dewiklaessen277
@dewiklaessen277
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Sagittarius Ex not allowing me to move on by being vague
Le SIGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1. Change the locks (done deal)
2. In a court of LAW (even in fucking France) Le sigh #2, after 30 days if the dude doesn't pick up his personal shit, it's considered ABANDONED (thus you can throw his shit away)
3. BLOCK his # on your cell and block him on all social media; when you get 1,000 calls a month (yeah, it's him) BLOCK the number immediately (if it goes to voicemail; then it's a legit caller; bill collector, family, work, friends, etc EXCEPT him)
4. A Saggy is not ALLOWING YOU to move on? Le sigh #3; not unless you do 1-3
BEWARE! My ex Saggy (David) stalked me, but I (unlike you) did 1-3, too, as I practice what I preach. I work for the Army and he'd call me at my work office #, then we moved (yeah, he followed me then again); third time we moved our office was utilized by LEGAL office (my old #). Legal would answer the phone and after he'd hear this name he STOPPED stalking me (IF he asked for my new # legal did NOT give it to him). Yippie!!!!
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
1. Change the locks (done deal)
2. In a court of LAW (even in fucking France) Le sigh #2, after 30 days if the dude doesn't pick up his personal shit, it's considered ABANDONED (thus you can throw his shit away)
3. BLOCK his # on your cell and block him on all social media; when you get 1,000 calls a month (yeah, it's him) BLOCK the number immediately (if it goes to voicemail; then it's a legit caller; bill collector, family, work, friends, etc EXCEPT him)
4. A Saggy is not ALLOWING YOU to move on? Le sigh #3; not unless you do 1-3
BEWARE! My ex Saggy (David) stalked me, but I (unlike you) did 1-3, too, as I practice what I preach. I work for the Army and he'd call me at my work office #, then we moved (yeah, he followed me then again); third time we moved our office was utilized by LEGAL office (my old #). Legal would answer the phone and after he'd hear this name he STOPPED stalking me (IF he asked for my new # legal did NOT give it to him). Yippie!!!!
Good luck.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by bae
use your block button.
I just hate it to go that far .... as in i am confrontational and he is non confrontational but you're right i just wish he could be a man instead of a little boy .. because i seriously feel like kicking him in the balls right now for being an assshole
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
You're in control of your own destiny
Posted by DMV
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
I like to end things peacefully all my exes make things so damn difficult and yes i could move on but i would still want him in my life as a friend not completely out of the picture because i did share a lot with him.
People that i care about i like to keep close to my heart even though i am easy to drop someone when they have really hurt me i wanna give people a chance rather then blocking and deleting them from my life i have done that too many times not that i regret because in the end things were better for me but maybe i was too harsh back then and maybe now i have become a softy haha
Posted by DMV
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
It is not like it keeps me awake at night but every now and then it does start to irritate me he has only been gone for almost a month now and i am going back to the gym doing my thing etc i am going out and having fun i am living my life but it is at the back of my mind still fresh
Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by DMV
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
I like to end things peacefully all my exes make things so damn difficult and yes i could move on but i would still want him in my life as a friend not completely out of the picture because i did share a lot with him.
People that i care about i like to keep close to my heart even though i am easy to drop someone when they have really hurt me i wanna give people a chance rather then blocking and deleting them from my life i have done that too many times not that i regret because in the end things were better for me but maybe i was too harsh back then and maybe now i have become a softy hahaclick to expand
Hmmm...interesting...what happened? You used to be on here all the time talking the guy up. You dont have to tell me because it's none of my business.
Notice how the responses stopped once you posted the above response. Nothing else need be said. The truth of the matter is you're not ready to let him go and its him not keeping the door open...it's you. Otherwise you wouldve done a complete rinse of him. Gotten rid of his things, blocked him, etc. Its is up to you to be honest with yourself about it instead of blaming him for walking through a door you continually leave open. That's one of Virgos greatest weaknesses. You guys get stuck in these emotional ruts because you try to fix something that perhaps shouldnt be...that its simply a life lesson for you to learn and move forward. So either you're going to accept the fact that you dont want to let him go and stop complaining about it as if hes holding a gun to your head or you cut him off. Your choice. Good luck
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by DMV
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
I like to end things peacefully all my exes make things so damn difficult and yes i could move on but i would still want him in my life as a friend not completely out of the picture because i did share a lot with him.
People that i care about i like to keep close to my heart even though i am easy to drop someone when they have really hurt me i wanna give people a chance rather then blocking and deleting them from my life i have done that too many times not that i regret because in the end things were better for me but maybe i was too harsh back then and maybe now i have become a softy haha
Hmmm...interesting...what happened? You used to be on here all the time talking the guy up. You dont have to tell me because it's none of my business.
