Shaymaci
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Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Do Mindfulness with him! It will help him release anger in a healthy way. There are two mindfulness apps for the phone/ tech devices that may help:
https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/the-mindfulness-app-meditation-for-everyone/id417071430?mt=8
https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjnhtfNzvXVAhWQZX4KHZKjChAYABAAGgJwYw&sig=AOD64_3z8old0JjAXp5J6TJoq4shc4V3hA&q=&ved=0ahUKEwjk-NHNzvXVAhWIiVQKHdELDmYQ0QwIIg&adurl=
At first he may be like a wtf but it actually helps
https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/the-mindfulness-app-meditation-for-everyone/id417071430?mt=8
https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjnhtfNzvXVAhWQZX4KHZKjChAYABAAGgJwYw&sig=AOD64_3z8old0JjAXp5J6TJoq4shc4V3hA&q=&ved=0ahUKEwjk-NHNzvXVAhWIiVQKHdELDmYQ0QwIIg&adurl=
At first he may be like a wtf but it actually helps
Posted by Wineaux15This actually sounds like a good idea if I can get him to try it. Thank you.
Do Mindfulness with him! It will help him release anger in a healthy way. There are two mindfulness apps for the phone/ tech devices that may help:
https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/the-mindfulness-app-meditation-for-everyone/id417071430?mt=8
https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjnhtfNzvXVAhWQZX4KHZKjChAYABAAGgJwYw&sig=AOD64_3z8old0JjAXp5J6TJoq4shc4V3hA&q=&ved=0ahUKEwjk-NHNzvXVAhWIiVQKHdELDmYQ0QwIIg&adurl=
At first he may be like a wtf but it actually helps
Posted by drunkghostBoxing ??
sign him up for boxing maybe zumba to lighten up
God. The poor soul on the receiving end ??
Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
he got libra moon right?
it's probably he cant stand people that lack manners.
my man has only pluto libra
and today, we were looking at a bride and groom, with professional photographers taking photos of them, they looked so gorgeous!! and they were speaking in a strange language.
so i said in also a foreign language, 'what language are they talking." and the photographers passed right by...
and my man goes, "my god! it's not polite to talk about them while they are passing by."
"should i do so straight to their face? like, hey what tongue do you speak?"
I thought Jeeez. what a Libra thing to do!!! and he has NO personal planets in libra. just that pluto.
he got embaressed a bit. but of course he said that in a different tongue too.
He ran off, lol
I was like, lmao. omg.
then later he was all, huggle buggle. lol
but omg the politeness...jesus christ.
i know what politeness is.
Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??click to expand
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Posted by lisabethur8Yes, he does.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
he got libra moon right?
it's probably he cant stand people that lack manners.
my man has only pluto libra
and today, we were looking at a bride and groom, with professional photographers taking photos of them, they looked so gorgeous!! and they were speaking in a strange language.
so i said in also a foreign language, 'what language are they talking." and the photographers passed right by...
and my man goes, "my god! it's not polite to talk about them while they are passing by."
"should i do so straight to their face? like, hey what tongue do you speak?"
I thought Jeeez. what a Libra thing to do!!! and he has NO personal planets in libra. just that pluto.
he got embaressed a bit. but of course he said that in a different tongue too.
He ran off, lol
I was like, lmao. omg.
then later he was all, huggle buggle. lol
but omg the politeness...jesus christ.
i know what politeness is.
click to expand
I can actually see this.
Disrespect is like not having manners.
And he's big on respect.
Thank you ❤
Posted by ReincarnationHe doesn't suck, that's the problem. ?Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
Encourage him to do kickboxing or BJJ. He needs to get that anger out.
He will also get humbled when he realizes he probably sucks at fighting.click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.click to expand
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
Posted by ReincarnationHe's skilled ?Posted by shaymaciPosted by drunkghostBoxing ??
sign him up for boxing maybe zumba to lighten up
God. The poor soul on the receiving end ??
Unskilled fighter is an unskilled fighter.
