SamCancerGirl
@SamCancerGirl
13 Years500+ Posts
Comments: 0 · Posts: 732 · Topics: 18
+1000
I NEED ADVICE.. (Page 2)
You are on page out of 3 | Reverse Order
+1000
Reassurance was.all he needed in the end. He's devoted to me and feared this trip.would be a.threat. the women I'm going with can get wild but not dangerous. I am probably the most.level headed in the bunch though. None the less they're good people, they're fun but not girls gone.wild.fun.
He knows how guys can get, and he views women these days can be just as bad as men with hook ups. He.doesn't want me around that. He puts me up on a pedestal I think, I'm not sure if I like all of it though.
There will be more trying times in our relationship, if we can't get past this, well....what more down then line....
Our.talk went well last night, so I think things are progressing.
He knows how guys can get, and he views women these days can be just as bad as men with hook ups. He.doesn't want me around that. He puts me up on a pedestal I think, I'm not sure if I like all of it though.
There will be more trying times in our relationship, if we can't get past this, well....what more down then line....
Our.talk went well last night, so I think things are progressing.
@ op. You already have a room to yourself , tell him to come along. He can hold the purses sometimes and wander around and do his own thing from time to time. Then when he goes to Vegas you should be invited also.
Posted by ListenlearnteachLol! I wouldn't mind that, my company.might though.
@ op. You already have a room to yourself , tell him to come along. He can hold the purses sometimes and wander around and do his own thing from time to time. Then when he goes to Vegas you should be invited also.
He just needs to learn to let go of his fears, and I'm not going anywhere else.
Posted by busyeyes88I agree w busy....
"Hold the phone... " (says Colombo!)...
He does not want you to go on a trip with your girls but yet he has booked a trip to Vegas with the boys and you are sitting here thinking about whether to take a trip with him instead.
I'm sorry but this not about sun signs. The man is controlling... He has to trust you!!
I had girlie trips when I was in my 20s, when I was married when I had an ex bf, I went on trips without them and there was not an ounce they could do about it.
The minute you start changing your plans to suit a man's, girl they have you under their thumbs... Stick to the script and go by the sound of your own drum. You are entitled to your girlie time as he is entitled to his. We are all individuals at the end of the day.
DO NOT CHANGE for no man!!!!!
If he doesn't like it, tell him to shove his head were the don't shine.. And let him know that you will not be controlled (unless you are tied to a four poster bed!!) by him or anyone else. And if he doesn't like it he FO!!
I see the other Scorps and I really don't agree at all. I stand by my statement. this is YOUR life. YOUR friends.
honestly I could never date a man who would tell me to sacrifice my friends and my vacation.
I get what the other Scorps are saying.... but I also could never live by a mans dictation of my life. it's not even respect in my opinion as the others state. in fact, to me that is the highest disrespect. you have so little faith in ME because of the lifestyle of my friends?
I get the saying goes "you are what your friends are" BUT you can make your own decisions like an adult. if you do something crazy, so be it. it will be the end. if you don't, what was the fret all about in the first place?
the aqua guy I liked went to Colorado and he called me day 1 of HIS vaca. and he was confessing his love for me (Venus in Aries- it comes in spurts), and I kind of laughed and said "aren't you in Colorado?" and he goes "yeah I just got here" and I go "go enjoy yourself!! why are you on the phone with me when you could be having fun. I'll see you when you get back. take lots of pictures."
he himself is a wild person... lives the fast life, but I don't think he's meant for it. lots of 12th house planets. drugs problems. lots of squares to his Venus. his affection is a roller coaster. I let him do as he please. only I did hit him in the back once for disrespecting me in public *shrugs*. I don't stand for bullshit. my Leo best friend was like "are you sure you're not a Leo" LOL.
honestly, idk. as a Scorpio myself I'd never be with a man like that. if the tables were turned: what would he do? I'd let my guy go to frickin Vegas without me if he wanted!!! I can't control him or stop him or say "ur friends r wild u r staying home. no fun 4 u
Posted by NemiliciousExactly! I do not want that.kind of.slight between us.
