Help a virgo!

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Notasag3
@Notasag3
10 Years

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Before posting this I searched for Virgo man and Sag woman, yielding over 265,000 results. When I went to click the first box it said no results found so I am posting this because I am desperate! We have a date tomorrow night.

I am falling for a Sagittarius! We have only known each other about three weeks. We spoke every day and texted frequently. I may have come on a little too strong. So I backed off to give her some space. Now we hardly talk at all. I am freely expressing how I feel about her but she seems like she doesn't want to go there I feel like she has a wall up when it comes to talking about her feelings or emotions. What can I do to win this very special SAG lady?
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Notasag3
@Notasag3
10 Years

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Canc: Thank you my moon sign is libra and hers is Leo so I'm doing further investigation.

Dwell: we have spoken every day since February 20. Since Wednesday We have only texted general hi how are you doing type stuff we have not spoken in two days.
Seems like it started turning bad when I asked her how she felt about me. And thank you I know dating is dating. I am very attracted to this woman. I guess I have a thing for Sagittarians my ex was a Sagittarius
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DwellingOnMove
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you are Virgo. Your attractiveness for us is your practicality. Your gentlemany politeness.

Ask her if she thinks it's too soon for a face to face meeting.

Don't make her too much compliments.
We are egoists and like compliments. But it is neither sugar nor Oxygen for us.

Tell her about some event you'd like to meet. And it were good to go together so you can check the compatibility. Of decision making, organizing, enjoying, after talk, etc.
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DwellingOnMove
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Don't try to catch her.

Virgo is like Taurus a salesman. They want to tell you their thing. This is why you are so sweet in the first stage of dating.

But you don't need it.
Keep it simple.
Why? cause we are open to a new exploration anyway. You get a free ride with a Sag for the first stage of dating. That says nothing.

Show your qualities right after the 2nd and 3rd dates. If you get there, then you can live 50% for yourself and 50% for her attention. Don't try to make it your victory right at the beginning. You are not interested in that cheap victory of the first Dates. You want to get the 6 months date. and 6 years date.

So:
put your cards on the table. Show her your qualities. And check what she has to give to you. 50-50.
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DwellingOnMove
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Make a choice.

Do you want
1. a fast victory and you have to disappear?
or
2. a somewhat slower victory and you know she stays?

If you choose 2, then please don't be a salesman. Don't try to sell your thing to her. Don't be too nice. Be who you are. Be who you'll be after one year.

I had to say it. Cause I had this experience with a Virguy. Also Internet astrology forums have lots of such stories. I've read them.
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shysaggirl
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15 Years

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I had a virgo BF and another virgo was interested in me, but I stopped replying to his texts - similar reasons.

They were all about: how do you feel? do you like me more? ... texting all the time, WANTING from me all these information - I was like: back off, I feel suffocated!

Virgos attracted me with manners, they both seemed cool and confident , and it took hem like 2-3 dates to become extra clingy, demanding and possessive.

I am straightforward (the seemed to think i was harsh, too blunt, but kept coming back for more) and faithfull but they just chased me away.
Acted like babies, not men.

I believe you scared her off with your emotional side.

My aqua ex was terrified to tell me how much he loved me for months because he knew I would RUN - I freaked out when he mentioned he finds me adorable and amazing and he will never search for another in his life..... he couldn't reach me for 2 whole days 😄