Sun sign or anger means nothing.click to expand
I just want him to stop.
What if the cops were called or something?
It's not good.
I was having this issue. I had represses anger from being physically abused by my soon to be ex husband and went to a "Title Boxing Gym"... best thing I could've done! When I first started I had a female trainer and she said she'd hate to go against me in a street fight ??!!
In all honesty I hate fighting BUT if you mess with me I got this two piece waiting...
Going to Title helped me so much get this aggression off of my chest, kept me toned and sexy, and built my confidence. That may be exactly what he needs.
In all honesty I hate fighting BUT if you mess with me I got this two piece waiting...
Going to Title helped me so much get this aggression off of my chest, kept me toned and sexy, and built my confidence. That may be exactly what he needs.
Posted by ReincarnationHis whole life. Fighting.Posted by shaymaciPosted by ReincarnationHe's skilled ?Posted by shaymaciPosted by drunkghostBoxing ??
sign him up for boxing maybe zumba to lighten up
God. The poor soul on the receiving end ??
Unskilled fighter is an unskilled fighter.
Sun sign or anger means nothing.
I just want him to stop.
What if the cops were called or something?
It's not good.
He's "skilled"?
How many years of training doing what?click to expand
I'm not telling you the specifics, those are his private tellings, and I will not share them.
But fighting was necessary, therefore, he got good.
Posted by Wineaux15I'm going to see if he's interested in that. He's good. He's very calculated. He needs an outlet
I was having this issue. I had represses anger from being physically abused by my soon to be ex husband and went to a "Title Boxing Gym"... best thing I could've done! When I first started I had a female trainer and she said she'd hate to go against me in a street fight ??!!
In all honesty I hate fighting BUT if you mess with me I got this two piece waiting...
Going to Title helped me so much get this aggression off of my chest, kept me toned and sexy, and built my confidence. That may be exactly what he needs.
Sometimes it takes more strength not to hit someone...he should agree to that...if he loses his cool...that is weakness...
...the fact that it is tough for him not to hit someone...where he can't resist his impulses...
....weakness.
He's not going to read this and come after me now is he? Lol
Assault by hand or by gun...both illegal...
...there are people who shoot after getting disrespected... ....would he agree that that's stupid?
...self-defense is another story... ...someone picking a fight verbally doesn't provide self-defense...
...someone physically assaulting you does warrant self-defense measures...
...ask him if he wants to be cool or out of control?
...the fact that it is tough for him not to hit someone...where he can't resist his impulses...
....weakness.
He's not going to read this and come after me now is he? Lol
Assault by hand or by gun...both illegal...
...there are people who shoot after getting disrespected... ....would he agree that that's stupid?
...self-defense is another story... ...someone picking a fight verbally doesn't provide self-defense...
...someone physically assaulting you does warrant self-defense measures...
...ask him if he wants to be cool or out of control?
Posted by ReincarnationI agree with RreincarnationPosted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
Encourage him to do kickboxing or BJJ. He needs to get that anger out.
He will also get humbled when he realizes he probably sucks at fighting.click to expand
We got our Scorp son a punch bag and boxing gloves and encouraged him to punch the hell out of it when he was younger
He never becomes aggressive with people now as he has learned how to channel it in a more appropriate way
Posted by Piscis_HominisHe's not going to come after you. Lol.
Sometimes it takes more strength not to hit someone...he should agree to that...if he loses his cool...that is weakness...
...the fact that it is tough for him not to hit someone...where he can't resist his impulses...
....weakness.
He's not going to read this and come after me now is he? Lol
Assault by hand or by gun...both illegal...
...there are people who shoot after getting disrespected... ....would he agree that that's stupid?
...self-defense is another story... ...someone picking a fight verbally doesn't provide self-defense...
...someone physically assaulting you does warrant self-defense measures...
...ask him if he wants to be cool or out of control?
I will ask. Thank you ❤
Posted by tizianiThen let me elaborate as to reduce the number of assumptions here, as none of you see him or his chart.