5-10 years down the line - these are those little slights of the past people argue about
"i gave up this and that for you and this and that - "
"i never asked you to. "
the endless boring repetition of chewing on those old stories....bo
a clean conscience is a good pillow. i would go.
let him see your strength and not measure your "love" by how you fast you dance to his fiddle.
scorpios ....when they lick blood ......lol
no. it's about EQUALITY. it's about TRUST. never drop friends for any man!!!!! I did that in the past with a Virgo. BIG MISTAKE. luckily when that roller coaster was over my friends still took me back. NEVER AGAIN! I learned my lesson!!! I'll never be controlled or told who my friends are EVER!!
^ that's continued. it cut off
^ that's continued. it cut off
Posted by ImpulsvThat's silly. Your friends were your friends before you shacked up, they deserve your loyalty too.
I think after being in a relationship n it's serious it's time to dump the wild freinds. It's like a married woman going with girls gone wild. Maturity?
But then again I don't hang with girls gone wild
Just because they are not in serious relationships/married and are out getting their single asses laid doesn't mean you should cut them off, unless they are trying to intentionally sabatoge your relationship.
Imagine if you were the single friend and got iced out because all your friends were married...
Posted by cheekyfaerieExactly and he knows this. We check in all the time with eachother. I think me being gone for a week is what's getting to him, he says it's too long being away.Posted by Ixion120Fwiw, I'm pickin up what you're puttin down. You'd know I was gonna check in with you every night, whether we discussed it beforehand or not. We'd have a rhythm.
The conditions in her character have to be there from the jump if its not ..its not a relationship I'm going to choose. I have had more than a few relationships turn out in different ways. If any of them did me dirty I am unaware of if..but I always felt I could trust them. There have been tons more women who I felt I could not trust and just didn't fuck with them. Kept me outta the kinda trouble you guys are referring to.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationYou would think that because you're a manipulative,controlling cunt yourself. Not everybody is a " Pisces " and want to let you guys have your way with everything. She had a life before him and she goin have one after him. If she wants to make him center of her universe that's her business but for now he needs to go deal with his insecurities and stop acting like her father.Posted by crabRiotUseless crab. -_-
So O.P are you planning on changing everything about yourself to suite this fella?
This shouldn't even be something to make a topic over. Go have fun with your friends and let him go get a life.
It's not that serious. Women cater to men and forget about themselves too damn much at times. Your friends is your friends.They were there before him and they will be there after him.
Terrible advice.click to expand
You Rein just need to get lost.
I would go. It's a good excuse to learn things about other people and my Scorpio really seems to like that.
Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it allclick to expand
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
Posted by ReincarnationYes my communication style is horrible, I'm aware but I'm sure you and the O.P get what I'm trying to say.Posted by crabRiotIt's not that I competely disagree with your perspective, Crab.Posted by ReincarnationYou would think that because you're a manipulative,controlling cunt yourself. Not everybody is a " Pisces " and want to let you guys have your way with everything. She had a life before him and she goin have one after him. If she wants to make him center of her universe that's her business but for now he needs to go deal with his insecurities and stop acting like her father.Posted by crabRiotUseless crab. -_-
So O.P are you planning on changing everything about yourself to suite this fella?
This shouldn't even be something to make a topic over. Go have fun with your friends and let him go get a life.
It's not that serious. Women cater to men and forget about themselves too damn much at times. Your friends is your friends.They were there before him and they will be there after him.
Terrible advice.
You Rein just need to get lost.
It's about how you go about communicating your opinion. Try talking to your bf like that and let us know how it went.click to expand
I also have a Leo Merc so I'm a bit brash....I just get to the point and fast too.
Posted by ManilaViceI be laughing at those 2 like.. WOW okayyyyyy.
vixen is in demand!
Idk if my other post posted... but if he's going to
Vegas, then yeah-- goes both ways.
Don't let him be unfair.
Vegas, then yeah-- goes both ways.
Don't let him be unfair.
Posted by ReincarnationNoted but YOU or any other Scorp setting me free is not necessarily a bad thing. I KNOW what I bring to the relationship so this is not something where you have more to offer than me so I'm gonna go into panick mode if you decide to leave. Crab woman are seriously devoted women and we DO mean business when it comes to our heart so guess what if you consider yourselves a "prize" SO AM I (which we are by the way 😉 )Posted by crabRiotI was referring to the cussing and attitude.Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
You do that to me and I will set you free. It's that simple.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by crabRiotI was referring to the cussing and attitude.Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
You do that to me and I will set you free. It's that simple.click to expand
lol you kind of talk like my husband. simple and succint when he's super serious.
i dont mess with him that's for sure. Its yes SIR!!! with love.
