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Posted by ellessquePosted by DMV
so him saying no to blindfold, being tied up, not letting me give some orders is him not trusting me and pulling back? is this only relegated to the bedroom?
yes.
I can't speak for outside the bedroom, I'm not a sag.
If he was a scorp, I'd say yes.click to expand
ahh i c.
What did he do that was so embarrassing?
Posted by ellessque
never rock the boat on purpose.
the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the scorpio in mars 😛
thanks Ellessque, you have really helped me out with this. i really appreciate it. i never would have came to that conclusion on my own.
Well this is what I am thinking.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
Posted by exoskeleton
—he might fuss but secretly he'll be eating that shit up.??
word. just sit on his face and tell him to eat you. that'll shut him up. 🙂
define —power?? over you?
+1 I dont respect a man who doesnt eat out to me your not in the jungle unless your fucking Tarzan. Its a preference yes but whats behind it. Im so in tune with nature that I fuck as sexy and or seductive as Poisen Ivy would. When I say im there im there we don't have to worry about screwing the headboard back in because the whole wall is down.
-Walks out grumbling about inconsistent masculine qualities. Females-
Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Well this is what I am thinking.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
what you said about him eating at home is what he told me day one. done and done. never asked for it. hes always put the ball in my court and given me the opportunity to make a decision. it was up to me to take it or leave it. tbh, if he did it, he would probably get his rent paid. if the sex is good, then whoa nelly.
at first i thought he didnt do it because of the golds in his mouth.
he did graze my lips with his lips once.
Posted by ArticleLPosted by exoskeleton
—he might fuss but secretly he'll be eating that shit up.??
word. just sit on his face and tell him to eat you. that'll shut him up. 🙂
define —power?? over you?
+1 I dont respect a man who doesnt eat out to me your not in the jungle unless your fucking Tarzan. Its a preference yes but whats behind it. Im so in tune with nature that I fuck as sexy and or seductive as Poisen Ivy would. When I say im there im there we don't have to worry about screwing the headboard back in because the whole wall is down.
-Walks out grumbling about inconsistent masculine qualities. Females-click to expand
hahah the whole wall is down. damn debby.
interesting though how people feel differently about oral.
Posted by DMV
what you said about him eating at home is what he told me day one. done and done. never asked for it. hes always put the ball in my court and given me the opportunity to make a decision. it was up to me to take it or leave it. tbh, if he did it, he would probably get his rent paid. if the sex is good, then whoa nelly.
at first i thought he didnt do it because of the golds in his mouth.
he did graze my lips with his lips once.
I bet he got scared when he did that, because that thought meant more than just sex.
Like I said more than likely hes not going to let you control or have the reigns, he probably has the ability to let someone control but more than like he lets his wife have that so when he gets with you he refuses to do that.
The feeling of being used is a crappy feeling, you already know the answer though..
You know that he is going to want to control the sex, you accepted it like that before but now since you've had a sexual experience that made you feel used you want a little more control but it clearly isnt going to happen since you have tried before and he stopped that with a quickness.
I guess my advice is to just not let that one time take over your mind, and if it continues to happen and you feel bad about it then find someone else because it will just harm you in the long run mentally.
Posted by DMVPosted by GodMadeBeauty
Well this is what I am thinking.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
what you said about him eating at home is what he told me day one. done and done. never asked for it. hes always put the ball in my court and given me the opportunity to make a decision. it was up to me to take it or leave it. tbh, if he did it, he would probably get his rent paid. if the sex is good, then whoa nelly.
at first i thought he didnt do it because of the golds in his mouth.
he did graze my lips with his lips once.click to expand
He made it clear from day one, yet 'at first' you thought it was bc of his gold fronts? Confused.
Anyway, why make a thread like this just to be evasive and vague?
I dont see any feelings only annoyance at the dick not cooperating. Whether the annoyance is at herself or him remains to be seen as who is responsible for solving this problem. You taking control in some, shape, form or fashion or him having a ephiany.
Choices red light, green light, left, right, freeze tag, tag, missionary, doggie style .
-Trots off-
Choices red light, green light, left, right, freeze tag, tag, missionary, doggie style .
-Trots off-
the issue is how to get him to roll over and take some of my orders.