No offence since it's your man and you're going to present him in the best light, but you asked for advice and people are pointing out something that seems correct to me. It's just a lack of belief in himself. Can't change if you don't confront things as they are.
We see it in the gym with the new guys all the time. If you just fight people you know you can beat, then you don't really believe in yourself enough to acknowledge how much risk you're inviting in every other sense - injuring someone fatally, or catching a charge that hangs on you for life.
The strongest fighters we have, (key thing: they believe in themselves) train for self defence only. They don't need the headaches otherwise. He should join a gym/group/community where the organizers have a good rep, catch a few losses and he will see the bigger picture.
He has NO self esteem problems. He USED to be arrogant and conceited, he has been humbled through hard experience.
He is not huge, he's got maybe an inch or two on me, and I'm 5'7. They guys he's fighting are a hell of a lot bigger. He feels like he will hurt someone his size, granted, he probably would.
This is not a ego or self esteem thing.
This is not a "fighting weaker guys" thing.
He's very blunt, he's very honest.
He takes a lot off of people, surprisingly.
He just does NOT tolerate disrespect.
To him, or his loved ones.
Please do not turn this into something it's not.
This isn't a macho thing, his view of himself is fine (again, I say humble, he is very respectful until you disrespect him).
And again. I want to show him how to walk away.
Regardless of how disrespectful they were.
His scorpio Mars is in the 1St house, conjunct his ascendant and his sun.
I PROMISE, he thinks highly of himself and it used to be higher!
People push and push and push, and when he finally snaps, it's bad because he has the real ability to hurt someone.
If you knew him, you'd understand how this is a problem. He's VERY sweet, nice, respectful, and honest.
It's when other people keep poking that he snaps. And you do have to poke a hell of a lot.
Maybe what he needs is a better way to hold his temper?
Does this color it better for you guys?
Posted by tizianiAnd I thank you.Posted by shaymaciPosted by tizianiThen let me elaborate as to reduce the number of assumptions here, as none of you see him or his chart.
No offence since it's your man and you're going to present him in the best light, but you asked for advice and people are pointing out something that seems correct to me. It's just a lack of belief in himself. Can't change if you don't confront things as they are.
We see it in the gym with the new guys all the time. If you just fight people you know you can beat, then you don't really believe in yourself enough to acknowledge how much risk you're inviting in every other sense - injuring someone fatally, or catching a charge that hangs on you for life.
The strongest fighters we have, (key thing: they believe in themselves) train for self defence only. They don't need the headaches otherwise. He should join a gym/group/community where the organizers have a good rep, catch a few losses and he will see the bigger picture.
He has NO self esteem problems. He USED to be arrogant and conceited, he has been humbled through hard experience.
He is not huge, he's got maybe an inch or two on me, and I'm 5'7. They guys he's fighting are a hell of a lot bigger. He feels like he will hurt someone his size, granted, he probably would.
This is not a ego or self esteem thing.
This is not a "fighting weaker guys" thing.
He's very blunt, he's very honest.
He takes a lot off of people, surprisingly.
He just does NOT tolerate disrespect.
To him, or his loved ones.
Please do not turn this into something it's not.
This isn't a macho thing, his view of himself is fine (again, I say humble, he is very respectful until you disrespect him).
And again. I want to show him how to walk away.
Regardless of how disrespectful they were.
His scorpio Mars is in the 1St house, conjunct his ascendant and his sun.
I PROMISE, he thinks highly of himself and it used to be higher!
People push and push and push, and when he finally snaps, it's bad because he has the real ability to hurt someone.
If you knew him, you'd understand how this is a problem. He's VERY sweet, nice, respectful, and honest.
It's when other people keep poking that he snaps. And you do have to poke a hell of a lot.
Maybe what he needs is a better way to hold his temper?
Does this color it better for you guys?
