sometimes i feel like a blow up doll (Page 3)

@i cant be the only girl who felt like this one time a guy just completely took over and turned you into the slut you always wanted to be, but there was no forewarning so your just left like....

Of course you're not the only one, I'm sure he has a few more "girls" he's learning new tricks from in the bedroom such as role playing and YAY you get to experience what he learned from someone else (least he's learning), you do know when he flipped it up in the bedroom it's because he learned it from another woman and of course he sleeps with his baby mom but as you said different strokes for different folks. I believe you're completely in denial or just lost your morality somewhere along the way, that's if you ever had some. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot and your husband was creeping for 2 years with another woman you'd find your morality real quick fast and in a hurry.

Posted by tiki33
@i cant be the only girl who felt like this one time a guy just completely took over and turned you into the slut you always wanted to be, but there was no forewarning so your just left like....

Of course you're not the only one, I'm sure he has a few more "girls" he's learning new tricks from in the bedroom such as role playing and YAY you get to experience what he learned from someone else (least he's learning), you do know when he flipped it up in the bedroom it's because he learned it from another woman and of course he sleeps with his baby mom but as you said different strokes for different folks. I believe you're completely in denial or just lost your morality somewhere along the way, that's if you ever had some. I'm sure if the shoe was on the other foot and your husband was creeping for 2 years with another woman you'd find your morality real quick fast and in a hurry.

hells yeah. everybody learns from everyone else and porn. some of the things i do with him, i learn from sucking another dude off.

hells yeah again, i have so much built in karma i dont know what to do 🙂

if my hubby were to do that, i wouldnt find my morals id find a gun ma'am. pop pop boom.

Posted by capgirl75
Worth feeling bad about it, I guess. But you say you don't. *shrug* He has objectified you. You say this is ok. You're a big girl. You know what you're doing. I just was concerned. I personally have had a much harder time with men than I would care to admit.

yeah, i like my life and how i choose to live it. i do appreciate your concern. whats your issue with men? whats saturn doing in your chart?

my venus is afflicted by saturn 2x (venus in cap, venus sq saturn). i think both contribute to my view of sex and relationships.

LOL Yep!

fuck, I read this long ass thread ... it's a little light on juicy details for as long as it is. geeze 😉

Posted by acrabbycrab12
So this guy is married?... Why are you having sex with him?

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i never said he was married, that was someone else my man

Posted by capgirl75

Posted by DMV

Posted by capgirl75
Worth feeling bad about it, I guess. But you say you don't. *shrug* He has objectified you. You say this is ok. You're a big girl. You know what you're doing. I just was concerned. I personally have had a much harder time with men than I would care to admit.

yeah, i like my life and how i choose to live it. i do appreciate your concern. whats your issue with men? whats saturn doing in your chart?

my venus is afflicted by saturn 2x (venus in cap, venus sq saturn). i think both contribute to my view of sex and relationships.

Well my moon (Scorp) squares my Venus (Cap), so that is an issue there, from where I read. Wants vs. Needs.

Let's see, what's Saturn doing in my chart?
I have Saturn in Cancer.
Saturn Opposite Sun.
Saturn Trine Jupiter.

I don't know what that means.lol.

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i asked about saturn because it said to talk about your relationship with your dad which trickles down to your relationship with men. the father is also represented by the Sun. Id look into your Saturn Opp Sun.

i feel ya with the lunar scorp sq venus cap. mine is out of orb so it doesnt make an aspect.

Idk, I think you're full of shit.

I don't care about the 'moral' issue, as you don't owe anything to his wife, but I do think you owe a little more to yourself, than trying to convince yourself you're content with being a 30 yr old jumpoff. That choice of word alone is telling.

No way a woman can genuinely like herself when living and being treated like a whore. She can be happy as a sexually liberated woman, sure, but not happy being a whore. And your mindset is definitely that of a whore.

Secure, sexually liberated women don't have to pay rent to reward good D. They get their rent paid, if they so choose. They don't remain jumpoffs, they get wifed, if they so choose. They don't question strangers about how to gain control in the bedroom, they had the control before they even laid down.

So, if you wanna be promiscous, fuck married man, etc. fine, but atleast do it right, woman!

@Ms Pisces,

girl your going to just turn blue in the face trying to get through to me...

lol @ "Wifed"

i seriously cant stand that term. why would someone want to be wifed? why not just want to be a wife? damn hip hop

Posted by DMV
lol @ "Wifed"

i seriously cant stand that term. why would someone want to be wifed? why not just want to be a wife? damn hip hop

What's the difference?

