Sagittarius woman silence

Tell me why sag women do y'all go silent?

Because it's over.

If I do that I must seriously hate you

Is she just not reaching out? If you bug her a lot and she's not interested, that may be the case or she could just be busy. It's always easier to catch us in person then text.

But you never know.

My phone isn't attached to my hip, and if I'm out with friends I will usually ignore my phone until later that night when I'm home.

Posted by Muderface

Because it's over.

I wouldn't say that. We have plans to seek counseling.

Posted by Sag898

If I do that I must seriously hate you

She definitely doesn't hate me

Posted by saggurl88

Is she just not reaching out? If you bug her a lot and she's not interested, that may be the case or she could just be busy. It's always easier to catch us in person then text.

But you never know.

My phone isn't attached to my hip, and if I'm out with friends I will usually ignore my phone until later that night when I'm home.

We live together and she reaches out if she needs me to do something. But aside from that we been keeping our distance with each other

Because im frustrated and/or have given up on trying to communicate if it just isn't working. I'd rather ignore than have something small turn into a whole big ordeal/confrontation. Not the healthiest but whatevs, I know it's something to work on.

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Posted by saggurl88

Is she just not reaching out? If you bug her a lot and she's not interested, that may be the case or she could just be busy. It's always easier to catch us in person then text.

But you never know.

My phone isn't attached to my hip, and if I'm out with friends I will usually ignore my phone until later that night when I'm home.

We live together and she reaches out if she needs me to do something. But aside from that we been keeping our distance with each other

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She may not even know there is an issue. Silence doesn't really bother us. You a Cancer?

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Posted by Muderface

Because it's over.

I wouldn't say that. We have plans to seek counseling.

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You're seeking counselling and you live together AND she is silent?

That sounds very suffocating to me. If I was silent, that means I am trying to find a way to get some space and get out.

Yea it sounds over. Sag are usually very direct, has she said anything to you.. and have you just decided not listened. As a fellow fire sign, I told an old GF to move out once, I was not joking, she thought it was a phase. I kinda just went silent, because what else can you do. Just tell them to go again until they listen. Has she said anything dude? Sag are direct. Hmmz the other option is maybe you are mentally abusive somehow, because this Sag seems off balance.

She reached out today to tell me she loves me. I have yet to cave in and tell her directly. I been keeping my distance. I'm not convinced it is

Posted by Sagicorn

Lol at counseling for open relationship with Sag who went silent. Good luck with that. It's over bro.

If it was would it make sense for a freedom loving sag to go through with it just to waste time and energy.

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Posted by Sagicorn

Lol at counseling for open relationship with Sag who went silent. Good luck with that. It's over bro.

If it was would it make sense for a freedom loving sag to go through with it just to waste time and energy.

She won't go.

She slept with another guy. You broke up with her. You want open relationship but you want to be exclusive but not to be together really. Even the best therapist in the world can't help you with that. Cause there is no relationship between 2 of you. You live as roomates,nothing else.

Be sure when Sag sleeps with someone else they're done with you. That's the truth you can't seem to accept...

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Ok so let's say she is done, why the fuck does she continuously look for me? We have history that goes back over 10 years prior and left her ass back then. She comes back we pick up again and she switches up. I break up with her once again. I'll leave her alone but she always wants to come back here. So understand there is a lot of pursuing on her end. Not mine. I know I can do better but I'm in love with her.

Posted by RooSagicorn

I go silent when I’m unhappy about something. I’m done fighting or arguing and I’m backing up..

That's prettt much what she said. Th arguing got super excessive. I was tired of obsessing over how hurt I am. So I broke up. Which I was wanting to do for a while

got tired of always being the one initiating the convo. or you're too boring/clingy and the expectation of always having to reply to each and every one of your text is dragging me down. either way, its 99% done.

What exactly happened?

I'm Sag moon...this is like a toxicity overdose to me. You need to make a final clean break from each and stay the fcuk out of each other's lives.

Posted by Sola

I'm Sag moon...this is like a toxicity overdose to me. You need to make a final clean break from each and stay the fcuk out of each other's lives.

If only it was possible. It has gotten better in just being around one another but I did break up with her. My hope is to help her with healing if she's able to be open to it. There's no way that someone can expect to ever keep anyone when they are the one fucking up the dynamic in the relationship. I'm too smart to play dumb. However I love her enough to try to work out something that we can sustain. Whether friendship or relationship. She's the one that set up the therapy. She's the one that makes it known how much she wants to be with me. I'm not one to stalk of chase hell even fight for love. I put my all into my committed relationship. If They some how slip up constantly they gonna have to fight for it because fuck that if I can stay true and be consistent so can they. It's all a choice.

Posted by igotthatfire

It’s always over if we decide to sleep with someone else. Silence is icing on the cake.

I’m guessing counseling wasn’t her idea?Even if it was, it’s a BS attempt at doing “everything possible” so we can say we gave it 110% .

We were in an open relationship. But the transparency lacked on her part because she didn't wanna hear anything I had to say or how I feel. I mean there's a lot more to it. I just wanted to know at the time what her silence meant or what it could mean. Not anything more than that. As far as what y'all are saying it's over. It was for me after getting hurt several times back to back. She's the one that didn't wanna break up because she doesn't wanna actually be with anyone on a serious tip. Just easy enough to get what she wants outta it. And besides y'all Sagittarius women need to realize a lo of the problems u all cause are due to being so non-attached. The ability to do things without thought is beyond me. As a Gemini I don't know how not to think

Quite simply that is the only way take down a Gemini.

Stop communicating with them.

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It’s always over if we decide to sleep with someone else. Silence is icing on the cake.

I’m guessing counseling wasn’t her idea?Even if it was, it’s a BS attempt at doing “everything possible” so we can say we gave it 110% .

We were in an open relationship. But the transparency lacked on her part because she didn't wanna hear anything I had to say or how I feel. I mean there's a lot more to it. I just wanted to know at the time what her silence meant or what it could mean. Not anything more than that. As far as what y'all are saying it's over. It was for me after getting hurt several times back to back. She's the one that didn't wanna break up because she doesn't wanna actually be with anyone on a serious tip. Just easy enough to get what she wants outta it. And besides y'all Sagittarius women need to realize a lo of the problems u all cause are due to being so non-attached. The ability to do things without thought is beyond me. As a Gemini I don't know how not to think

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I'm going to try and be patient with my post but I won't lie, you annoy me.

I'm confused first you say you put your all into a committed relationship but it's open too. Then you talk about her not being transparent and selfish after you put "rules" like a curfew into said "open" relationship. And complain when she, a Sag, breaks them. This is a mess.

Point is her behavior is not a good sign. I'd say it's not only over but it was over a long time ago. For whatever reason she probably likes you but deep down knows it's not working and doesn't want to break up cause she can have this quasi relationship that she doesn't have to commit to. It's easier but it sounds very toxic for both parties. FYI Sags typically don't like talking about our feelings unless we explicitly trust you. So if she's still not opening up to you after all this past history you've mentioned, you're not that close. You should really listen to the advice here. And consider what's healthy and best for you both.

Use your imagination ?