incandescentcancer
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Date with a Scorpio
I have never dated a scorp before, just an FYI.
Posted by GetMistedI don't have relationship goals. I like to go with the flow and see what happens.
What are your relationship goals?
Scorps see everything so be on your best behavior!!!
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Posted by GetMistedStill got nothing, maybe making sure that it doesn't end with a first date.Posted by incandescentcancerBut you asked for do's and don'ts and/or how to manage the encounter. That's not going with the flow. That's an attempt at controlling and you don't try to control without having a goal.Posted by GetMistedI don't have relationship goals. I like to go with the flow and see what happens.
What are your relationship goals?
What are your relationship goals?click to expand
Posted by Vixen2This is going to be funny. I think I will creep her out if I asked her natal info....rofl
this ought be good! incandescentcancer...come back and give us the deets after and make sure you subtly get the natal info..
Posted by ImpulsvLOL, this is going to be a unique experience.Posted by incandescentcancerNoPosted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Asking
If she wants u she'll have u when she wants it lolclick to expand
Jokes aide, this is going to be a new experience. I am therefore excite.
Posted by rampartshahahahahahaha, that's funny.
I've only ever had one scorpio female friend and ahe likes to give oral sex. Maybe you'll luck out and get one of those varieties.
I am doing this purely to have the experience of dating a scorp, it could all possibly go bad on the first date...lol.
Posted by deedee85I am not going into this with any sort of seriousness. It's all a bit of fun really.
Scorpio girls are the best. Be genuine and flirty. Don't try to force anything, if there is a spark you both will know it right away. Follow her lead.
She will lure you in with her beauty
Keep you with her charm
And in 6 months you will be sobbing in the bathroom floor wondering what the hell you got yourself into.
Posted by Reincarnationlol, I am just kidding. I make jokes like that all the time.Posted by incandescentcancerBe really nice. They like nice men.Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉click to expand
Any words of advice?
Posted by incandescentcancerYou could but it might be coming on too strong. I'd start with a hand job. Work your way up ðŸ‘Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerAwww I hope this works out well for you 🙂
Jokes aide, this is going to be a new experience. I am therefore excite.
Posted by ReincarnationOh, clearly missed the signs there.Posted by incandescentcancerDude - that was my advice.Posted by Reincarnationlol, I am just kidding. I make jokes like that all the time.Posted by incandescentcancerBe really nice. They like nice men.Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Any words of advice?click to expand
Posted by xtinaI can't cheat on my hand, the only handjob I ever want is from my own. I am very faithful to my hand.Posted by incandescentcancerYou could but it might be coming on too strong. I'd start with a hand job. Work your way up ðŸ‘Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerOh wow. You are so noble. You know it's very hard for people to stay faithful to their hands let alone admit it. I admire your integrityPosted by xtinaI can't cheat on my hand, the only handjob I ever want is from my own. I am very faithful to my hand.Posted by incandescentcancerYou could but it might be coming on too strong. I'd start with a hand job. Work your way up ðŸ‘Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationLike this. This is totally his advice 😉Posted by incandescentcancerDude - that was my advice.Posted by Reincarnationlol, I am just kidding. I make jokes like that all the time.Posted by incandescentcancerBe really nice. They like nice men.Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Any words of advice?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerHey, ask her to join the forums.Posted by deedee85I am not going into this with any sort of seriousness. It's all a bit of fun really.
Scorpio girls are the best. Be genuine and flirty. Don't try to force anything, if there is a spark you both will know it right away. Follow her lead.
She will lure you in with her beauty
Keep you with her charm
And in 6 months you will be sobbing in the bathroom floor wondering what the hell you got yourself into.click to expand
Who knows, maybe we can help the both of you. 🙂
Posted by deedee85Saturday.
When is the date?
Posted by MrFirebirdApparently, she doesn't believe in this.Posted by incandescentcancerHey, ask her to join the forums.Posted by deedee85I am not going into this with any sort of seriousness. It's all a bit of fun really.
Scorpio girls are the best. Be genuine and flirty. Don't try to force anything, if there is a spark you both will know it right away. Follow her lead.
She will lure you in with her beauty
Keep you with her charm
And in 6 months you will be sobbing in the bathroom floor wondering what the hell you got yourself into.
Who knows, maybe we can help the both of you. 🙂
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Run Forrest run its not worth it for us Cancer men to get involved with Scorpio woman, the Scorpio women say we cause the problems its them we bring the worst out of them because they can't hide around us.
I'm dealing with one right now she's giving me the attitude it's p*ssing me off what in the phuck did I do, no its not the one at the supply yard she's being nice and friendly giving me the giggle when I talk to her.
Now do you really want to get involved with a Scorpio woman you are opening Pandora's box you will have an eye opener lol
I'm dealing with one right now she's giving me the attitude it's p*ssing me off what in the phuck did I do, no its not the one at the supply yard she's being nice and friendly giving me the giggle when I talk to her.
