Family pictures with a Scorpio

Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Posted by nano
I thought you said he was already getting a divorce a while back

I wouldn't think too much into this

He did get a consultation from a lawyer.

Then job got messy and he is a partner so his life from last summer became a nightmare! We even talked about him leaving and becoming his own boss but it was too frigging complicated! So we talked it over and I said no! Because if he started - I would never see him. His work is too demanding and he isn’t a young man anymore.

He was getting mental! I said leave it alone and get your ass together, I am not in a hurry! So at this point he had exhausted himself to the point that I am sending him herbs to come his ass down.

I don’t need a man with heart attack and mess!

It’s really im-fucking-possible to explain.

We talking millions of dollars business!

I can’t bud in! I can just observe and wait.

Posted by nano
His wife is cheating too - does she want a divorce?

Who knows what she wants?

All I know I felt she was cheating. The way he described their relashionships - she had acted like me toward my husband because I am utterly pissed with him and feeling mad all the time!

I didn’t say anything. But I KNEW she has someone!

Years later he told me. I wasn’t surprised.

I knew it! Intuitively. We had never shit over our spouses to each other. Only when he was at the end of a rope he would say something quick and I would never ask anymore.

He said once ‘i don’t forget. I take it to the grave...’ and I know...that’s why I don’t mess around...him...lol

She has a cozy life. He works, cooks, builds...that’s what keeping his mind from exploding! But I think it’s about time for him to explode! I just don’t want it to have impact on his physical and mental health!

So I am nearby. And he said ‘I know who gives a shit’...so...we both know. It’s a long process. I am not kidding myself.

Posted by RooSagicorn
Why are you analyzing pictures? Well this is a disaster for him financially. I’m sure anyway he looks at it he’s going to take a big financial hit. It just depends on how much he’s willing to lose leaving her. You should just let him do whatever he chooses to, not make the decision for him or try to. If he starts over, he starts over. And if you love him, you will support him.

That’s what I’ve been doing for years now.

We had not had any arguments ever except once I lost my shot and he ‘liked it’...

I tell him what to do when it comes to things not marriage related and he always appreciates my advises.

I don’t butt into anything marriage related.

It’s his crap to deal with.

Like I said - I am standing by. Speak when spoken to. But I say what I feel and my biggest reward was when he said ‘there is nothing going on you don’t know and I believe your every word you saying’ and I said ‘you know I will never lie to you and I have your back’ and he said ‘...and I am loving it!’

So we basically just in tune to the point of being open without being afraid one can ruin another’s life.

Those pictures just hit me because I shouldn’t have seeing them. But I can’t un-see it and it’s good in a way that I know he isn’t feeding me bs!

However I am wondering if it’s just the way Scorps posing...cold turkey...no affection...or there IS none?

Posted by Caramel_Princess
Same for when a couple look so happy in pictures but the reality is that they’re miserable together. I think you shouldn’t put much thought into it.

It was really hard to see those pictures.

And I know people fake happiness but it wasn’t a case...he couldn’t even fake it!

So...is it true feelings caught on camera or what? I am really messed up now when I saw her...I haven’t ever before. And it’s freezing my brain...

Posted by queenaries_
Going to your old threads to hear the story

Brb

- Geminicandle is stuck in a loveless marriage with a Cap oaf.

- Geminicandle has been a married Scorp's bit on the side for many many years.

- Geminicandle has fallen for the Scorp's bullshit promises of a life together because that's what stupid thirsty sorry sumbitches do; they delude themselves. Ignorance is bliss.

- Geminicandle fails to realize she never had a chance of a life with him because she's nothing but the side poosay who always ends up dropped on the kerb.

- Geminicandle hates me & Jed because within 12 months we reached the stage I dreamed of reaching, and she is still stuck on the "side poosay" stage, just like last year......and the year before that......and the year before that.

There, I saved you from wasting 24 hours of your life that you'd never get back by reading that bullshit.

Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Posted by Dianna
Gem, don't torture yourself. Block her and never visit her page again.

Social media is a lie. People are only who they pretend to be.

I don’t have FB. I’ve seen it because I’ve asked someone to just open it for me on their FB. I don’t have to block. It was one time thing. And I shouldn’t had...

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
K so did you not catch the std?? Thats GROSS AF

Wipe this womans face from your brain or your relationship is over.

It’s been a while when he found out. They haven’t been intimate for a long time so he is fine! Lol

And yeah...I need to wipe those images off but it just happened so I am working on it...

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

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I don’t know who her lover is and honestly I am not supposed to give a damn...

It’s was just crazy to see it! That’s all in saying. Me and him - we don’t do social media. I hate it and he is too busy and we both too old for this shit!

Posted by xyinsaturn
So who cheated first

If I’ll trust him loving me from the first sight since 2009 and keeping quiet until 2014...and then coming out - then she did first and when he discovered it - he just gave himself green light on coming out to me without feeling guilty about it.

You know...Scorps loyalty to the family...

First thing he said to me was ‘I’ve yearned this for years and finally you are in mybhands’...so apparently he wouldn’t if she hadn’t. But he only told me a few months ago. It just came up after I’ve asked my average stupid question...

Her screw up came out 5 years ago but we were intimate for 3. So...he found out. Dealt with it and had decided he can forget but not forgive. And ‘taking it to the grave’...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

I don’t know who her lover is and honestly I am not supposed to give a damn...

It’s was just crazy to see it! That’s all in saying. Me and him - we don’t do social media. I hate it and he is too busy and we both too old for this shit!

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you are not supposed to give a damn... says who? who wouldnt give a damn after those years?



to see the context, the wider picture

I am surprised you didnt do it before

But if you do now, do it properly

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
K so did you not catch the std?? Thats GROSS AF

Wipe this womans face from your brain or your relationship is over.

It’s been a while when he found out. They haven’t been intimate for a long time so he is fine! Lol

And yeah...I need to wipe those images off but it just happened so I am working on it...

Yeah its hard cause seeing her "humanized" her.

But there is no love there. It is just convenience.

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...and shitload of money to deal with...and apparently no one wants to lose any.

Though he saying he doesn’t care about money.

He is a very public figure so I understand imagining whole city talking is hard to digest...

But when he built mention as a retreat and he has to entertain shitload of people who don’t let him relax - he is losing shit!

He hates that place now. Because it’s like a Hotel...instead of peaceful harbor for tired soul.

And when he went crazy telling them about - he is a bad guy! Which makes him nuts! So I am trying to calm his ass down.

I just don’t know if man boiling down inside is safer than one who letting it out - because listening to him makes me feel he will DIE talking...so I am trying to play by the ear...

How long can he take it considering he is 56 now? But he runs 6 miles and working out daily and blood work is perfect since I am watching his ass...lol

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

I don’t know who her lover is and honestly I am not supposed to give a damn...

It’s was just crazy to see it! That’s all in saying. Me and him - we don’t do social media. I hate it and he is too busy and we both too old for this shit!

you are not supposed to give a damn... says who? who wouldnt give a damn after those years?



to see the context, the wider picture

I am surprised you didnt do it before

But if you do now, do it properly

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Do what properly?

And I am not a snooppy. I was looking for his daughters FB because he showed it to me. And then his wife’s appeared and I had just...looked...shit!

Posted by Leo188881

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

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"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
K so did you not catch the std?? Thats GROSS AF

Wipe this womans face from your brain or your relationship is over.

It’s been a while when he found out. They haven’t been intimate for a long time so he is fine! Lol

And yeah...I need to wipe those images off but it just happened so I am working on it...

Yeah its hard cause seeing her "humanized" her.

But there is no love there. It is just convenience.

...and shitload of money to deal with...and apparently no one wants to lose any.

Though he saying he doesn’t care about money.

He is a very public figure so I understand imagining whole city talking is hard to digest...