Posted by MontgomeryExactly!
Idk if my other post posted... but if he's going to
Vegas, then yeah-- goes both ways.
Don't let him be unfair.
What I noticed about Scorp men is that it's OK when they do something like what O.P is writing about. It's OK for THEM but let YOU try it and they want to lecture you down as if they're not guilty of the same thing.
Posted by WhiteChocolateCode word ###WIFE.Posted by crabRiotActually for me that's not true.
What I noticed about Scorp men is that it's OK when they do something like what O.P is writing about. It's OK for THEM but let YOU try it and they want to lecture you down as if they're not guilty of the same thing.
If it's a situation in which I would not be comfortable with my wife being in...I assume she would be equally uncomfortable in regards to me.
If there's any question, then I ask and we can discuss it.click to expand
Posted by WhiteChocolateMe either that's why he needs to go get a life and stop hindering hers.Posted by crabRiotWell, this is true.Posted by WhiteChocolateCode word ###WIFE.Posted by crabRiotActually for me that's not true.
What I noticed about Scorp men is that it's OK when they do something like what O.P is writing about. It's OK for THEM but let YOU try it and they want to lecture you down as if they're not guilty of the same thing.
If it's a situation in which I would not be comfortable with my wife being in...I assume she would be equally uncomfortable in regards to me.
If there's any question, then I ask and we can discuss it.
Something that hasn't been touched on here is relativity. As you progress into a relationship, expectations change.
I don't think OP has been with her man for very long. If they are at the beginning stages of a relationship, these types of outings are generally acceptable.
But later on, if you're in a committed relationship, not so much.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesHe always trying to ride Crab women clits as if he not satisfied enough with the Pisces that's kissing his ass.Posted by Reincarnationthat's awesome dude, you got your calm peaceful and sweet right, so why are you bothering us for?Posted by crabRiotNot sure about you.Posted by ReincarnationNoted but YOU or any other Scorp setting me free is not necessarily a bad thing. I KNOW what I bring to the relationship so this is not something where you have more to offer than me so I'm gonna go into panick mode if you decide to leave. Crab woman are seriously devoted women and we DO mean business when it comes to our heart so guess what if you consider yourselves a "prize" SO AM I (which we are by the way 😉 )Posted by crabRiotI was referring to the cussing and attitude.Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
You do that to me and I will set you free. It's that simple.
You have a huge temper. I prefer women who are calm, peaceful, and sweet.
we don't care dude.
we just don't
stop being such an attention whore.click to expand
We are not trying to be Scorpio whisperers here,we just want you to be FAIR in your dealings with us.
Furthermore you desire women that will yeild.
I want to challenge you, make you see your wrongs instead of just letting things go or sweeping if under the rug like a doormat.
I want you to see your ugly side, heal it and transf
***transform.
Posted by SensitiveBluesShush! I love skyrim! What's wrong with skyrim? Then there's WOW......and 😱Posted by ReincarnationWho wants a boring scorp who plays skyrim all day.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationCrabs are contradictions. We ARE calm, peaceful and sweet, but we're cardinal energy, so we're also instigators, we push for movement, and we're independent. We cling, and we give space. We spoil others, and we get prickly. We come across as reserved, but we're goofy with a wild side. Ultimately, love us or hate us, we don't care either way. lolPosted by crabRiotNot sure about you.Posted by ReincarnationNoted but YOU or any other Scorp setting me free is not necessarily a bad thing. I KNOW what I bring to the relationship so this is not something where you have more to offer than me so I'm gonna go into panick mode if you decide to leave. Crab woman are seriously devoted women and we DO mean business when it comes to our heart so guess what if you consider yourselves a "prize" SO AM I (which we are by the way 😉 )Posted by crabRiotI was referring to the cussing and attitude.Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
You do that to me and I will set you free. It's that simple.
You have a huge temper. I prefer women who are calm, peaceful, and sweet.click to expand
^^^^^ That's right.
Either love me or leave me alone.
Either love me or leave me alone.
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Part of being in a relationship is realizing theRe is another person you are caring for and is caring for you. He's not hindering my life in any way. He's a part of my life now amd part of being in a partnership is discussing things and compromising. Otherwise I would stay single amd not have to answer to anyone about anything I do.
