Gemitati
@Gemitati
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Calm down may I say. First of all, you no need to necessarily empty the bucket all at once on anyone. Also we are not the same. It takes tolerance towards each other to function especially when you re not in your 20s.we all seen things in life, and yes we all believe we no need to deal with bs all over again. Having said that, respect people differences is important thing, just as much tolerance. Also the main issues in romantic relationship is the what I give versus what I deserve. Expectations and such. Expectations is ego, and always backfires. No one deserve anything. Me, you, the others, anyone and everyone.
"hurting me for no reason" implies guilt trip as you try to make other people responsible for your own emotions. Keep it, own it, deal with it. Keep your class, don't act immature. Yes speak out, but no guilt trip.
" Coward" it's just choices are not favourable for one or the other, you judge from your value system. If it's not matching or the priorities are different it's OK. Just accept and move on. No need this kind of attitude. No one appreciate nor need to coop with it. If you unhappy, make your points, and move on. Trying to change others to our favour never works. Hope you ok, chin up
"hurting me for no reason" implies guilt trip as you try to make other people responsible for your own emotions. Keep it, own it, deal with it. Keep your class, don't act immature. Yes speak out, but no guilt trip.
" Coward" it's just choices are not favourable for one or the other, you judge from your value system. If it's not matching or the priorities are different it's OK. Just accept and move on. No need this kind of attitude. No one appreciate nor need to coop with it. If you unhappy, make your points, and move on. Trying to change others to our favour never works. Hope you ok, chin up
Posted by GemitatiAlways talk and zero action. Words cost him nothing. Leaving his wife would.
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
God he is becoming boring
Same ol, same ol
Blah blah blah
Same ol, same ol
Blah blah blah
Hoors get got sometimes.
Posted by MyStarsShineThe thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
God he is becoming boring
Same ol, same ol
Blah blah blah
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿
@Sheever
Thanks for your post. I understand and agree with most what you said. However I do believe in responsibility of people toward each other. If I loved someone but I was totally completely aware that I am never going to make this person happy - I would leave them.
I would never torture someone knowingly that I hurt them.
When first time I asked him to leave me alone if he doesn’t care about me - he has not. He kept communicating. Until I’ve chilled...
And he told me that he really liked that I let him have it because all 8 years I was a pure bundle of joy for him! He said he was shocked though...
Second time I just said ‘return if things will change’...
And this was the third time when I had lost it! Maybe this is what he needed or wanted or tested my self on self-worth. Maybe he wanted to hear IT...is this possible?
And it’s not like we dared for 3 months and I went barshit crazy for broken date! This shit is too old and I felt entitled to express my opinion on the matter!
Thanks for your post. I understand and agree with most what you said. However I do believe in responsibility of people toward each other. If I loved someone but I was totally completely aware that I am never going to make this person happy - I would leave them.
I would never torture someone knowingly that I hurt them.
When first time I asked him to leave me alone if he doesn’t care about me - he has not. He kept communicating. Until I’ve chilled...
And he told me that he really liked that I let him have it because all 8 years I was a pure bundle of joy for him! He said he was shocked though...
Second time I just said ‘return if things will change’...
And this was the third time when I had lost it! Maybe this is what he needed or wanted or tested my self on self-worth. Maybe he wanted to hear IT...is this possible?
And it’s not like we dared for 3 months and I went barshit crazy for broken date! This shit is too old and I felt entitled to express my opinion on the matter!
Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿
Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...click to expand
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
Posted by GemitatiUnderstand you. Think about that what and why you changed when you calmed down. There was something of your motive. Find it, that's the problem. You know what would you like, but ask yourself, or ask him rather if he can give that to you? Be transparent and speak out. Unspoken expectations are poisonous. It kills love and everything you re looking for and you blame yourself at the end either way. Yet, you blame him, but it will left on you. May be he is not your guy. But its OK. Regardless always ask yourself what keeps YOU in the situation.