But when he built mention as a retreat and he has to entertain shitload of people who don’t let him relax - he is losing shit!

He hates that place now. Because it’s like a Hotel...instead of peaceful harbor for tired soul.

And when he went crazy telling them about - he is a bad guy! Which makes him nuts! So I am trying to calm his ass down.

I just don’t know if man boiling down inside is safer than one who letting it out - because listening to him makes me feel he will DIE talking...so I am trying to play by the ear...

How long can he take it considering he is 56 now? But he runs 6 miles and working out daily and blood work is perfect since I am watching his ass...lol

Well i dont kno. He has to get out. I hope he doesnt end up murdering her or hiring someone. I mean im just saying. You see this shit on the news all the time.

I just divorced my husband after 16 years. I lost so much fucking money in that divorce its obscene. I also lost some properties to him and had to buy him out of one of our businesses. But guess what? Idgaf cause its just money and i will make it back.

I never been happier. Im engaged. We bought a house. Moving in Feb.

So he needs to make a choice. Money, or health and happiness.

Or he can die of a heart attack and she gets all his money. Tell him to PICK WHAT HE WANTS.

Fack.

People think money is everything. If he was smart at all he would be able to realize its JUST money and he can make it back.

Well what do i kno. I aint there. But good luck.

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There is something I can’t post. But you right...

Except like I said...in his case - he is known by many and his business based on his perfect image! He is also perfect father to his adult kids whom he adores!

Changes are scaring him shitless due to his business relashionships that could be ruined by divorce! Too much to deal with and I am in no way pushing it! I know better! If it’ll come naturally - it’ll come.

Some just have to hit the wall! You did - you didn’t care anymore, right?

How long were you ‘getting ready’?

And why did you have to give him so much? We’re you both owning those assets? Divorce law is a joke! Isn’t it?

Posted by Leo188881

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Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head.

I looked at my guy's ex on facebook, to make sure i was hotter. Luckily I am or i would have felt insecure AF. So sometimes "information" harms your relationship and it's better not to know.

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I knew she supposed to be hot! By the way he looks - there is no way he would marry an ogur! Lol

She is about 100lb larger than me but we are same type. I do have my type as well!

But I was always secure about myself.

Even when I was a 250lb ogur...when we first met...lol

However I wish I didn’t see it. It was anfrigging error!

Posted by Leo188881

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Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head.

I looked at my guy's ex on facebook, to make sure i was hotter. Luckily I am or i would have felt insecure AF. So sometimes "information" harms your relationship and it's better not to know.

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"Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head."

If you love somebody, you will make up stories in your head, regardless 🙂

edit: I didnt mean you personally, but everybody who is in love, will make up stories in their head

Ah you should look at my FB. I need to delete pics of my Scorpio ex on there. I tried once to hide them all and they’re still there.

My hands are away, not touching him, A picture says a thousand words. But aren’t you two past that? Just go with your gut feeling.

Goodnight, I’m headed off to FBto hide some pics again. ❤️

Posted by HippieGem
Ah you should look at my FB. I need to delete pics of my Scorpio ex on there. I tried once to hide them all and they’re still there.

My hands are away, not touching him, A picture says a thousand words. But aren’t you two past that? Just go with your gut feeling.

Goodnight, I’m headed off to FBto hide some pics again. ❤️

LMAO! Thanks...hide away!!

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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
K so did you not catch the std?? Thats GROSS AF

Wipe this womans face from your brain or your relationship is over.

It’s been a while when he found out. They haven’t been intimate for a long time so he is fine! Lol

And yeah...I need to wipe those images off but it just happened so I am working on it...

Yeah its hard cause seeing her "humanized" her.

But there is no love there. It is just convenience.

...and shitload of money to deal with...and apparently no one wants to lose any.

Though he saying he doesn’t care about money.

He is a very public figure so I understand imagining whole city talking is hard to digest...

