@Libralove813
7 Years
Help! My Scorpio Man has iced me out (Page 3)
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You two don't sound compatible.
It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.
You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?
I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.
This was once incident
It's one of several according to you:
Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.
He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.
Anyway thanks
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Sounds like you're back pedaling especially because you stated that you both "debated" with each other more than you liked, which really sounds like an indirect way of admitting you guys argued a lot.
Either way I don't care enough to "debate" this further.
Good luck with your shit show.
My advice and it is the correct advice: step back and step away. Don't call, text, email - basically stop giving a fuck. He's the one that's bent out of shape, he needs to straighten things out. Everything you're doing, it is not helping.
He knows what your ass smells like, he can find his way back home if he wants to. You on the other hand, start looking somewhere else and get your mind off of this. You've already done what you could. If he comes back, find us here again.
THANK YOU!!! I have not reached out in two days. You are right, I've done all I can do. I am usually not this apologetic nor eager, but I really liked him. I usually match cold with cold as a defense, but I chose humility over pride bc I care about him and I know part of my response was hurtful. But I've backed off. Thank you for your candor yet encouragement. I'll update y'all if there's one to be had
There will be an update, so all you have to do is sit back and do other things. Whether that's volunteering for charity or putting sex toys to good use, you mind your own business.
I always say this: no matter how bad you or the other person fuck things up, if you touch their heart in any way, they will remember you... always.
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Given everything everyone says about Scorpios, there's truth in your statement. I went out tonight so I'm getting busy celebrating the days leading up to my birthday!!
I like to post on social media and I know he watches me. Should I stop?
You two don't sound compatible.
It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.
You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?
I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.
This was once incident
It's one of several according to you:
Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.
He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.
Anyway thanks
Sounds like you're back pedaling especially because you stated that you both "debated" with each other more than you liked, which really sounds like an indirect way of admitting you guys argued a lot.
Either way I don't care enough to "debate" this further.
Good luck with your shit show.
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Thank you for not caring enough to move on.
You two don't sound compatible.
It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.
You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?
I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.
This was once incident
It's one of several according to you:
Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.
He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.
Anyway thanks
What else did you both argue about?
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My advice and it is the correct advice: step back and step away. Don't call, text, email - basically stop giving a fuck. He's the one that's bent out of shape, he needs to straighten things out. Everything you're doing, it is not helping.
He knows what your ass smells like, he can find his way back home if he wants to. You on the other hand, start looking somewhere else and get your mind off of this. You've already done what you could. If he comes back, find us here again.
THANK YOU!!! I have not reached out in two days. You are right, I've done all I can do. I am usually not this apologetic nor eager, but I really liked him. I usually match cold with cold as a defense, but I chose humility over pride bc I care about him and I know part of my response was hurtful. But I've backed off. Thank you for your candor yet encouragement. I'll update y'all if there's one to be had
There will be an update, so all you have to do is sit back and do other things. Whether that's volunteering for charity or putting sex toys to good use, you mind your own business.
I always say this: no matter how bad you or the other person fuck things up, if you touch their heart in any way, they will remember you... always.
Given everything everyone says about Scorpios, there's truth in your statement. I went out tonight so I'm getting busy celebrating the days leading up to my birthday!!
I like to post on social media and I know he watches me. Should I stop?
He is watching you. Keep your post private only to your friends and family. Complete radio silence with him directly in every way possible.
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Got it! Thank you
[UPDATED] These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
ADDED mine 😊
Sidereal time
Sun in Libra
Moon was in Taurus
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Libra
Mars in Leo
Jupiter was in Virgo
Saturn in Virgo
Uranus was in Scorpio
Neptun in Sagittarius
Pluto was in Libra
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
Awww he has the same sun, moon, Venus and Mercury as my 7 year old son🥰🥰
I know that’s not much help lol
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Awww but it's cute!
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.
Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes, she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
Honesty is the best policy, unfortunately, with most Scorpios. I'm not a saint and will lie on occasion, lol
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Their communication is dogshit. And lack of respect on both sides. Even if he comes back they have a lot of work to do.
But irony here is he will most likely ice her out for too long, she loses the feels and cools off on him completely.
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
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It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.
Remind me how long you have been dating?
With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.
Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.