@Sheever
Thanks for your post. I understand and agree with most what you said. However I do believe in responsibility of people toward each other. If I loved someone but I was totally completely aware that I am never going to make this person happy - I would leave them.
I would never torture someone knowingly that I hurt them.
When first time I asked him to leave me alone if he doesn’t care about me - he has not. He kept communicating. Until I’ve chilled...
And he told me that he really liked that I let him have it because all 8 years I was a pure bundle of joy for him! He said he was shocked though...
Second time I just said ‘return if things will change’...
And this was the third time when I had lost it! Maybe this is what he needed or wanted or tested my self on self-worth. Maybe he wanted to hear IT...is this possible?
And it’s not like we dared for 3 months and I went barshit crazy for broken date! This shit is too old and I felt entitled to express my opinion on the matter!
You saying "asked first time to leave me alone if he doesn't care about me"
That's the way you want to be cared for, again.
Terms and conditions.
Conditioned relationship is business not love. Sure, needs are difficult things.
I learned the same lesson trust me. I realised my needs, and the way I express them is might not be the right way. You always see it from the response you get. Partners always mirrors each other back. Just because you may willing to make sacrifices, it's your own choice to do so. It doesn't mean the other will put the same effort in it. Then, you have choice again to revaluate if you want this or not. But not force it. It won't work. 🙂
Posted by GemitatiYeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.Posted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmmclick to expand
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
Posted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.Posted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.click to expand
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
Gemitati
May I ask, if any form of abuse presents in your relationship?
May I ask, if any form of abuse presents in your relationship?
Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.click to expand
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
Posted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enough to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.Posted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.Posted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...click to expand
Don't be dramatic.
Posted by Sheever8 years unhappy in her affairPosted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.click to expand
24 years unahappy in her marriage
If she hasn't found the motivation to take control of her life...I don't see how your pep talk would help. But it was worth a try I guess.
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou disappointing me! You can’t be my biographer without remembering all the facts correctly! We were FRIENDS for 5 years! Platonic!
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
So get your notes in order or you’ll be fired! 👿
Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.click to expand
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?
Posted by HearttofTopazYeah. Right? Thanks...lol
My condolences
Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️click to expand
It's definitely not conventional case, and doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocated. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
Posted by GemitatiI type fast.Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?click to expand
Sorry but I'll need to charge your old ass for a 'how to use dxp tutorial'. This shit ain't free.
Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.click to expand
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanks
Posted by GemitatiThat's it, now we talking 🙂Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanksclick to expand
You re not an idiot. It's just sounds like simply worth it. Have a glass of vine ma'am and relax 🙂
@Sheever
Lol thanks. You helped but wine is a good idea! And yes, I guess it’s worth it...for me. I have ton to be grateful to him for! He gave me my life back! So I guess...lehaim! ❤️
Lol thanks. You helped but wine is a good idea! And yes, I guess it’s worth it...for me. I have ton to be grateful to him for! He gave me my life back! So I guess...lehaim! ❤️
Posted by LadyNeptuneI told you - don’t compare my ass to your mothers altered one! I bet my ass looks better natural than hers full of silicon! 👅Posted by GemitatiI type fast.Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?
Sorry but I'll need to charge your old ass for a 'how to use dxp tutorial'. This shit ain't free.click to expand
Posted by SheeverPosted by GemitatiThat's it, now we talking 🙂Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanks
You re not an idiot. It's just sounds like simply worth it. Have a glass of vine ma'am and relax 🙂click to expand
your faith in humanity is touching but you're wasting your breath with this asylum escapee.
I was in your position a year ago when everyone else was laughing at her, and I tried to help her for 2 months straight. She completely flipped out on me in the end because I was telling her what she didn't want to hear (things she is saying herself NOW) - and because my own quest for love was going much better than hers at the time.
So spare yourself the insanity and do something productive with the time you're otherwise wasting here. Not only she IS an idiot, but she is clinically insane to boot. I am not using hyperbole here.