Throughout this thread you've stated many times that he's warned you not to do so - you've been "shut down" "read the riot act" and so on.
He's the dominant one. Is it not clear? After 2 years of this, he's not going to change/reverse roles.
What do you think will happen if he lets you take charge? Even temporarily?
Do you not wonder if the flavor will change, and the bedroom relationship may start to sour?
I wouldn't mess with it, to be honest. You enjoy it too much, and you could ruin your good thing.
IMO.
Posted by MsPisces.Posted by DMVPosted by GodMadeBeauty
Well this is what I am thinking.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
what you said about him eating at home is what he told me day one. done and done. never asked for it. hes always put the ball in my court and given me the opportunity to make a decision. it was up to me to take it or leave it. tbh, if he did it, he would probably get his rent paid. if the sex is good, then whoa nelly.
at first i thought he didnt do it because of the golds in his mouth.
he did graze my lips with his lips once.
He made it clear from day one, yet 'at first' you thought it was bc of his gold fronts? Confused.
Anyway, why make a thread like this just to be evasive and vague?
click to expand
yes he told me that was the reason, but being the paranoid scorpio moon that i am i hardly ever take the first answer as the gospel. so i thought it was the golds.
i just choose to be that evasive and vague with that question. it really has no relevance to my issue. youll just have to live in a state of not knowing.
Posted by Wynterthe issue is how to get him to roll over and take some of my orders.
Throughout this thread you've stated many times that he's warned you not to do so - you've been "shut down" "read the riot act" and so on.
He's the dominant one. Is it not clear? After 2 years of this, he's not going to change/reverse roles.
What do you think will happen if he lets you take charge? Even temporarily?
Do you not wonder if the flavor will change, and the bedroom relationship may start to sour?
I wouldn't mess with it, to be honest. You enjoy it too much, and you could ruin your good thing.
IMO.
click to expand
is it me or are you guys being a bit salty today.
Posted by DMVPosted by Wynterthe issue is how to get him to roll over and take some of my orders.
Throughout this thread you've stated many times that he's warned you not to do so - you've been "shut down" "read the riot act" and so on.
He's the dominant one. Is it not clear? After 2 years of this, he's not going to change/reverse roles.
What do you think will happen if he lets you take charge? Even temporarily?
Do you not wonder if the flavor will change, and the bedroom relationship may start to sour?
I wouldn't mess with it, to be honest. You enjoy it too much, and you could ruin your good thing.
IMO.
is it me or are you guys being a bit salty today.click to expand
Really? Is that how you're taking it? I rarely give my own honest opinion on things like this, and it seems that you are just being defensive, instead of considering what I'm saying.
I now feel like I just wasted my time. :::shrugs:::
Posted by WynterPosted by DMVPosted by Wynterthe issue is how to get him to roll over and take some of my orders.
Throughout this thread you've stated many times that he's warned you not to do so - you've been "shut down" "read the riot act" and so on.
He's the dominant one. Is it not clear? After 2 years of this, he's not going to change/reverse roles.
What do you think will happen if he lets you take charge? Even temporarily?
Do you not wonder if the flavor will change, and the bedroom relationship may start to sour?
I wouldn't mess with it, to be honest. You enjoy it too much, and you could ruin your good thing.
IMO.
the way it sounded to me was differently. i guess i got defensive with you because Elle already told me what would happen if things change. so it sounded like u were just saying something to say something.
apologies
is it me or are you guys being a bit salty today.
Really? Is that how you're taking it? I rarely give my own honest opinion on things like this, and it seems that you are just being defensive, instead of considering what I'm saying.
I now feel like I just wasted my time. :::shrugs:::click to expand
i got defee with you because it sounded like you were saying something just to say it when Elle had already explained to me what the deal was if things would change.
my apologies.
Posted by ellessque
well, speaking as a mars in scorpio, there have been plenty of things I've done that I won't share openly in a public forum and yes, YES, YES....I've been embarrassed about them the next day or two.
luckily, it also comes with a weird sense of humour that will bring it up to whomever was in my presence when it happened so I can process it and let it go. making sure they aren't uncomfortable with what transpired and finding out if I can do it again...LOL 😄
how about a conversation with him? quite frankly, he probably wouldn't mind talking about it.
you either liked it and are embarrassed you enjoyed it or not sure you should like it....or you didn't like it and want to make it clear to him that it won't happen again.
clear the air.
mostly likely the latter as a virginal mars in virgo...i can be prudish
oh my bad.
i read to quickly. quilty of that alot
you either liked it and are embarrassed you enjoyed it or not sure you should like it
i thought this was your latter.
i read to quickly. quilty of that alot
you either liked it and are embarrassed you enjoyed it or not sure you should like it
i thought this was your latter.
