I caught my sag bf liking a girls insta pic are we done

Someone is insecure and has control issues

It's Instagram, what does this matter? You clearly have some serious trust issues and you should really ask yourself why and go from there.

What's wrong with liking someone's pictures tho ?

Probably going to sound harsh but if I was you BF I'd be running for the hills. It's instagram it's made for likes and pictures of people. Maybe it's time to take a look at yourself and see why you dislike it so much. The issue isn't with him, its with yourself.

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At least it wasn't a dxper's pic

Not any of yours, that's for damn sure

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Posted by Teena
What's wrong with liking someone's pictures tho ?

It's wrong teena

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Why— Are you scared that I like that person more or what?

#21stCenturyProblems

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What's wrong with liking someone's pictures tho ?

It's wrong teena

Why— Are you scared that I like that person more or what?

It's just immoral in the eyes of God

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What's wrong with liking someone's pictures tho ?

It's wrong teena

Why— Are you scared that I like that person more or what?

Girl, Ands is just trolling

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Haha.... I know ?

What kind of pic was it? Was she naked or overtly sexy or was this a normal, everyday photo?

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What's wrong with liking someone's pictures tho ?

It's wrong teena

Why— Are you scared that I like that person more or what?

It's just immoral in the eyes of God

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I actually have a feeling that you'd break up over something like that ?

Does she look like you?

Find and date a dude that doesn't have any social media, problem solved.

I think if it was some girl in a bikini or something i might be annoyed but if its a harmless pic then I wouldn't let it bother you unless he's always liking the same girls photos in which case I might wonder about it....

I just feel like he's losing interest if he wants to like that girls picture when he RARELY Likes anyone's. I just feel like it's a mental way of moving on

Posted by Blairjones512
I have told him not to because it doesn't look good if it's him liking a girls pic that he isn't good friends with or if it's just her and a girl and he said he wouldn't. Last night I saw him like a pic of a girl and her friend and he had no reason to like it. I sent it to him and his name comes up on the picture without me having to look through. I told him that how could he do that after all I have told him about insta pic likes of pics. He hasn't responded since he went to work super early but he hasn't done anything on social media. I can't tell if he's gonna think I'm dramatic and break it off or regret it. We had been really good lately but I have trust issues with him and I feel like he shouldn't of done that. Trying to see what I should do. Please help! We dated for a year broke up and started dating again in early March and are 22.

Serious question, do you tell him when he can take a shit too?

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HALP MEH I LIKED DIS PIC ON INSTA IS I IN TROUBLE NAO—?

Go straight to the doghouse mister pic liker

Posted by Blairjones512
I just feel like he's losing interest if he wants to like that girls picture when he RARELY Likes anyone's. I just feel like it's a mental way of moving on

If the pic wasn't in anyway sexual and he's only liked 1 of her pics then I think this has more to do with your insecurities than it does him.

That Old Grand-Dad looks pretty sexxy doe

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

You're 22, why are you bothering? It makes you uncomfortable, you're insecurity is off the charts, cut this guy loose.

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

I guess my question is what do you consider cheating? If he's talking to other women that's not cheating in my humble opinion. So clarification would be nice.

People are acting like I'm over reacting but my friends all think like this too and think he's being sketchy

So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

Posted by Blairjones512
People are acting like I'm over reacting but my friends all think like this too and think he's being sketchy

Birds of a feather flock together.

Is it worth it if you're constantly insecure about something/someone?

Sounds to me like you're not compatible.

Posted by Blairjones512
So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

You're trolling us now, aren't you?

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Posted by Blairjones512
So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

You're trolling us now, aren't you?

I wonder too if shes a troll.. the way she responded.

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Right, instead of directly answering, she just throws something else dramatic out.