I don't want to drag him through the mud because he's concerned about me going, he didnt tell me i couldnt go either. I want a relationship where we can be open and not get mad at him because he has insecurities or concerns. Otherwise, he would keep them hidden and build resentment. If he's being unreasonable I would let him know, no problem. I don't want to come off like some diva about it though.
I don't want to drag him through the mud because he's concerned about me going, he didnt tell me i couldnt go either. I want a relationship where we can be open and not get mad at him because he has insecurities or concerns. Otherwise, he would keep them hidden and build resentment. If he's being unreasonable I would let him know, no problem. I don't want to come off like some diva about it though.
Posted by crabRiotNo it's ok, i like reading about others perspectives.
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Posted by drxpxfJupiterWe push from thePosted by MoonArtistGreat description of cancers... for me it has always been difficult to see them as a cardinal energy but now I can kind of see it... They push in very informal ways, I suppose.Posted by ReincarnationCrabs are contradictions. We ARE calm, peaceful and sweet, but we're cardinal energy, so we're also instigators, we push for movement, and we're independent. We cling, and we give space. We spoil others, and we get prickly. We come across as reserved, but we're goofy with a wild side. Ultimately, love us or hate us, we don't care either way. lolPosted by crabRiotNot sure about you.Posted by ReincarnationNoted but YOU or any other Scorp setting me free is not necessarily a bad thing. I KNOW what I bring to the relationship so this is not something where you have more to offer than me so I'm gonna go into panick mode if you decide to leave. Crab woman are seriously devoted women and we DO mean business when it comes to our heart so guess what if you consider yourselves a "prize" SO AM I (which we are by the way 😉 )Posted by crabRiotI was referring to the cussing and attitude.Posted by ReincarnationWe can live with at.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
We have a brain and can think for ourselves so therefore DONT need your help in that arena and we certainly don't want to be controlled by again.
Tell me something how would you like it if we flip the script and the women start acting like overbearing, manipulative, controlling assholes?
All I have to say is when it comes to Crab women the power needs to be shared. Our Cardinal energy demands it because we are initiators/movers and shakers.
You do that to me and I will set you free. It's that simple.
You have a huge temper. I prefer women who are calm, peaceful, and sweet.click to expand
We push from the sides. Giving a crab as the symbol was spot on, because that's how we come across (have to get past the shell to get the tender meat lol). Just remember which element Cancer is, and that's where and how we do our pushing: from a place of emotion. Each cardinal has it's own flavor because of the element they're in. I have 3 of the 4 in my chart (am lacking Cap...and all things earth).
Posted by drxpxfJupiterI've already made up my mind to go, gave the girls the go ahead to book it whenever. I just wanted to make sure he felt ok with it because I care about him and how he feels. He'll be fine.Posted by GreenteaIt seems that you are confused tbh. You either want to go with your gfs or you're just going to appease him. Personally, I don't like someone jumping on my freedom like that just because they don't like my "wild" friends... to me that seems controlling and insecure. In the past I have allowed controlling and manipulative behavior...and it starts small and gets worse. I'm different now may be because I'm not in love... because love makes you believe very strange things indeed. Sometimes it's not even love, it's just need for total acceptance (i'll blame your moon). Once you get past that... it is easy to distinguish you and the other person...or may be not because love is fucked up.
Part of being in a relationship is realizing theRe is another person you are caring for and is caring for you. He's not hindering my life in any way. He's a part of my life now amd part of being in a partnership is discussing things and compromising. Otherwise I would stay single amd not have to answer to anyone about anything I do.
I don't want to drag him through the mud because he's concerned about me going, he didnt tell me i couldnt go either. I want a relationship where we can be open and not get mad at him because he has insecurities or concerns. Otherwise, he would keep them hidden and build resentment. If he's being unreasonable I would let him know, no problem. I don't want to come off like some diva about it though.
Hope you figure it out, I guess.click to expand
Nice! My astro twin!