Good! Stay away from his ass as much as possible, enjoy the hell out of your birthday, and let us know when he pokes his head out. 😊
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Thank you I plan on it!!!
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol
To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.
Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?
Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
Lol, if anything, Scorpio always Pays attention. Even when you think we don't. High intuition is no joke we know when people lie.
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So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol
To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.
Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?
Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
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You are stretching. Thanks though.
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.
Remind me how long you have been dating?
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5 months He had been observing me I guess you'd call it for a couple months prior
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.
Remind me how long you have been dating?
5 months He had been observing me I guess you'd call it for a couple months prior
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See its one thing if you've been dating for years and he has a key. But this relationship is in its infancy. You told him not to come, he ignored your request. This is a violation.
And sure I may be overly sensitive to this topic. Call it my Taurus Venus in 4th aka home is my sanctuary. Or far more likely the stalking situations I've gone through in my past.
Where you went wrong was avoiding the confrontation. Better to have expressed to him how this was not cool of him. How he reacted to that would've told you a lot. Instead he gets to play victim because you lied about being home and also were the first to cave and apologize. But no turning back time so it is what it is.
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.
Remind me how long you have been dating?
5 months He had been observing me I guess you'd call it for a couple months prior
See its one think if you've been dating for years and he has a key. But this relationship is in its infancy. You told him not to come, he ignored your request. This is a violation.
And sure I may be overly sensitive to this topic. Call it my Taurus Venus in 4th aka home is my sanctuary. Or far more likely the stalking situations I've gone through in my past.
Where you went wrong was avoiding the confrontation. Better to have expressed to him how this was not cool of him. How he reacted to that would've told you a lot. Instead he gets to play victim because you lied about being home and also were the first to cave and apologize. But no turning back time so it is what it is.
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I didn't tell him I wasn't home. He assumed it but I get your point.
So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?
I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.
Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.
That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.
I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol
To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.
Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?
Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.
You are stretching. Thanks though.
Well I don’t mean to he an asshole I’m just sharing another perspective lol
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Hahaha! I don't have a monopoly on it so it's okay.
Thanks for sharing. Just that nothing happens in a vacuum and sometimes the response when you are triggered may very well be different once level heads prevail. Lesson learned
These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
Oh that's a lot of Scorpio. I'm intrigued by the Scorpio sun gem moon. He's gotta be fun and crazy.
I think the only placement I can comment on from a personal perspective is the Venus. We get veerrrryy attached. And easily hurt. Imo, he's completely stalking your socials, do not post anything about being out with friends, etc that he can see (hurtful, you "moved on" without him) but do not, I repeat block him from seeing typical posts (like, things unrelated to your life that you might typically share like jokes, etc). If those disappear he's gonna know he's blocked from the others and get more hurt. Once he gets over it, he'll be back. Then y'all need a real honest conversation.
In the mean time, happy birthday 🎉
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Thank you!!!
And yes, he is fun and crazy and jealous lol. He's very direct so I didn't realize how sensitive he is.
But if he ever does reach out (it's been 11 days now) a conversation definitely needs to be had.
Thank you for your insight!
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
It sounds like progress.
Sorry but he’s overreacting and now punishing you? How much more begging do you need to do and what a turn off he’s now trying to make u jealous. Not behaving maturely.
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
When I saw your thread among the recent posts I was hoping for an update. I do hope he stops being a stubborn old mule ❤️
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Thank you so much 😌😌
Maybe he's just using recent events as a scapegoat, idk
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.
🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend
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Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out
Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.
Let's see what happens from here.
Thank you. I plan on sending nothing else.
Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.
Let's see what happens from here.
Ok rather than just saying it, I'll ask the Scorpio.
The touchy thing with other women, within her view? Do you think it was on purpose specifically for her to see? Because I feel like it was specifically meant for her to see.
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I'm glad you asked
Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.
Let's see what happens from here.
Ok rather than just saying it, I'll ask the Scorpio.
The touchy thing with other women, within her view? Do you think it was on purpose specifically for her to see? Because I feel like it was specifically meant for her to see.
Both. They're currently on a small break, so he can do whatever he wants. Then there's a jealousy factor.
The guy's got a Gemini moon, that Moon placement to me, they can be conniving assholes. Their brain never turns off.
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This is spot on.