To me if there's enough self belief there, walking away is no longer a problem. The thing about judging what is disrespectful comes down to how he sees it, and that be a totally different conversation which I have no clue about, personally. Everyone has their own values on that front. But either what I and others suggested was something to try as far as fixing the "getting into fights" problem.click to expand
It's time to see what works. ?
Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
Posted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?click to expand
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
You like that about him.
So stop.
So stop.
Posted by PhoenixRisingThis makes a lot of sense.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingMessing with his loved ones seems to be the fastest way.Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
click to expand
Posted by TomSawyerA mix of both
So is he fighting or wanting to fight?
Posted by Havoc077I don't like the worrying.
You like that about him.
So stop.
Posted by shaymaci
Then let me elaborate as to reduce the number of assumptions here, as none of you see him or his chart.
He has NO self esteem problems. He USED to be arrogant and conceited, he has been humbled through hard experience.
He is not huge, he's got maybe an inch or two on me, and I'm 5'7. They guys he's fighting are a hell of a lot bigger. He feels like he will hurt someone his size, granted, he probably would.
This is not a ego or self esteem thing.
This is not a "fighting weaker guys" thing.
He's very blunt, he's very honest.
He takes a lot off of people, surprisingly.
He just does NOT tolerate disrespect.
To him, or his loved ones.
Please do not turn this into something it's not.
This isn't a macho thing, his view of himself is fine (again, I say humble, he is very respectful until you disrespect him).
And again. I want to show him how to walk away.
Regardless of how disrespectful they were.
His scorpio Mars is in the 1St house, conjunct his ascendant and his sun.
I PROMISE, he thinks highly of himself and it used to be higher!
People push and push and push, and when he finally snaps, it's bad because he has the real ability to hurt someone.
If you knew him, you'd understand how this is a problem. He's VERY sweet, nice, respectful, and honest.
It's when other people keep poking that he snaps. And you do have to poke a hell of a lot.
Maybe what he needs is a better way to hold his temper?
Does this color it better for you guys?
I think I have to agree with what Tiz stated about you seeing him in a certain way, because there are glaring things I read in this post alone.
Anyway, since no one here is going to change your mind based on the last few things you wrote above he can't hold his temper until he changes how he views himself in relation to others. There is no other way around that, it doesn't matter how many punching bags he hits. I'm not suggesting he has low self esteem etc...Simply, to walk away (as you're hoping he will do) despite someone poking you (with words or otherwise) requires him to learn that the things that people say don't matter. Other people words do not change who he is. They don't have the power to. Only his actions will change who he is. You don't get that, you will be fighting the "world" forever.
Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingMessing with his loved ones seems to be the fastest way.Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
click to expand
Physically, or talking sh*t?
people have already said it but mindfulness and maybe like kung fu or some sort of martial art form. some people are naturally a little more physical and emotional, Scorpio is one of these which is why i personally love them. hate the struggles they go thru but it is what it is. we all have our issues and dealing with anger in a healthy way can be difficult for some. the fact that he has a sensitive, understanding gf like you helps. hopefully, in time he can learn the discipline he needs to point that passion in a positive direction.
Posted by PhoenixRisingBoth.Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingMessing with his loved ones seems to be the fastest way.Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
Physically, or talking sh*t?
click to expand
Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingBoth.Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingMessing with his loved ones seems to be the fastest way.Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
Physically, or talking sh*t?
click to expand
Hmmmm. well I would be lying if I said I would let something physical slide. It does take a lot of restraint on my part, but my go to is often go for the jugular. I just don't (anymore 😈). There was a time when I would have a very quick and strong reaction to someone attempting to (verbally of physically) attack someone I cared about. I don't know I guess I just learned to take people out using my head instead a physical approach and that always stung much more. I also had to learn (not including real physical harm) that I need to let the people in my life make their own choice and decisions to deal with the situation at hand.
May I suggest you simply talk to him. Not in a trying to convince him to change sort of way, just allow him to talk and listen---I am saying this not knowing how you two truly engage each other. Trying to tell him he's wrong for his approach will only make him feel misunderstood and hold onto that way of being more. You never see how fixed we can truly be until we are upset and someone is trying to tell us we are wrong.
