@KittenLaRouge
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he said i was "really pushing him away
Posted by KittenLaRouge
when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.
Remember when you said, "gape?" cause I do.
Jezz... the right man will go out of his "ways" to be the man u deserve. Dont settle for less.
ugh, sounds exhausting
Posted by 1stTierReadings
it doesn't have to be porn. anytime you try to stop someone doing what they are accustomed to is pushing them away.
True , far be it from me to want to person I love not to play with himself for 3 hours everyday to violent porn
Posted by Wynter
ugh, sounds exhausting
It is, he's always exhausted
Posted by AquaNextDoor
Jezz... the right man will go out of his "ways" to be the man u deserve. Dont settle for less.
Word
Posted by flowingwater
Creepy....
Yep ted Bundy started this way and he was a sag
Posted by KittenLaRouge
when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.Remember when you said, "gape?" cause I do.
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Yep porn these days shows fisting to the elbow
Posted by thestruggle
you rail against porn, yet your man was watching it all this time.is he the reason you're against it?
Its evil and it ruins and enslaves men who are vulnerable and promotes vilonce against women
This can not be serious...
I hope this is a very early April fools...your in a relationship with a snot ball dude who watches violent porn and your still with him...
3 hours a day!!!!
Has. To. Be. A. Joke. Can.not be real!
I recommend buying all the seasons of BLISS and make time to watch it together.
He needs to ease out of being desensitized.
Porn is not evil, although the porn he's watching sounds pretty messed up, he sounds like he has issues, leave him and find better.
if that turns him of the next thing you know he will try the things he watches on you in bed.. just saying.. run while you still can.
Posted by archer2234
Porn is not evil, although the porn he's watching sounds pretty messed up, he sounds like he has issues, leave him and find better.if that turns him of the next thing you know he will try the things he watches on you in bed.. just saying.. run while you still can.
turns him on****
Posted by balblair
This can not be serious...
I hope this is a very early April fools...your in a relationship with a snot ball dude who watches violent porn and your still with him...
3 hours a day!!!!Has. To. Be. A. Joke. Can.not be real!
I assure you its real. This is pedophiles are made . its well documented that men start with soft porn and then need harder and more violent to get off. Porn has gotten so violent they do everything short of killing the girl. You can Google vilont porn and torture porn. He's in a different state for work but I know he's doing this all the time I was told he has it on for background noise when he cleans its really really bad
Posted by archer2234
Porn is not evil, although the porn he's watching sounds pretty messed up, he sounds like he has issues, leave him and find better.if that turns him of the next thing you know he will try the things he watches on you in bed.. just saying.. run while you still can.
He hates women and it has already filtered to the bedroom he's in a different state for work but when I did see him he hit me and chocked me in bed and this man used to make love to me before the porn he won't even do vaginal sex now he only likes violence and ass
Posted by Weeds
I recommend buying all the seasons of BLISS and make time to watch it together.
He needs to ease out of being desensitized.
He won't talk to me now that I mentioned it was bad. Your advice is good but isn't it possible he's too far gone? He's been doing this for years
Posted by bnr7013
When you try to change anyone, of course you are pushing them away trying to make them into something they aren't.
Really so if someone u knew was a drug addict you'd let them shoot up and die? Um k
Posted by cosmicbutter
Its weird that OP has a bondage pic as her dp!! anyways i read that a sag man that had issues with his mother and hates women is dangerous. And i agree that if he really loved you he would try to change that about himself ...at least try ...let alone push you away for trying to change it. clearly he doesn't love you. why are you with him even! The question comes later whether he has serious issue. no need to be his saviour and end up being victimized..do u have a lot of pisces influence in you?? if u want to help him..convince him to see a psychiatrist!
I'm not really with him. He's gotten real mean. No Pisces its my cancer moon, I care too much
so why are you with this guy? you dont sound like you like him all that much
Posted by 1stTierReadings
it doesn't have to be porn. anytime you try to stop someone doing what they are accustomed to is pushing them away.True , far be it from me to want to person I love not to play with himself for 3 hours everyday to violent porn
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I wonder if she knows this is Ands yet?
These 2 getting along is quite shocking.
I'm sorry this has nothing to do with the topic, I'm just stunned at the comradre between these 2 right now.
Posted by DMV
so why are you with this guy? you dont sound like you like him all that much
Hoping to turn a liar, cheater, and theif into a decent human being and a 10 year history. Lol I'm failing miserably with the latter and its almost funny now. Instead of waking up crying this morning I woke up laughing, like this has got to be a sick joke LOL
Posted by blackphase
Yeah, he sounds a bit too extreme for me :/I get that people watch porn.. but 2-3 hours a day (regardless of what it is you are watching) when you have someone you could be having sex with :/ That would rub me the wrong way.
But especially due to what he is watching.. Yikes!!
He's in a different state so I can't see him but the thought of him jacking off to anal fisting for 3 hours a day rubs me the wrong way and I'm no prude. I askedhim one time about making love and he said wwhat's love? Lol
Posted by 1stTierReadings
it doesn't have to be porn. anytime you try to stop someone doing what they are accustomed to is pushing them away.True , far be it from me to want to person I love not to play with himself for 3 hours everyday to violent porn
I wonder if she knows this is Ands yet?
These 2 getting along is quite shocking.I'm sorry this has nothing to do with the topic, I'm just stunned at the comradre between these 2 right now.
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Lol I should have known with "tier" lol
Posted by thestruggle
show him the ted bundy confessions.
