Sag man wants a relationship.

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The Sag Man, Pisces moon.... has been consistently pursuing me since July. I have been very gaurded, stand offish even. He can come across like a huge dick to people, but is so nice to me. (He set a reminder on his phone to wake up at exactly 12am to wish me a happy birthday.) I just don’t know that I want to have any obligations to anyone else right now. He came to a mutual friends Halloween party Saturday. I invited him last month, he remembered and contacted me for address! He kept talking about me as if I was going to be his girlfriend/ was his girlfriend. Even out loud to everyone!!!! Complimenting me in front of everyone! It made me embarrassed kind of. Like I was on the spot, but not upset.

After I left he text me “ I really like you, it’s crazy. I want us to work out and really do this.”............ that terrified me! I replied “ Thank you. In order for us to have anything real, we’d both need to make more of an effort. And idk”....... he never responded. Then text me Sunday like nothing was said. Hahaha.

It’s so weird because we go days without talking, weeks without seeing each other, but in his head we’re close to committing?!? It’s the strangest dynamic. It’s like he’s so confident about it. I can’t tell if it’s endearing, delusional, romantic.... hahaha.

How can he have minimal feedback from me for months (never been pushy with me or demanding) and still roll up and basically his energy is like “we’re together”?!?! Its just an energy I’m not used to.

Not complaining at all.... just an observation about this man. The energy is unique. Aggressive but also very gentle.
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Ive known him for 3 years. Did not like him at all!!!! He confronted me about it at a concert a year ago. “Why don’t you like me? I can tell you don’t.”..... I thought he was a dick. I told him “not everyone needs to be friends, but we are cool.”...... Then he invited himself to Vegas because he’s my best friends, other best friend. As soon as he arrived he was keen on me..... hasn’t stopped since. I did see another side. He is actually a lot nicer than I assumed.
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This is typical Sag energy to me, maybe the water moon helps too. I don't care about time apart. If I like you, I like you time means nothing. You guys must not see each other often cause you don't ask. If you've turned him down with being busy too much he the past, he will halt his efforts. So it will be up to you to pull him back in and have him chase again.
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Posted by saggurl88

This is typical Sag energy to me, maybe the water moon helps too. I don't care about time apart. If I like you, I like you time means nothing. You guys must not see each other often cause you don't ask. If you've turned him down with being busy too much he the past, he will halt his efforts. So it will be up to you to pull him back in and have him chase again.


sounds like good advice - remember, it's what he wants - you have to determine what you want too ... just hang out for awhile - no chasing; no commitments; just a get to know each other thing ...
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Sounds like he's quite smitten with you, especially since he's pursued for awhile. Sags have lots of energy we also tend to exaggerate but tend to be logical. But with a Pisces moon he might tend to fantasize a lot. I think he genuinely likes you but it might be that your relationship is committed to him. It might be that he's comfortable with where you are and doesn't want to push and ruin a good thing. Or maybe he's not ready to take it further. However if he is and he's being respectful, remember we are impatient. If this goes on too long he might get bored.

I'd say aggressive but gentle is typical Sag energy, but his moon could make him more outwardly sensitive. Are you guys official in any way, like dating? It kind of sounds like you're not that into him and he's just hanging around. Do you like him that way?
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Oh yeah. He wants to date seriously. I’m just not sure. We live an hour from each other. I’ve finally gotten content being alone.



I just always read Sag energy is flakey. Noncommittal, etc. I do not get that vibe from him at all.



Oddly enough my dad is a Sag with a Cancer moon. He goes 0-100 with women. He’s been engaged like 7 times. Hahaha So maybe this whole Sag is the eternal bachelor isn’t true. Maybe just the water moons.



Different vibe all around than I’m familiar with dating. Just was wondering other people’s opinion on the energy.
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This is typical Sag energy to me, maybe the water moon helps too. I don't care about time apart. If I like you, I like you time means nothing. You guys must not see each other often cause you don't ask. If you've turned him down with being busy too much he the past, he will halt his efforts. So it will be up to you to pull him back in and have him chase again.


sounds like good advice - remember, it's what he wants - you have to determine what you want too ... just hang out for awhile - no chasing; no commitments; just a get to know each other thing ...
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We can be sneaky with commitments, we like to just fall into them, not be pressured into them. So the fact that he keeps trying with her, means he likes her. She just needs to try and hog more of his time and not wait for him to come to her.