Posted by tizianiYes, everything is good, now I'll just have to wait and see if he starts crying at the airport lol.Posted by GreenteaSo you both ironed it out together. Nice.Posted by drxpxfJupiterI've already made up my mind to go, gave the girls the go ahead to book it whenever. I just wanted to make sure he felt ok with it because I care about him and how he feels. He'll be fine.Posted by GreenteaIt seems that you are confused tbh. You either want to go with your gfs or you're just going to appease him. Personally, I don't like someone jumping on my freedom like that just because they don't like my "wild" friends... to me that seems controlling and insecure. In the past I have allowed controlling and manipulative behavior...and it starts small and gets worse. I'm different now may be because I'm not in love... because love makes you believe very strange things indeed. Sometimes it's not even love, it's just need for total acceptance (i'll blame your moon). Once you get past that... it is easy to distinguish you and the other person...or may be not because love is fucked up.
Part of being in a relationship is realizing theRe is another person you are caring for and is caring for you. He's not hindering my life in any way. He's a part of my life now amd part of being in a partnership is discussing things and compromising. Otherwise I would stay single amd not have to answer to anyone about anything I do.
I don't want to drag him through the mud because he's concerned about me going, he didnt tell me i couldnt go either. I want a relationship where we can be open and not get mad at him because he has insecurities or concerns. Otherwise, he would keep them hidden and build resentment. If he's being unreasonable I would let him know, no problem. I don't want to come off like some diva about it though.
Hope you figure it out, I guess.
Nice! My astro twin!click to expand
the cry fest at the airport would tug at my heartstrings lol
the truth is that i'll never minimize my husband's concerns, when i see an unconformable expression on his face or hear this tone in his voice, i'll immediately take a step back. insecurity or controlling? i don't really care really. it doesn't happen often at all and who am i kidding I'm far from perfect lol and hey i have the most rebellious placements! aqua moon + pisces mars lol. love is powerful lol
the truth is that i'll never minimize my husband's concerns, when i see an unconformable expression on his face or hear this tone in his voice, i'll immediately take a step back. insecurity or controlling? i don't really care really. it doesn't happen often at all and who am i kidding I'm far from perfect lol and hey i have the most rebellious placements! aqua moon + pisces mars lol. love is powerful lol
Posted by ReincarnationYep, I miss not having the time, but that's life.Posted by MoonArtistI'm more of a Counterstrike guy.Posted by SensitiveBluesShush! I love skyrim! What's wrong with skyrim? Then there's WOW......and 😱Posted by ReincarnationWho wants a boring scorp who plays skyrim all day.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
No time anymore for games though. : /click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationBecause I have enough goals and responsibilities on my plate, and I know how addicted to gaming I can get if I let myself, so my focus is on my goals.Posted by MoonArtistAnd why is that?Posted by ReincarnationYep, I miss not having the time, but that's life.Posted by MoonArtistI'm more of a Counterstrike guy.Posted by SensitiveBluesShush! I love skyrim! What's wrong with skyrim? Then there's WOW......and 😱Posted by ReincarnationWho wants a boring scorp who plays skyrim all day.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
No time anymore for games though. : /click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationEveryone in my family games. Two gems, an aqua, a taurus, and a libra. And what's not to like? They're imaginative, interactive, stimulating, fun.Posted by MoonArtistI have noticed that Cancer women do like the video games quite a lot at times.Posted by ReincarnationBecause I have enough goals and responsibilities on my plate, and I know how addicted to gaming I can get if I let myself, so my focus is on my goals.Posted by MoonArtistAnd why is that?Posted by ReincarnationYep, I miss not having the time, but that's life.Posted by MoonArtistI'm more of a Counterstrike guy.Posted by SensitiveBluesShush! I love skyrim! What's wrong with skyrim? Then there's WOW......and 😱Posted by ReincarnationWho wants a boring scorp who plays skyrim all day.Posted by SamCancerGirlIf all Cancers are like this, I really don't think Scorpio M/Cancer F is a good match at all.Posted by SensitiveBlues+1000
Lol id cuss him out so bad
What a manipulative piece of sheet. The hypcricy of it all
No time anymore for games though. : /
And what are your goals?click to expand
Goals: live life to the fullest, raise my sons to be the kind of men they deserve to be and to have the tools they need mentally and emotionally to be those kinds of men, to completely thrive financially so I can help others and still have abundance, to continue perfecting my art, to create, to share that with others, to shift.