Sorry but he’s overreacting and now punishing you? How much more begging do you need to do and what a turn off he’s now trying to make u jealous. Not behaving maturely.
Yeah I must admit it's becoming a turn off in addition to losing connection....
These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔
Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s
I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.
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Oh okay. Thank you for this perspective. So he could have moved on...I recognize that too. I'll just continue to live my life... hopefully if he comes back, I still have feelings
Y'all don't be tired of me, lol. Just a quick update on another small step: My Scorpio started back "❤️" my posts on FB, well 2 posts. He hasn't done that in 2 weeks. I am surprised to say the least. Ok that's it. That's the update. Back to your regularly scheduled program. Thank you.
Keep’em coming. Want to see where this goes. 👀
Y'all don't be tired of me, lol. Just a quick update on another small step: My Scorpio started back "❤️" my posts on FB. He hasn't done that in 2 weeks. I am surprised to say the least. Ok that's it. That's the update. Back to your regularly scheduled program. Thank you.
Oh I'm not tired keep going. Imo, he's defrosting.
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Ok glad you're not tired yet lol. Defrosting, that's a good way to put it bc he's still being cold and ice cold sigh
Keep’em coming. Want to see where this goes. 👀
Lol. And I should say it was two posts that I posted
These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔
Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s
I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.
Oh okay. Thank you for this perspective. So he could have moved on...I recognize that too. I'll just continue to live my life... hopefully if he comes back, I still have feelings
Nah. With that sun and Venus in Scorpio I don’t see him moving on anytime soon, I highly doubt it. I agree that he is being childish and playing games though which is annoying and can definitely see why that’s a turnoff. He’s only hurting himself if he stays in his ego.
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Okay and agreed
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.
🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend
Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out
May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?
What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?
It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.
WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?
You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.
Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.
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Thank you for your comment. Gonna take your questions as rhetorical. My eyes are open. Your opinion is only one but thank you.
These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again
Sun in Scorpio
Moon was in Gemini
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus was in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter was in Aries
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus was in Virgo
Neptun in Scorpio
Pluto was in Virgo
Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔
Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s
I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.
Oh okay. Thank you for this perspective. So he could have moved on...I recognize that too. I'll just continue to live my life... hopefully if he comes back, I still have feelings
Gift for you: https://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-scorpio-bastard/amp
Thank you for sharing. I am not fcukd or however it was you so eloquently put it. I can both lead a great life while feeling my feelings. My attempts are an exercise for me to not go ice queen I self preservation. I can indeed match his energy if I allow myself but instead I'll allow myself to feel, be vulnerable which is beginning to reach it's limits. He may not come back to me but he will give me audience. I just can be impatient and I know he is extremely patient/stubborn. But I'm a Taurus moon so.... any who Thanks again for sharing your perspective and experience.
Sorry but he’s overreacting and now punishing you? How much more begging do you need to do and what a turn off he’s now trying to make u jealous. Not behaving maturely.
Yeah I must admit it's becoming a turn off in addition to losing connection....
Look. I have 15 years of an addiction. I do not want you to have it. But I see you are already there. You said you hope youll still have feelings. I assure you - you will. Do not worry about that. Worry about wasting your youth. Good luck
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Thanks again
It sounds like progress.
HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.
He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.
And she is fucked up again...
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I'm not f'd up. It actually has made me more resilient and tire from it all. Don't project on me.
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.
🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend
Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out
May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?
What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?
It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.
WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?
You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.
Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.
Thank you for your comment. Gonna take your questions as rhetorical. My eyes are open. Your opinion is only one but thank you.
Why would you take it as rhetorical? Because you cant provide anything that will make YOUR relationship special. That is why. And like I said - you made your bed and he is rocking it. Would he respect you - he would not do it. And you know it.
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I took it as rhetorical bc you have already drawn your conclusions, why would I answer??
Anyway continue to peruse the comments and respond as you like. I've got the gist of your perspective. Thanks again.
It sounds like progress.
HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.
He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.
And she is fucked up again...
I'm not f'd up. It actually has made me more resilient and tire from it all. Don't project on me.
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She can’t help but project.
A decade + cheating on her marriage with a scorp and then after finally divorcing he still wouldn’t be with her. So she entertained him through the next few relationships. I’m sure if he calls she would drop everything and come running.