Anyway, it's in the moments when I wasn't activated by my anger that I opened up more about what was really going on for me and it was truly calm, but blunt statements from (oddly people I hated lol, but grew to love) that helped me shift.
Posted by PhoenixRisingI love this ❤Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingBoth.Posted by shaymaciPosted by PhoenixRisingMessing with his loved ones seems to be the fastest way.Posted by shaymaciPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNot every single person ??Posted by shaymaciObviously he's not because something does get under his skin. Those at peace with themselves don't get easily triggered. If I attacked every single person who's ever had a go at me, I'd never have time for anything else.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowNo. It's not that.
Sounds like someone with inferiority complex or self esteem issues. People like that have a thin skin and get really defensive.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
Putting someone in their place is one thing, going ballistic is another.
Just the ones who disrespect him, and I do mean they push him too.
Like, wtf?
How do they disrespect him? Examples please.
Physically, or talking sh*t?
Hmmmm. well I would be lying if I said I would let something physical slide. It does take a lot of restraint on my part, but my go to is often go for the jugular. I just don't (anymore 😈). There was a time when I would have a very quick and strong reaction to someone attempting to (verbally of physically) attack someone I cared about. I don't know I guess I just learned to take people out using my head instead a physical approach and that always stung much more. I also had to learn (not including real physical harm) that I need to let the people in my life make their own choice and decisions to deal with the situation at hand.
May I suggest you simply talk to him. Not in a trying to convince him to change sort of way, just allow him to talk and listen---I am saying this not knowing how you two truly engage each other. Trying to tell him he's wrong for his approach will only make him feel misunderstood and hold onto that way of being more. You never see how fixed we can truly be until we are upset and someone is trying to tell us we are wrong.
Anyway, it's in the moments when I wasn't activated by my anger that I opened up more about what was really going on for me and it was truly calm, but blunt statements from (oddly people I hated lol, but grew to love) that helped me shift.
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Thank you.
Posted by lionsparkHe doesn't beat up everyone. You really have to push him. And I do mean push.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fearclick to expand
Posted by shaymacii like PhoenixRising's post and also Piscis_Hominis too.Posted by PhoenixRisingThis makes a lot of sense.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
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remember the example i gave you the other day on this topic?
i dont like men who will charge and hurt people. and my man doesn't do that. if he did i would always be in terror, because if he does that to other people he would also lose his shit to me...
they are hair - trigger dangerous to me. i dont like that at all. I want to feel safe.
if he feels disrespected, he needs to realize that people are NOT the same and let it go and just not hang around with those types. He should IMO put little contact with them. My man will never be around people that stress him out or make him upset. He just wont. he has the "control" in which he can do that. If it's beyond your man's control, that is his choice. it seems he WANTS to be in that situation. or just wants to control others to be in his own way, or control them to be respectable?
Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fearclick to expand
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.
Posted by lisabethur8This does make a lot of sense. All that scorpioPosted by shaymacii like PhoenixRising's post and also Piscis_Hominis too.Posted by PhoenixRisingThis makes a lot of sense.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
remember the example i gave you the other day on this topic?
i dont like men who will charge and hurt people. and my man doesn't do that. if he did i would always be in terror, because if he does that to other people he would also lose his shit to me...
they are hair - trigger dangerous to me. i dont like that at all. I want to feel safe.
if he feels disrespected, he needs to realize that people are NOT the same and let it go and just not hang around with those types. He should IMO put little contact with them. My man will never be around people that stress him out or make him upset. He just wont. he has the "control" in which he can do that. If it's beyond your man's control, that is his choice. it seems he WANTS to be in that situation. or just wants to control others to be in his own way, or control them to be respectable?click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8it is definitely about control. that's why i mentioned kung fu... it's helped my ex to go from a passionate, fist-clenching mess to the stoic, considerate person he is today. sure he has issues with anger still bc he's passionate. but today he doesn't feel the need to "knock" sense into people lol. 1st person shooter games are good for him too...Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fear
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.click to expand
i think they have to realize at some point that restraint takes even greater control and commands even more respect.