Posted by GemitatiOnly one way to know for sure. Let's see some pics of dat booty gemitati!Posted by LadyNeptuneI told you - don’t compare my ass to your mothers altered one! I bet my ass looks better natural than hers full of silicon! 👅Posted by GemitatiI type fast.Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?
Sorry but I'll need to charge your old ass for a 'how to use dxp tutorial'. This shit ain't free.click to expand
Posted by nanoIt’s been done. He actually asked me if I can imagine what mess we are going to create if we had left everybody...I’ve chocked and said ‘I am not talking about THAT...’
Why don't you just give him an ultimatum, it's all been leading up to this
Meet up with him and give him the worst blue balls of his life. Tell him to leave his wife once and for all, or fuck off and he will NEVER hear from you again, ever. End of. 2 options and that's it. Nothing else anymore.
Then you will have your answer
He said...oh, no? Fine than. Let’s take one day at the time...
I am still can’t believe I’ve lost my cool! That was an opportunity...maybe...or not but I’ll never find out. Or maybe. Giving it to the God! 🙏🏻
Posted by LadyNeptuneDon’t be an idiot! Well...you can’t I know...Posted by GemitatiOnly one way to know for sure. Let's see some pics of dat booty gemitati!Posted by LadyNeptuneI told you - don’t compare my ass to your mothers altered one! I bet my ass looks better natural than hers full of silicon! 👅Posted by GemitatiI type fast.Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?
Sorry but I'll need to charge your old ass for a 'how to use dxp tutorial'. This shit ain't free.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiRight. You still need that tutorial in order how to know basic shit like uploading a photo. Oh well. Guess we'll never know.Posted by LadyNeptuneDon’t be an idiot! Well...you can’t I know...Posted by GemitatiOnly one way to know for sure. Let's see some pics of dat booty gemitati!Posted by LadyNeptuneI told you - don’t compare my ass to your mothers altered one! I bet my ass looks better natural than hers full of silicon! 👅Posted by GemitatiI type fast.Posted by LadyNeptune39 sec? LmaoPosted by GemitatiYeah I care SOOOOOooooooo much. Or at least enoughPosted by LadyNeptuneOk. I hear you. But why do you care SO MUCH? Why? Lmaobr /Yeah sure I'm obsessed with you... blah blah blah.
"https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10663305">Posted by GemitatiPosted by LadyNeptuneI called him but I didn’t speak with him. I’ve called when I know he is out and inquired about stuff that I needed. I spoke with someone who told him that I’ve called.Posted by GemitatiHe didn't call you back first, YOU DID. You didn't 'leave him alone' as you promised. You opened the door back up and he is more than willing to walk back through it.
The thing is - I left him alone in January. I said call me when you KNOW! meaning know what he wants...
He could had just leave me alone and let me be.
If we were seeing each other once in a while for sex - I would understand. He wants to eat his cake! Easy! Very usual and nothing to wonder about!
Here! It blows my mind - he doesn’t pursuing me as a sex object but he mindfucking me as if he has nothing better to do! And he does!!! He has so much to do!
So...what is this ‘leash’ he is holding onto for— THATS what driving me nuts! And I am looking for a logical explanation. And all I get is ‘I dont know’...👿👿👿Posted by GemitatiNothing is going to change. Its gonna be the same old same old.
We haven’t seen each other for months. We hardly ever talked and I said that’s it...
Then I had to call him for something. He asked me an advise as he always did and today he called me to report that he took my advice and I was right as always and somehow we switched to us...
And he called me back which he shouldn’t have done. He could send me what I wanted with one of my friends. That could be a clean cut!
And you keep amazing me with your obsession over my life! How do you find my old posts? When I want to find them I am so lazy to scroll...but apparently for you it’s matter of life and death! Seems like it...hmmm
The point remains that you reached out to him first. You gave up your power. Your gonna meet up, he'll give you some more verbal bs, you'll fuck and fall into the same patterns. You'll keep this up for the next 8 years. Nothing. Will. Change.
I am dealing with my life. You dealing with my life. Maybe you can stop paying so much attention?
