Oblivious to being hit on?

Do you all know when youre being hit on?

cause, i do not.

Are fire signs this oblivious?

Posted by DMV
Are fire signs this oblivious?

😄 I tease, but "oblivious" isn't the word I would use.

I know it. That's how I knew the boy at work likes me. It's the vibes man.

I have a fire venus and mars and yes, I'm oblivious.

I have earth all over my chart and I'm oblivious as fuck 😆 I'll just blame neptune again lol

i only have my lovely pisces midheaven. i just very oblivious to getting hit on. a guy could be talking about the weather for all i know.

i can't get the ladies to stop hitting on me

Posted by starlover
I know before it happens

Lol

even with all my scorpio and cancer, i kind of see it but im not always sure. i hate assuming.

I normally don't till after the fact. Like the woman checking my groceries at the store the other day was commenting on all the fish and lobster I was buying, and then asked me what I was doing later with an eyebrow check.

I'm too awkward to respond like a normal human though. She would have had to pretty much ask or give me her number. Like when women leave a clear open spot for me to grab on to I normally dodge and run for some confusing reason.

Posted by PhoenixRising
😄 I tease, but "oblivious" isn't the word I would use.

absent minded? space cadet?

Posted by MiZLeo
I'm pretty oblivious. Worse when I was younger. Once in my teens a boy at a sleepover was I guess flirting with me and my friends pulled me into another room and asked "are you not seeing what we are seeing?" And I started looking around the room like "what?" Hahaha they rolled their eyes and yelled at me "so and so likes you" .........of course after that I didn't know how to act around him and then the next morning I woke up to laughing and I rolled over to see he had popped a tent in his pants...........let's just say I never heard from him again. Poor kid.

ctfu.

Posted by Soul
I normally don't till after the fact. Like the woman checking my groceries at the store the other day was commenting on all the fish and lobster I was buying, and then asked me what I was doing later with an eyebrow check.

I'm too awkward to respond like a normal human though. She would have had to pretty much ask or give me her number. Like when women leave a clear open spot for me to grab on to I normally dodge and run for some confusing reason.

i can relate. i get all weird and i dont know what to do next. awkward is putting it mildly.

Mostly, I too don't exactly realise, but, I'm naturally a silent and shy person...and I actually fade away when I receive attention that I *feel* is unwanted.. It's an automatic reaction - my silence or fading away - I don't really realise they are flirting though...until it's too direct or someone points it out or I have a light bulb moment sometime...while going to bed 8 hours after the incident.. lol

i ask cause i think my trainer is sweet on me, but im not sure. so my next move is to do absolute nothing.

not oblivious. but I try not to take anything serious. unless I want them too,

Generally with men I assume they think I'm good for a thing. Only I don't know for what kind of thing. So I wait to see clearer signs.

Posted by EnochtheWise
I'm mostly fire. I pretty much assume everyone is in love with me, and you have to prove otherwise.

lol

I'm not always oblivious, but yes, I'm awkward as fuck. It's like I suddenly don't know how to use words anymore. Then I just try to escape as quickly as possible.

I'm hopeless! lol

I have to admit...yes I'm oblivious lol

Great. Im not the only one lol.

Got to spell it out for me

Posted by Shashka
Leos and Aries are.

Leo Sun, Sag Mars here.
Oblivious is my middle name -but more perceptive signs never believe it...

I'm the same way except I'm a Pisces with an Aries moon. I think as a fire sign you need someone direct and forward with you, oppose to someone who is less direct and subtle. For me subtle pickup lines never work, I'll just smile at you and think you're sweet lol

Sag rising.
Kind of...I see them as a cool friend/talk/travel buddy then BAM "I think you're cute"...

I can tell when I'm being hit on, but sometimes it's subtle and they need to spell it out.

But in both cases, I grow a pair of the, "shyness balls" and retract !

I'd act normal and let him keep hitting on you till he spells it out like a man. Like, ask me out on a date already!

But no harm in flirting... 🙂

Posted by MiZLeo
My brother in law is a Sag. According to my sister every woman in the world thinks he is hot(she's a pisces).........I guess maybe he might be good looking if he wasn't my brother in law and father to my nephew....but I don't see him that way.....anyway.....she thinks every woman he comes in contact with hits on him and she says he is completly oblivious to it. He always has these hot models trying to friend him on FB and then at work he has every girl wanting to friend him on FB too. I also know of one girl that came into his job asking for him by name to work on her car (he's a Mechanic) he had no idea who this chick was but she sure knew who he was. Ha.

Ironic. My friends have to tell me that someone is hitting on me as well.

I have to admit...yes I'm oblivious lol

Oops lol

Posted by DMV
Great. Im not the only one lol.

Got to spell it out for me

That's how we get blamed for being flirtatious when we aren't. Others may see someone flirting with us and because we respond but not being flirtatious...they say we are anyway lol

We're not going to be rude lol

I def know when i get hit, cuz it fucking hurts 😄 Joking, well sometimes i feel, but its rlly confusing, some people are just nice by nature and say all the nice things for you with no intentions of a relationships, some say they like you meaning as a friend not as a man or a boyfriend type, it's gets confusing sometimes rly, but most of the time i listen to my vibes and what they say and it turns out good 😄 Only 1 time i was rly confused ,it was around 4years ago when a woman just came to me, out of the blue, and said she loved me, i just felt uncomftable and weeird, now i look back and think was it fear that i was feeling and that was making me uncomftable or was she rly weird, i couldn't imagine coming over to someone i've seen for the first time without even talking to the person and sayin i love you, makes no sense, or maybe she was just messin with me, either way it's fckin funny 😄

Don't ignore the signs of the universe. If you can't tell when a man is hitting on you, I'd say you're not ready to settle down.

With this being said, it's probably best to just shoot him with that arrow and reel him in! 😉

I should write a thesis on this at some point in this topic.

My obliviousness is ...nuanced.

(Fire dominant both by signs and houses)

....and I will do it in this topic since Sag rising, Jupiter Singleton, Sag Saturn/Uranus (albeit this is generational but it just reinforces it).

My Pullen 3 strong don't do me any favors. And the ENFP part...ayylmao.

1. Aries
2. Virgo
3. Sag

....halp

Aries influenced people have a simillar problem, I think it's Leos who perceive flirting best out of the three because they are so in touch with themselves they will see when someone looks at them the way they look at themselves.