Posted by Blairjones512
I have told him not to because it doesn't look good if it's him liking a girls pic that he isn't good friends with or if it's just her and a girl and he said he wouldn't. Last night I saw him like a pic of a girl and her friend and he had no reason to like it. I sent it to him and his name comes up on the picture without me having to look through. I told him that how could he do that after all I have told him about insta pic likes of pics. He hasn't responded since he went to work super early but he hasn't done anything on social media. I can't tell if he's gonna think I'm dramatic and break it off or regret it. We had been really good lately but I have trust issues with him and I feel like he shouldn't of done that. Trying to see what I should do. Please help! We dated for a year broke up and started dating again in early March and are 22.

I'd break up with you.

He's not a child. You either trust him or you don't and I'm not understanding how simply "liking" a picture leads to not trusting him. Easy way to lose a Sag is to think you can tame one with control.

I'm curious as to why you broke up in the past.

Posted by Blairjones512
I have told him not to ...I told him ...after all I have told him ...

I'd break up with you.

He's not a child. You either trust him or you don't and I'm not understanding how simply "liking" a picture leads to not trusting him. Easy way to lose a Sag is to think you can tame one with control. You come off as very controlling.

I'm curious as to why you broke up in the past.

Posted by Blairjones512
I just feel like he's losing interest if he wants to like that girls picture when he RARELY Likes anyone's. I just feel like it's a mental way of moving on

Thing is all this^^^ is what will likely make someone move on.

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Posted by Blairjones512
I have told him not to ...I told him ...after all I have told him ...

I'd break up with you.

You either trust him or you don't and I don't understand how simply "liking" a pic leads to trust issues. One of the easiest way to lose a Sag is to try to "tame" one with use of control. You come off a very controlling.

I am curious as to why you broke up before.

i have been trying to get her to answer this (among many other questions) and she keeps not addressing it.

she is hiding something or a troll

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Bulls tend to be stubborn like that though. She may be simply ignoring the question because she doesn't feel its relevant to her "dilemma". She wants to know if he's done or not and we are suppose to magically know this, just like she knows what's right or wrong for him.

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

Well, I'm not going to get into the "is it really cheating if it's only text" debate, but if he has "cheated" and he knows this is a trigger for you, yet still does it anyway perhaps you shouldn't waste your time with him?

How exactly did he cheat in text and snap chat? What was shared/said. Only cliff notes are needed.

Posted by Blairjones512
So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

Stop letting your feels affect your judgment.

Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

If he hasn't respected your boundaries in the past it seems foolish to expect him to suddenly change. This ones on you.

The snaps I don't know because I never saw them but someone told me that the girl thought he was being flirty so she was wondering if he had a gf so I found out through a friend and he said he wasn't and that it was just mass snaps the picture was of two girls but they were just dressed up but keep in mind he doesn't like other pictures anymore. The texting I don't know either cause I don't look theough his phone but the texts are from a long Time ago. Sorry typing fast!

Posted by Blairjones512
People are acting like I'm over reacting but my friends all think like this too and think he's being sketchy

You haven't given us any real context other than you told him not to do something and he decided to do it anyway.

Posted by Blairjones512
The snaps I don't know because I never saw them but someone told me that the girl thought he was being flirty so she was wondering if he had a gf so I found out through a friend and he said he wasn't and that it was just mass snaps the picture was of two girls but they were just dressed up but keep in mind he doesn't like other pictures anymore. The texting I don't know either cause I don't look theough his phone but the texts are from a long Time ago. Sorry typing fast!

If you never saw them how can you trust someone else's word? As for the pretty dressed up girls really who cares... I feel like your probably just insecure and maybe a tad bit controlling. I'd let him go and work on yourself for awhile before dating again.

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Posted by Blairjones512
So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

OMG!!!!

answer my questions!!! what kind of stuff was he texting/snapping to the other girls??

you being elusive in telling us is making you seem like you are hiding something.

your avoidance of my questions are actually starting to make me obsessive about knowing the answers. i need to take a lunch break ✌?

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LOL!