Posted by acrabbycrab12
Who is having sex with the married person then?? :S

i dunno

Posted by MsPisces.

Posted by DMV
lol @ "Wifed"

i seriously cant stand that term. why would someone want to be wifed? why not just want to be a wife? damn hip hop

What's the difference?

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from what i gather, hip hop/r&b came around and decided that it was uncool to marry their girlfriend. so to compensate, they give the top girl billing and call her "wifey." she just got wifed. for the most part, wifey aint even married. getting wifed up just means that he's given you top billing over the mistress and the girlfriend.

girls just ate it up. they want to be wifey these days and think its synonymous with being a man's wife.

Well I meant it either way. Married or girlfriend.

naw, im not into that.

But. How you have issue with that word, and yet refer to yourself as another hip hops own: Jumpoff. The worst of them all!lol

You not into what?

Posted by MsPisces.
But. How you have issue with that word, and yet refer to yourself as another hip hops own: Jumpoff. The worst of them all!lol

well i see that as two different issues. a jumpoff is a jumpoff; no mystery there. wifed doesnt equal wife

It doensn't have to mean, but it can.

Whereas, a jumpoff is a smut. Plain and simple. There is nothing respectable about that position.

Posted by MsPisces.
It doensn't have to mean, but it can.

Whereas, a jumpoff is a smut. Plain and simple. There is nothing respectable about that position.

yeah i never really got the connection. i just saw it as men trying to fool women into settling for a life without a title. so its like here, imma give you this title..its close enough to the title you want.

Yea that can be the case, but like many words, they develop different meanings over time.

I hear men say they wifed a chick, and really did get married...just so used to using the term wifed/wifey.

lol

😉

Maybe if you quit being so easy you wouldn't come across this type of thing, dear. How can you even feel sex at this rate??

You had the balls to ream some chick in her relationship with issues on the Aries board, but here you are, fucking another woman's man?

Seriously, shut the fuck up already. The attention whoredom is painfully obvious here.

Damn you women are mean to each other ... like, more so than to a guy. Why is that?

Also, why come to dxp without an open mind? people do what people do. sometimes it hurt us, sometimes it hurts others. This is just a safe place to talk about it ... free therapy so to speak ... although real therapists do have a lot to offer.

Anyway, the whole:

"you a ho bitch"

"no you are"

"no you"

"yo mama too"

...is kinda funny, but is it productive?

I think your awesome DMV .. btw, just so you know.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Maybe if you quit being so easy you wouldn't come across this type of thing, dear. How can you even feel sex at this rate??

You had the balls to ream some chick in her relationship with issues on the Aries board, but here you are, fucking another woman's man?

Seriously, shut the fuck up already. The attention whoredom is painfully obvious here.

hahaha. hilarious. the moon is definitely in scorpio

I wouldn't give a shit if she didn't just go criticize someone who was pondering shaky relationship issues. If she wants open minds for her situation, she needs to practice the same mindset.

Hypocritical ho. Ugh.

"I can fuck anyone I want because I'm single. I don't care if they're taken. I can fuck who I want! But anyone else who cheats = bad! How dare they!!"

What the fuck kind of logic is that?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Maybe if you quit being so easy you wouldn't come across this type of thing, dear. How can you even feel sex at this rate??

You had the balls to ream some chick in her relationship with issues on the Aries board, but here you are, fucking another woman's man?

Seriously, shut the fuck up already. The attention whoredom is painfully obvious here.

that has to be about the worst zinger yet. seriously lol.

Posted by jru2
Damn you women are mean to each other ... like, more so than to a guy. Why is that?

Also, why come to dxp without an open mind? people do what people do. sometimes it hurt us, sometimes it hurts others. This is just a safe place to talk about it ... free therapy so to speak ... although real therapists do have a lot to offer.

Anyway, the whole:

"you a ho bitch"

"no you are"

"no you"

"yo mama too"

...is kinda funny, but is it productive?

I think your awesome DMV .. btw, just so you know.

at this point, theyre just trying to OUT ZING each other. pretty comical.

"Anyway, the whole:

"you a ho bitch"

"no you are"

"no you"

"yo mama too"

...is kinda funny, but is it productive?"

Where do white people come up with this stuff??

Posted by rockyroadicecream
I wouldn't give a shit if she didn't just go criticize someone who was pondering shaky relationship issues. If she wants open minds for her situation, she needs to practice the same mindset.

Hypocritical ho. Ugh.

"I can fuck anyone I want because I'm single. I don't care if they're taken. I can fuck who I want! But anyone else who cheats = bad! How dare they!!"