Posted by shaymacihm i dont know, it really really depends. including my man, i know of other scorpio sun males and they never hurt a fly. yes they can get really really angry but normally will not hurt anyone. i just notice that they keep to themselves and will never get into a situation or place that will allow others to make them that way, or push them.Posted by lisabethur8This does make a lot of sense. All that scorpioPosted by shaymacii like PhoenixRising's post and also Piscis_Hominis too.Posted by PhoenixRisingThis makes a lot of sense.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
remember the example i gave you the other day on this topic?
i dont like men who will charge and hurt people. and my man doesn't do that. if he did i would always be in terror, because if he does that to other people he would also lose his shit to me...
they are hair - trigger dangerous to me. i dont like that at all. I want to feel safe.
if he feels disrespected, he needs to realize that people are NOT the same and let it go and just not hang around with those types. He should IMO put little contact with them. My man will never be around people that stress him out or make him upset. He just wont. he has the "control" in which he can do that. If it's beyond your man's control, that is his choice. it seems he WANTS to be in that situation. or just wants to control others to be in his own way, or control them to be respectable?click to expand
even my husband's cousin, who is a professional athlete, i even notice that alot of older women, admire him, even feel really magnetized by him, and i also notice he never ever puts himself in any situation that gives him temptation to do anything bad. (remember he is more "out there as a competitive sport" band for that, he's not much of a homebody and alot of women especially the older women are a bit too much -- younger women are too obvious. lol when they admire a man... but older women are wiley and sneaky like that. not all...of course just giving examples)
he is too smart for that and does not want to hurt his family, his livlihood. i'm just giving examples. Scorpio is a very magnetizing energy for men to have, imo. so alot of people might be tempted around him. So he always "chooses" the type of company he keeps. he has to TRUST.
they just will never be around those types of people, that will make them harm themselves or others; because they already can feel that it is a bad thing. it's more like being wise too. hope i explain it ok.
Posted by AbbyNormalmen are normally competitive. so they have to channel their energy in sports, or any competitive energy.Posted by lisabethur8it is definitely about control. that's why i mentioned kung fu... it's helped my ex to go from a passionate, fist-clenching mess to the stoic, considerate person he is today. sure he has issues with anger still bc he's passionate. but today he doesn't feel the need to "knock" sense into people lol. 1st person shooter games are good for him too...Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fear
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.
click to expand
it's the most healthy way. and if you make money doing it, that's even better.
Posted by lisabethur8right?! even coaching sports is a great way to practice patience as well as get out some energy!Posted by AbbyNormalmen are normally competitive. so they have to channel their energy in sports, or any competitive energy.Posted by lisabethur8it is definitely about control. that's why i mentioned kung fu... it's helped my ex to go from a passionate, fist-clenching mess to the stoic, considerate person he is today. sure he has issues with anger still bc he's passionate. but today he doesn't feel the need to "knock" sense into people lol. 1st person shooter games are good for him too...Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fear
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.
it's the most healthy way. and if you make money doing it, that's even better.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by lisabethur8right?! even coaching sports is a great way to practice patience as well as get out some energy out!Posted by AbbyNormalmen are normally competitive. so they have to channel their energy in sports, or any competitive energy.Posted by lisabethur8it is definitely about control. that's why i mentioned kung fu... it's helped my ex to go from a passionate, fist-clenching mess to the stoic, considerate person he is today. sure he has issues with anger still bc he's passionate. but today he doesn't feel the need to "knock" sense into people lol. 1st person shooter games are good for him too...Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fear
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.
it's the most healthy way. and if you make money doing it, that's even better.
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oh my god. YES. indeed.
*nods*
you understand scorpio (the men) testosterone.