Notice how the responses stopped once you posted the above response. Nothing else need be said. The truth of the matter is you're not ready to let him go and its him not keeping the door open...it's you. Otherwise you wouldve done a complete rinse of him. Gotten rid of his things, blocked him, etc. Its is up to you to be honest with yourself about it instead of blaming him for walking through a door you continually leave open. That's one of Virgos greatest weaknesses. You guys get stuck in these emotional ruts because you try to fix something that perhaps shouldnt be...that its simply a life lesson for you to learn and move forward. So either you're going to accept the fact that you dont want to let him go and stop complaining about it as if hes holding a gun to your head or you cut him off. Your choice. Good luckclick to expand
nahh actually not i am 1st and 9th house dominant got moon and ascendant in Sagittarius not trying to fix anybody but getting my own shit together as i said i like to end things peacefully (Mars in Libra) and again he walked away he needs to end things from his end not my fcking business.. you think you know everything but with this you are completely wrong..
That's such a male thing. I'm sorry, hopefully he stops being a jerk
Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by DMV
Not allowing—
You're in control of your own destiny
I like to end things peacefully all my exes make things so damn difficult and yes i could move on but i would still want him in my life as a friend not completely out of the picture because i did share a lot with him.
People that i care about i like to keep close to my heart even though i am easy to drop someone when they have really hurt me i wanna give people a chance rather then blocking and deleting them from my life i have done that too many times not that i regret because in the end things were better for me but maybe i was too harsh back then and maybe now i have become a softy haha
Hmmm...interesting...what happened? You used to be on here all the time talking the guy up. You dont have to tell me because it's none of my business.
Notice how the responses stopped once you posted the above response. Nothing else need be said. The truth of the matter is you're not ready to let him go and its him not keeping the door open...it's you. Otherwise you wouldve done a complete rinse of him. Gotten rid of his things, blocked him, etc. Its is up to you to be honest with yourself about it instead of blaming him for walking through a door you continually leave open. That's one of Virgos greatest weaknesses. You guys get stuck in these emotional ruts because you try to fix something that perhaps shouldnt be...that its simply a life lesson for you to learn and move forward. So either you're going to accept the fact that you dont want to let him go and stop complaining about it as if hes holding a gun to your head or you cut him off. Your choice. Good luck
i like to end things peacefullyclick to expand
...also known as holding the door open. I may not know everything, but I know more than you when it comes to Sag men...as I am one. Your response proves exactly what I said. There's more to this that your not telling. You can still send him his stuff and block him...theres your peaceful ending.
Posted by Ellygant
Things constantly happen to you and against you in your threads a lot.
Noticed the same pattern...
Give him a time frame to come get his stuff.
If he doesn't, donate it and change your locks.
Your not as powerless as you make out.
If he doesn't, donate it and change your locks.
Your not as powerless as you make out.
I don't know what you're talkin' 'bout.
I have moved on with a mf lying in the bed next to me. I have moved on while looking them straight in the eye, and not hear a word they are saying...just vocal sounds. I have moved on so that a phonecall from them actually scares me... and, continued calls make me think they have to be crazy. I haved moved on so that I was in a long cafeteria line and forgot they were behind me.
I have moved on with a mf lying in the bed next to me. I have moved on while looking them straight in the eye, and not hear a word they are saying...just vocal sounds. I have moved on so that a phonecall from them actually scares me... and, continued calls make me think they have to be crazy. I haved moved on so that I was in a long cafeteria line and forgot they were behind me.
Posted by Koni
You never seem to take any responsibility for yourself. Like someone else said, everything just always happens to you and you act like you have no control over anything.
I am not weak ok i have control but i have also lost myself in my 4 year relationship so don't judge ! It has only been a month now it is not like i am stuck to it for already a year... I do take responsibility he doesn't take his responsibility it is way more complicated next to this...we still had conversations that he tried to sort of convince me we are not done yet... I wanna end things good that is all and yes i can close the door and create something that doesn't have to be there but wanna do things in a mature way so that we do not hate each other or whatever it is (yes my mars in Libra) i first look for the best solutions and then i decide i don't like to go into extremes but maybe i have to i don't know
Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by Koni
You never seem to take any responsibility for yourself. Like someone else said, everything just always happens to you and you act like you have no control over anything.
I am not weak ok i have control but i have also lost myself in my 4 year relationship so don't judge ! It has only been a month now it is not like i am stuck to it for already a year... I do take responsibility he doesn't take his responsibility it is way more complicated next to this...we still had conversations that he tried to sort of convince me we are not done yet... I wanna end things good that is all and yes i can close the door and create something that doesn't have to be there but wanna do things in a mature way so that we do not hate each other or whatever it is (yes my mars in Libra) i first look for the best solutions and then i decide i don't like to go into extremes but maybe i have to i don't knowclick to expand
Dewik, you guarding your heart and protecting yourself is not an extreme. He is showing you that he is not mature enough to make a decision. This has nothing to do with whether you are weak. It is about you taking control of your well being both spiritually and emotionally. You are not bound by your Mars in Libra no more than I am bound by my Mars in Scorpio. It's a placement, not a way of life.