We get lazy with chasing if we try too much and they don't reciprocate. It's easier to give up and fall back and wait to see if someone falls into our lap! -_-
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This is typical Sag energy to me, maybe the water moon helps too. I don't care about time apart. If I like you, I like you time means nothing. You guys must not see each other often cause you don't ask. If you've turned him down with being busy too much he the past, he will halt his efforts. So it will be up to you to pull him back in and have him chase again.


sounds like good advice - remember, it's what he wants - you have to determine what you want too ... just hang out for awhile - no chasing; no commitments; just a get to know each other thing ...


We can be sneaky with commitments, we like to just fall into them, not be pressured into them. So the fact that he keeps trying with her, means he likes her. She just needs to try and hog more of his time and not wait for him to come to her.

We get lazy with chasing if we try too much and they don't reciprocate. It's easier to give up and fall back and wait to see if someone falls into our lap! -_-
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of course - that makes sense to me - for anyone in any sign ... I wasn't sure she knew / knows what she wants with him yet which is just as important
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Posted by heliumfiasco

Oh yeah. He wants to date seriously. I’m just not sure. We live an hour from each other. I’ve finally gotten content being alone.



I just always read Sag energy is flakey. Noncommittal, etc. I do not get that vibe from him at all.



Oddly enough my dad is a Sag with a Cancer moon. He goes 0-100 with women. He’s been engaged like 7 times. Hahaha So maybe this whole Sag is the eternal bachelor isn’t true. Maybe just the water moons.



Different vibe all around than I’m familiar with dating. Just was wondering other people’s opinion on the energy.


It really just depends on the Sag but strong water placements can influence things. We like our freedom so commitment can be scary but when we're in we're all in lol.
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Are you @thesag anything like this man? I need to know and tell me what I want to hear. Don’t taint your image in my eyes.


N..nn no..no I am not like him but I am scared now, I don't know what you are expecting. 😢

Ok, here are my Alpha Pisces moon rules:

1. I never text you twice in a row if you haven't replied to me inbetween and I never reply to you after 1,2 or 3 days to your last message, that's bs. I either reply to you as soon as I can or don't reply to you at all (for whatever reason)

2. I can go weeks without seeing or talking to you but I am still thinking about you daily IF I care about you

3. I will always give you space because I need my own space too

4. I am actually terrified of this whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing so that's why I might appear way too cool or non affective but I still care

5. I might not even be around you too much in a party if we aren't together at all and even then... just for that space reason. I won't declare you my gf either or make compliments infront of others (I will let you do it) unless it fits the situation. I remember I went to a party and there was this HOT 32 year old secretary and we were talking about weight loss and stuff and she said, "I weigh 50 Kg in summer and 53 in winter". And I said "Reaaallly? I would have thought you weigh 49 Kg in summer and 52 Kg in winter". And she was like aaaawwww that's so cute thank you. Of course I was lying but her damn husband came inbetween us and ruined what could have become a great intellectual convo. 😡

This is TheSag and I am a proud Pisces moon. 🙂
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Are you @thesag anything like this man? I need to know and tell me what I want to hear. Don’t taint your image in my eyes.


N..nn no..no I am not like him but I am scared now, I don't know what you are expecting. 😢

Ok, here are my Alpha Pisces moon rules:

1. I never text you twice in a row if you haven't replied to me inbetween and I never reply to you after 1,2 or 3 days to your last message, that's bs. I either reply to you as soon as I can or don't reply to you at all (for whatever reason)

2. I can go weeks without seeing or talking to you but I am still thinking about you daily IF I care about you

3. I will always give you space because I need my own space too

4. I am actually terrified of this whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing so that's why I might appear way too cool or non affective but I still care

5. I might not even be around you too much in a party if we aren't together at all and even then... just for that space reason. I won't declare you my gf either or make compliments infront of others (I will let you do it) unless it fits the situation. I remember I went to a party and there was this HOT 32 year old secretary and we were talking about weight loss and stuff and she said, "I weigh 50 Kg in summer and 53 in winter". And I said "Reaaallly? I would have thought you weigh 49 Kg in summer and 52 Kg in winter". And she was like aaaawwww that's so cute thank you. Of course I was lying but her damn husband came inbetween us and ruined what could have become a great intellectual convo. 😡

This is TheSag and I am a proud Pisces moon. 🙂
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Either you know Aquas very well or you’re just the perfect man for Aquas. LOL. I’m proud of you. You didn’t let me down. 😍
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I can't help remembering the Sag I knew/know. If I called him today he would say let's go out and do something and we would have a great time and all that jazz - but when he kept pulling me in more and more; wanting more and more; that's when it started to get tricky.