I’d tell you don’t be pathetic like that but spending 2 weeks waiting on a man you’ve dated for 5 months is not even in the same universe as the time she wasted on a scorp. So you’ll be fine 😂
It sounds like progress.
HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.
He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.
And she is fucked up again...
I'm not f'd up. It actually has made me more resilient and tire from it all. Don't project on me.
She can’t help but project.
A decade + cheating on her marriage with a scorp and then after finally divorcing he still wouldn’t be with her. So she entertained him through the next few relationships. I’m sure if he calls she would drop everything and come running.
I’d tell you don’t be pathetic like that but spending 2 weeks waiting on a man you’ve dated for 5 months is not even in the same universe as the time she wasted on a scorp. So you’ll be fine 😂
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I think so too 🤗🤗
With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.
Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.
Good! Stay away from his ass as much as possible, enjoy the hell out of your birthday, and let us know when he pokes his head out. 😊
WHY is he supposed to poke his head out?
Are you implying Scorpio never go away for good? I mean they werent even together for period of time enough for him to give a shit...How is it known that he isnt dating and enjoying his new someone?
He might sniff another woman's ass here and there but he knows whose ass smells best. He's starting to think about the whole thing and come back around. Her job is to let HIM come to that conclusion. She's supposed to be inviting and hopefully they both behave with each other.
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You are hilarious 😂😂. I am definitely letting him decide on his own. I'm not initiating anything nor am I holding my breath, just not denying my feelings either. I'm simply observing. My friend posted pics from our night out looking amazing so they caught his attention.
UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.
So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.
So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.
At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.
It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.
🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend
Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out
May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?
What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?
It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.
WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?
You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.
Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.
Thank you for your comment. Gonna take your questions as rhetorical. My eyes are open. Your opinion is only one but thank you.
That’s lot of others opinion too but that you will only learn with time.
Adding only one bit. Games are immature, games are not genuine feelings. When you are indispensable people may fight with you , may get upset but not stay without communication for days creating a situation where you are free to go. When they play games they are ok to let you go.
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Thank you. Im processing it all incl my mixed feelings...
With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.
Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.
Good! Stay away from his ass as much as possible, enjoy the hell out of your birthday, and let us know when he pokes his head out. 😊
WHY is he supposed to poke his head out?
Are you implying Scorpio never go away for good? I mean they werent even together for period of time enough for him to give a shit...How is it known that he isnt dating and enjoying his new someone?
He might sniff another woman's ass here and there but he knows whose ass smells best. He's starting to think about the whole thing and come back around. Her job is to let HIM come to that conclusion. She's supposed to be inviting and hopefully they both behave with each other.
You are hilarious 😂😂. I am definitely letting him decide on his own. I'm not initiating anything nor am I holding my breath, just not denying my feelings either. I'm simply observing. My friend posted pics from our night out looking amazing so they caught his attention.
Just move on, he'll catch up if he wants to. He knows exactly where and how to find you.
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Agreed. I'm with ya. Y'alls advice/opinions helped me weather the initial hurting and overthinking/ overanalyzing. Thank you all. The kind, the straightforward, the funny and the harsh.
If there's a major update you'll hear about it.
So I have an update man this might be a long one.
So last night Thursday night was my birthday party that My Scorpio Man and I already put in place prior to the silent treatment. We had actually made plans for this entire weekend including last night. He had reserved me a VIP area for me at one of the local lounges and I had invited several of my friends to come out to have fun and party the Night away with me. I had contemplated all week whether or not I was going to go because he wasn't taking to me and I just didn't know if I could handle putting myself out there to be ignored. After some convincing from some friends and because I had already invited everybody and they did not want me to feel like I was backing down because of him I decided to keep the plans even though I didn't know for sure if I still even had the VIP boot. Just go out and have fun celebrating. Thursday morning gets here I went to work and I was full of emotions that came out of nowhere but we know where they came from. I think it was maybe some anxiety and sadness from the whole situation and then knowing that I probably would see him Thursday night and not knowing what to expect. Well I showed up as if I still had the section and when I walked in he saw i just stood there waiting to see what he'd say and he said oh here's your section over here on the dance floor and you look beautiful.