Sex partner only = Blow up doll = Jump off
You lost power and control when you accepted to be his jump off, plus the prison stint is an issue, so yeah fuck him in the ass and keep it moving, he's your bitch now.
If you appear afraid in the bedroom, timid, he won't trust you to be the dominant partner.
You lost power and control when you accepted to be his jump off, plus the prison stint is an issue, so yeah fuck him in the ass and keep it moving, he's your bitch now.
If you appear afraid in the bedroom, timid, he won't trust you to be the dominant partner.
Posted by ellessque
well in that case then....
Posted by DMV
you ever felt that way about sex with someone else. like u were there for their enjoyment? afterwards you feel used, abused, and can hardly look at your partner after what they did to you?
my answer is yes 😄
that's normal. especially when you do something you don't think you are supposed to do, let alone ENJOY it.
seriously. been there. have the t-shirt AND the coffee mug, keychain, refrigerator magnet...the whole souvenir store on the corner.
google it, view pictures, watch it in porn.....desensitize your senses a little bit. you'll wrap your head around it in a couple days.click to expand
one night i watching porn and no lie, he did everything in the porn to me. im not talking missionary either. i didnt even have to tell him. its like he read my mind.
Posted by tiki33
Jump off = Sex Partner Only = Blow Up Doll
You lost power and control when you accepted to be his jump off, plus the prison stint is an issue, so yeah fuck him in the ass and keep it moving, he's your bitch now.
If you appear afraid in the bedroom, timid, he won't trust you to be the dominant partner.
fixed
Posted by DMVPosted by MsPisces.Posted by DMVPosted by GodMadeBeauty
Well this is what I am thinking.
He has a wife and family, more than likely all the allowing his partner control is given to his wife.
He does the kissing and oral on her enough to not want to do it with you, besides a lot of people look at kissing and oral as emotional and since hes not that with you its just sex he's not going to go there.
If he has to find someone else to sleep with she possibly isnt pleasing him sexually hence the reason why he goes to you.
You will more than likely never have the control you want and he will probably always treat you like this because he has the opposite at his home.
You can either deal with it and just be that sex slave to him or chuck the dueces and find the sexual partner that you really want.
what you said about him eating at home is what he told me day one. done and done. never asked for it. hes always put the ball in my court and given me the opportunity to make a decision. it was up to me to take it or leave it. tbh, if he did it, he would probably get his rent paid. if the sex is good, then whoa nelly.
at first i thought he didnt do it because of the golds in his mouth.
he did graze my lips with his lips once.
He made it clear from day one, yet 'at first' you thought it was bc of his gold fronts? Confused.
Anyway, why make a thread like this just to be evasive and vague?
yes he told me that was the reason, but being the paranoid scorpio moon that i am i hardly ever take the first answer as the gospel. so i thought it was the golds.
i just choose to be that evasive and vague with that question. it really has no relevance to my issue. youll just have to live in a state of not knowing.click to expand
Umm okay. I'm sure I'll live.
The whole thread is evasive, not just the answer to that question,fwiw. Either way, your defensive tone in this thread is telling. You sound really insecure about the situation you've put yourself in. The *issue* with the lack of control in the budoir seems to mask a deeper issue with a lack of control in yourself,to a degree.
@Ms Pisces,
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
telepathy would work wonders for me.
-Eats a blue Skittle-
Posted by DMV
@Ms Pisces,
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
Aquarius.