But when he built mention as a retreat and he has to entertain shitload of people who don’t let him relax - he is losing shit!

He hates that place now. Because it’s like a Hotel...instead of peaceful harbor for tired soul.

And when he went crazy telling them about - he is a bad guy! Which makes him nuts! So I am trying to calm his ass down.

I just don’t know if man boiling down inside is safer than one who letting it out - because listening to him makes me feel he will DIE talking...so I am trying to play by the ear...

How long can he take it considering he is 56 now? But he runs 6 miles and working out daily and blood work is perfect since I am watching his ass...lol

Well i dont kno. He has to get out. I hope he doesnt end up murdering her or hiring someone. I mean im just saying. You see this shit on the news all the time.

I just divorced my husband after 16 years. I lost so much fucking money in that divorce its obscene. I also lost some properties to him and had to buy him out of one of our businesses. But guess what? Idgaf cause its just money and i will make it back.

I never been happier. Im engaged. We bought a house. Moving in Feb.

So he needs to make a choice. Money, or health and happiness.

Or he can die of a heart attack and she gets all his money. Tell him to PICK WHAT HE WANTS.

Fack.

People think money is everything. If he was smart at all he would be able to realize its JUST money and he can make it back.

Well what do i kno. I aint there. But good luck.

There is something I can’t post. But you right...

Except like I said...in his case - he is known by many and his business based on his perfect image! He is also perfect father to his adult kids whom he adores!

Changes are scaring him shitless due to his business relashionships that could be ruined by divorce! Too much to deal with and I am in no way pushing it! I know better! If it’ll come naturally - it’ll come.

Some just have to hit the wall! You did - you didn’t care anymore, right?

How long were you ‘getting ready’?

And why did you have to give him so much? We’re you both owning those assets? Divorce law is a joke! Isn’t it?

Yes i understamd about the public image. That is not something i had to deal with.

I had to give him so much because i only started my first business 6 years ago. So basically he is entitled to a lot of that credit as he was the one that helped by taking care of the kids while i built my business. It was either pay him off or make him a partner. Same concept with the properties. But also i want him to be ok because he is the father of my kids so I actually didnt mind that much. I didnt want to pay him spousal support every month so we came to an agreement with lump sum money and property instead.

I would prefer to pay him all at once and be done with it.

I was really done with him during the whole marriage. Finally the last two years were just too much so i said fuck it. I had spent the last two years moving money around "getting rid of it" so it looked like i had less assets for my divorce. I moved a lot of my properties into a fake company's name, I took on a "business partner" for one of my other businesses and sold most of my shares to them. I hid as much as I could. Its not hard if you have a good accountant and divorce lawyer. Anyway we are all happier now. He has a gf he lives with. We just spent The last 2 weeks together.

I took the whole family to turks and caicos

Then we all went to the family cottage for xmas and then niagara falls canada for new years. There was 16-20 of us for 2 weeks. Like always. Family is still important and i want everyone together no matter what. Maybe thats cause im a cancer 😂

I dont know what else to say. Shit happens. I understand image. Hopefully there will be a good end.

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Glad you are so strong and smart!

I am kind of ‘let me die’ now...

But I will pray and try to do what needs to be done. Like...nothing...

Thanks so much an again 👍 to you and Happy New Year!!! Best wishes!!! Wow! You rock woman!!!

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Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head.

I looked at my guy's ex on facebook, to make sure i was hotter. Luckily I am or i would have felt insecure AF. So sometimes "information" harms your relationship and it's better not to know.

I knew she supposed to be hot! By the way he looks - there is no way he would marry an ogur! Lol

She is about 100lb larger than me but we are same type. I do have my type as well!

But I was always secure about myself.

Even when I was a 250lb ogur...when we first met...lol

However I wish I didn’t see it. It was anfrigging error!

