Fighting with my Sag friend

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doodlestrudel12
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So a couple of days ago I got into a bad fight with my Sagittarius friend. I have a lot of issues with anxiety and depression and sometimes I have panicky meltdowns over situations. Well, she was away on a trip for school for the weekend and wasn't talking much to me, and even though I knew deep down she was busy, I still couldn't help but have one of those meltdowns on her over her lack of response. (In my anxious state I thought I did something wrong) anyway, she's told me before that these meltdowns upset her, and I've been doing good but I slipped up and had one. Now she's angry at me and told me she's tired and wants me to leave her alone for awhile. Does anyone have any advice on how to patch things up with her? How long is a Sagittarius angry, and how long should I wait before contact? Thank you.

I'm an Aries btw
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SagittariusXO
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honestly give her her space

appreciate her direct honesty

and allow her to come back around, or give her a week after her trip to reach out.

I get this way and I always put space between me and anyone that is effecting me negatively

but I always get over it, I understand thing and I don't hold grudges.

I just need space and distance.

you need to really work on your "words of affirmations" when you get in that head space.

speaking to yourself out load is actually very helpful if you practice it.

"everything is ok"

"I am ok"

"nothing is different"

"I need to chill out"

nothing drives me more crazy then people trying to share their bad energy.
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OH THE DRAMA!!!!! 😆 Give her a week or two. And try not to bug her if shes busy, that probably was the issue.When she has down time, it's easier to handle the drama and could be a little fun to keep her laughing at your craziness. But when she's busy and you're bugging, it's annoying.

It was a weekend......2 to 3 days lol Wow, you should get more friends. If you can't handle a few days by yourself, it's gonna be a rough ride with the Sag.
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doodlestrudel12
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Posted by sagittariusxo
honestly give her her space
appreciate her direct honesty
and allow her to come back around, or give her a week after her trip to reach out.

I get this way and I always put space between me and anyone that is effecting me negatively
but I always get over it, I understand thing and I don't hold grudges.
I just need space and distance.

you need to really work on your "words of affirmations" when you get in that head space.
speaking to yourself out load is actually very helpful if you practice it.

"everything is ok"
"I am ok"
"nothing is different"
"I need to chill out"

nothing drives me more crazy then people trying to share their bad energy.

Thank you for the advice, and for being kind. I'll try that.