And btw you forgot to tell me how do you find my old posts.
You have them saved? I bet!!! That’s why you can’t tell me...
to spend 30 seconds responding to this thread.
Don't be dramatic.
It’s your 6th post and counting...
And it’s just in MY thread...lmao
And no response to how you find my posts...are you having some ADD?
Sorry but I'll need to charge your old ass for a 'how to use dxp tutorial'. This shit ain't free.click to expand
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAppreciate your direct straightforward attitude. I am Not so much aware of her background story, nor that I need to, or its my business. I think she knows what she is doing and why. You seems nice person to tried to help. Unfortunately on most cases people aren't. really looking for help, but only for empathy or attention to cure FrustrationPosted by SheeverPosted by GemitatiThat's it, now we talking 🙂Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanks
You re not an idiot. It's just sounds like simply worth it. Have a glass of vine ma'am and relax 🙂
your faith in humanity is touching but you're wasting your breath with this asylum escapee.
I was in your position a year ago when everyone else was laughing at her, and I tried to help her for 2 months straight. She completely flipped out on me in the end because I was telling her what she didn't want to hear (things she is saying herself NOW) - and because my own quest for love was going much better than hers at the time.
So spare yourself the insanity and do something productive with the time you're otherwise wasting here. Not only she IS an idiot, but she is clinically insane to boot. I am not using hyperbole here.
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Posted by SheeverAnd my advice is: it's best to reserve your empathy for those who deserve it. She doesn't. I learned that the hard way. She's a sociopath.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAppreciate your direct straightforward attitude. I am Not so much aware of her background story, nor that I need to, or its my business. I think she knows what she is doing and why. You seems nice person to tried to help. Unfortunately on most cases people aren't. really looking for help, but only for empathy or attention to cure FrustrationPosted by SheeverPosted by GemitatiThat's it, now we talking 🙂Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanks
You re not an idiot. It's just sounds like simply worth it. Have a glass of vine ma'am and relax 🙂
your faith in humanity is touching but you're wasting your breath with this asylum escapee.
I was in your position a year ago when everyone else was laughing at her, and I tried to help her for 2 months straight. She completely flipped out on me in the end because I was telling her what she didn't want to hear (things she is saying herself NOW) - and because my own quest for love was going much better than hers at the time.
So spare yourself the insanity and do something productive with the time you're otherwise wasting here. Not only she IS an idiot, but she is clinically insane to boot. I am not using hyperbole here.
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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowEverything is possible that's for sure 🙂 I am not taking others problems on myself really. She is definitely an intense one, and I am not envy of the guy either. I didn't know that you guys already chopped off her situation to pieces earlier on so been unaware lol. I can clearly see she won't change anything, for various reasons but it's her life and she does not really looking for advice from anyone.Posted by SheeverAnd my advice is: it's best to reserve your empathy for those who deserve it. She doesn't. I learned that the hard way. She's a sociopath.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowAppreciate your direct straightforward attitude. I am Not so much aware of her background story, nor that I need to, or its my business. I think she knows what she is doing and why. You seems nice person to tried to help. Unfortunately on most cases people aren't. really looking for help, but only for empathy or attention to cure FrustrationPosted by SheeverPosted by GemitatiThat's it, now we talking 🙂Posted by SheeverFuck Freedom! I rather to be having my calls and whatever communications I can have than Freedom.Posted by GemitatiThat's nice, you see? 🙂Posted by SheeverOk! I almost forgot that this was the original deal...no demands because we both know where we are.Posted by LadyNeptuneIt does not matter what he does. Or who is right. It doesn't solve the problem. She can only change things for herself by either accept the situation or leave the situation. That's what I am saying. If someone doesn't willing to listen to her, it will not do so later on either. That's what I mean.
@sheever do you know the back story here?
Both are married and have been having the affair for the last 8 years. Op is getting tired of it and wants him to leave his wife.
