Help! My Scorpio Man has iced me out (Page 3)

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

You two don't sound compatible.

It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.

You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?

I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.

This was once incident

Posted by Libralove813

Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.

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Posted by Findingbalance

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Posted by MysteriousHeart

I just don’t understand why people ice others out? It’s so mean and childish. I could never do that to someone. I’ve had it done to me and understand how it feels. Just have a conversation and work things out or don’t. Or if you really need some space then let the other know you’re not going to communicate for awhile and need some time to think/reflect. Don’t just ghost. 😔

It's the worst. And I have abandonment issues so I'm sure that's making it feel worse. Just say something. But I'm beginning to tire of thinking about it

😕

Abandonment issues are no joke at all. How about you think he is death and doesn't exist anymore. You would be forced to move on without him, alone.

That helped me to let go of any idiot and be more confident in myself, alone! 😕😕

I may well end up doing so. Part of me doesn't want to let go of the feeling I have for him. And to add insult to injury my birthday is next weekend...we had plans 😭

They do get under the skin. But if he can't let go of ego and communicate too, it's going to be hell later. You'll bend, and he'll push more. People can say Scorpio this or Libra that, but if both people really care and love each other, they will be able to at least communicate freely to resolve things. I'm not saying change their core, but...

Ok so Scorpio has a specific love language and thought processes. As does Libra. They don't need to be the same to understand each other and work together, they just need to be able to stop and think, wait, what if the other person sees this differently? Maybe we can discuss it and understand each other. Now, in the heat of the moment it might not work, there will still be fights, but the ability to step back then come back and work it out makes a big difference.

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Posted by Subliminals

These complications over small things he offered you readily and easily speak volumes.

You don't think he matters much. That's it.

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

You two don't sound compatible.

It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.

You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?

I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.

This was once incident

It's one of several according to you:

Posted by Libralove813

Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.

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Posted by TXCowboy

My advice and it is the correct advice: step back and step away. Don't call, text, email - basically stop giving a fuck. He's the one that's bent out of shape, he needs to straighten things out. Everything you're doing, it is not helping.

He knows what your ass smells like, he can find his way back home if he wants to. You on the other hand, start looking somewhere else and get your mind off of this. You've already done what you could. If he comes back, find us here again.

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

You two don't sound compatible.

It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.

You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?

I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.

This was once incident

It's one of several according to you:

Posted by Libralove813

Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.

He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.

Anyway thanks

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by TXCowboy

My advice and it is the correct advice: step back and step away. Don't call, text, email - basically stop giving a fuck. He's the one that's bent out of shape, he needs to straighten things out. Everything you're doing, it is not helping.

He knows what your ass smells like, he can find his way back home if he wants to. You on the other hand, start looking somewhere else and get your mind off of this. You've already done what you could. If he comes back, find us here again.

THANK YOU!!! I have not reached out in two days. You are right, I've done all I can do. I am usually not this apologetic nor eager, but I really liked him. I usually match cold with cold as a defense, but I chose humility over pride bc I care about him and I know part of my response was hurtful. But I've backed off. Thank you for your candor yet encouragement. I'll update y'all if there's one to be had

There will be an update, so all you have to do is sit back and do other things. Whether that's volunteering for charity or putting sex toys to good use, you mind your own business.

I always say this: no matter how bad you or the other person fuck things up, if you touch their heart in any way, they will remember you... always.

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Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

You two don't sound compatible.

It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.

You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?

I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.

This was once incident

It's one of several according to you:

Posted by Libralove813

Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.

He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.

Anyway thanks

Sounds like you're back pedaling especially because you stated that you both "debated" with each other more than you liked, which really sounds like an indirect way of admitting you guys argued a lot.

Either way I don't care enough to "debate" this further.

Good luck with your shit show.

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Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by Doloris_Claiborne

You two don't sound compatible.

It's only been 4 months and already you're both hurting each other over such petty little things.

You guys are playing tug of war trying to one up each other, it's nuts. Literally what's the point of this relationship?

I wanna break up with both of you and I'm not even in it.

This was once incident

It's one of several according to you:

Posted by Libralove813

Is he ghosting me? It feels awful bc while we debated more than we liked we enjoyed being together.

He's a Scorpio he likes to debate, I don't. He admits to liking debate just not arguing. I don't like either.

Anyway thanks

What else did you both argue about?

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Posted by TXCowboy

Posted by Libralove813

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by TXCowboy

My advice and it is the correct advice: step back and step away. Don't call, text, email - basically stop giving a fuck. He's the one that's bent out of shape, he needs to straighten things out. Everything you're doing, it is not helping.