Posted by lisabethur8enough to know you can't MAKE them do shit either tho LOLPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by lisabethur8right?! even coaching sports is a great way to practice patience as well as get out some energy out!Posted by AbbyNormalmen are normally competitive. so they have to channel their energy in sports, or any competitive energy.Posted by lisabethur8it is definitely about control. that's why i mentioned kung fu... it's helped my ex to go from a passionate, fist-clenching mess to the stoic, considerate person he is today. sure he has issues with anger still bc he's passionate. but today he doesn't feel the need to "knock" sense into people lol. 1st person shooter games are good for him too...Posted by lionsparkexactly.Posted by RozaeonPosted by PhoenixRisingIt's not true, you can be humble, laid back, chill etc and then after a certain amount of time lose your shit because someone push the wrong button over and over again. We all don't have an infinite patiencePosted by shaymaci
No. It's not that.
He's very humble and very laid back, very chill.
He doesn't tolerate disrespect.
But sometimes people could just be ignorant or something.
He doesn't need to fight ??
One can't be humble, laid back and "vey chill" and then lose their sh*t because they feel someone isn't respecting them. You are what your actions reflect.
No one in this world has to respect you. They choose to. And punching someone in the face isn't going to magically change that attitude lol.
You're right, he doesn't need to fight. Short of defending yourself from a physical attack, you can stand up for yourself without getting physical.
I also agree/disagree with the " you are what your actions reflect " because, what you do on a daily basis with a clear mind reflect who you are ok but when you act, for example, under pressure that doesn't reflect who you are at all. It depends on the circumstance, what you are going though, your state of mind etc
Another thing : " no one in the world has to respect you " ... What does that mean ? I'm sorry but you will see someone and say to yourself " well i don't like his/her face so i'm gonna disrespect him because i don't have to respect anyone " ?
When you are asking for something, you do it with respect and you expect respect in return i am wrong ?
If you gave to beat up someone anyone that doesnt respect you, you're no less than a tyrant.
Respect is not earned through fear
that is TYRANNY. you tryng to control other people's actions.
it's the most healthy way. and if you make money doing it, that's even better.
oh my god. YES. indeed.
*nods*
you understand scorpio (the men) testosterone.
click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8You did.Posted by shaymacihm i dont know, it really really depends. including my man, i know of other scorpio sun males and they never hurt a fly. yes they can get really really angry but normally will not hurt anyone. i just notice that they keep to themselves and will never get into a situation or place that will allow others to make them that way, or push them.Posted by lisabethur8This does make a lot of sense. All that scorpioPosted by shaymacii like PhoenixRising's post and also Piscis_Hominis too.Posted by PhoenixRisingThis makes a lot of sense.Posted by shaymaci
Guys.
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.
You're not gonna want to hear this, but basically he's going to need someone/something to humble him for him to learn how to chill out. He will learn that though, at some point.
I have a hot temper and it wasn't a relationship or people coddling me that changed that for me.
remember the example i gave you the other day on this topic?
i dont like men who will charge and hurt people. and my man doesn't do that. if he did i would always be in terror, because if he does that to other people he would also lose his shit to me...
they are hair - trigger dangerous to me. i dont like that at all. I want to feel safe.
if he feels disrespected, he needs to realize that people are NOT the same and let it go and just not hang around with those types. He should IMO put little contact with them. My man will never be around people that stress him out or make him upset. He just wont. he has the "control" in which he can do that. If it's beyond your man's control, that is his choice. it seems he WANTS to be in that situation. or just wants to control others to be in his own way, or control them to be respectable?
even my husband's cousin, who is a professional athlete, i even notice that alot of older women, admire him, even feel really magnetized by him, and i also notice he never ever puts himself in any situation that gives him temptation to do anything bad. (remember he is more "out there as a competitive sport" band for that, he's not much of a homebody and alot of women especially the older women are a bit too much -- younger women are too obvious. lol when they admire a man... but older women are wiley and sneaky like that. not all...of course just giving examples)
he is too smart for that and does not want to hurt his family, his livlihood. i'm just giving examples. Scorpio is a very magnetizing energy for men to have, imo. so alot of people might be tempted around him. So he always "chooses" the type of company he keeps. he has to TRUST.
they just will never be around those types of people, that will make them harm themselves or others; because they already can feel that it is a bad thing. it's more like being wise too. hope i explain it ok.click to expand
Thank you ❤
Respect is huge for me too, and my temper can be too much but that doesn't condone violence.