You can't judge shit by photos. People smile when they're pissed off or they move closer together just because the person holding the camera tells them to. It's not reflective of reality so there's no point analysing it. You saw it, your hotter. That's all you need to know. Don't think anything more than that or you'll do your head in. Relationships are already fucking rediculous without adding a wife into the equation. Shave your legs, wear some sexy underwear and do your hair and makeup and get your confidence up a few extra notches and move on.

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Thanks!!! Lmao

If you saw me at the first day we’ve met ...

I was ridiculous!

Great thing is that I know I don’t have to do ANYTHING to impress him!

It’s loke we’ve been married forever and I can look...hideous! He won’t care!

That’s what makes me think he loves me...

It’s a lot info I’ll spare but when you know this gorgeous man won’t mind empty your bed pan (if need to be) will do that - what else is there to say?

Shit! Life is challenging...I am taking the challenge!

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Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head.

I looked at my guy's ex on facebook, to make sure i was hotter. Luckily I am or i would have felt insecure AF. So sometimes "information" harms your relationship and it's better not to know.

"Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head."

If you love somebody, you will make up stories in your head, regardless 🙂

edit: I didnt mean you personally, but everybody who is in love, will make up stories in their head

I guess.... i think if you trust them completely, the stories aren't so scary

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No. Not scary! The only shot is scary is losing them...devastating thoughts!

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Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page.

On all the pictures I was able to see she is hanging in him and he is hands down. Even when he is smiling - hands down!

And nor me or him have FB. I’ve used someone else’s.

Is this body language saying anything?

And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...

Wondering if he will ever get outburst and actually gave her $ $ $ share and wouldn’t care about it.

Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Do you know who is her lover? is it ongoing? maybe the lover is on facebook as well, and posted some family pictures on his own, so the Scorp´s wife posted some family pictures as well.... find out, if the love has a facebook profile

or the wife posted the family picture only for the sake of extended family... do they have childen? who liked the pictures?

Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol.

"Trust an Aqua to go 10 steps further and stalk the whole friends list. Lol. "

🙂

Well, FB is not really a reliable source of information as it is a sea of pretention, but still, if you decide to go there and have a look, then do it properly 🙂 detective skills to gain perspective on who is pretending what...

I wouldnt call it stalking, its gaining information 🙂

pretentious lies, if there is a pattern, can be as useful as honest posts, to determine what kind of people you are dealing with, if you spot the difference

Sometimes it's better not to know so that you don't go making up stories in your head.

I looked at my guy's ex on facebook, to make sure i was hotter. Luckily I am or i would have felt insecure AF. So sometimes "information" harms your relationship and it's better not to know.

I knew she supposed to be hot! By the way he looks - there is no way he would marry an ogur! Lol

She is about 100lb larger than me but we are same type. I do have my type as well!

But I was always secure about myself.

Even when I was a 250lb ogur...when we first met...lol

However I wish I didn’t see it. It was anfrigging error!

You can't judge shit by photos. People smile when they're pissed off or they move closer together just because the person holding the camera tells them to. It's not reflective of reality so there's no point analysing it. You saw it, your hotter. That's all you need to know. Don't think anything more than that or you'll do your head in. Relationships are already fucking rediculous without adding a wife into the equation. Shave your legs, wear some sexy underwear and do your hair and makeup and get your confidence up a few extra notches and move on.

Thanks!!! Lmao

If you saw me at the first day we’ve met ...

I was ridiculous!

Great thing is that I know I don’t have to do ANYTHING to impress him!

It’s loke we’ve been married forever and I can look...hideous! He won’t care!

That’s what makes me think he loves me...

It’s a lot info I’ll spare but when you know this gorgeous man won’t mind empty your bed pan (if need to be) will do that - what else is there to say?

Shit! Life is challenging...I am taking the challenge!