Posted by ellessque
she's not looking for relationship advice.
okay....so I've pieced this together.
you did something...it wasn't expected...and you weren't sure if you should have enjoyed it so much because you kind of haven't done this before and it was completely out of left field.
the next day, after playing it in your head a million times, you started feeling a little embarrassed, even "dirty".
to justify this...you want to be more controlling in the bedroom and decided on this thread. you think if you have more control in the bedroom, he won't make you feel that vulnerable again (vulnerable = used, degraded, "blow up doll"ish.
of which, you felt vulnerable aka "these things" because he did "that" to you.
am I close?
you don't really want the control. you really want things just as they are.
you want to be okay with what went down.
be okay with it. if it wasn't illegal or harming animals and/or children....you did nothing wrong.
you should be the beaming smile on my face. thank you for taking the time to write that out for others. i have problems explicitly stating whats wrong.
wow. yes that is it frontwards and backwards sideways upside down cat corner.
as a mars in scorpio, how do u view your partner afterwards?
Posted by MsPisces.Posted by DMV
@Ms Pisces,
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
Aquarius.click to expand
logically or rationally i make no sense to you.
Not sure what fixed means.
Is this his normal behavior? Meaning has he always been the way he is or has the sex evolved into him treating you like a slab of meat?
These are just theories so take it with a grain of salt but he may just be mad at you for being so detached and feel he can treat you any kind of way and get away with it or he could be angry at the way you're being (evasive) and thus treating you like shit in the bedroom to get a reaction out of you because to see if you care about him beyond sex, you seem firmly detached from your body in his presence therefore he's being dominant in the bedroom, you don't seem to care about yourself so why should he (men do think this way) about jump offs.
Is this his normal behavior? Meaning has he always been the way he is or has the sex evolved into him treating you like a slab of meat?
These are just theories so take it with a grain of salt but he may just be mad at you for being so detached and feel he can treat you any kind of way and get away with it or he could be angry at the way you're being (evasive) and thus treating you like shit in the bedroom to get a reaction out of you because to see if you care about him beyond sex, you seem firmly detached from your body in his presence therefore he's being dominant in the bedroom, you don't seem to care about yourself so why should he (men do think this way) about jump offs.
hid one of my comments and rephrased it.
"you think if you have more control in the bedroom, he won't make you feel that vulnerable again (vulnerable = used, degraded, "blow up doll"ish."
My point.
My point.
Posted by DMVPosted by MsPisces.Posted by DMV
@Ms Pisces,
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
Aquarius.
logically or rationally i make no sense to you.click to expand
What's yours ? Doesn't really matter, as no placement holds that much power. There are those with effective communication skills and those without.
You aren't making sense on the surface, but I can read between the lines.
Posted by MsPisces.Posted by DMVPosted by MsPisces.Posted by DMV
@Ms Pisces,
im just evasive and vague with my writing ordinarily. when i think im saying enough, im generally not saying anything at all.
whats your Merc in?
im pretty secure in the situation ive chosen. we've been doing this for 2 years however people change and sometimes it leaves you wondering hmmmmmm.
lack of control in myself. naw never that.
Aquarius.
logically or rationally i make no sense to you.
What's yours ? Doesn't really matter, as no placement holds that much power. There are those with effective communication skills and those without.
You aren't making sense on the surface, but I can read between the lines.click to expand
even when the lines arent even there?
Posted by ellessquePosted by MsPisces.
"you think if you have more control in the bedroom, he won't make you feel that vulnerable again (vulnerable = used, degraded, "blow up doll"ish."
My point.
it could be your point but that isn't her issue.click to expand
Yes and your Mars in Scorpio is sure of this.
Posted by tiki33
Not sure what fixed means.
Is this his normal behavior? Meaning has he always been the way he is or has the sex evolved into him treating you like a slab of meat?
These are just theories so take it with a grain of salt but he may just be mad at you for being so detached and feel he can treat you any kind of way and get away with it or he could be angry at the way you're being (evasive) and thus treating you like shit in the bedroom to get a reaction out of you because to see if you care about him beyond sex, you seem firmly detached from your body in his presence therefore he's being dominant in the bedroom, you don't seem to care about yourself so why should he (men do think this way) about jump offs.
i changed it to Jumpoff = Sexual Partner only = Blow up Doll. i think i like to think about it this way haha.
girl, you should see the amount of magnum thins i have in my pillow. i buy so many condoms, omg. thank goodness its FSA eligible. i also am on the pill. got the game on lock.
originally, one of your theories sounded interesting but then if i think back to his actions, i dont think so anymore. Elle really did lay it out nicely.
u know im still embarrassed to buy condoms at my age. still. id rather buy a pregnancy text than condoms.
haha i dont want that nosey ass checkout lady to know im having sex. so embarrassing.