He knows what your ass smells like, he can find his way back home if he wants to. You on the other hand, start looking somewhere else and get your mind off of this. You've already done what you could. If he comes back, find us here again.

THANK YOU!!! I have not reached out in two days. You are right, I've done all I can do. I am usually not this apologetic nor eager, but I really liked him. I usually match cold with cold as a defense, but I chose humility over pride bc I care about him and I know part of my response was hurtful. But I've backed off. Thank you for your candor yet encouragement. I'll update y'all if there's one to be had

There will be an update, so all you have to do is sit back and do other things. Whether that's volunteering for charity or putting sex toys to good use, you mind your own business.

I always say this: no matter how bad you or the other person fuck things up, if you touch their heart in any way, they will remember you... always.

Given everything everyone says about Scorpios, there's truth in your statement. I went out tonight so I'm getting busy celebrating the days leading up to my birthday!!

I like to post on social media and I know he watches me. Should I stop?

He is watching you. Keep your post private only to your friends and family. Complete radio silence with him directly in every way possible.

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Posted by Libralove813

These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again

Sun in Scorpio

Moon was in Gemini

Mercury in Scorpio

Venus was in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Jupiter was in Aries

Saturn in Aquarius

Uranus was in Virgo

Neptun in Scorpio

Pluto was in Virgo

Awww he has the same sun, moon, Venus and Mercury as my 7 year old son🥰🥰

I know that’s not much help lol

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Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

Posted by TXCowboy

With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.

Posted by Lionheart917

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes, she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

Honesty is the best policy, unfortunately, with most Scorpios. I'm not a saint and will lie on occasion, lol

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

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Posted by Libralove813

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With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.

Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.

Good! Stay away from his ass as much as possible, enjoy the hell out of your birthday, and let us know when he pokes his head out. 😊

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol

To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.

Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?

Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.

Lol, if anything, Scorpio always Pays attention. Even when you think we don't. High intuition is no joke we know when people lie.

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol

To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.

Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?

Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.

Remind me how long you have been dating?

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.

Remind me how long you have been dating?

5 months He had been observing me I guess you'd call it for a couple months prior

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Posted by Libralove813

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

It absolutely is that. Plus a heavy dosing of stubbornness.

Remind me how long you have been dating?

5 months He had been observing me I guess you'd call it for a couple months prior

See its one think if you've been dating for years and he has a key. But this relationship is in its infancy. You told him not to come, he ignored your request. This is a violation.

And sure I may be overly sensitive to this topic. Call it my Taurus Venus in 4th aka home is my sanctuary. Or far more likely the stalking situations I've gone through in my past.

Where you went wrong was avoiding the confrontation. Better to have expressed to him how this was not cool of him. How he reacted to that would've told you a lot. Instead he gets to play victim because you lied about being home and also were the first to cave and apologize. But no turning back time so it is what it is.

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Posted by Libralove813

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Posted by Libralove813

Posted by LadyNeptune

So you all would be ok if you told your partner not to come and they show up at your house anyways?

I see that as a violation of boundaries and shows how little you value my wishes.

Yes she's wrong for pretending to be gone to avoid a confrontation. But confrontation would not have been possible if he had listened and respected her request.

That was my feeling...a violation of boundaries and exertion of power/control.

I wouldn’t do it as a violation of boundaries or exertion of power/control, I would see it as keeping my word and would assume you were just having a tantrum and would get well soon. Lol

To be honest though, you are extremely indecisive/flip-floppy even in this thread. So I imagine he picks up on this in the relationship too. One minute you’re pushing him away, then the next pulling him back to you.

Just like now, it’s you who is waiting on his call.. even though he is “respecting your boundaries” by minding his own business like you told him to do when he asked why you weren’t home. So it’s like make up your mind. Something tells me if he didn’t show up to take you to the airport, you would have been mad at him for that too. Do you want him to fight for you, or not—?

Scorpios are fixed. We aren’t wishy washy.. You have to be careful what you ask for because you just might get it.

You are stretching. Thanks though.

Well I don’t mean to he an asshole I’m just sharing another perspective lol

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Posted by Libralove813

These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again

Sun in Scorpio

Moon was in Gemini

Mercury in Scorpio

Venus was in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Jupiter was in Aries

Saturn in Aquarius

Uranus was in Virgo

Neptun in Scorpio

Pluto was in Virgo

Oh that's a lot of Scorpio. I'm intrigued by the Scorpio sun gem moon. He's gotta be fun and crazy.