What the fuck kind of logic is that?

i do that all the time. ive been posting here for over a year now. i think i give out good advice and i give out that advice because ive been through these situations, especially as the other woman. who best to tell someone to stay right where they are in the current situation? stay out of drama.

real quick, who are you quoting? those arent all my words 😉 how about you own up to the words you just fabricated...

Idk. DMV you seem very smart. Always came across as intelligent but I said before it appears the person you present yourself to be is not the real you. I personally believe its all a cover-up to appear in control of a situation you lost control of a long time ago. Just a searching for love in all the wrong places situation imo.

I don't know you personally but I feel you would make a great wife and mother. You seem to be a free spirit. I just think your energy is misplaced, which happens to us all. I know when you are ready to settle down you will really settle down and be good at it.

i actually get that ALOT lnana. DMV, you dont look like the type. you all dont even know what i look like (some of you do) but if u saw you me, youd call shenanigans. even over the internet, i dont appear to be the type.

in more ways than not, its the opposite. here on DXP i think i can bring out more of who i really am under a shroud of fiberoptic cables. i dont go full monty, but u all know more than most.

She has zero self esteem, don't kick a dead horse, if she's content being a skank who are we to judge.

My phone does whatever it wants smh.

Anyway, no I don't know how you look but its something about you that makes me feel your selling yourself short as of now. Again, it happens to us all at some point.

I see what you mean as far as coming on the internet and using it to let a bit more of yourself out. I think most of us use these boards to say what we really think/feel.

That's a good point to make so continue doing you. I predict 3kids and a Pisces husband in your future though lol.

Life and change are all decided when a person decides to stop being whatever stereotype there labeled. Intelligent people come in all forms sluts, whore, bitches, gays, idiots, its called a combination of traits. Never will I judge unless what I see is actually true in DMV case this is her life. I would be dumb to come along and try to rearrange her bowls, vases, and furniture if she built the house its her house I would just like or love a person for who they are. The good thing about opinions is you can throw them out the bad thing is most people can't take them lucky for DMV she's a individual.

-Licks a Skittle lollipop creation-

Posted by lnana04
My phone does whatever it wants smh.

Anyway, no I don't know how you look but its something about you that makes me feel your selling yourself short as of now. Again, it happens to us all at some point.

I see what you mean as far as coming on the internet and using it to let a bit more of yourself out. I think most of us use these boards to say what we really think/feel.

That's a good point to make so continue doing you. I predict 3kids and a Pisces husband in your future though lol.

hahahah ewwwwwwwwww

best post ever 🙂

Posted by ArticleL
Life and change are all decided when a person decides to stop being whatever stereotype there labeled. Intelligent people come in all forms sluts, whore, bitches, gays, idiots, its called a combination of traits. Never will I judge unless what I see is actually true in DMV case this is her life. I would be dumb to come along and try to rearrange her bowls, vases, and furniture if she built the house its her house I would just like or love a person for who they are. The good thing about opinions is you can throw them out the bad thing is most people can't take them lucky for DMV she's a individual.

-Licks a Skittle lollipop creation-

takes the bag of skittles and tastes the rainbow

Damn. I just reread this. lol

I came off bitchy :/

Idk. I just figure DMV has a thick skin and she's real with her stuff, so whateva, I'mma be real too. I'm not judging you for the sex, or the relationship. I'm judging the way you're doing it...if that makes it any better.

I hate to see women selling themselves short; especially when they really don't have to.

Posted by exoskeleton
you're still giving it up. he feels like he can treat you like shit.

It's really sad she doesn't realize that...blow up doll? Hahahahaha...that's some funny shit.

HA!!! You feel like a blow up doll? So you're basically saying you're nothing but a hot air balloon with your mouth, ass, & pussy open for him to do as he damn well pleases? Funny. You're nothing but a cum dump to him. Smh...

Posted by DMV
day one, we met and it was sex. its been like that for the last 600+ days. nothing has changed in regards to my feelings for him. purely sexual.

So why make an ENTIRE thread dedicated to him? You want more. You're trying to convince people here & yourself that you don't. He will never give you more. Stop fronting acting like you don't care. You clearly do boo.

Posted by Nicrobliz
Nope, but I often feel like a battering ram... 😈

Nicro! Where ya been at buddy?!

this blog brings back good memories. too bad i split with the sag 😢

issues

bump

Maritan Scorpios 😛 i missed him and his "do what i want" attitude. he said he had thought about me over the holidays. the first time after months. its like we never missed a beat.

my ass still hurts. 😛

it does! he was impatient.

no i like anal, but its a case by case basis.

haha. i dont know about you. i dont want your venus in scorpio to chew me up and spit me out.