Posted by ReincarnationThey're a lot of the goals I wanted before I got married, and while I was married, and marriage ended up getting in the way of a lot of it, but my marriage also helped me fine tune those goals, and my focus. As for my love life, it's currently blissfully uncomplicated. I put a fuckbuddy on hold, for now, and dating is completely unappealing after giving it a try. Most were not up to par: no chemistry, messed up, or not up to my standards. Both social experiments were fun, but I think I'm not even going to look or hunt for anything. If it happens, it happens, and if not, then that's ok, too. Whoever he is he has to be worthy of handing my heart over, and willing to hand his over, too.
Oh - very nice. It sounds like you are concrete about what you want.
And how is your love life?
I should add that part of my taking a break is to give myself time to heal from the ex. It's one thing to say "woohoo I'm free!" and another to actually process it all, learn from it, and leave the baggage behind. That's another goal: to leave the baggage behind.
Posted by ReincarnationYes, a simple fuckbuddy. A friend had a big convo with me about people having sex without emotional attachment. I'm the emotional attachment with sex type, and kept saying I couldn't, but then I thought, "you don't know if you don't try". Went on some dates, found one guy (a scorpio, no less) who there was chemistry with, I was honest about my intentions, and he was game, and also clean/safe, plus we have really great conversations. No strings, no expectations, just fun. It turns out I "can" have sex without the attachment, but it's not nearly as rich. It's like eating a candy bar vs the best dessert ever made. So, I got bored with that. My curiosity is quenched.Posted by MoonArtistA "fuck buddy."Posted by ReincarnationThey're a lot of the goals I wanted before I got married, and while I was married, and marriage ended up getting in the way of a lot of it, but my marriage also helped me fine tune those goals, and my focus. As for my love life, it's currently blissfully uncomplicated. I put a fuckbuddy on hold, for now, and dating is completely unappealing after giving it a try. Most were not up to par: no chemistry, messed up, or not up to my standards. Both social experiments were fun, but I think I'm not even going to look or hunt for anything. If it happens, it happens, and if not, then that's ok, too. Whoever he is he has to be worthy of handing my heart over, and willing to hand his over, too.
Oh - very nice. It sounds like you are concrete about what you want.
And how is your love life?
Always refreshing - that Cancerian honesty.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationI do love being alone. I also like my social life with loved ones. Even with loved ones I seek some alone time. It recharges me, gives me space to think, create, etc. That's when I do my art, or read, or do readings (tarot, pendulum), research things. Once I'm recharged I can bounce ideas off of people, listen, help, laugh, share, and back to recharge mode. I've never understood people not liking being alone.Posted by MoonArtistWell - being alone is always nice.
I should add that part of my taking a break is to give myself time to heal from the ex. It's one thing to say "woohoo I'm free!" and another to actually process it all, learn from it, and leave the baggage behind. That's another goal: to leave the baggage behind.
I enjoy it.
I hope you do, too.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationThanks. Honesty is easy, and it keeps life less complicated. I'm not sure why more people don't try it.Posted by MoonArtistI like your honesty, MA.Posted by ReincarnationI do love being alone. I also like my social life with loved ones. Even with loved ones I seek some alone time. It recharges me, gives me space to think, create, etc. That's when I do my art, or read, or do readings (tarot, pendulum), research things. Once I'm recharged I can bounce ideas off of people, listen, help, laugh, share, and back to recharge mode. I've never understood people not liking being alone.Posted by MoonArtistWell - being alone is always nice.
I should add that part of my taking a break is to give myself time to heal from the ex. It's one thing to say "woohoo I'm free!" and another to actually process it all, learn from it, and leave the baggage behind. That's another goal: to leave the baggage behind.
I enjoy it.
I hope you do, too.
You sound fairly content overall.click to expand
I'm very content. Cat with a bowl of cream content. 🙂
Posted by ReincarnationDon't care dude.Posted by crabRiotI can assure you that I'm extremely satisfied in my relationship.
***transform.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationI be a bitch with whoever I please and that includes you.Posted by crabRiotI don't care about your sign if you decide to be a bitch with me. You understand?
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Life is too short for that.click to expand
Posted by ReincarnationUmmmm too late bitch, my wedding date is set!Posted by crabRiotI know you are.Posted by ReincarnationI be a bitch with whoever I please and that includes you.Posted by crabRiotI don't care about your sign if you decide to be a bitch with me. You understand?