I think the bottomline is this. He's fucking you like the dirty little whore you've made yourself to be to him. And you think gaining control in the bedroom will make you not feel that way when it won't, because thats all you are(to him), so he's going to fuck you as such. He may be polite and nice as he should be to maintain the relationship he wants with you, but at the end of the day, you're just his whore. That's it.
And you being a self proclaimed jump off, I know you get that, however, I get the impression you don't realize how this trickles into how its leaving you feeling about yourself. The sex makes you feel used like a blow up doll, because well, that's what you are. You *are* being used and you *are* his blow up doll. No amount of tying him up, blindfolding him and reverse cowgirling his ass is going to change that fact, or make you feel better in the morning.
You tell yourself you're okay with being a jumpoff, which I don't doubt is somewhat true, but nothing like being fucked like one to make you question your self worth.
And you being a self proclaimed jump off, I know you get that, however, I get the impression you don't realize how this trickles into how its leaving you feeling about yourself. The sex makes you feel used like a blow up doll, because well, that's what you are. You *are* being used and you *are* his blow up doll. No amount of tying him up, blindfolding him and reverse cowgirling his ass is going to change that fact, or make you feel better in the morning.
You tell yourself you're okay with being a jumpoff, which I don't doubt is somewhat true, but nothing like being fucked like one to make you question your self worth.
Posted by MsPisces.
I think the bottomline is this. He's fucking you like the dirty little whore you've made yourself to be to him. And you think gaining control in the bedroom will make you not feel that way when it won't, because thats all you are(to him), so he's going to fuck you as such. He may be polite and nice as he should be to maintain the relationship he wants with you, but at the end of the day, you're just his whore. That's it.
And you being a self proclaimed jump off, I know you get that, however, I get the impression you don't realize how this trickles into how its leaving you feeling about yourself. The sex makes you feel used like a blow up doll, because well, that's what you are. You *are* being used and you *are* his blow up doll. No amount of tying him up, blindfolding him and reverse cowgirling his ass is going to change that fact, or make you feel better in the morning.
You tell yourself you're okay with being a jumpoff, which I don't doubt is somewhat true, but nothing like being fucked like one to make you question your self worth.
thats not the bottomline, Elle really did nail it.
she's not looking for relationship advice.
okay....so I've pieced this together.
you did something...it wasn't expected...and you weren't sure if you should have enjoyed it so much because you kind of haven't done this before and it was completely out of left field.
the next day, after playing it in your head a million times, you started feeling a little embarrassed, even "dirty".
to justify this...you want to be more controlling in the bedroom and decided on this thread. you think if you have more control in the bedroom, he won't make you feel that vulnerable again (vulnerable = used, degraded, "blow up doll"ish.
of which, you felt vulnerable aka "these things" because he did "that" to you.
am I close?
you don't really want the control. you really want things just as they are.
you want to be okay with what went down.
be okay with it. if it wasn't illegal or harming animals and/or children....you did nothing wrong.
Ellessque
she nailed it. cancel christmas, santas going home.
okay....so I've pieced this together.
you did something...it wasn't expected...and you weren't sure if you should have enjoyed it so much because you kind of haven't done this before and it was completely out of left field.
the next day, after playing it in your head a million times, you started feeling a little embarrassed, even "dirty".
to justify this...you want to be more controlling in the bedroom and decided on this thread. you think if you have more control in the bedroom, he won't make you feel that vulnerable again (vulnerable = used, degraded, "blow up doll"ish.
of which, you felt vulnerable aka "these things" because he did "that" to you.
am I close?
you don't really want the control. you really want things just as they are.
you want to be okay with what went down.
be okay with it. if it wasn't illegal or harming animals and/or children....you did nothing wrong.
Ellessque
she nailed it. cancel christmas, santas going home.
haha most of it was my inability to clearly state what my issue was. well, maybe like 12 of those pages
Posted by Sutekh
how did this become 17 pages smh
I say that in just about every thread I step in then I realize I walked into a Zoo of people eating bannas.
@Dmv, Water moons for telepathy you might be....out of luck.