so that was fine all my friends came and then the next thing you know he brought me the bottled water I requested. he danced with me that night you know a little bit later after that. I was being entertained by them but he was checking on me and out of nowhere he shows up with a glass of my favorite wine and I said oh what's this he said oh just in case he said I know you like it. so I accepted it and then he sent the waitress over and she told me he told her to take care of me whatever I want. Then I went out on the dance floor and when I came back I had food at the table and he had come by and brought me my usual order so that was great and then it just felt like he had warmed up and loosened up to me at least talking to me a little bit now whether that was him hosting or not I don't know but he was being cordial but he really was seeing after me like he normally would when we were together. so he asked me to dance the second time and this time y'all I could not help it, I said so you don't have any feelings left for me all? He said oh yeah of course I do always and I said but what? and he said no but, he said you just don't know what you did to me when you did that and in that moment I could feel the weight of it the way he said it and I said I think I do, I did not know then but I think I do now and then I just looked at him before we started dancing I said I'm so sorry and when I said I could see in his eyes whether it was my apology or what my apology stirred up in him I could tell it had some kind of impact on him and so rest of the night we were more friendly and open with each other. it's not like we were back to how we were before but when I was leaving I mean he waited for me, walked me to my car gave me a hug and I said will you call me when you're done and he said yes. so he called me on the drive home and I asked him what did I do to him. so I don't drag it out y'all he said he felt rejected. he said after he had open his heart up to me even after he said he wasn't going to get in another relationship after his ex hurt him deeply, he said but when he met me he decided to open his heart up to me and let me in and he felt like I rejected him and then not to mention when I acted like I wasn't home he said it made him believe that I wasn't there and that I had chose to be with somebody else that night and that I made up that argument just so I could go and be with somebody else you know which is what happened with his ex and he said he didn't see my car there and I was going out of town the next day and so all that just made him think I wanted to be somewhere else and I just explained to him that I was home he did not see my car because I parked in a different place because I had planned on getting back out so I parked in the front instead of the back and plain sight but he didn't see bcuz that's not where I normally park at night . He said he then started questioning me going out of town to visit one of my family members turning 70 and if that's what I was doing or if I was going to meet up with another guy. I asked him so before all this happened did you believe I was going to celebrate my 70 year old uncle he said yes I did but after everything I didn't anymore. so I told him that I'm still learning him and his triggers and I told him I was not anything malicious that it was straight out of the heat of the moment In my emotions and I was tired so I really didn't mean anything malicious and that I wouldn't do that to him just to make him hurt it just came from emotion and I told him I would have liked the opportunity to have learned from that just through a conversation. I said talking to you I understand when I did what I did you you were triggered and so whatever your triggers result into that's what I got. I said had I known this would hit deep I would have done something differently and I did not mean to make you feel rejected. he went on to reiterate just kind of all the stuff that had gone through his mind and it just took him back to that place with his ex and so that conversation ended and segued into something else and we stayed on the phone probably an hour and by then we had made it back home he said he needed freshen up and he'd call me back. He offered to take me to dinner for my birthday. he didn't end up calling me back maybe he went to sleep. I sent him a message good night and let him know I was off the next day if he wanted to call me.
Whew I know I probably gave too many unnecessary details but that's the update. Doesn't mean that things are going to go back to the same but we had the conversation.
So I have an update man this might be a long one.
So last night Thursday night was my birthday party that My Scorpio Man and I already put in place prior to the silent treatment. We had actually made plans for this entire weekend including last night. He had reserved me a VIP area for me at one of the local lounges and I had invited several of my friends to come out to have fun and party the Night away with me. I had contemplated all week whether or not I was going to go because he wasn't taking to me and I just didn't know if I could handle putting myself out there to be ignored. After some convincing from some friends and because I had already invited everybody and they did not want me to feel like I was backing down because of him I decided to keep the plans even though I didn't know for sure if I still even had the VIP boot. Just go out and have fun celebrating. Thursday morning gets here I went to work and I was full of emotions that came out of nowhere but we know where they came from. I think it was maybe some anxiety and sadness from the whole situation and then knowing that I probably would see him Thursday night and not knowing what to expect. Well I showed up as if I still had the section and when I walked in he saw i just stood there waiting to see what he'd say and he said oh here's your section over here on the dance floor and you look beautiful.