I'll give you guys context once I can get some time on my phone! Thanks everyone

Posted by Blairjones512
The snaps I don't know because I never saw them but someone told me that the girl thought he was being flirty so she was wondering if he had a gf so I found out through a friend and he said he wasn't and that it was just mass snaps the picture was of two girls but they were just dressed up but keep in mind he doesn't like other pictures anymore. The texting I don't know either cause I don't look theough his phone but the texts are from a long Time ago. Sorry typing fast!

Carry on....

#TimeWastedLessonLearned

Posted by Ssuperman
Someone is insecure and has control issues

Understatement.

Was she naked?

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Posted by Blairjones512
The snaps I don't know because I never saw them but someone told me that the girl thought he was being flirty so she was wondering if he had a gf so I found out through a friend and he said he wasn't and that it was just mass snaps the picture was of two girls but they were just dressed up but keep in mind he doesn't like other pictures anymore. The texting I don't know either cause I don't look theough his phone but the texts are from a long Time ago. Sorry typing fast!

ok i am inclined to say, you are trippin.

how is he cheating via text if you dont know what the texts even are.

you need to stop dating dudes and take some time to heal your major insecurity issues. everything you have stated in this thread (and all your passed threads, yes i read them all over my lunch) shows that you freak out over a guy who is friends with a girl.

guys and girls can be friends without there being any sexual or romantic implication. and your friends need to stop encouraging your insecurity spiral.

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The first thing you gotta do is befriend your dudes female friends. Be besties.

How else are you gonna be able to sniff out if theres iffy shit happening.

Posted by Blairjones512
So does this mean I should apologize or give us time to think and see if we should actually be together? I just don't trust him because I feel like he's thinking I might be tying him down

That is your answer.



You don't trust him, time to end it.

No trust = no relationship.



Imo

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Posted by Blairjones512
People are acting like I'm over reacting but my friends all think like this too and think he's being sketchy

Your friends are only fueling the fire. I find it interesting that you would let your friends affect the way think. You believe he liked someone's 'snap' because you only heard it through a friend. Just be aware of what your friends are feeding you, it may not be entirely healthy for you.

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Plot twist: one of her 'friends' wants to get at the sag and is feeding her false info so they break up and she can get her turn on the dick.

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Posted by Blairjones512
Well he has cheated by texting and snapping other girls... idk maybe it's a lost cause

You're 22, why are you bothering? It makes you uncomfortable, you're insecurity is off the charts, cut this guy loose.

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Lol, it's really not his fault tho. She's doing him a favor actually

I wouldn't like it either.

BUT I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of

knowing that I knew (I probably wouldn't know,

but if I did, let's say).

I also wouldn't hesitate to like pictures of other

guys-- if I did, in fact, like them.

If you're free, then I'm free.

Posted by Blairjones512
No he admitted to it. And when he broke up with me the first time he told me it wasn't for other girls and then I found out and saw that he was with another girl. I love him but I just have a feeling he wants to be single again cause he just loves being independent but I know he still loves me so he just probably doesn't know what to do but sag guys tend to cheat if They feel tied Down so that's why I'm seeing the like as a deeper meaning cause I have had him break up with me before and it seems when he started liking other girls pictures and started seeing his friends more and stopped including me as much and stopped being as "romantic"

He probably wants to have his cake and eat it

too. ?

But if it's a pattern and you recognize it, go

with your instinct.

I don't think it's insecurity either--

There's nothing wrong with wanting someone

who's loyal.

Uh...

My Taurus friend is JUST like you. She did the same thing to her Virgo boyfriend. I mean like weeks after they got together, she already wanted him to start deleting friends (girls) from all his social media accounts and not like some girl's pic because she didn't like how it looked.

honestly i would not like it if my bf was out liking other pics either but i would never bring it up, i would just observe him i guess... that sucks because if i was dating someone i really dont have eyes for anyone else and always make that known to my boyfriends and if he didnt feel the same i wouldn't be with him.

some people think its a big deal and some dont and thats ok, you should go with your gut.