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Life is too short for that.
Doubt you'll ever get that ring from your Scorp bf.click to expand
Hater ass @Reincarnation
Posted by ReincarnationI would rather give you my foot up your ass first.Posted by crabRiotPoor guy. He has no clue what he is getting himself into.Posted by ReincarnationUmmmm too late bitch, my wedding date is set!Posted by crabRiotI know you are.Posted by ReincarnationI be a bitch with whoever I please and that includes you.Posted by crabRiotI don't care about your sign if you decide to be a bitch with me. You understand?
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Life is too short for that.
Doubt you'll ever get that ring from your Scorp bf.
Give me his email address please.click to expand
Don't worry about him, he chilling.
Posted by ReincarnationHe already knows how I am and he is quite content.Posted by crabRiotHe'll find out soon enough.Posted by ReincarnationI would rather give you my foot up your ass first.Posted by crabRiotPoor guy. He has no clue what he is getting himself into.Posted by ReincarnationUmmmm too late bitch, my wedding date is set!Posted by crabRiotI know you are.Posted by ReincarnationI be a bitch with whoever I please and that includes you.Posted by crabRiotI don't care about your sign if you decide to be a bitch with me. You understand?
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Life is too short for that.
Doubt you'll ever get that ring from your Scorp bf.
Give me his email address please.
Don't worry about him, he chilling.
I'm not worried.click to expand
Some men like a feisty girl,they're fun and a challenge but you aren't a man you're a pussy so you wouldn't like anyone that's not kissing your ass.
Posted by busyeyes88Yes he has wild ones in his group, and he did ask, I gave him my blessing.Posted by GreenteaAnd if he didn't feel "ok" about it what would you have done?Posted by drxpxfJupiterI've already made up my mind to go, gave the girls the go ahead to book it whenever. I just wanted to make sure he felt ok with it because I care about him and how he feels. He'll be fine.Posted by GreenteaIt seems that you are confused tbh. You either want to go with your gfs or you're just going to appease him. Personally, I don't like someone jumping on my freedom like that just because they don't like my "wild" friends... to me that seems controlling and insecure. In the past I have allowed controlling and manipulative behavior...and it starts small and gets worse. I'm different now may be because I'm not in love... because love makes you believe very strange things indeed. Sometimes it's not even love, it's just need for total acceptance (i'll blame your moon). Once you get past that... it is easy to distinguish you and the other person...or may be not because love is fucked up.
Part of being in a relationship is realizing theRe is another person you are caring for and is caring for you. He's not hindering my life in any way. He's a part of my life now amd part of being in a partnership is discussing things and compromising. Otherwise I would stay single amd not have to answer to anyone about anything I do.
I don't want to drag him through the mud because he's concerned about me going, he didnt tell me i couldnt go either. I want a relationship where we can be open and not get mad at him because he has insecurities or concerns. Otherwise, he would keep them hidden and build resentment. If he's being unreasonable I would let him know, no problem. I don't want to come off like some diva about it though.
Hope you figure it out, I guess.
Nice! My astro twin!
Did he ask for your blessings for his guy trip?!!
Do you get along with his friends then? No "wild" ones in his group huh?!! Smh!!! I can imagine what he'll be up to... It's scorp control again...click to expand
If he didn't say ok, I would have gone anyway but he will KNOW he has nothing to be bothered about.
Posted by ReincarnationKeyword YOU!Posted by crabRiotLol.Posted by ReincarnationHe already knows how I am and he is quite content.Posted by crabRiotHe'll find out soon enough.Posted by ReincarnationI would rather give you my foot up your ass first.Posted by crabRiotPoor guy. He has no clue what he is getting himself into.Posted by ReincarnationUmmmm too late bitch, my wedding date is set!Posted by crabRiotI know you are.Posted by ReincarnationI be a bitch with whoever I please and that includes you.Posted by crabRiotI don't care about your sign if you decide to be a bitch with me. You understand?
I think when we start arguing with them, I don't think it's the Sun signs( Cancer, Scorpio )that is to be blamed but more so the ENERGIES...Cardinal and Fixed.
Also some of us has Leo placements that's squaring their Sun but we all know that squares inspire growth.
Anyways O.P I will try not to derail your thread any further...My apologies for what Ive done so far.
Life is too short for that.