so that was fine all my friends came and then the next thing you know he brought me the bottled water I requested. he danced with me that night you know a little bit later after that. I was being entertained by them but he was checking on me and out of nowhere he shows up with a glass of my favorite wine and I said oh what's this he said oh just in case he said I know you like it. so I accepted it and then he sent the waitress over and she told me he told her to take care of me whatever I want. Then I went out on the dance floor and when I came back I had food at the table and he had come by and brought me my usual order so that was great and then it just felt like he had warmed up and loosened up to me at least talking to me a little bit now whether that was him hosting or not I don't know but he was being cordial but he really was seeing after me like he normally would when we were together. so he asked me to dance the second time and this time y'all I could not help it, I said so you don't have any feelings left for me all? He said oh yeah of course I do always and I said but what? and he said no but, he said you just don't know what you did to me when you did that and in that moment I could feel the weight of it the way he said it and I said I think I do, I did not know then but I think I do now and then I just looked at him before we started dancing I said I'm so sorry and when I said I could see in his eyes whether it was my apology or what my apology stirred up in him I could tell it had some kind of impact on him and so rest of the night we were more friendly and open with each other. it's not like we were back to how we were before but when I was leaving I mean he waited for me, walked me to my car gave me a hug and I said will you call me when you're done and he said yes. so he called me on the drive home and I asked him what did I do to him. so I don't drag it out y'all he said he felt rejected. he said after he had open his heart up to me even after he said he wasn't going to get in another relationship after his ex hurt him deeply, he said but when he met me he decided to open his heart up to me and let me in and he felt like I rejected him and then not to mention when I acted like I wasn't home he said it made him believe that I wasn't there and that I had chose to be with somebody else that night and that I made up that argument just so I could go and be with somebody else you know which is what happened with his ex and he said he didn't see my car there and I was going out of town the next day and so all that just made him think I wanted to be somewhere else and I just explained to him that I was home he did not see my car because I parked in a different place because I had planned on getting back out so I parked in the front instead of the back and plain sight but he didn't see bcuz that's not where I normally park at night . He said he then started questioning me going out of town to visit one of my family members turning 70 and if that's what I was doing or if I was going to meet up with another guy. I asked him so before all this happened did you believe I was going to celebrate my 70 year old uncle he said yes I did but after everything I didn't anymore. so I told him that I'm still learning him and his triggers and I told him I was not anything malicious that it was straight out of the heat of the moment In my emotions and I was tired so I really didn't mean anything malicious and that I wouldn't do that to him just to make him hurt it just came from emotion and I told him I would have liked the opportunity to have learned from that just through a conversation. I said talking to you I understand when I did what I did you you were triggered and so whatever your triggers result into that's what I got. I said had I known this would hit deep I would have done something differently and I did not mean to make you feel rejected. he went on to reiterate just kind of all the stuff that had gone through his mind and it just took him back to that place with his ex and so that conversation ended and segued into something else and we stayed on the phone probably an hour and by then we had made it back home he said he needed freshen up and he'd call me back. He offered to take me to dinner for my birthday. he didn't end up calling me back maybe he went to sleep. I sent him a message good night and let him know I was off the next day if he wanted to call me.
Whew I know I probably gave too many unnecessary details but that's the update. Doesn't mean that things are going to go back to the same but we had the conversation.
...and he didnt call you back!
And trust me - there is not one person who read this is thinking that you are back together...since you mentioned it a few times like if it seemed like you are ack. NO!
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It was 3a. Umm I said exactly what I meant, you are seeming, not me lol.
In flyby mode but pretty much all as expected. Glad he decided to finally be honest. That's actually huge. As long as things keep on the open track, this could be a good thing.
I'm glad I got to hear him out and he hear me.
I'm okay with that.
So I have an update man this might be a long one.