I think the only placement I can comment on from a personal perspective is the Venus. We get veerrrryy attached. And easily hurt. Imo, he's completely stalking your socials, do not post anything about being out with friends, etc that he can see (hurtful, you "moved on" without him) but do not, I repeat block him from seeing typical posts (like, things unrelated to your life that you might typically share like jokes, etc). If those disappear he's gonna know he's blocked from the others and get more hurt. Once he gets over it, he'll be back. Then y'all need a real honest conversation.

In the mean time, happy birthday 🎉

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Posted by Libralove813

UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.

So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.

So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.

At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.

When I saw your thread among the recent posts I was hoping for an update. I do hope he stops being a stubborn old mule ❤️

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Posted by Libralove813

UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.

So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.

So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.

At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.

It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.

🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend

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Posted by TXCowboy

Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.

Let's see what happens from here.

Posted by Findingbalance

Posted by TXCowboy

Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.

Let's see what happens from here.

Ok rather than just saying it, I'll ask the Scorpio.

The touchy thing with other women, within her view? Do you think it was on purpose specifically for her to see? Because I feel like it was specifically meant for her to see.

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Posted by TXCowboy

Continue radio silence. Meeting him in person (by accident) has got him thinking, but he's not ready to break...yet.

Let's see what happens from here.

Ok rather than just saying it, I'll ask the Scorpio.

The touchy thing with other women, within her view? Do you think it was on purpose specifically for her to see? Because I feel like it was specifically meant for her to see.

Both. They're currently on a small break, so he can do whatever he wants. Then there's a jealousy factor.

The guy's got a Gemini moon, that Moon placement to me, they can be conniving assholes. Their brain never turns off.

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Posted by Truemara

Sorry but he’s overreacting and now punishing you? How much more begging do you need to do and what a turn off he’s now trying to make u jealous. Not behaving maturely.

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Posted by Libralove813

These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again

Sun in Scorpio

Moon was in Gemini

Mercury in Scorpio

Venus was in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Jupiter was in Aries

Saturn in Aquarius

Uranus was in Virgo

Neptun in Scorpio

Pluto was in Virgo

Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔

Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s

I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.

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Posted by Libralove813

Y'all don't be tired of me, lol. Just a quick update on another small step: My Scorpio started back "❤️" my posts on FB. He hasn't done that in 2 weeks. I am surprised to say the least. Ok that's it. That's the update. Back to your regularly scheduled program. Thank you.

Oh I'm not tired keep going. Imo, he's defrosting.

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Posted by geminiflyby

Keep’em coming. Want to see where this goes. 👀

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Posted by Libralove813

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Posted by Monimai

Posted by Libralove813

These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again

Sun in Scorpio

Moon was in Gemini

Mercury in Scorpio

Venus was in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Jupiter was in Aries

Saturn in Aquarius

Uranus was in Virgo

Neptun in Scorpio

Pluto was in Virgo

Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔

Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s

I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.

Oh okay. Thank you for this perspective. So he could have moved on...I recognize that too. I'll just continue to live my life... hopefully if he comes back, I still have feelings

Nah. With that sun and Venus in Scorpio I don’t see him moving on anytime soon, I highly doubt it. I agree that he is being childish and playing games though which is annoying and can definitely see why that’s a turnoff. He’s only hurting himself if he stays in his ego.

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Posted by Libralove813

UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.

So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.

So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.

At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.

It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.

🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend

Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out

May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?

What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?

It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.

WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?

You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.

Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.

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Posted by Monimai

Posted by Libralove813

These are his positions. Any help on how this drives him and his thinking? Thanks again

Sun in Scorpio

Moon was in Gemini

Mercury in Scorpio

Venus was in Scorpio

Mars in Sagittarius

Jupiter was in Aries

Saturn in Aquarius

Uranus was in Virgo

Neptun in Scorpio

Pluto was in Virgo

Yea moon gemini idk tell me about them. Everyone please let OP and me know what's up with Gemini moons in love 🤔🤔🤔

Pluto Virgo? He's older than i thought somehow i thought he is in his 20s

I dated a Gemini moon for a while they turn cold when not interested or hurt, they don't like clingy but they can turn clingy themselves when in love, they're fun to be around a bit talkative they move on a little too fast like any other air moon, that was my experience with gem moon.

Oh okay. Thank you for this perspective. So he could have moved on...I recognize that too. I'll just continue to live my life... hopefully if he comes back, I still have feelings

Gift for you: https://ashlleylove.tumblr.com/post/333536846/silly-scorpio-bastard/amp

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Sorry but he’s overreacting and now punishing you? How much more begging do you need to do and what a turn off he’s now trying to make u jealous. Not behaving maturely.

Yeah I must admit it's becoming a turn off in addition to losing connection....