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"Great thing is that I know I don’t have to do ANYTHING to impress him! "

its a great thing, indeed. Now, if you know for sure you dont HAVE TO do anything to impress him, maybe do something to impress him, because you want to? There is always a room for improvement and only you know, how to tie your personal improvement (if you want to) with impressing him

its always a good thing to impress the other, even after years.... be it a new colour, new outfit, new nail-polish... or some project, or a new skill.... anything really... and the main thing is, you dont do it only for him to be impressed, but for its for yourself and the side-benefit is, that he will be impressed

The challenge 🙂

I know you have gots to have a restraining order on file.... 👀 get you some help ..... And that's said with love..... Openly admitting to stalking .... Chile ..... So open and freely .... Just wow .... Get you some help before the patty wagon comes to pick you up..... Playing some dangerous devious games here... I see you....

Nobody with Good sense think it's cool that you stalking this man wife ..... The heck is wrong with people .... Folks is sick in the head out here .... Get help

And cat fishing .... A broad catfishing me now...... And she half dead too.... Keep this mess up..... You are playing Russian roulette

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Nobody with Good sense think it's cool that you stalking this man wife ..... The heck is wrong with people .... Folks is sick in the head out here .... Get help

Chill, dork! I saw it and never will again.

Wow sad. Take a look at yourself. It’s New Year’s Day and your cyber stalking your lovers wife and searching for something anything to validate your feelings.

What about being present for YOUR FAMILY instead of stalking his.

Also lol @ the ‘she cheated and gave me an std’ story. That’s what HE told you. And seeing as he’s the cheater (as evidenced by his 3 or is it 8 year affair with you) it’s far more likely he was the one to bring the std into the marriage bed.

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K so did you not catch the std?? Thats GROSS AF

Wipe this womans face from your brain or your relationship is over.

Betcha she caught the std from him and when she asked the scorp what’s up? He saw it as the perfect opportunity to pass the blame to his wife while also normalizing the cheating and shifting that blame on her as well. Smh

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Going to your old threads to hear the story

Brb

- Geminicandle is stuck in a loveless marriage with a Cap oaf.

- Geminicandle has been a married Scorp's bit on the side for many many years.

- Geminicandle has fallen for the Scorp's bullshit promises of a life together because that's what stupid thirsty sorry sumbitches do; they delude themselves. Ignorance is bliss.

- Geminicandle fails to realize she never had a chance of a life with him because she's nothing but the side poosay who always ends up dropped on the kerb.

- Geminicandle hates me & Jed because within 12 months we reached the stage I dreamed of reaching, and she is still stuck on the "side poosay" stage, just like last year......and the year before that......and the year before that.

There, I saved you from wasting 24 hours of your life that you'd never get back by reading that bullshit.

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Who is Geminicandle ?

@Gemitati

Post them and I will read their body language

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And I am not a snooppy. I was looking for his daughters FB

Creepy af. Leave his family alone. That’s the #1 rule of being a side chick.

After 8 years one would think you would’ve learned this by now...

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@Gemitati

Post them and I will read their body language

Good try! I can read it pretty well.

When she hangs over him and he stares into a camera - I don’t need Reading! Lol

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And cat fishing .... A broad catfishing me now...... And she half dead too.... Keep this mess up..... You are playing Russian roulette

What are you mumbling?

Old half dead woman after you?

So how is it anyone’s problem?

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Your interpretation may be biased though.

I actually only got that after a few hours while shock was wearing off...

I felt zombified...and then it hit me - he had not touched her back! And she was so happy and this is not what I hear about her.

So this staged performance is just for FB!

What blows my mind is that your doing all this for a dude with whom you admit the sex is BAD with.

It doesn’t make sense to me. If your going to cheat and for 8 years at that...shouldn’t you get some orgasms out of it? Your so sad.

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Oh no! We have such a sexual chemistry but sex is always bad! Too much passion and we are from different sex schools...

He said once ‘I am so hyped up I don’t know where I am and where you are...’ and it was just that! Like hillarious! He admits it! ‘I don’t know what I am doing!’ Lol

Eyes are crazy watery with passion.

I think best would be to hug and cry together...but man wants to be a man but he can’t! I mean fucking is going on but emotions are taking over and we are like...WTF? Mess! Frigging mess!

