because that's what people do. Saying things like "I'm not usually like that" shows desperation, don't kid yourself, you reacted, so what.
This is his problem, not yours, as somebody said so well above ^^^, he's magnified on one of your flaws making *you* the reason he can't be with you, where in fact he just isn't ready to be serious with you. He's not that in to it. Don't belittle yourself by making excuses for your actions and begging for him to reconsider.
If you really want him and are not willing to let go (I'm a chaser too), be his friend and be really fuckin' good at it,if there's anything there, he'll see what he's missing.
😉
This is his problem, not yours, as somebody said so well above ^^^, he's magnified on one of your flaws making *you* the reason he can't be with you, where in fact he just isn't ready to be serious with you. He's not that in to it. Don't belittle yourself by making excuses for your actions and begging for him to reconsider.
If you really want him and are not willing to let go (I'm a chaser too), be his friend and be really fuckin' good at it,if there's anything there, he'll see what he's missing.
😉
What is his moon?
OP, how crazy were you at your 'moment'?
Men nowadays don't know how to deal with 'crazies'.
They are too weak for it.
And women can be really crazy. No good.
If you can - stop texting. See if he cares.
Good luck.
Men nowadays don't know how to deal with 'crazies'.
They are too weak for it.
And women can be really crazy. No good.
If you can - stop texting. See if he cares.
Good luck.
Posted by SagsagsagsPosted by SeraphlightI dont think she even bother to read let alone put into consideration whatever advise we gave her anyway.Posted by SagsagsagsThis.
He already gave you a closure, sweetheart. You should be glad he did, would you rather have him leaving you hanging ??
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No, I've been reading them- just super busy with midterms...
Posted by DMVAquarius moon
What is his moon?
Posted by Gemitati
OP, how crazy were you at your 'moment'?
Men nowadays don't know how to deal with 'crazies'.
They are too weak for it.
And women can be really crazy. No good.
If you can - stop texting. See if he cares.
Good luck.
I wasn't super crazy--He had our disagreement in the morning. He said he super tied up with work stuff bc he had a lot of catch up to do since he got back from a business trip. I waited until the evening and then just sent him a message very calmly saying that everything happened just left a bad taste in my mouth and is causing me to question some things. Maybe we should just forget the whole thing.
Men love he chase, butbit also depends on his mind set. If you met when he is really not ready to settle down, even if you hold out for 3 months he would still leave you.
Men love he chase, butbit also depends on his mind set. If you met when he is really not ready to settle down, even if you hold out for 3 months he would still leave you.
Posted by LolaRedLOLA!Posted by Gemitati
OP, how crazy were you at your 'moment'?
Men nowadays don't know how to deal with 'crazies'.
They are too weak for it.
And women can be really crazy. No good.
If you can - stop texting. See if he cares.
Good luck.
I wasn't super crazy--He had our disagreement in the morning. He said he super tied up with work stuff bc he had a lot of catch up to do since he got back from a business trip. I waited until the evening and then just sent him a message very calmly saying that everything happened just left a bad taste in my mouth and is causing me to question some things. Maybe we should just forget the whole thing.click to expand
You weren't super crazy! However something happened that left bad taste in your mouth?
Wake up! There shouldn't be fight on a second day. Period!
Posted by LolaRedYes let him come around on his own.Posted by Mike79Ok. I never sent the message. On Monday I asked him how his weekend was and he told me he spent it with his daughter then sent me a couple of photos and a video of them together. I replied about how cute it was but haven't contacted him since. So it's been almost 3 days since we've spoken- which is the longest we haven't communicated since we met 2 months ago. I don't plan to initiate any more convos and will wait and see if he reaches out. If he does great, but if he doesn't I guess I've saved myself heartache- meaning he mustn't have been that into me...
No, don't send him any more messages.
You apologized and that's all you needed to do.
He will only come back if he misses you.
Let him miss you and comd find you...
For now, leave things alone. He doesn't need any more explanations.
Sag will only pull away much more if you keep looking for him, let him go if he really wants you let him come back on his own.
On another note, he's a great connection to have for my professional career- so I don't have a problem switching gears if it seems that will be the only viable relationship for us to have. But I think I will wait a couple months before reaching out if I don't hear from him before then.click to expand
He will like that your being a lady & not doing all the chasing...
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Do you think I should send this to him now that we are having friendly exchanges? The hung is i dont just want a friendship with him. I felt myself falling for him and am heartbroken that I caused all of this to happen.