So last night Thursday night was my birthday party that My Scorpio Man and I already put in place prior to the silent treatment. We had actually made plans for this entire weekend including last night. He had reserved me a VIP area for me at one of the local lounges and I had invited several of my friends to come out to have fun and party the Night away with me. I had contemplated all week whether or not I was going to go because he wasn't taking to me and I just didn't know if I could handle putting myself out there to be ignored. After some convincing from some friends and because I had already invited everybody and they did not want me to feel like I was backing down because of him I decided to keep the plans even though I didn't know for sure if I still even had the VIP boot. Just go out and have fun celebrating. Thursday morning gets here I went to work and I was full of emotions that came out of nowhere but we know where they came from. I think it was maybe some anxiety and sadness from the whole situation and then knowing that I probably would see him Thursday night and not knowing what to expect. Well I showed up as if I still had the section and when I walked in he saw i just stood there waiting to see what he'd say and he said oh here's your section over here on the dance floor and you look beautiful.
so that was fine all my friends came and then the next thing you know he brought me the bottled water I requested. he danced with me that night you know a little bit later after that. I was being entertained by them but he was checking on me and out of nowhere he shows up with a glass of my favorite wine and I said oh what's this he said oh just in case he said I know you like it. so I accepted it and then he sent the waitress over and she told me he told her to take care of me whatever I want. Then I went out on the dance floor and when I came back I had food at the table and he had come by and brought me my usual order so that was great and then it just felt like he had warmed up and loosened up to me at least talking to me a little bit now whether that was him hosting or not I don't know but he was being cordial but he really was seeing after me like he normally would when we were together. so he asked me to dance the second time and this time y'all I could not help it, I said so you don't have any feelings left for me all? He said oh yeah of course I do always and I said but what? and he said no but, he said you just don't know what you did to me when you did that and in that moment I could feel the weight of it the way he said it and I said I think I do, I did not know then but I think I do now and then I just looked at him before we started dancing I said I'm so sorry and when I said I could see in his eyes whether it was my apology or what my apology stirred up in him I could tell it had some kind of impact on him and so rest of the night we were more friendly and open with each other. it's not like we were back to how we were before but when I was leaving I mean he waited for me, walked me to my car gave me a hug and I said will you call me when you're done and he said yes. so he called me on the drive home and I asked him what did I do to him. so I don't drag it out y'all he said he felt rejected. he said after he had open his heart up to me even after he said he wasn't going to get in another relationship after his ex hurt him deeply, he said but when he met me he decided to open his heart up to me and let me in and he felt like I rejected him and then not to mention when I acted like I wasn't home he said it made him believe that I wasn't there and that I had chose to be with somebody else that night and that I made up that argument just so I could go and be with somebody else you know which is what happened with his ex and he said he didn't see my car there and I was going out of town the next day and so all that just made him think I wanted to be somewhere else and I just explained to him that I was home he did not see my car because I parked in a different place because I had planned on getting back out so I parked in the front instead of the back and plain sight but he didn't see bcuz that's not where I normally park at night . He said he then started questioning me going out of town to visit one of my family members turning 70 and if that's what I was doing or if I was going to meet up with another guy. I asked him so before all this happened did you believe I was going to celebrate my 70 year old uncle he said yes I did but after everything I didn't anymore. so I told him that I'm still learning him and his triggers and I told him I was not anything malicious that it was straight out of the heat of the moment In my emotions and I was tired so I really didn't mean anything malicious and that I wouldn't do that to him just to make him hurt it just came from emotion and I told him I would have liked the opportunity to have learned from that just through a conversation. I said talking to you I understand when I did what I did you you were triggered and so whatever your triggers result into that's what I got. I said had I known this would hit deep I would have done something differently and I did not mean to make you feel rejected. he went on to reiterate just kind of all the stuff that had gone through his mind and it just took him back to that place with his ex and so that conversation ended and segued into something else and we stayed on the phone probably an hour and by then we had made it back home he said he needed freshen up and he'd call me back. He offered to take me to dinner for my birthday. he didn't end up calling me back maybe he went to sleep. I sent him a message good night and let him know I was off the next day if he wanted to call me.
Whew I know I probably gave too many unnecessary details but that's the update. Doesn't mean that things are going to go back to the same but we had the conversation.
...and he didnt call you back!
And trust me - there is not one person who read this is thinking that you are back together...since you mentioned it a few times like if it seemed like you are ack. NO!
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I'm just giving the update. You really don't have to keep coming back to read and to be a jerk.
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THANK YOU!!! I have not reached out in two days. You are right, I've done all I can do. I am usually not this apologetic nor eager, but I really liked him. I usually match cold with cold as a defense, but I chose humility over pride bc I care about him and I know part of my response was hurtful. But I've backed off. Thank you for your candor yet encouragement. I'll update y'all if there's one to be had