Except we aren’t here for an orgasms!

THATS the key!

We are here for togetherness...

And nothing else matters. We are TOGETHER holding each other and looking at each other! Breathing together skin to skin and dying from something that is above orgasm!

Funniest thing was...on a middle of sex he asks me...’so how is you new job’?

Hysterical laughing and falling in each other arms hugging and I wisper...’was I cursed to love an idiot like you? Why God why—’

And his stupid reply..,’you don’t have to love me...let’s just have sex’

‘But you don’t know HOW!!!’

‘So...you don’t love me?’

‘No! I love you anyway...’

‘Want some coffee?’

‘Yes...if you can make THAT good’

God help me...

Lol you say ‘we aren’t here for orgasms’. You might not be but he stays getting his.

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Your interpretation may be biased though.

I actually only got that after a few hours while shock was wearing off...

I felt zombified...and then it hit me - he had not touched her back! And she was so happy and this is not what I hear about her.

So this staged performance is just for FB!

And..

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...fuck FB!!! Lmao...

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Your interpretation may be biased though.

I actually only got that after a few hours while shock was wearing off...

I felt zombified...and then it hit me - he had not touched her back! And she was so happy and this is not what I hear about her.

So this staged performance is just for FB!

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It’s equally as likely that she is happy in her marriage, faithful, and fucks her husband on the regular.

Lol your gonna believe what you want to believe. It makes it easier for you to normalize your home wrecker behavior to think she is really unhappy and cheating herself. But not everyone is you 🤷‍♀️

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Has it crossed your mind about the likelihood he banged another person besides you and the wife

Of course! Except I know he doesn’t. Don’t ask how. I don’t need bucket of shit on my head. 🧐

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I wrote a very long post but decided to erase it.

This type of relationship with a gemini-scorpio is very yang driven though.

Why have you erased it? 😢

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@Gemitati

Post them and I will read their body language

Good try! I can read it pretty well.

When she hangs over him and he stares into a camera - I don’t need Reading! Lol

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How can you even stand to be in this situation though ?

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@Gemitati

Post them and I will read their body language

Good try! I can read it pretty well.

When she hangs over him and he stares into a camera - I don’t need Reading! Lol

How can you even stand to be in this situation though ?

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Love is a powerful thing.

Hope dies last.

Etc. etc. etc.

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Posted by queenaries_
Going to your old threads to hear the story

Brb

- Geminicandle is stuck in a loveless marriage with a Cap oaf.

- Geminicandle has been a married Scorp's bit on the side for many many years.

- Geminicandle has fallen for the Scorp's bullshit promises of a life together because that's what stupid thirsty sorry sumbitches do; they delude themselves. Ignorance is bliss.

- Geminicandle fails to realize she never had a chance of a life with him because she's nothing but the side poosay who always ends up dropped on the kerb.

- Geminicandle hates me & Jed because within 12 months we reached the stage I dreamed of reaching, and she is still stuck on the "side poosay" stage, just like last year......and the year before that......and the year before that.

There, I saved you from wasting 24 hours of your life that you'd never get back by reading that bullshit.

Who is Geminicandle ?

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Gemitati's previous DXP incarnation.

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Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page. 😆



And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...



Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Did you find out cause he passed it to you too, so all 4 of you had to go get medicine?

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Posted by Gemitati
Accidentally on purpose stumbled upon his wife FB page. 😆



And yessss - all those pictures were taken after he found out she had been fooling around and got STD from her lover...



Fire up! I need some bitching going on.

It’s a New Year!!! Shit...I shouldn’t have.

I know...

Did you find out cause he passed it to you too, so all 4 of you had to go get medicine?

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No! I am still waiting...🤣🤣🤣

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You're an ugly bitch, he's an ugly bitch. You're perfect for each other, no doubt about it.

We are...perfect for each other!

But about ugly...there is no plastic surgeon that will make you look as good! So keep it up with stupid comments! 🖕