Look. I have 15 years of an addiction. I do not want you to have it. But I see you are already there. You said you hope youll still have feelings. I assure you - you will. Do not worry about that. Worry about wasting your youth. Good luck

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Posted by geminiflyby

It sounds like progress.

HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.

He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.

And she is fucked up again...

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UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.

So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.

So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.

At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.

It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.

🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend

Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out

May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?

What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?

It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.

WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?

You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.

Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.

Thank you for your comment. Gonna take your questions as rhetorical. My eyes are open. Your opinion is only one but thank you.

Why would you take it as rhetorical? Because you cant provide anything that will make YOUR relationship special. That is why. And like I said - you made your bed and he is rocking it. Would he respect you - he would not do it. And you know it.

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Posted by geminiflyby

It sounds like progress.

HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.

He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.

And she is fucked up again...

I'm not f'd up. It actually has made me more resilient and tire from it all. Don't project on me.

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Posted by geminiflyby

It sounds like progress.

HOW is this is a progress? He is sucking her into his web and having ball doing it!!! Flirted with other women...to make her notice and spark jealousy. Danced to make her horny. Bought drinks to show how amazing he is.

He did it ALL and when she sent him text - he said YESSSS to himself and went to bed happy and now he will be silent.

And she is fucked up again...

I'm not f'd up. It actually has made me more resilient and tire from it all. Don't project on me.

She can’t help but project.

A decade + cheating on her marriage with a scorp and then after finally divorcing he still wouldn’t be with her. So she entertained him through the next few relationships. I’m sure if he calls she would drop everything and come running.

I’d tell you don’t be pathetic like that but spending 2 weeks waiting on a man you’ve dated for 5 months is not even in the same universe as the time she wasted on a scorp. So you’ll be fine 😂

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With a Sun, Moon, and Venus like that. There will be an update.

Thanks! I'm in Texas as well by the way.

Good! Stay away from his ass as much as possible, enjoy the hell out of your birthday, and let us know when he pokes his head out. 😊

WHY is he supposed to poke his head out?

Are you implying Scorpio never go away for good? I mean they werent even together for period of time enough for him to give a shit...How is it known that he isnt dating and enjoying his new someone?

He might sniff another woman's ass here and there but he knows whose ass smells best. He's starting to think about the whole thing and come back around. Her job is to let HIM come to that conclusion. She's supposed to be inviting and hopefully they both behave with each other.

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UPDAT: Happy Sunday! I have an update much sooner than expected and not as expected.

So I went out to a good friend's event last night with a couple of my friends, one who came in from out of town as planned, to start celebrating my birthday week and to have a good night. Well lo and behold guess who is there....Yes, my Scorpio Man 😳. Apparently he was one of the vendors for the event. My heart raced, but then I calmed myself and told myself just have the great night you intended. He knew my two friends. I actually met him through one of them.

So at some point in the night we passed each other and I spoke and he spoke back to me and my friend. He said we looked beautiful and moved on. A little later he came over and offered to buy our drinks. And then a little later he asked me to dance. I was his first dance. He danced with me twice for the night. Now he did dance with my two friends and several others there. He has that "hosting" personality to make sure everyone is having a nice time. So I don't know if he was doing it out of service or what but that's the update. But he was also flirting and touchy with a couple of the women😏. But I went on to have a good time with great pics to show.

At the end of the night last night I txt him a message and thanked him for the drinks for my friends and I and that we appreciated it (I know I'm supposed to be silent but running into him caught me off guard). No response. That's the update. I did not bring up anything about our argument/fallout.

It's a step. Do not. Do not. Bring up anything about the argument. Let him do it. You sent the text, ball is back in his court.

🤗 Hugs and hope you're having a great weekend

Thank you so much. It's been a great weekend with friends....much needed..I was a little disappointed he did not acknowledge my txt with a you're welcome, but a t this point it's par for the course. I'll standby until he reaches out

May I ask why are you thinking he will reach out?

What was so special in you 2 that you think he cant find anywhere else?

It wasnt long. It wasnt amazing. It was pretty much fucked up more than not.

WHY would he want IT back? He likes knowing you are available for him 24/7 but he isnt rushing is he?

You CANT handle Scorpio! And he knows it. You are his mental fuck now. His entertainment.

Move on... and he might be back just to break you up and leave you. He has no respect for you. Open your eyes.

Thank you for your comment. Gonna take your questions as rhetorical. My eyes are open. Your opinion is only one but thank you.

That’s lot of others opinion too but that you will only learn with time.

Adding only one bit. Games are immature, games are not genuine feelings. When you are indispensable people may fight with you , may get upset but not stay without communication for days creating a situation where you are free to go. When they play games they are ok to let you go.

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