However with years relashionships evolving and morph into something deeper and longer and I got used to it and I became his person to go to...so I felt like a military wife who’s husband is deployed far away. Lol
I am very good at accepting things the way they are. However sometimes I want to feel to be cared for. And to his defense - he had been perfect and maintained everything so well so I was praying for him to hurt me once so I can say - the end! Naaah...he never gave me an opportunity!
So thanks for the talk. You reminded me of something I’ve used to know but forgot! ❤️
It's definitely not conventional case, especially doesn't sounds fair especially towards your side. I am sure you had your reason and motives.
The fact is you took on such difficult situations already shows lots of acceptance, maybe you don't feel entirely reciprocal. And time to time triggers you to lash out. Simply as you said you were waitiefor opportunity to end it. However that means you not happy or completely satisfied with the situation either. You not step out, because those reasons keeps your needs satisfied but not on the level you really wish to be. If this remains as it is, it will not moving forward nor can at all. The longer you in it, the more you loose your freedom as you get use to it.
I’ve tried to move out. It’s miserable out there. Tomorrow I will call and apologize. And everything going to be fine!
Yep! That’s the kind of idiot I am.
Can’t help it. And honestly don’t want to! It’s been best years of my life. Thanks
You re not an idiot. It's just sounds like simply worth it. Have a glass of vine ma'am and relax 🙂
your faith in humanity is touching but you're wasting your breath with this asylum escapee.
I was in your position a year ago when everyone else was laughing at her, and I tried to help her for 2 months straight. She completely flipped out on me in the end because I was telling her what she didn't want to hear (things she is saying herself NOW) - and because my own quest for love was going much better than hers at the time.
So spare yourself the insanity and do something productive with the time you're otherwise wasting here. Not only she IS an idiot, but she is clinically insane to boot. I am not using hyperbole here.
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class="bqexpand"> Posted by AwesomeyoYou are proving one more time that you are an idiot! He is older than me...lolPosted by Gemitati
Of course I don’t hate him but these few days he is driving me up a wall!
Friday. Called with all these ‘love you, trying to be distant, your spell over me is not wearing off...’ and some regular normal talk about work and shit. He also told me that he is going to a retreat to gather his thoughts together and maybe to find out what to do with his life.
When I said bye I love you - he asked to repeat. Never happened...
Saturday morning he is calling me from the retreat asking to come spend time with him. I couldn’t.
He asked if he can come over to my area and I said no. He understands. It was more force than he ever made to try to see me...I had never had several options before!
He asked if I can come Sunday morning. I said yes. We had made plans just haven’t set time.
This morning he texting me that he is going home now with several guys. So we have to reschedule.
Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
Then when I couldn’t breathe I said ‘so is that IT?’
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
I am not looking for an advice.
I am just wondering if he will ever realize that living in this misery is not the way and if my rant will make him realize it? And what ta heck makes a man go to retreat? Realization of some sort or why?
Or may be he hates you for being a crazy ass Cougar. #Cokooo
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Posted by GemitatiNo worries, you have one life, so do what's best for you
@Sheever
Lol thanks. You helped but wine is a good idea! And yes, I guess it’s worth it...for me. I have ton to be grateful to him for! He gave me my life back! So I guess...lehaim! ❤️
Posted by GemitatiHi Gemitati. It sounds like a classic Scorpio with push and pulls. When I confronted the Scorpio guy and told him what I always wanted to tell, because I couldn't take it no more, he instead got furious!
Of course I don’t hate him but these few days he is driving me up a wall!
Friday. Called with all these ‘love you, trying to be distant, your spell over me is not wearing off...’ and some regular normal talk about work and butter. He also told me that he is going to a retreat to gather his thoughts together and maybe to find out what to do with his life.
When I said bye I love you - he asked to repeat. Never happened...
Saturday morning he is calling me from the retreat asking to come spend time with him. I couldn’t.
He asked if he can come over to my area and I said no. He understands. It was more force than he ever made to try to see me...I had never had several options before!
He asked if I can come Sunday morning. I said yes. We had made plans just haven’t set time.