Doubt you'll ever get that ring from your Scorp bf.
Give me his email address please.
Don't worry about him, he chilling.
I'm not worried.
Some men like a feisty girl,they're fun and a challenge but you aren't a man you're a pussy so you wouldn't like anyone that's not kissing your ass.
Not exactly. I prefer peace and stability. I find women with attitudes exhausting - mentally and emotionally.click to expand
Plus I'm a Taurus moon and Rising, think of the good that comes with that paired with a Cancer Sun. I'm not that bad. I am just the owner of a very sharp tongue and knife lmaoooo, that's a joke by the way. I gotta point that out to ppl like you.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Has anybody else noticed that two opposites signs are always "fighting" over a sign they both are compatible with. For example, Scorpio and Taurus fighting over Pisces. Or, the love triangles when it comes to each element. This is what I've noticed.
I've recently had the uncomfortable thought, that my scorp's insecurities might also have something to do with my failure to stroke his ego and really make him feel masculine. I do embrace my own femininity, and behave/dress like a woman and like it that
Hey everyone. I wanted to post mine and my boyfriends charts so I can get your opinions ☺ Now I don't know his rising and im not sure on houses/degrees and such, I only know the basic chart info. Me Rising/Pisces Sun/Scorpio Moon/Gemini Mars/
Just broke up with my Scorpio bf. We go waay back, friends for 6 years, dated each other's best friends, tried to deny the attraction because of the situation, drifted apart, and finally a year ago... BAM. Desperately trying to keep it friendly, we had a
I am going out with a Scorp for the first time, a friend introduced us and played matchmaker. I want tips on how to manage this situation, dos and don'ts. Come on scorpies, this is help a Cancer day!
I am a Scorpio girl that got dumped by a Sag. I didn't take the news lightly and went crazy. I am so sorry for my behaviour but he won't talk to me and he told me he will never forgive me. I can't simply let go like he asked after 5 years. I loved him so
EXAMPLE SCENARIO If sun is in Scorpio and pluto is in Sagittarius, why would sites display the person has Sun conjunct Pluto?? Does it have to do with the fact Sagittarius is in the very early degrees (0-5)? It's just throwing me off bcos Scorpio and S
My Scorpio Sun toddler LOVES pizza. He would eat it every single day if I let him. Do all you cute little Scorpios love pizza this much?!—!!!!!??!?!—!!! Or do you think it's his Cancer Moon? because the moon is round and kind of looks like pizza and t
My scorp recently confessed to me, that most of the time, he is perfectly aware of his own behavior, and how selfish and destructive or even unjustified it is at times. By now, I have accepted his cynical comments, his jealousy, when he plays offended, t
The Scorp I'm working with is finally unclenched and relaxed, she was away for a few weeks now she's back, went into the office she was standing there being really quiet. I was waiting to see if she would say hi, I ended up getting a hey in a real soft vo
A few ponderings on the Scorpio sexual nature I was thinking over today... I just read this statement about Scorpios. "We don't waste time. Casual sex to us is boring". Is that the same for you all? It is for me. I mean I can do hot sex without fee
Is there a correlation? I saw this on lindaland and many people agreed. I have a Libra asc and my dad is a Libra. My cousin whom I just found out was a Scorpio yesterday (mind blown) has a Sagittarius asc and her dad is a sag. But my brother has a can
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HqH84tWKLhI/VlNiDkZgIoI/AAAAAAAAC0A/mdqV94r9gjQ/s400/happy-new-year-2016-1.jpg
Well, do they?
Whats the hype about them being good in bed? They are ok.
Anaretic Degree: In astrology, a name given to the 29th degree of any sign; it is sometimes called the degree of fate. When a planet is in the anaretic degree of a sign (especially the Water signs of Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces), spiritual qualities (i
How do you Scorpio Sun / Venuses cope with getting over someone? How do you react to being dumped? How do you react to losing someone you miss? Do you always retain feelings for them, unless they did something bad? I personally find it very d
So I'm not sure why but I always have this desire to know the gory details. With my current relationship I actually didn't ask. I know how many sexual partners she's had and that's it. It's not like I want a break down of every single detail, but I get cu
Does anyone else have this? It's frustrating. I need to do things in secret and when I feel someone violate my privacy, I get very upset. It doesn't help that it's a Scorpio mars.