Is having last word is a thing for Sags?

So after a week of half-ass communication I just sent a message like "Hey, the communication is off blah blah I had fun, take care" and proceeded to block (was not in the mood to listen to some lame excuses like "I was busy" and so on). He managed to call me from another number to give a talk how lost is he in life and so on. I asked straightforward what he wanted. If it was to finish things, my message was enough, no need to call me. He told me he needed to think and he would call another time. Control issues much? I kept him blocked anyway.

He was honest with you

Posted by Krabss

No i don't think this is the case here. He is simply not feeling it enough, or it's simply a bad timing for him. But likes you to an extent to at least respond. He could pretty much ignore you.

So yeah move on. And no reason to have a bad opinion about him. He has a right to not want to invest himself. No reason to block him, he is not bothering you.

My message did not require any answer. It was "Take care, bye!" stuff.

Wanted to add: I prefer to block my ex- romantic interests, because all of them have the tendency to reappear after some time, and this bothers me.

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

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That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by Krabss

No i don't think this is the case here. He is simply not feeling it enough, or it's simply a bad timing for him. But likes you to an extent to at least respond. He could pretty much ignore you.

So yeah move on. And no reason to have a bad opinion about him. He has a right to not want to invest himself. No reason to block him, he is not bothering you.

My message did not require any answer. It was "Take care, bye!" stuff.

And he wanted to explain himself anyway, to show some respect. I see it as a good thing. Don't be mad.

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I agree

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

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Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

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But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by Krabss

No i don't think this is the case here. He is simply not feeling it enough, or it's simply a bad timing for him. But likes you to an extent to at least respond. He could pretty much ignore you.

So yeah move on. And no reason to have a bad opinion about him. He has a right to not want to invest himself. No reason to block him, he is not bothering you.

My message did not require any answer. It was "Take care, bye!" stuff.

And he wanted to explain himself anyway, to show some respect. I see it as a good thing. Don't be mad.

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I do not really see the necessity to explain yourself when the other person already said "bye" to you, but alright.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

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I hope it is this and not some mind games.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

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Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

Yes. Big time control issues…from yourself.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

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One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

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It really is and letting go of control

I wish you luck x

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

It really is and letting go of control

I wish you luck x

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He just sent me another "good bye" text 🤨

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

It really is and letting go of control

I wish you luck x

He just sent me another "good bye" text 🤨

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Oh right

See what happens.....?

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

It really is and letting go of control

I wish you luck x

He just sent me another "good bye" text 🤨

Oh right

See what happens.....?

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I think I was right - for him was important to have the last word. I am not answering anyway - I already said everything.

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Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by MyStarsShine

He was honest with you

No doubts about that.

That counts for something ... he could have ignored you. I don’t think he was being controlling, just saying it as it is.

Well, as I said my message did not require an answer, so being ignored was kind of expected.

But he was respectful enough to make the effort to contact you. I see that as a good thing

I hope it is this and not some mind games.

Try not to worry about that and let go if you can....i’m Scorp Sun and Venus so I know how hard it can be ❤️

One of the biggest strengths of Scorpio placements is the ability to start over! Thank you, I hope it is a clean break.

It really is and letting go of control

I wish you luck x

He just sent me another "good bye" text 🤨

Oh right

See what happens.....?

I think I was right - for him was important to have the last word. I am not answering anyway - I already said everything.

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Well let him have it and yes move on now

You cray cray

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

You got to say your two pennies, all he was doing was saying his.

Let it go and go be happy instead of dwelling on negative ish.

Posted by PuzzlePieces

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

😅😅😅 double standards right here. If some one on DXP would create a thread “I got blocked but want to say a good bye”, would you approve? Doubt so. Plus, we had a call, pretty long one. He told me how he felt and so on.

Posted by DMV

You cray cray

I liked him. Better cray cray here.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

😅😅😅 double standards right here. If some one on DXP would create a thread “I got blocked but want to say a good bye”, would you approve? Doubt so. Plus, we had a call, pretty long one. He told me how he felt and so on.