Kudos to Elle ++1 because I can't even relate to shit like this LOL, I really can't, I just don't get the whole jump off mentality.
I understand Elle, I'm not very open minded when it comes to this kind of behavior, a part of me feel she deserves no respect and his behavior is a reflection of that in the bedroom, anything I say will most likely reflect my dislike for the behavior.
Posted by tiki33
I understand Elle, I'm not very open minded when it comes to this kind of behavior, a part of me feel she deserves no respect and his behavior is a reflection of that in the bedroom, anything I say will most likely reflect my dislike for the behavior.
different strokes for different folks
thanks for commenting, its was alot to read right 🙂?
as far as the moral issue surrounding this relationship, look its like beating a dead horse with me honestly lol. dont feel sad for me, i going into this 20/20 and so is he. i dont feel sad for myself or anything like that. ive been called every name in the book and have heard every argument about how im this and that. seriously, im bored lol and it goes in one ear and out the other. relationships like this are happening all the time. doesnt make it right, but its a fact of life. other women and men just arent vocal about it. me im like whatevers. what surprises me is that other people are still surprised that something like this is happening. come on guys, you think every man or woman is satisfied with their romantic life at home??
the used part, with the way me and Elle were discussing it, its not in a sense that the rest of other people are taking it. there is no traumatic experience or the like. i am not sitting in a corner in a fetal position crying about how im being used for sex. if i could go back and change the original entry, i would throw in like 50 gazillion smiley faces.
i cant be the only girl who felt like this one time a guy just completely took over and turned you into the slut you always wanted to be, but there was no forewarning so your just left like.....
i dont feel my venus in cap in the bedroom. i usually only feel my venus when i first meet someone and im trying to see if they are the right man for the job. but with sex, naw...she takes a back seat. im not worried about my reputation with him because weve been messing around soooo long. if he didnt care a year ago, he aint caring now.
i dont mind him acting out his fantasies with me. that is H-O-T. Your right in that im doing things his baby moms wont. i know what my role is in his life. purely sexual. i dont call him begging for valentines day. but he calls me ha!
im not defending his actions. thats up to him. from my interactions with him, he isnt a creep to me or disrespectful. he is sweet, awesome fuck, helpful. from my end, i have only good things to say about him. then again, i only see a limited view of him; fair enough?
he isnt the only man im sleeping with so i dont feel like hes taking up anyone elses time.
I know you keep saying you love the sex, but is that really worth it to you?
worth it as compared to what?
as far as the moral issue surrounding this relationship, look its like beating a dead horse with me honestly lol. dont feel sad for me, i going into this 20/20 and so is he. i dont feel sad for myself or anything like that. ive been called every name in the book and have heard every argument about how im this and that. seriously, im bored lol and it goes in one ear and out the other. relationships like this are happening all the time. doesnt make it right, but its a fact of life. other women and men just arent vocal about it. me im like whatevers. what surprises me is that other people are still surprised that something like this is happening. come on guys, you think every man or woman is satisfied with their romantic life at home??
the used part, with the way me and Elle were discussing it, its not in a sense that the rest of other people are taking it. there is no traumatic experience or the like. i am not sitting in a corner in a fetal position crying about how im being used for sex. if i could go back and change the original entry, i would throw in like 50 gazillion smiley faces.
i cant be the only girl who felt like this one time a guy just completely took over and turned you into the slut you always wanted to be, but there was no forewarning so your just left like.....
i dont feel my venus in cap in the bedroom. i usually only feel my venus when i first meet someone and im trying to see if they are the right man for the job. but with sex, naw...she takes a back seat. im not worried about my reputation with him because weve been messing around soooo long. if he didnt care a year ago, he aint caring now.
i dont mind him acting out his fantasies with me. that is H-O-T. Your right in that im doing things his baby moms wont. i know what my role is in his life. purely sexual. i dont call him begging for valentines day. but he calls me ha!
im not defending his actions. thats up to him. from my interactions with him, he isnt a creep to me or disrespectful. he is sweet, awesome fuck, helpful. from my end, i have only good things to say about him. then again, i only see a limited view of him; fair enough?
he isnt the only man im sleeping with so i dont feel like hes taking up anyone elses time.
I know you keep saying you love the sex, but is that really worth it to you?
worth it as compared to what?
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