By tricky, you mean?
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he wanted me to stay at his place all the time and was pushing too hard too quickly - it was difficult enough for me to stay a few nights a week - and it turned out I was right about that because we broke up about 6 months in - and it was him that broke it off for a reason that was so ridiculous

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I can't help remembering the Sag I knew/know. If I called him today he would say let's go out and do something and we would have a great time and all that jazz - but when he kept pulling me in more and more; wanting more and more; that's when it started to get tricky.


By tricky, you mean?


he wanted me to stay at his place all the time and was pushing too hard too quickly - it was difficult enough for me to stay a few nights a week - and it turned out I was right about that because we broke up about 6 months in - and it was him that broke it off for a reason that was so ridiculous




LooL! Yeah, that's Sags. They are pushy in the beginning. The more you declined, the more they gonna love you. They like the thrill of chasing someone. They want something they can't have. It's awesome but then who will wanna keep on running away? Fuck that shit man...it's tiring.

Boy...bye. 😆
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IKR - he has called me many times over the past several years trying to reel me in again and, although I would like to be friends, I know better so I stay away ... I mean why ? oh well, he always felt justified with his crap and denied everything so yeah, been there and ain't having it so ~bye~
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Idk about yours OP, but the Sag/Pisces moon that I once knew, he went crazy on me. He became aggressive when I didn't respond to his text and started callin' me names.

I have to block him in the end cos' it's annoying. LooL!


He's very nice so far. BUT!!!!! He can be a real dickhead to people. Ive seen it!!!!
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that would throw up my red flags - one has to wonder if he's just being nice until "he gets you" and then he will just be the dickhead
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Idk about yours OP, but the Sag/Pisces moon that I once knew, he went crazy on me. He became aggressive when I didn't respond to his text and started callin' me names.

I have to block him in the end cos' it's annoying. LooL!


He's very nice so far. BUT!!!!! He can be a real dickhead to people. Ive seen it!!!!


that would throw up my red flags - one has to wonder if he's just being nice until "he gets you" and then he will just be the dickhead
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It's more his demeanor. He has a great reputation for being a standup guy. But he is kind of like a Brut. VERY DRY humor, serious face. No bullshit. Will fight if necessary.
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Idk about yours OP, but the Sag/Pisces moon that I once knew, he went crazy on me. He became aggressive when I didn't respond to his text and started callin' me names.

I have to block him in the end cos' it's annoying. LooL!


He's very nice so far. BUT!!!!! He can be a real dickhead to people. Ive seen it!!!!


Yeah cos' prolly he hasn't got ya. But, don't listen to me that much. Maybe you can give him a benefit of the doubt but don't put too much hope. If ya know what I mean. 😉
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hahahah yeah proceed with caution - it wouldn't take long - people show their colors pretty quickly - maybe other placements help and then again, maybe they don't - one can only hope lol - generalizing is fun and creepy because of the similarities but I spose we do have to be more diverse and see where things lead and not stereotype
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Leave the past where it is.

Judge him by what he shows you.




But be on guard where he'll show the same tactic thing as from the past?
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I'd be pretty miserable and exhausted if I had to be on guard with someone.

Judge them by the here and now.

If he mucks it up, at least you know you loved with an open mind and open heart.
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It's a quarter past three, girl

what's it gon be?

Shorty got her eyes on me

We've been talking since two, girl

what chu gon do?

Tell 'em that you're riding with me

It's a quarter past three, girl

what's it gon be?

Shorty got her eyes on me

We've been talking since two, girl

what chu gon do?

I'll be chilling at the embassy, one


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Posted by heliumfiasco

He was telling everyone we’re together. That pissed me off. One- we aren’t. Two- I’m VERY private about my situations. That is a turn off to me. Nope nope nope.


Unfortunately you need to leave this man alone because your still hurt from previous relationships. You havent healed.

You're looking for any excuse to not to be vulnerable.

Geez all he did was claim you as his woman publicly.

Release trying to control how things go.

Legit.."I" this and "Me" that.

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Posted by DwellingOnMove

If you're chasing a Sag Mars with Pisces Moon, do not come with less than Aries Mars and Cancer Moon.

bye & felicidiad


All my fire planets (Venus and Mars in Leo. Jupiter, Neptune and Uranus in Sag) plus the - opposite sign - moon attraction (Virgo moon) couldn't hide the fact she was still too immature (and young) to invest in anything serious.