Now do you really want to get involved with a Scorpio woman you are opening Pandora's box you will have an eye opener lol
Posted by Infinite8I've long held the opinion that this is the cartoon version of scorpio and cancer.Posted by MoonArtistOMG... That pink fluff is TOTALLY my Cancer husband!!! Hahahahaha... I'm definitely the black one 😛Posted by ReincarnationLike this. This is totally his advice 😉Posted by incandescentcancerDude - that was my advice.Posted by Reincarnationlol, I am just kidding. I make jokes like that all the time.Posted by incandescentcancerBe really nice. They like nice men.Posted by xtinaShould I just ask her to have sex with me?
Or worst depending on how good your game is 😉
Any words of advice?
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Posted by MrFirebird‚‚Posted by incandescentcancerHey, ask her to join the forums.Posted by deedee85I am not going into this with any sort of seriousness. It's all a bit of fun really.
Scorpio girls are the best. Be genuine and flirty. Don't try to force anything, if there is a spark you both will know it right away. Follow her lead.
She will lure you in with her beauty
Keep you with her charm
And in 6 months you will be sobbing in the bathroom floor wondering what the hell you got yourself into.
Who knows, maybe we can help the both of you. 🙂
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^^^ that's a really great post Kingly Crab.
I might have to start liking Cancerian men again but only if they do that above! Å
I might have to start liking Cancerian men again but only if they do that above! Å
I had a relationship with a cancer man once, it was quite interesting!
Do's:
1) Be confident - more than she is
2) Show her attention - but not too much
3) Keep convo flowing
4) Eye contact
5) Be cheeky - but not too much
Dont's
1) Be cocky
2) Bombard her with attention and texts after date
3) Don't show how sensitive you are just yet - Do act a bit macho.
In general scorpio women in my opinion are very feminine and sexual creatures. They do want to have an alpha male near them, someone that could perhaps show that is stronger than them.
DO NOT HAVE SEX ON FIRST DATE! Unless your intentions are just sex of course. If you show that you don't intend to have sex with her, it might turn on the "How can he fucking resist me" mode and make you a challenge for her.
Just saying' 🙂
Do's:
1) Be confident - more than she is
2) Show her attention - but not too much
3) Keep convo flowing
4) Eye contact
5) Be cheeky - but not too much
Dont's
1) Be cocky
2) Bombard her with attention and texts after date
3) Don't show how sensitive you are just yet - Do act a bit macho.
In general scorpio women in my opinion are very feminine and sexual creatures. They do want to have an alpha male near them, someone that could perhaps show that is stronger than them.
DO NOT HAVE SEX ON FIRST DATE! Unless your intentions are just sex of course. If you show that you don't intend to have sex with her, it might turn on the "How can he fucking resist me" mode and make you a challenge for her.
Just saying' 🙂
Dont's 1) was don't be C-O--CCC-KY .... It was autocorrected to chickeny 😛
Communication is key for this combo.
Posted by thinktoomuchYeah I also don't like Nutella. It looks like chocolate, tastes like LIES.Posted by KinglyCrabBut if you´re dating a scorpio, scorpio will buy you some nutella and let you have it aaaaaall to yourself (I don´t like nutella either 😄 )
Who needs Scorpio gurls when you hab nuttella! Isn't it the same thing? Uggghhh so delicious. Thank god I don't hab to share with mean Scorpio.
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^^^ ha ha that's so funny!!
Guys, don't jump the gun. This is date 1.
She seems shy and not too talkative, I feel like I need to draw her out a lot.
She seems shy and not too talkative, I feel like I need to draw her out a lot.
Posted by deedee85When I hear that story, I feel like punching the guy in the face.
Don't be too sensitive. She doesn't want to be the man in the relationship.
I clearly remember a date years ago. I thought it was going well until a bird flew into the car window while we were driving down the hiway. He actually cried because he hit a crow. I spent the rest of the night rolling my eyes on the inside about what a wuss he was. I love animals too but geez....get a grip.
Posted by Infinite8We have some common interests in food and cooking. So this is a good start.Posted by incandescentcancerIf she is shy, she is EXTREMELY observant and will be feeling out every move.
Guys, don't jump the gun. This is date 1.
She seems shy and not too talkative, I feel like I need to draw her out a lot.
If you are anybit of an extrovert then this is a time to reach out to it a bit WITH AND IN ADDITION TO your intuitive nature.
You will need to be really feeling her out and reading her signs of likes and dislikes, because she won't tell you. Super shy means she probably sucks at verbal communication and being clear with her needs and wants.
Be intuitive, nurturing and a bit funny. Talk to her in an intimate voice level so she doesn't feel overwhelmed by loudness.
She'll be hard to figure out - GOOD LUCK.click to expand
It's tomorrow, I am excite. We have been texting eachother for the past 4 days all the time!
Posted by MlleFiskomg roflmao.....this is how my friend's lab treats the cats! 😆
SOOOO—?.... was there any of this??
Updates?
Sorry for the delay in update (way too much work). We had a great first date, went out for dinner and then a walk later (it was a bit cold though). Talked a lot more than before, I think we moved forward a bit. However, I wouldn't say this is one of those instant connection situations.
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