It doesnt mean you don't love or care for him, but it's not your job to make him see that either by allowing him to hold you up. Hes a grown man. Send him his things and let him grow up on his own.
Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by Koni
You never seem to take any responsibility for yourself. Like someone else said, everything just always happens to you and you act like you have no control over anything.
I am not weak ok i have control but i have also lost myself in my 4 year relationship so don't judge ! It has only been a month now it is not like i am stuck to it for already a year... I do take responsibility he doesn't take his responsibility it is way more complicated next to this...we still had conversations that he tried to sort of convince me we are not done yet... I wanna end things good that is all and yes i can close the door and create something that doesn't have to be there but wanna do things in a mature way so that we do not hate each other or whatever it is (yes my mars in Libra) i first look for the best solutions and then i decide i don't like to go into extremes but maybe i have to i don't know
Dewik, you guarding your heart and protecting yourself is not an extreme. He is showing you that he is not mature enough to make a decision. This has nothing to do with whether you are weak. It is about you taking control of your well being both spiritually and emotionally. You are not bound by your Mars in Libra no more than I am bound by my Mars in Scorpio. It's a placement, not a way of life.
It doesnt mean you don't love or care for him, but it's not your job to make him see that either by allowing him to hold you up. Hes a grown man. Send him his things and let him grow up on his own.
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I'm always compromising always went with the flow this time things will go my way maybe I sound childish now but I always just let things happen and let people walk away without learning their lesson and yeah in the end I'm better off but at the same time I feel like people think they can just come in and out of my life and just pretend like nothing has happened.
Posted by BathHouseCulture
Mars in Libra don’t want peace they want attention.
He’s not giving a shit time to do the same. Sag move quick.
I’d say he doesn’t want his shit and wouldn’t notice or care if you blocked him.
He doesn't move on quick I've been with him for 4 years he has a Moon in cancer Venus in Scorpio and Mars in Virgo he overthinks a lot more then me as a Virgo he doesn't do much about anything but talks alot that needs to happen.. I have my Mars in the 9th house I want the thruth I don't want attention so don't know what your problem is but not every Mars in Libra is the same and not every Sagittarius is the same he still didn't delete his pictures of us on social media and he constantly talks about old memories and pictures of us "that he should have looked at those from time to time" that he misses me and my dogs and the main thing he wants is to have his own place right now but he still has to figure things out but will tell me soon... Which I don't understand what exactly he has to figure out. But his Mars fell in my 8th house and my moon in his 8th house we won't forget each other fast.. I have more the tendency to move quick but impulsive he's more Scorpio like them Sagittarius since he also has his sun on the 8th house and pluto in the 7th house with Venus which creates obsessive behavior that he needs to learn through relationships.
Posted by BathHouseCulturePosted by Koni
You never seem to take any responsibility for yourself. Like someone else said, everything just always happens to you and you act like you have no control over anything.
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You all got it wrong I am the one in charge taking care of shit because he left me in a mess financially and the house itself and I have picked up my shit all by myself now and I've dealed with most of the pain within 2 weeks as I said I move quickly for things taken care off I did my part which he promised to help me with because he also has lived in this house and even if he doesn't want to take responsibility doesn't mean it should be me that means HE is irresponsible while he's still signed in on this address soon to be signed out by the landlord if he doesn't pay the rent as promised to the landlord himself.
Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by beautifulsoul74Posted by dewiklaessen277Posted by Koni
You never seem to take any responsibility for yourself. Like someone else said, everything just always happens to you and you act like you have no control over anything.
I am not weak ok i have control but i have also lost myself in my 4 year relationship so don't judge ! It has only been a month now it is not like i am stuck to it for already a year... I do take responsibility he doesn't take his responsibility it is way more complicated next to this...we still had conversations that he tried to sort of convince me we are not done yet... I wanna end things good that is all and yes i can close the door and create something that doesn't have to be there but wanna do things in a mature way so that we do not hate each other or whatever it is (yes my mars in Libra) i first look for the best solutions and then i decide i don't like to go into extremes but maybe i have to i don't know
Dewik, you guarding your heart and protecting yourself is not an extreme. He is showing you that he is not mature enough to make a decision. This has nothing to do with whether you are weak. It is about you taking control of your well being both spiritually and emotionally. You are not bound by your Mars in Libra no more than I am bound by my Mars in Scorpio. It's a placement, not a way of life.
It doesnt mean you don't love or care for him, but it's not your job to make him see that either by allowing him to hold you up. Hes a grown man. Send him his things and let him grow up on his own.
I'm always compromising always went with the flow this time things will go my way maybe I sound childish now but I always just let things happen and let people walk away without learning their lesson and yeah in the end I'm better off but at the same time I feel like people think they can just come in and out of my life and just pretend like nothing has happened.click to expand
Understood. Love doesn't require that you compromise yourself. Theres your answer. 🙂
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