This morning he texting me that he is going home now with several guys. So we have to reschedule.
Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
Then when I couldn’t breathe I said ‘so is that IT?’
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
I am not looking for an advice.
I am just wondering if he will ever realize that living in this misery is not the way and if my rant will make him realize it? And what ta heck makes a man go to retreat? Realization of some sort or why?
But the retreat thing, and wanting space and to be alone is normal for them. Mine told me he doesn't need anyone he needs to be with his thoughts and alone!
Very confusing, knowing that Scorps ache for deep connection and intimacy.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by MelkaThanks for your thoughts.Posted by Gemitati
Of course I don’t hate him but these few days he is driving me up a wall!
Friday. Called with all these ‘love you, trying to be distant, your spell over me is not wearing off...’ and some regular normal talk about work and butter. He also told me that he is going to a retreat to gather his thoughts together and maybe to find out what to do with his life.
When I said bye I love you - he asked to repeat. Never happened...
Saturday morning he is calling me from the retreat asking to come spend time with him. I couldn’t.
He asked if he can come over to my area and I said no. He understands. It was more force than he ever made to try to see me...I had never had several options before!
He asked if I can come Sunday morning. I said yes. We had made plans just haven’t set time.
This morning he texting me that he is going home now with several guys. So we have to reschedule.
Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
Then when I couldn’t breathe I said ‘so is that IT?’
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
I am not looking for an advice.
I am just wondering if he will ever realize that living in this misery is not the way and if my rant will make him realize it? And what ta heck makes a man go to retreat? Realization of some sort or why?
Hi Gemitati. It sounds like a classic Scorpio with push and pulls. When I confronted the Scorpio guy and told him what I always wanted to tell, because I couldn't take it no more, he instead got furious!
But the retreat thing, and wanting space and to be alone is normal for them. Mine told me he doesn't need anyone he needs to be with his thoughts and alone!
Very confusing, knowing that Scorps ache for deep connection and intimacy.
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He told me that what we have is so different from what’s going on at home - that switching from our crazy emotional connection back to what’s his real life is feeling like a huge emotional strain and he is physically and mentally suffering.
If yours weren’t attached - I don’t jnow what was his problem except they do find pleasure in suffering.
How do you ended?
class="bqexpand"> Posted by MelkaVerbatim...Posted by Gemitati
Of course I don’t hate him but these few days he is driving me up a wall!
Friday. Called with all these ‘love you, trying to be distant, your spell over me is not wearing off...’ and some regular normal talk about work and butter. He also told me that he is going to a retreat to gather his thoughts together and maybe to find out what to do with his life.
When I said bye I love you - he asked to repeat. Never happened...
Saturday morning he is calling me from the retreat asking to come spend time with him. I couldn’t.
He asked if he can come over to my area and I said no. He understands. It was more force than he ever made to try to see me...I had never had several options before!
He asked if I can come Sunday morning. I said yes. We had made plans just haven’t set time.
This morning he texting me that he is going home now with several guys. So we have to reschedule.
Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
Then when I couldn’t breathe I said ‘so is that IT?’
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
I am not looking for an advice.
I am just wondering if he will ever realize that living in this misery is not the way and if my rant will make him realize it? And what ta heck makes a man go to retreat? Realization of some sort or why?
Hi Gemitati. It sounds like a classic Scorpio with push and pulls. When I confronted the Scorpio guy and told him what I always wanted to tell, because I couldn't take it no more, he instead got furious!
But the retreat thing, and wanting space and to be alone is normal for them. Mine told me he doesn't need anyone he needs to be with his thoughts and alone!
Very confusing, knowing that Scorps ache for deep connection and intimacy.
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Posted by OneKnightThanks for your thoughts.
He is correct. I would not do it either at that age. You have him, he has you. All you can do is fix your own marriages and keep the affair a secret. The hell that both of your divorces will create is not worth the price.
I also think it "works" for both of you, because it's not a marriage, but an affair.