Yep!! Ive seen this and ted was driven by violent porn! This is exactly what I'm talking about
Posted by 1stTierReadings
it doesn't have to be porn. anytime you try to stop someone doing what they are accustomed to is pushing them away.True , far be it from me to want to person I love not to play with himself for 3 hours everyday to violent porn
I wonder if she knows this is Ands yet?
These 2 getting along is quite shocking.I'm sorry this has nothing to do with the topic, I'm just stunned at the comradre between these 2 right now.
Lol I should have known with "tier" lol
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Yea that's what tipped me off to know it was him.
Posted by blackphase
Yeah, he sounds a bit too extreme for me :/I get that people watch porn.. but 2-3 hours a day (regardless of what it is you are watching) when you have someone you could be having sex with :/ That would rub me the wrong way.
But especially due to what he is watching.. Yikes!!He's in a different state so I can't see him but the thought of him jacking off to anal fisting for 3 hours a day rubs me the wrong way and I'm no prude. I askedhim one time about making love and he said wwhat's love? Lol
I see, so you don't live close enough to see each other that often. I guess I understand the need for it so often now then.
How do you know that he is watching this stuff though? He told you?And he says "what's love".. Well to me I would proceed one of either ways.. and that depends on how invested you are.
1. Are you into him? Have feelings for him? Then his "what's love" comment would have me saying see ya the fuck later. If you want someone who will love you.. clearly this isn't the guy.2. You're not emotionally invested, and mostly interested in sex. Then I wouldn't even be too concerned with what he is watching for pron. Unless you think he is going to act out something on you that you do not approve of.
Either way.. He doesn't seem like someone you should be involved with. You don't approve of what he is doing no matter what way you look at it.
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We were together for a long time in a loving relationship. But separated for a while then he came back and had been ruined by porn telling me he wanted to do me in the ass until I bled and then bandage me up. The devil stole this man away from while we were apart, no doubt on my mind. This 51 year old man is not the man I knew and loved
Posted by KittenLaRouge
when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.Let him watch the video. It's better the video than he practicing it on you.
I myself was a fetish type, I like watching girl on girl wrestling until submission, not man on girl(which i dislike because it's not fair), but "NOT BLOODY OR RAPE ONE" !!!!
From what I see, your BF
He's fetish type and the dangerous one. He's the gory type, my suggestion is, be very careful with him.
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Nothing wrong with fetish but he likes to see women destroyed in a porn scene
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I saw what you wrote, this guys scenario is much like Bundy @ father
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted Bundy described himself as "the most cold-hearted SON OF A B**** you'll ever meet" just before his execution. He din't know who his father was. Was confused about his mother. Raised by grandfather. First girlfriend ditched him. Apparently, his victims had a resemblance to her. So, here at least you see that issue with mother that generalizes to females.
Yep and a sag. There's no going back for mine now I feel I'm suprised he's not in jail but he has a lot to loose
Posted by cosmicbutter
Ted Bundy described himself as "the most cold-hearted SON OF A B**** you'll ever meet" just before his execution. He din't know who his father was. Was confused about his mother. Raised by grandfather. First girlfriend ditched him. Apparently, his victims had a resemblance to her. So, here at least you see that issue with mother that generalizes to females.Yep and a sag. There's no going back for mine now I feel I'm suprised he's not in jail but he has a lot to loose
Good that your eyes are finally opened. But seriously he cannot be ignored. Do you know about his family history? im curious
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His dad wasn't around he said he had a good mother she's old now and lives 5 min from him there's def a weird dynamic with him and the mother not sure what it is
Posted by Vixen2
Some spanking, handcuffs, alittle rough, dirty name calling from time to time...yeah whatever pretty sexy however the stuff he's into...ehhh not so much.If he's really into it, he's going to be resentful if forced to give it. He's actually not going to stop...he'll just be secretive about it & and let's be honest, your not going to get over it and start watching it with him in enjoyment...
This is kinda a big hurdle to try to overcome together. You may just need to just need to chalk it up to irreconcilable differences and move on to bigger and better oceans...
I doubt most women like to see other women beaten up and if you do you were prob abused as a child. I'm a child of God as all women are and we were not called to be destroyed for mans pleasure
Posted by KittenLaRouge
when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.
i dont really think that has anything to do with a birthsign...........more a "there is something mentally not wright with your boyfriend" 0_0 thats aaaa noooooooo a there is nothing wrong with your opinion, other then.......i would really think about therapy for him
Posted by Weeds
I recommend buying all the seasons of BLISS and make time to watch it together.
He needs to ease out of being desensitized.He won't talk to me now that I mentioned it was bad. Your advice is good but isn't it possible he's too far gone? He's been doing this for years
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Just as it takes time to be desensitized it also takes time to be resensitized.
Posted by KittenLaRouge
when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.
Wow
Posted by archer2234
Porn is not evil, although the porn he's watching sounds pretty messed up, he sounds like he has issues, leave him and find better.if that turns him of the next thing you know he will try the things he watches on you in bed.. just saying.. run while you still can.
He hates women and it has already filtered to the bedroom he's in a different state for work but when I did see him he hit me and chocked me in bed and this man used to make love to me before the porn he won't even do vaginal sex now he only likes violence and ass
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A fantasy is pretty harmless, especially if it's never acted on. However if he's gotten violent with you as your above comment states I would run for the hills!! Your safety is in jeopardy here. Don't try to 'save' him if it means putting yourself at risk. You don't jump into a stormy sea to save someone, cause then your just two drowning people instead of one.
sounds like a sag, surpised you got him to admitt that
but i suggest you run like the wind
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when i told him that it wasn't a good idea the he watches violent porn 2 to 3 hours a day where women get beaten, bloodied, raped, punched, humiliated and violated.