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Well the blocking seems pretty quick. That’s the difference. You say you block because you don’t want to hear an excuse. Seriously most people get it & move on, and you don’t need to block. There might be a bit of talk at first but it’s just a process.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

😅😅😅 double standards right here. If some one on DXP would create a thread “I got blocked but want to say a good bye”, would you approve? Doubt so. Plus, we had a call, pretty long one. He told me how he felt and so on.

Well the blocking seems pretty quick. That’s the difference. You say you block because you don’t want to hear an excuse. Seriously most people get it & move on, and you don’t need to block. There might be a bit of talk at first but it’s just a process.

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That’s true, but we had a call that day as well. He explained himself. I explained myself. I told that if he doesn’t want to continue no need for the follow-up, still he sends it. I don’t like when my ex-romantic partners pop back, it is always the wrong timing and I don’t believe in come backs.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

😅😅😅 double standards right here. If some one on DXP would create a thread “I got blocked but want to say a good bye”, would you approve? Doubt so. Plus, we had a call, pretty long one. He told me how he felt and so on.

Well the blocking seems pretty quick. That’s the difference. You say you block because you don’t want to hear an excuse. Seriously most people get it & move on, and you don’t need to block. There might be a bit of talk at first but it’s just a process.

That’s true, but we had a call that day as well. He explained himself. I explained myself. I told that if he doesn’t want to continue no need for the follow-up, still he sends it. I don’t like when my ex-romantic partners pop back, it is always the wrong timing and I don’t believe in come backs.

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Just because you tell someone to do something, doesn’t mean they have to do it. Well I get the reasoning, but I’d think the block should come awhile later when they come back if it’s necessary. Seems to me he hasn’t completely decided & you just yanked the plug. So he just needs to get it isn’t his choice. Sometime people just need a bit. Obviously Sag/Scorps are so different.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

It seems more like you are unwilling to let him process the end of this. You decide & that’s it.. they aren’t allowed a goodbye by your blocking and then you complain he has to have the last word. Jeez. That sounds controlling to me, not him being controlling.

😅😅😅 double standards right here. If some one on DXP would create a thread “I got blocked but want to say a good bye”, would you approve? Doubt so. Plus, we had a call, pretty long one. He told me how he felt and so on.

Well the blocking seems pretty quick. That’s the difference. You say you block because you don’t want to hear an excuse. Seriously most people get it & move on, and you don’t need to block. There might be a bit of talk at first but it’s just a process.

That’s true, but we had a call that day as well. He explained himself. I explained myself. I told that if he doesn’t want to continue no need for the follow-up, still he sends it. I don’t like when my ex-romantic partners pop back, it is always the wrong timing and I don’t believe in come backs.

Just because you tell someone to do something, doesn’t mean they have to do it. Well I get the reasoning, but I’d think the block should come awhile later when they come back if it’s necessary. Seems to me he hasn’t completely decided & you just yanked the plug. So he just needs to get it isn’t his choice. Sometime people just need a bit. Obviously Sag/Scorps are so different.

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You are right!

Don’t pick up unknown numbers first and foremost. If it’s urgent they will leave a vm or text.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Don’t pick up unknown numbers first and foremost. If it’s urgent they will leave a vm or text.

Yeah, he left a text message that I deserve better a bit later as well. Meh

You desire intensity and ain’t getting it from him

So play a little games to get some drama started so you can feel alive again

But the intensity only last for so long before a new game to get more intensity starts.

Never ending cycle

I would fulfill your desire for intensity outside of your romantic relationships

Posted by DMV

You desire intensity and ain’t getting it from him

So play a little games to get some drama started so you can feel alive again

But the intensity only last for so long before a new game to get more intensity starts.

Never ending cycle

I would fulfill your desire for intensity outside of your romantic relationships

I think I am not the one who was playing games this time. I was straightforward, the issue was obvious. Our communication was off and this usually mean one thing. He confirmed "he is lost" and so on. I asked directly if that means we stop talking/seeing each other, did not receive any straight answer, instead I got a long call and then a message how I am such a good person and he had amazing time. Did not know Sags are so sensitive.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Don’t pick up unknown numbers first and foremost. If it’s urgent they will leave a vm or text.

Yeah, he left a text message that I deserve better a bit later as well. Meh

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Just block his number. Don't pick up unknown calls. Protect your peace.

We are all just looking for closure and oftentimes that is what the last word is.