You're in the same shoes as my ex with her Scorpio. The push and pull worked during the honeymoon period, but became annoying after. It's common for a woman or man to end up with the affair "price" and regret
it, especially after a long marriage. Knowing what I know now, I can tell you I would never leave a marriage with kids. Never. I would cheat, but I would never leave.
I think the push and pull of a Scorpio is their biggest power. A lot of women love that. It's what guys do in high school.
I see how messy separation can be. But eventually everything could fall into places and at least some people would be happy! He always tells me I want to be with you but I don’t want anyone to get hurt! That’s impossible!
And our kids are 23-27! They are an adults!
Ok. How much fun is that going home every day wishing it was someone else there who would be greeting you with a loving smile instead of hostility?
I’ve met a Cancer who has divorced having 3 adults children! He couldn’t forgive her for cheating.
He is having life now. He said it worth it. And he is close with kids and very happy in general. Left her everything. Started from ground zero at 50! In 10 years built everything back and living it!
So...some men just do and some don’t! I just see him now as a weak.
And I used to see him as a citadel of the might and power! Very hard switch. For me. Personally. Painful.
Posted by RooSagicornThat’s what I said to him. That wallowing in a misery is a shitty was to live! I guess it was easier when we’ve seen each other every other day.
You know sometimes it’s just best to walk away and heal your heart. You absolutely cannot make a choice for another. Some people live in fear of what could happen and are not willing to take the risk. Sometimes it’s not as bad as we think it will be. There is no way to have growth without the times we have to push through the crap. That goes for children too and spouses too.
Some people would rather stay stuck. But you get your choice of whether you want to be stuck in misery or move forward.
Then he was calling me every day!
Then a lot of crap happened and he went missing. Then he came back and told me that life is a hot mess! And now it’s a mess that he used to.
I don’t know. This cowardness just very unappealing. My eyes are opening and filled with tears...
When unrequited love turns to hate, it is time to leave. He will continue to disappoint you and break your heart if you let him.
Posted by CreativeCapYou are correct. I just don’t hate him yet to that point! Lol
When unrequited love turns to hate, it is time to leave. He will continue to disappoint you and break your heart if you let him.
But you are right!
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornDo you understand whybta heck is he calling? What’s the point? What is his business about how are you doing? Right? Is it form of control? Or it’s love that bothering him and doesn’t let him forget?Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
You know sometimes it’s just best to walk away and heal your heart. You absolutely cannot make a choice for another. Some people live in fear of what could happen and are not willing to take the risk. Sometimes it’s not as bad as we think it will be. There is no way to have growth without the times we have to push through the crap. That goes for children too and spouses too.
Some people would rather stay stuck. But you get your choice of whether you want to be stuck in misery or move forward.
That’s what I said to him. That wallowing in a misery is a butterty was to live! I guess it was easier when we’ve seen each other every other day.
Then he was calling me every day!
Then a lot of crap happened and he went missing. Then he came back and told me that life is a hot mess! And now it’s a mess that he used to.
I don’t know. This cowardness just very unappealing. My eyes are opening and filled with tears... click to expand
I understand completely I had to walk away from someone who was like this. He still is. I walked away 3 years ago and he still calls but I only allow friends now. Life goes on. It really does. ❤️ click to expandclick to expand
What happened to the Cancer?
Posted by nikkistarHe is fine. Spending most of the time around South for now. Huge business contract. I don’t have time to sit and wait but we are communicating all the time. He is a great man.
What happened to the Cancer?
Posted by TheRabbitYou have to show me. But you have to be really food at it!
Your best option at this point is a murder-suicide.
class="bqexpand"> Posted by RooSagicornIt’s mindblowing! It’s like Scorp said your spell isn’t wearing off!Posted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicornPosted by GemitatiPosted by RooSagicorn
You know sometimes it’s just best to walk away and heal your heart. You absolutely cannot make a choice for another. Some people live in fear of what could happen and are not willing to take the risk. Sometimes it’s not as bad as we think it will be. There is no way to have growth without the times we have to push through the crap. That goes for children too and spouses too.