The best way I look at it is every time I get upset, like truly angry and lash out, I feel so guilty and terrible about it later. Now, before I get angry, I think about the regret, shame and guilt I feel after my explosion and consider if its even worth it... It never is.
The best way I look at it is every time I get upset, like truly angry and lash out, I feel so guilty and terrible about it later. Now, before I get angry, I think about the regret, shame and guilt I feel after my explosion and consider if its even worth it... It never is.
Posted by wildflowerThis is helpful as fuck. You have similar placements too!
Respect is huge for me too, and my temper can be too much but that doesn't condone violence.
The best way I look at it is every time I get upset, like truly angry and lash out, I feel so guilty and terrible about it later. Now, before I get angry, I think about the regret, shame and guilt I feel after my explosion and consider if its even worth it... It never is.
He just needs to grow up
Nothing you can do for him but let him learn his own life lessons
Nothing you can do for him but let him learn his own life lessons
Posted by julietteeI don't. After an abusive relationship, I am now hyper vigilant. He knows this. He doesn't show any kinds of signs of being abusive to me, but because of my experience, I can't help but watch. He actually hates men that hit women.
Sorry but he has anger issues. And instead of martial arts or whatever where he could learn to srsly hurt someone, going to therapy would be a better choice.
I honestly pray this won't be the case with you guys, but my ex was always mad at someone else. Cause they disrespected him. Until one they he decided that i disrespect him.
So don't take this lightly just in case.
Posted by GC02Anyone who has a problem with him has no knowledge of me.
.....I broke up with a Gemini for acting like this. It's unpleasant & didn't want to have people come for me because he likes to act crazy.
You must have a lot of patience to deal with that.
I am patient. Very.
But he's private.
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I know 3 ppl with scorpio rising. these ppl have got to be the creepiest ppl on earth, esp the one with Aqua sun. I just had to write this down, lol therapeutic. I dont see what scorpio risers have in common wit scorpio suns..
I say this because I have Scorpio friends and can't keep them .
Scorpio dude (the one with mostly fire placements) is coming on VERY strong. Very nice guy. Today he brought me lunch and coffee to my house before I left for work, just dropped it off and left. I said I was on a no carb diet until I left on vacation. so,
I know there are some people on here who will get their panties in a wad over this post, but I seriously want to know...
I know this does not apply to every Scorp. However, this applies to every Scorp I know, and I know quite a few:
Why do Scorpios
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Since we broke up, he sends me messages sometime, but I did feel good because he broke up with me. I keep doing good in my life. I got his m
How do you work with a scorpio's moods, control & oversensativity?
The majority of our arguments are because he takes offence to something i do or say. He gives me the cold shoulder and silent treatment. I try to get him to discuss why he's upset wit
Are any other scorpios having so much bad luck happen all at once or is it just me?
The past 4 days:
- my bike got stolen
- I get an unexpected huge random bill due immediately and I am broke af right now
- I buy some couches but am an idiot an
Wouldn't that be a Heaven in Hell?
I need some serious advice.
My bae loves a fight.
Not with me. With other people.
Scorpio sun, rising, Mars. All in the 1St. All conjunct.
He's something serious and is BIG on respect.
My problem lies in when someone disrespects him or pisses him off, he won't back down.
He is cool, until you push that button.
He comes to me, and I love on him, only to find his hand is hurting cause he wants to bust some unfortunate soul in the face.
How do I just, I dunno, help him let things go?
Hold his temper?
Something.