Some people would rather stay stuck. But you get your choice of whether you want to be stuck in misery or move forward.
That’s what I said to him. That wallowing in a misery is a butterty was to live! I guess it was easier when we’ve seen each other every other day.
Then he was calling me every day!
Then a lot of crap happened and he went missing. Then he came back and told me that life is a hot mess! And now it’s a mess that he used to.
I don’t know. This cowardness just very unappealing. My eyes are opening and filled with tears... click to expand
I understand completely I had to walk away from someone who was like this. He still is. I walked away 3 years ago and he still calls but I only allow friends now. Life goes on. It really does. ❤️ click to expand
Do you understand whybta heck is he calling? What’s the point? What is his business about how are you doing? Right? Is it form of control? Or it’s love that bothering him and doesn’t let him forget? click to expand
Oh it’s complicated lol. He has trouble letting go completely & so do I. So we adjusted to friendship mostly. I have been friends with him for 30 years and he cares a lot, says he always has, always will. He checks on me. He tries to be support for me if he can. When I ask why he still calls when I am planning on a life with someone else and will not be moving back ( before the Cap & I split). He says he wants to stay in touch. See there was a period of 18 years we weren’t in touch. I guess that’s hard to let that happen again. I allow it because he really is such a good friend & there aren’t many people who are unconditional in life like he is. I never initiate unless something bad has happened, which doesn’t happen much. I think he is still hoping for someday... it’s the second time in our lives the time wasn’t right. Once 3 years ago, and once 27 years ago. click to expandclick to expand
Are you both single? It’s apparently some crazy connection. What happened that you had done 27 and 3 years ago?
class="bqexpand"> Posted by GemitatiHe loves reading my messages and ignoring somehow. I said you are free to go I am not holding you.Posted by MelkaPosted by Gemitati
Of course I don’t hate him but these few days he is driving me up a wall!
Friday. Called with all these ‘love you, trying to be distant, your spell over me is not wearing off...’ and some regular normal talk about work and butter. He also told me that he is going to a retreat to gather his thoughts together and maybe to find out what to do with his life.
When I said bye I love you - he asked to repeat. Never happened...
Saturday morning he is calling me from the retreat asking to come spend time with him. I couldn’t.
He asked if he can come over to my area and I said no. He understands. It was more force than he ever made to try to see me...I had never had several options before!
He asked if I can come Sunday morning. I said yes. We had made plans just haven’t set time.
This morning he texting me that he is going home now with several guys. So we have to reschedule.
Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
Then when I couldn’t breathe I said ‘so is that IT?’
He seemed surprised and said ‘what do you mean! That’s not it! I will call you and we will talk about everything...’
I said ok and hanged up!
I am not looking for an advice.
I am just wondering if he will ever realize that living in this misery is not the way and if my rant will make him realize it? And what ta heck makes a man go to retreat? Realization of some sort or why?
Hi Gemitati. It sounds like a classic Scorpio with push and pulls. When I confronted the Scorpio guy and told him what I always wanted to tell, because I couldn't take it no more, he instead got furious!
But the retreat thing, and wanting space and to be alone is normal for them. Mine told me he doesn't need anyone he needs to be with his thoughts and alone!
Very confusing, knowing that Scorps ache for deep connection and intimacy.
click to expand
Thanks for your thoughts.
He told me that what we have is so different from what’s going on at home - that switching from our crazy emotional connection back to what’s his real life is feeling like a huge emotional strain and he is physically and mentally suffering.
If yours weren’t attached - I don’t jnow what was his problem except they do find pleasure in suffering.
How do you ended? click to expandclick to expand
He wants to stay alone that's what he told me. Theyll suffer alone but hide, very stubborn.
I got tired of his games.
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Here I broke down! I told him everything I’ve ever wanted to tell him! About him being a coward, having no balls, hurting me for no reason, letting people take advantage of him...I’ve cried and yelled and he was apologizing and saying that he had never intent for none of this to happened. And I kept my speech going!!!
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